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Family / Re: OPC Member & NURTW Official Fight Over Paternity Of 11-Year-Old Girl by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:57am On Jul 23, 2023 |
Please adopt the girl but try as much as you can to distance yourself from that woman. She can arrange with her current boyfriend to kill you. They are that dumb |
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Guinean Citizenship Expired Once His Passport Expired- Wole Olanipekun by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:01am On Jul 18, 2023 |
a4cube:In court you have to show proof of your case. The PDP presented an invalid proof so the SAN is right |
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Guinean Citizenship Expired Once His Passport Expired- Wole Olanipekun by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:50am On Jul 18, 2023 |
paramakina202:The SAN didn’t argue about citizenship status, he only argued about the validity of the passport. PDP could have provide a valid document that shows the man is a citizen of that country. |
Politics / Re: Tinubu's Guinean Citizenship Expired Once His Passport Expired- Wole Olanipekun by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:39am On Jul 18, 2023 |
paramakina202:. You are still a citizen but if you tender the said document in court , it’s invalid. So the SAN is correct. The law is truly a. BITCH |
Crime / Re: IG Influencer, Austa XXO, Killed By Her Millionaire Boyfriend, Killaboigram by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:22am On Jul 18, 2023 |
ppogba:. I want to assume I did say maybe the guy messed with someone. I want to keep an open mind and also think out of the box. The story does not sound 📢 real to me. My opinion though |
Crime / Re: IG Influencer, Austa XXO, Killed By Her Millionaire Boyfriend, Killaboigram by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:47am On Jul 18, 2023 |
ppogba:How will a ritualist kill someone and leave evidence where it can be traced to him easily? I may be wrong though but I am considering the angle that the guy may have a mess with someone who decided to put him away. |
Crime / Re: IG Influencer, Austa XXO, Killed By Her Millionaire Boyfriend, Killaboigram by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:39am On Jul 18, 2023 |
With the body parts missing, the young dude may be innocent, maybe a deal went wrong then some form of setup. Who kills someone for a ritual and then leaves evidence behind? |
Crime / Re: IG Influencer, Austa XXO, Killed By Her Millionaire Boyfriend, Killaboigram by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:23am On Jul 18, 2023 |
We are in deep trouble, most of them are from dysfunctional home. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: What Makes A Relationship Last Long? by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:19pm On Jun 24, 2023 |
RESPECT. AGAIN RESPECT. LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Compromise, simple understanding. Never date someone who is not on the same level of understanding as you, or who doesn't want to put in the work to make it work. As a man know your worth. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:57pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Samantha124:. Did he adopt the girl formally in the presence of the Elder when he marry his wife? If he did not but went ahead to raise the girl, he has no right to sit when the marriage rite is performed. Plus if the biological father pays the bride price and it was not returned the the biological father and his family are the right group to take the bride price. |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:48pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Micheal56:. Did your mum's family members accept you in the presence of members of the community? Was there any rite performed? If the answers to those two questions are NO please tell your mum's family to do what tradition demand. |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:44pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Micheal56:. Till we all join our ancestors, tradition will always be a tradition. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:40pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
ItisWell22:My brideprice is not a reward for good behavior. I may not know about Northern Nigeria but here in the South, the bride price is for bloodline unless there are no traces of it anywhere on planet Earth. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:14pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:. The bride price is not a form of reward to any father. It is a symbol of African tradition that a man wants to take a wife and as such he has to pledge to take responsibility of that woman. Are they no Elders in your village ? 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:10pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
olasaad:. This emotion won't stop what tradition demands. I am well-raised and exposed but I will never allow my wokeness to cloud my judgment as an African man. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 7:06pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:. She won't answer that because as a lady she shouldn't be held accountable for her actions. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 5:50pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
Micheal56:It was your decision, but not Nigeria's culture and norm. 2 Likes |
Romance / Should-meet-biological-father-before: My Opinion by sirjamesjnr(m): 5:46pm On Jun 01, 2023 |
I feel compelled to respond to this topic because, in today's environment, we tend to think that anything is possible and act blindly without realising the ramifications of our actions. This should serve as a lesson to any woman who decides to become a mother but she and the simp guy reject doing what is proper in the eyes of the law, tradition, and nature. Since it is your body, you can sleep with any man, but if you decide to become pregnant, please use common judgement. I am aware that sometimes a man appears to be fully responsible, but once responsibility sets in, he looks for an easy way out. Please keep in mind that life and nature's forces will never offer you mercy, but you still have to act morally. Having said that, the biological father of the girl is paid the bride price in the majority of Nigerian cultures. Tradition and nature take that into account, regardless of whether the father is a deadbeat. The only way an adopted father can collect the bride price from the prospective husband is if you adopt a daughter, either through a legal adoption or by marrying a woman who has a female kid from another man and whose father and his family remain unknown anywhere on our planet earth. This African tradition cannot be altered by your feelings, your resentment, your awakening, or modernism. You can debate for all of time, but tradition is tradition. Brideprice is a custom that must be observed in accordance with tradition. I will counsel everyone engaged to maintain their position, to avoid the negative effects of custom, and to follow what tradition dictated. Nobody wants to be associated with a deadbeat, yet life may be a pain at times. Do the needful. Let every single girl know the serious repercussions of having a child outside of a committed marriage. Life is dynamic. 3 Likes |
