Please adopt the girl but try as much as you can to distance yourself from that woman. She can arrange with her current boyfriend to kill you. They are that dumb

a4cube:
The SAN is not correct. Yes the passport maybe invalid but being invalid doesn't invalidate his citizenship. Citizenship is not tired to passport. Many Nigerian citizens don't have passport or any ID whatsoever.

In court you have to show proof of your case. The PDP presented an invalid proof so the SAN is right

paramakina202:


Your invalid passport does not make your citizenship invalid.International passport is a choice not compulsory.You will first become a citizen of a country before you can obtain their passport.International passport is just one of many benefits of being a citizen of a country.There are millions of Nigerian citizen without international passport.

The SAN didn’t argue about citizenship status, he only argued about the validity of the passport. PDP could have provide a valid document that shows the man is a citizen of that country.

paramakina202:
International passport is renewable by citizens at expiration.Does it mean we cease to be Nigeria citizens once our passports expire?The answer is NO.Tinubu's lawyers thinks they dealing with APC supporters.

. You are still a citizen but if you tender the said document in court , it’s invalid. So the SAN is correct. The law is truly a. BITCH

ppogba:


Ritualists do not leave evidence intentionally. The investigation, self-confessions, etc reveal evidence.

Try and delete that argument that the guy has a beef with someone who is trying to put him away. It sounds somehow on a public forum and in this particular case.

. I want to assume I did say maybe the guy messed with someone. I want to keep an open mind and also think out of the box. The story does not sound 📢 real to me. My opinion though

ppogba:


If evidence are not left behind, nobody would have been convicted of ritual or murder by now in Nigeria.

Body parts are missing and the young dude may be innocent. Wonderful

How will a ritualist kill someone and leave evidence where it can be traced to him easily? I may be wrong though but I am considering the angle that the guy may have a mess with someone who decided to put him away.

With the body parts missing, the young dude may be innocent, maybe a deal went wrong then some form of setup. Who kills someone for a ritual and then leaves evidence behind?

We are in deep trouble, most of them are from dysfunctional home.

RESPECT. AGAIN RESPECT. LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH. Compromise, simple understanding. Never date someone who is not on the same level of understanding as you, or who doesn't want to put in the work to make it work. As a man know your worth.

Samantha124:
But the op stated that his girlfriend was raised by her stepfather along with her mother.

Since the stepfather is married to his girlfriend's mother, there's no need for the op to keep asking questions about his girlfriend's deadbeat father, as it'll also be disrespectful to the man who raised her, which is her stepfather.

. Did he adopt the girl formally in the presence of the Elder when he marry his wife? If he did not but went ahead to raise the girl, he has no right to sit when the marriage rite is performed. Plus if the biological father pays the bride price and it was not returned the the biological father and his family are the right group to take the bride price.

Micheal56:

Bro very long story
My dad's family plan with my dad they wanted to kill me he later cast say kill them won kill me
My mom has always been by my side since childhood
My dad's family hate me since childhood and called me a smoker when I haven't started smoking and made gest of me when everything starts going well they frame a story that I did the ritual
Meanwhile, Na my mom's family sacrificed a lot just to see I become somebody
They accepted me with love and Na gals dem be no boy among them I just have to keep the name no choice
They try

. Did your mum's family members accept you in the presence of members of the community? Was there any rite performed? If the answers to those two questions are NO please tell your mum's family to do what tradition demand.

Micheal56:

Everything started someday
Omo this name of a thing to be a choice in the future just watch
When a lot of single moms have changed the surname of their child
Just Dey play

. Till we all join our ancestors, tradition will always be a tradition.

ItisWell22:
The problem for you guys with daughters of single mums, used to be the perceived toxicity towards men; but the guy’s mother-in-law-to-be didn’t raise her daughter that way.

The lady in that story has a man she deems fit to be called a father, yet you guys want to take it away?

For her to see her stepfather fit enough to be in the “father of the bride” stead, he must have done so much for her.
You guys should let him enjoy being a good human…

In the North, na who train pikin dey collect brideprice oh. Even when the groom goes to the biological father's place, goes sends the groom to the house wey the trains the girl.

My brideprice is not a reward for good behavior. I may not know about Northern Nigeria but here in the South, the bride price is for bloodline unless there are no traces of it anywhere on planet Earth.

MrBrownJay1:
As much as this deadbeat man may be the Biological father of that child since he hasn't raised nor done anything for that child to become the great person she is today (NOR IS HE LEGALLY HER GUARDIAN), the bride price if any should be paid to mother and/or guardian of that child.

...and rightfully say FUKC IT to culture and tradition.

. The bride price is not a form of reward to any father. It is a symbol of African tradition that a man wants to take a wife and as such he has to pledge to take responsibility of that woman. Are they no Elders in your village ?

olasaad:


So after getting pregnant out of wedlock, it is now left for the guy to reject the child if the lady cannot do an abortion. It is only a shameless man that eats where he did not sow.

. This emotion won't stop what tradition demands. I am well-raised and exposed but I will never allow my wokeness to cloud my judgment as an African man.

