Stephen2324:
I went to my girlfriend’s house and the mother served me this food

Is it proper to eat at your girlfriend’s house?

. You were treated with respect and out of the goodness of her heart, but you opted to show off your illiteracy and uncivilized attitude. I have pity with some of the girls that all these good for nothing do date.

Olasyke:

She clearly ripped his heart open, mended it, and removed the bandage again. Subhanallah.

. If I am the judge I will set that man free. Emotional abuse is worst than any sin one can think of

Babatojide:
Most of us don't understand the weight of Emotional Abuse

. I will do more than kill if someone abuses me emotionally and takes me for a fool. That kill the man long time ago.

Only if Nigerian know what those people are going through. We are in a country that has no soul.

Chasing after someone or something will put undue pressure on you. My preference is for self improvement, academic and professional advancement. The marriage comes after.

May we not be married to someone that would hunt us even in death. The prospect of getting married makes me nervous. How can you tell if someone is the appropriate fit for you?

Bmaster:
[center]I know it's not a laughing matter but this one got me[/center]


What do you expect a mechanic whose hands are being spoiled with grease to do when he's been paid by a car owner?
U expects him to go wash his hands first before receiving his money, Or Rather he should go and wear a hand glove so as not to deface the newly recolored sorry redesigned naira?

. Is there no mechanics in other countries? Some people are so irresponsible and stupid and also have useless excuses for foolishness

Lilsameey:
Senior man, be careful of the bolded.

. I like taking calculated risks.

tayo60:
Just know that if you continue to give excuse of not attending people's party, when it's your turn, people won't come too.

. Well in life, we can't have it all, but I am willing to adjust if need be.

Bouncing2:

That's surely the way forward,,
most times you ends up getting aquainted with this randy guys who gets you rocking on a high ,,

Disadvantages are;
Your usual peace won't be assured.
Your conscience tends to be at war with your person whenever you treat people the same way they{most of this new friends} treat people in situations ,,, often times they do treat people poorly! .

. I recently meet a guy at landmark Beach, that guy introduce me to Benin Republic weed. Good three days, I was just a funny guy.

Nonexisting1:
Na career we go chop? Ngozi Okonjo no be career woman? Is she not married? What about Dora Akunyili? Peter Odili wife na Judge. She probably was just charge and bail lawyer at the time of marriage meaning she chased and caught her career while married. If una two just want to be committing fornication up and down, just say it instead of throwing career woman jargon on my face.

Baba I no dey bring my generation come this Nigeria, babe is still sitting some foreign exams until japa route is sure. We can't commit to marriage setting. Do you feel me?

marlow1962:
I understand you, but no be everywhere person dy go, the world evil.
But if e get wertin I dy do and I invite u ( knwin fully we’ll say u dy around) and you no show up, e go pain me o cus I personally invite you. If say u no dy town, dat one na different case.

. I am kinda understand you. I know it fun having your paddy man grace your occasion but I prefer sending worthy gift than physical presence. I dislike too many eyes on me. I really don't know how I am going to change. I am going to marry a Yoruba girl like this and they like outings.

Nonexisting1:
Uncle, you need to leave your home and be going out once in a while. At least attend a few events and socialize with other men. No, we only cling to your girlfriend all the time. By the way, una two done do this girlfriend thing for too long now, have you no plans of marrying her? You can talk to me.

. My babe is a career woman, so we will have to wait a little longer, online inlaw. I'm a part of various professional groups where thoughts and helpful information are discussed, so as far as meeting men goes. I'm not much of a social person. Last but not least, how do I gum body with my girlfriend when she is in Lagos and I am in Abuja?

Bouncing2:
It creates tension between the two.

Dad was much like that (sending gifts and all that while in absentia).

It made me a LONER!! (I don't get along with mum either).