Politics / Onitsha-dirty-capital-world-asari : My Response. by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:33pm On May 23, 2023 |
https://www.nairaland.com/7699639/onitsha-dirty-capital-world-asari#123313883. Sometimes it is better for a fool to remain silent than to show the world his blatant stupidity or ignorance. I travelled to 18 States in this nation canvassing votes for my candidate, Obi, and I can tell with confidence that officially Nigeria is still at war with itself. Making sure there is less federal presence there and utilizing the power of the government to silence any opposition to these heinous deeds are deliberate attempts to incite the South-South and South-East of the nation. How then can you explain that according to official exchange rates, the Onitsha he is obese about has a GDP of 12.73 billion US dollars. Yet in this commercial town, 80% of the essential amenities are either the result of individual or state efforts. No Federal effort. I am not Ibo, but I am very familiar with this city, and I sincerely believe that if it were to experience what a desert in the North experiences, the city would be a masterpiece. It is really terrible that the Southern Leaders we have are thieves who only want to plunder the Niger Delta and live off the scraps left over from the Elite from the North. You have the right to support anybody you choose as long as you act with basic decency. Please remind that Buffon that his kingdom is not superior to Onitsha and that it will take deliberate effort to transform the slum he called home into a city by reaching out to anybody who is close to him. |
Politics / Re: The Moment Governor Sanwo-Olu Tasted Hilda Baci's Food (Video) by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:31am On May 16, 2023 |
remsonik:. Your soul is so bitter save yourself before it is too late. I wondered if you know what it takes to have four days of sleepless nights doing something you have passion for. |
Politics / Re: El-rufai: I Am Not Interested In Tinubu's Appointment by sirjamesjnr(m): 3:30am On May 07, 2023 |
slawomir:my man, what is going on with you? Hope you came back with enough 🌿 ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Share Experience About An Emotional Moment With Your Ex by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:08am On Apr 26, 2023 |
Ibukune:. Put a smile on her face and convey compassion. Make sure she can build on it. Never, under any circumstances, take advantage of her. |
Romance / Re: Faithful Men: What Keeps You From Cheating? by sirjamesjnr(m): 2:01pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat:.1 Fear of what Drfumi will do to me, 2. fear of what her sis will say to me. 3. Fear of the unknown. 4. Fear everywhere. 5. My family is saying we won't recognize anyone else. 6 I won't throw years of investment away. Some minutes of pleasure does worth the stress. |
Romance / Re: My Wife Admitts She Visited A Guy But There Was No Sex by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:51pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
The only reason to stay with a cheating spouse is if she is deeply and genuinely sorry for the betrayal and willing to work for your forgiveness. I doubt if today's woman can take responsibility for her actions. If there are kids in-between, let her stay for the kid. Do not for any reason sleep with her in the same room. Cut all forms of closeness. Involved her family, and let them know you won't throw her away because of your kid/kids. Remember it take Mama and Papa to raise a kid. Also never forget a woman need a reason to cheat and cheating is a premeditated act. 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Attacked My Friend's Father In Ogun (Graphic Photos) by sirjamesjnr(m): 6:46am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Tallesty1:. Borrow sense, you are creating enemies for Peter Obi by not being reasonable . |
Health / Re: I Am Too Sexually Active And Don't Come On Time, Is This Normal? Pls Advise by sirjamesjnr(m): 2:43pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Thanks all.[/quote]. Nice advertisement. Please find yourself a job. Nairaland ladies only need money, not your fairy tale. |
Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:17am On Feb 20, 2023 |
How do we go about it? I propose setting up a student account in the girl's name. We can use the first bank so that the money can be used exclusively for the education of girls. One of us can make plans with the family and go to the bank with them to open an account into which we can deposit donations. I can be reach through this email.: danwattemm@gmail.com 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 5:53am On Feb 18, 2023 |
gaby:. Okay my brother, thanks please let me know when the story click. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 5:41am On Feb 18, 2023 |
gaby:. Good morning, is the story real? How do we proceed to help? Can someone volunteer on our behaved of us and open an account for the girl maybe a student account in any First bank branch? I like we sort out this issue once. Sending money to that guy is not a guarantee that the girl will obtain an education. We can achieve this, please, thanks. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:57pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
texazzpete:Please kindly quote or dm when he checked out the story is true. I will also support. |
Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:52pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
VoidLife7:why do I have this feeling that your story is fake? What does it take to get jamb form in any cbt center? I suppose you graduated from secondary school. I can understand about lack of funds (at most 10k) But saying someone have to help her enlist when you are there and should tell your mom step to fellow. I am out because I never support you to cheat other Nigerian |
Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:41pm On Feb 17, 2023 |
dawoyo:. Let a known nairaland who live in Lagos help us very the story the we can collabo and help. |
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