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Vavana:
Wait oooo. I think this woman is a full time house wife. I don't think 2-3minutes is bad. But the rate at which some of us womem complain about dissatisfaction is becoming too much.

Maybe the man is stressed or is having financial challenge to provide for his family.

The woman should read about fruits that boost libido, except she want to leave her husband with this excuse.

Again if that woman is working and gets home workout, hmmm she won't complain that 2-3 minutes is small.

Husband and wife are help mates.

[quote][/quote]Good one

kimbra:
Some points are not valid.

2...Guys with girlfriends also talk of saving for the future.

4...We see this often on Nl and most of them have gfs they go back to. The same Nigerian girls they condemn they can't do without them.

5...Masturbation is a bad habit that most guys indulge in. With or without gf.

8...If he doesn't have money on valentine's day to take a babe out. Won't he remain indoors?.

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Girls masturbate more than guys

Her place is to rot in jail as a lesson to others

Lizzieo:
Talking like a saint,what about dos ladies dat did abortion for u nko?

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I concur with him, to answer your question. No one and I mean No one has done abortion for me. Every person has something he or she wish for themselves, if a man says his not comfortable with that doesn't mean a girls has done abortion for him while some guys won't mind. Everybody got a choice in life

They dress to impress men, to be real oo

PUSSYHOE:
that's why you men work to spend on Toto.

Your thinking...... worst mistake

ikojo2:
Hardly ll any guy say no if a girl can summon courage nd ask him out,most guys love ladies who can do td.

[quote][/quote]You are wrong. Why then fear of rejection?

nice ride

enkayhope:
Am so very sure u can't stand any Anambra lady in eloquence. Babe dey konky o make I no knack gbagam for ur head

[quote][/quote]Tell her more my sister. I believe our babes die

ZarZar:
I'm not a man lol. Don't worry though. Karma has a way of teaching these kind of people a valuable lesson. They end up with the trash they deserve. Please, don't take her back when she comes back crawling after being

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You just hit the nail on the head. Nice one

Origin:
I see a lady trying to push /motivate you to get a job or improve yourself.

I don't know whether the English is not straightforward or maybe guys used to read with their inner eye.

She says:.
When she first saw you she saw potential but that you are more relaxed(not acting like a man to hustle more) . She says she cant live without you. This issue is telling on her heart.

You cant hear her because your new found job pride is in the way. She is not making fun of you but trying to encourage you.

[quote][/quote]I have been in his shoes b4, and my gf told me similar thing also saying that her future is bright and needed to be focused, she stopped calling me at all. I don't like saying much and was managing myself and praying to my God. he answered me the seventh month after with higher position and bigger pay, never told her but guess she heard it from my guys, didn't have her number again. Got a call and it was her begging that it was the work of the devil. I didn't waste time to clear my mind that I won't want someone being manipulated easy by the devil and guess I should focus on my life now my future is now bright again.
I feel a guy needs to back out immediately without wasting time. My thinking.....

Preceedo:
I pray you meet a guy like me somewhere to put all ur seductive prowess to shame.

I know there are few out there!!!

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We are together on dis bro, a girl can't never seduce me at all.
Even though a guy can seduce a girl , it's vice versa

Freak101:
A lot of men actually love to care and provide for their spouses and a lot of them don't care..now this is a thread for the ones that don't care, let me tell ya what you'll get when you refuse to takecare of your girl,woman or whatever you call them

1.You Get To Wash Your Clothes Yourself .---There's one woman in my street that does my laundry and my brother's but we pay her so yeah she does it well,but sha today,as I was passing by in front of their house,I saw her husband washing his clothes by himself,and news got to me that he doesn't give her money,e fit be recession sha,but that's number one.

2. You'll be sex starved ..it's okay to be sex starved in day-time, like you can go out to sleep with someone else or something, but midnight sex starving!!you'll just die of konji,especially when you're married to her and you cannot rape her,because it's against the law of our land.