They're great parents you'd love to have anyway, but I wanna be there for my boy or gal (whenever God sends ''em)

I don't know how to do it, but my babe suggested that I go out more and meet some people. I'm a very friendly person, but I don't make many friends.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

For various reasons ain't seen anything wrong


I rarely go to occasions too

I am not always comfortable with too many people and an eye on your kind of stuff. I sometimes club but it is always exclusive. We Nigerian are too emotional in nature, I did see this as a big deal.

sirjamesjnr:
My question is simple: how do you handle a friend or family member who won't attend your ceremony—be it a birthday, wedding, or burial—but only sends gifts and presents?
A friend of mine recently laid their father to rest. I agree to go to the funeral but I decide not to at eleven hours. I send him a wire transfer of money. He was shocked by the amount I sent him, but I think going there in person would have been preferable.
Please understand that it has nothing to do with ego on my part, but I rarely go to events unless they are academic or work-related.

I've only been to two weddings in my entire life. Last year, my girl had to drag me to a wedding.

How do you feel about a friend or family member who sends gifts but doesn't show up to your event?

Due to rumors that I feel too large to attend events or eat in people's homes, two of my closest friends have sworn they will never go to any ceremonies I may have in the future. This worries me.
I'm not bothered by their absence from any of my events, but how does it affect things if I show up?

My question is simple: how do you handle a friend or family member who won't attend your ceremony—be it a birthday, wedding, or burial—but only sends gifts and presents?
A friend of mine recently laid their father to rest. I agree to go to the funeral but I decide not to at eleven hours. I send him a wire transfer of money. He was shocked by the amount I sent him, but I think going there in person would have been preferable.
Please understand that it has nothing to do with ego on my part, but I rarely go to events unless they are academic or work-related.

I've only been to two weddings in my entire life. Last year, my girl had to drag me to a wedding.

How do you feel about a friend or family member who sends gifts but doesn't show up to your event?

Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Merchant of Death

See name
He clearly says all American's lives matter imagine dey swap this kind of swap
This swapping equation nor balance at all

Dey swap merchant of death for one small girl

that small girl may be an agent of the American government. Hope you are doing great?

Hiliah:
the supporters clubs are the mint behind Nigerian real problem, not the politicians

I have never in my life imagined canvassing for votes for any Nigerian candidate. I jumped on board so that history would be kind to me.

dat9jaguy:
Obidense are made up of ipob and the phantom lekki 'massacre' geng.
The same people shouting zoo upandan just recently are forming patriots, tufiakwa.

Southern East Nigeria is legally entitled to demand the presidency. The good news is that they have a candidate that can make a real impact if we want to construct a working nation.

Onucs:
e don tay wey God stop to de guide anything concerning Africa bro

.The change we truly desire can only be brought about by Nigerians. God bless us all

I've accepted my views on the APC, PDP, and LP presidential candidates' supporters.
The majority of APC/Tinubu supporters depend on government handouts, the current corrupt system, briefcase/portfolio contractors, and businesses that lack viable sources of income or the capacity to generate wealth independently from the government. Their only source of support is the government.

The majority of Atiku's supporters are those who did not profit from the APC's máladmînîstratiôn. They are so accustomed to making money on the side from their time in government that the last seven years have left them feeling impoverished and they are eager to take over.
They share almost the identical ideologies as the APC, with the exception that one is in power and the other is eager to take over. Nothing different.

Regarding LP/Obidients, the majority of the supporters are independent individuals whose one and only goal is to have a functioning government. They think Nigeria can work again and has big, immense potential. They desire a fresh start for Nigeria and an end to the endèmic crruptiôn that has hampered its growth. Their goal is a RESET.
They want industrialization to make Nigeria more productive. The move from consumption to production is what they desire. They want the ports to operate properly and efficiently. In order to combat instability, they aim to industrialise the economy and create jobs. They believe that a population that is educated is a population that is productive, thus they want every child who is old enough to attend school.

We would benefit if we could see past the egotistical tendency of the average Ibo, as well as forget about tribe and religion, and cast intelligent votes.

