₦airaland Forum

Van snickers:
Premiership, I am sure even the British don't watch EPL as much as Nigerians.

gempo:
That shows the level of decay in our educational system especially in the north.

babaearly:
Islam is a tool for Oppression. Islam is Evil.

anataala:
Thus the fact that man has been favored in some ways more than woman does not automatically make him superior to her. It is only when his taqwa is more than hers that he can from the Qur'anic point of view be considered superior to her. And when a person's taqwa increases to a worthwhile level the question of his superiority does not interest him, for he or she realizes that all praises are due to God.

2) The first reason then why men are qawwamun over women is their physical ability to protect women. The second is that "they (i.e. men) spend out of their wealth." Although the Holy Qur'an permits women to earn and own wealth, it expects that men will generally be able to earn more than women because of the natural differences between them. This means that they will generally be responsible for the economic needs of women and this responsibility also makes them qawwamun.

In thinking of men as qawwamun over women we should not limit their role to mere protectors and providers. Properly taking care of women requires more than ensuring their physical security and providing food and shelter. It also requires looking after their psychological and emotional needs which can be summed up in terms of the need for love (30:21). Thus man's role in the relationship between men and women (as husbands and wives) generally consists of three things: protecting the woman, looking after her economic needs and giving her love.

What is the woman's role in this relationship? A brief statement follows about this in the verse:

"The righteous women are devout (qanitat) and guard what Allah has willed to be guarded even though out of sight."

victorazy:
Human head

Jumaisha:
Not in all marriages.

kizito96:
Too Bad

Sike:
Try "O pa ayan, o pa efon, o pa alantakun" drugs.

hannah may:
If it is true, expect more bomb from boko haram cos that is the formular they are using!