3.Your woman is your priority,to be honest if you don't do it someone else will ----So one day,I was at Ikeja,and a woman came to buy a juice blender from 3chub with a man(she already got it self)so after shopping for the syinix juice blender that they bought and she was about to enter the guy's car and then her husband or fiancée (they both look old,so it can't be her boyfriend) ,he just rushed to the venue,maybe someone gave him the info that his wife is there or something, he rushed to the place and double crossed her,and with all the whole thing that sha happened,like the way tbey were talking the girl already told him to get her the juice blender for 30k that she wants to be using it at the office because they all buy fruit juice everyday there at #1000,so she wants to do it by herself instead of buying the 1k own,but her MAN didn't answer her so the other guy that got it for her but its good for her MAN because the guy is her cousin,and its a good thing that her MAN knows the COUSIN so it was quickly resolved, because the COUSIN was inside paying and she was outside with the package waiting for him before the MAN showed up. As I was saying,if you don't treat her right,someone else will do it.


4.She won't prepare your meal for you with all enthusiasm. this is funny though,but true!!If your woman cook for you with all her power you'll enjoy it than the one she cooked with pity,Shell probably not include fish to your the food because she's not happy with you,although you're the bread winner of the house,it doesn't matter anyway,if you want to show yourself,goto the kitchen and cook and most guys cannot cook,like 95% of you people cannot cook,and you people are lazy too,so treat your woman right so She'll assist you.

5. Prayers who doesn't like prayers?? Don't you just love it when your business is flowing well and life is cool with you in your home with your family??your mother used to be the prayer warrior,but now that you're married,your wife will take over the position,if you make her happy she'll willingly pray for you with all her heart.

So all the men in the house,I beg you to take care of your woman as a woman that's in her matrimonial home and not happy is not different from a toddler that's with her mother and isn't happy.. If you've been harsh on your wife on some reasons best known to the two of you,please have a re-think and let your ego go and settle this with her calmly, woman are sweet you know

I hope this helps someone's marriage today,you can copy and paste this on your WhatsApp,if you find this interesting and useful.

Shalom!

I think from your list, if not lazy as a man you can handle it very well , for the sex, it shouldn't make the at all cos she is also starving herself and she needs it like the man does 2.
The important thing is that both should care for themselves, it shouldn't be one sided at all. ( if u want to be sincere)

It's good you tell him

Irresponsible and Indecent dressing

wilybebsy:
You girlz do same to us on daily basis and we never create a thread about it... So no biggie

My brother you just made a good point. "What you don't like people to do to you, just avoid doing it to others"

No pain, no gain. Ride on bro

They do very well

softwerk:
And to think that I didn't make any noise about buying my Val a Suzuki 6000 HP Turbo Charged Power Bike yesterday?!

People can talk sha

I love this bike

MissIndependent:
Big Lie! Watching porn does not mean a woman is a cheat.

[quote][/quote]Sorry for asking, what makes you think she's not cheating?

She ain't just only watching porn but also cheating cos she needs to feel it.

it's shows you are a sex freak...

itsmeurLady:
My dear, I hav observed that NL is full of hypocrites. They condemn u for speaking ur mind today and do the same thing tomorrow... if u are not comfortable with him, then move on. He shld be able to assist u on one occasion or the other wether or not he has. Even Jesus Christ GAVE as an act of love, so if he's Not givin to you derz sum1 out der collecting it. Men are annoying like dat!!! You shld get sumfin doing too, it's not so good to be dependent on men for such things cs little things like this drives them away. Men love Independent ladies BUT on the other hand, this is not to say bcs u are independent u won't collect money from ur bf, still take his own and join to ur own no money is too much. After all, if he needs support tomorrow, he might still come to you. Any man that is not giving his gf money is either having a serious commitment somewhere else or stingy!!