May God guide our decisions.

IamMobisola:


How many of your male friends that you have paid for their lunch or dinner have you asked sex from?

.It was a general piece of advice because I'm in a relationship. Now, to answer your question I am free to spend my money however I like. I have the option of sharing it with all of my male friends and, when I do so with a female friend, I can decide to initiate sexual contact. I'm allowed to use my money whatever I like. It's true that you can help out certain female friends without having sex with them. Your best bet for earning a man's respect is to conduct oneself in a ladylike manner.

IamMobisola:


Lmao.
So she was on her own and yet he went to meet her to ask her on dinner date. This alone means he will foot the bills. But to demand sex? Very wrong.

How many of your male friends that you have done favor for or bought lunch or dinner for have you asked for sex? You can’t because they are your friends right? so why should women’s own be different? Ooh I get, it’s because Nigerian men can’t be friends with women without asking for sex.

.In this nation, we have a very distinct mindset. A date is not a place where a guy will buy you meals or do you any favors; it is a chance for both parties to get to know one another. Once you receive gifts from a male, there is an unspoken rule that you must not give him access to the cookie jar.

IamMobisola:


Story. We all know you Nigerian men don’t do favors for women without expecting sexual gratification in return.
One guy took a lady friend out to dinner and he paid for her, after that he was telling the girl to spend the night at his place. Aunty said for what? When she has her own place? Ontop food, una go wan sleep with women

. Can she refuse the man's food or pay her bills? Terms and conditions should be involved while going on a date with a guy. Refuse it or pay the bill if you don't want him to spend the night with you as recompense for his meal.

blancsn1:
Igbos clowns are here to labour in vain n to death today again

The Ndi Ibo are essentially coerced by the federal government to develop Lagos. If the two international ports and the IOCS were gone, Lagos would resemble an African slum in appearance.

stepone:
So these three pictures signifies the entire Lagos state? Yaminri people everywhere.

Lagos will continue to flourish tomorrow as a result of the federal government's one-sided policies, the existence of IOCS, and other commercial operations. Correctly said, Lagos is developing because of the oil from the Niger Delta, not because of any one person. In Lagos, anybody may perform.

When Nigeria gained its independence from Britain in 1960, Lagos continued to serve as the country's capital. Lagos served as Nigeria's capital until 1991. Lagos expanded quickly during the 1960s and 1980s as a result of the economic boom in Nigeria.

Lagos maintained its significance as the largest city in the nation and as an economic hub. Lagos' economy is still booming thanks to the IOCS, the financial industry, the only seaport in the country, and the international airport. Tell me who is really developing Lagos, please.


N/B This is Lagos before Tinubu

gracealonev:
This is bad English. Please proofread and modify.

What will you say in response if she has stated it in this manner?


I think everyone has an image of their ideal spouse in their mind, but occasionally, fate and the course of life may change everything.

It's usually a good idea to marry a woman who has decent work, but the woman's job will also affect how effective she will be as a wife and mother to her children, as well as how responsible her husband will be.

Who would you like to marry if you were to base your union on a person's line of work?

blinking001:
Show me a beautiful feminist and I'll prove to you that unicorns and dinosaurs exist. I've always maintained that most feminists are infact low-value women with self-esteem issues who were driven by self-hatred and disdain for men as a result of their past experiences with men.
So Dr funmi our very own nairaland feminazi evening newspaper is a shapeless obese woman. Wonders shall never end.

so much bitterness in you. We are not the cause of your frustration.

blinking001:
Show me a beautiful feminist and I'll proof to you that unicorns and dinosaurs exist. I've always maintained that most feminists are infact low value women with self esteem issues who were driven by self hatred and disdain for men as a result of their past experiences with men.
So Dr funmi our very own nairaland feminazi evening newspaper is infact a shapeless obese woman. Wonders shall never end.

. Can we see your girlfriend's picture?

garriAndsugar:
No pictures?

what do you need her pic for?