Note to Guys: if ur gf is not collecting ur money, it is either she is taking it from somebody else or she's shy to ask (which is dumb and childish). So ladies ASK and it shall be given Unto you buh as you ASK, WORK/INVEST too bcs there's always a day of reckoning. If the bobo say he nor want again, you can be able to tell him "BOI BYE" with ur money in the bank

My gf gives me the way I give her, we just do it from our heart not as a responsibility. Guys go for ur pedigree and not a broke irresponsible scum gf with a mentality of give me even God said u must give to receive. .. pls don't bother responding cos am off

Uduak2019:
Very stupi$d advice as expected from a fellow serial female cheater. Take a look at your advice especially how casual, indifferent you said it like it's a normal thing you and your friends do to guys. Today's women are just heartless!

OP...dump her immediately and throw her things outside....if you need help, call me! Make sure she refunds the money back. She was using you as a big maga...money machine and while the other guy is broke but serving her in bed. Let me tell you something about women...if you forgive her once, she will do it again! Women and men brain function differently when it comes to cheating. Guys...If a woman ever ever cheats on you, DON'T YOU EVER EVER FORGIVE HER...NEVER! She will lose respect for you and will do it again. If you go ahead and marry her, she will even poison you and murder you in cold blood. The fact she takes your money and gives this guy tells me he is giving her something you are not and that is SEX...WOMEN DON'T PLAY WITH SEX. Whenever a woman does things like this, it means she doesn't respect you. When a woman respects you, she loves you. When she doesn't respect you, she doesn't love you.

[quote][/quote]The God in heaven will bless u forever. A real man should not listen to a female advice based on things like this..... My thinking...

He needs to be punished but12 years jail sentence. How many were giving to women that chop manhoods, kill and pour hot oil for cheating guy. Impartial I might say ...

rickkychidex111:
These ur questions.....naa waaaaaaa oooooo kinda funny.
Just bring Money come buy motor Oga mi. U have every guarantee u would want.

1. Check my post closely....naija used cars have their own seperate post.
2. So upon all the cars I post here Oga boss.....naaaa footballer I won be?
3. Come to office to inspect any car u're interested in.

Thanks sir

[quote][/quote]Lol...... Nice one sir

chinene1:
Ha, wait oh. Before you call off your wedding, I want to ask a simple question. Is she now older than you? If yes, does the age difference diminish your love?
When has age become a terminal or communicable disease. The issue is trust which I fully understand but like most people have said confront her and let her know the next time she lies you won't forgive her. Don't complicate your life and hers unnecessarily by backing out now. This woman is about to promise her life to you. She will be risking her life in the labour room to bring forth your children, she is signing up to make a home for you. She is shunning all others for you. Can't you consider that and forgive?
I can't understand how people say 'I love you' but attach unnecessary conditions to it. I though love was supposed to be forgiving, selfless, and without conditions? Thing it through please.

[quote][/quote]Trust is love and when there is no trust, there ain't love. with her lies, she's not promising her life to the man rather the man is about to sacrifice and waste his life for her. .. A woman that can conceal such for 4yrs won't bring forth the man kids into the world but rather different men kids into his life and house... With her lies, she ain't signing up to make a home but rather destroy the man's life and destiny.... She's not shunning others for him but rather using him to achieve a purpose of " I have arrived " and then will invite all sort of men in your own very house... Pls advice him well.
Brother, listen carefully, Run away from her completely.

AngelSweetLips:
If she can lie about something as trivial as her age; you better take all your children for a DNA test because this lady will always lie to cover her ass.

[quote][/quote]You just hit the nail on the head. The earlier the better for him to back out. The choice is his though..

ritababe:
I think he is right, the girls volunteer and they are above 18, they can decide for themselves.
though I strongly condemn the act.

[quote][/quote]My thinking as well, it was their decision.

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darbeelicous:
yea totally dey do, but when women cheat you don't hear #10 things for you to do for your wife not to cheat on you# that's because they don't try to find silly excuses like men do.
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If your wife is bad is not enough reason for you to cheat.

[quote][/quote]I do appreciate your acceptance than women also cheat but if the man or woman does that, no excuse is justifiable rather both excuse from the man or woman is stupid cos they want to justify the act.