Amumaigwe:


What advice do you have for your gender that opens their legs very wide and gets pregnant outside wedlock? Let's attack the matter from the first principle

. She won't answer that because as a lady she shouldn't be held accountable for her actions.

Micheal56:
Bro calm down
Which one is tradition is tradition
I actually accepted my mom to my dad
I use my mom surname

It was your decision, but not Nigeria's culture and norm.

I feel compelled to respond to this topic because, in today's environment, we tend to think that anything is possible and act blindly without realising the ramifications of our actions.

This should serve as a lesson to any woman who decides to become a mother but she and the simp guy reject doing what is proper in the eyes of the law, tradition, and nature. Since it is your body, you can sleep with any man, but if you decide to become pregnant, please use common judgement.


I am aware that sometimes a man appears to be fully responsible, but once responsibility sets in, he looks for an easy way out. Please keep in mind that life and nature's forces will never offer you mercy, but you still have to act morally.



Having said that, the biological father of the girl is paid the bride price in the majority of Nigerian cultures. Tradition and nature take that into account, regardless of whether the father is a deadbeat. The only way an adopted father can collect the bride price from the prospective husband is if you adopt a daughter, either through a legal adoption or by marrying a woman who has a female kid from another man and whose father and his family remain unknown anywhere on our planet earth. This African tradition cannot be altered by your feelings, your resentment, your awakening, or modernism.



You can debate for all of time, but tradition is tradition. Brideprice is a custom that must be observed in accordance with tradition. I will counsel everyone engaged to maintain their position, to avoid the negative effects of custom, and to follow what tradition dictated. Nobody wants to be associated with a deadbeat, yet life may be a pain at times. Do the needful.



Let every single girl know the serious repercussions of having a child outside of a committed marriage. Life is dynamic.

https://www.nairaland.com/7699639/onitsha-dirty-capital-world-asari#123313883.
Sometimes it is better for a fool to remain silent than to show the world his blatant stupidity or ignorance.
I travelled to 18 States in this nation canvassing votes for my candidate, Obi, and I can tell with confidence that officially Nigeria is still at war with itself.

Making sure there is less federal presence there and utilizing the power of the government to silence any opposition to these heinous deeds are deliberate attempts to incite the South-South and South-East of the nation. How then can you explain that according to official exchange rates, the Onitsha he is obese about has a GDP of 12.73 billion US dollars. Yet in this commercial town, 80% of the essential amenities are either the result of individual or state efforts. No Federal effort.

I am not Ibo, but I am very familiar with this city, and I sincerely believe that if it were to experience what a desert in the North experiences, the city would be a masterpiece. It is really terrible that the Southern Leaders we have are thieves who only want to plunder the Niger Delta and live off the scraps left over from the Elite from the North.

You have the right to support anybody you choose as long as you act with basic decency. Please remind that Buffon that his kingdom is not superior to Onitsha and that it will take deliberate effort to transform the slum he called home into a city by reaching out to anybody who is close to him.

remsonik:
Well Nigerians we celebrate mediocrity, and corrupt attempts to gain attention a lot. We don't celebrate 100% top-notch, meeting all criteria, and doing the best.

Hilda used her body to promote her Guinness world record, all the naked pictures and her curves she has shown on social media in the past years showed that she wants to use her body to get endorsements and a lot of offers from Nigerians which she has gotten.

Her assistant has been with her for 5 days and none has hailed him, some mothers are working tirelessly in their homes, villages farms for a whole week without hailing or celebrations yet why's she being celebrated? Companies and organizations in Nigeria will not go for the hardworking ones with nothing behind the assignment but will go for the boobs and curves. May God help us!

. Your soul is so bitter save yourself before it is too late. I wondered if you know what it takes to have four days of sleepless nights doing something you have passion for.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Pussy ass governors everywhere



Anyday anytime twice on Saturday

my man, what is going on with you? Hope you came back with enough 🌿 ?

Ibukune:


Thank you so much. For everytime I look at the turn of events, I feel really sad. I will definitely reach out to her, but I don't want my reaching out to her to weigh her down, so I am just waiting for the best of time. And then, we are miles apart now.
DAO, you could have waited just a little longer, just a little longer 😪😪😪. He still dey pain me. I hate to see people struggle and not enjoy what they struggled for 😪😪😪😪😪😪😪

. Put a smile on her face and convey compassion. Make sure she can build on it. Never, under any circumstances, take advantage of her.

Rokiat:
I would like to believe there are still men that are faithful To their women in relationships. And despite the narrative, not all men cheat.

So faithful Men of Nairaland, how do you manage to remain faithful?

.1 Fear of what Drfumi will do to me, 2. fear of what her sis will say to me. 3. Fear of the unknown. 4. Fear everywhere. 5. My family is saying we won't recognize anyone else. 6 I won't throw years of investment away. Some minutes of pleasure does worth the stress.

The only reason to stay with a cheating spouse is if she is deeply and genuinely sorry for the betrayal and willing to work for your forgiveness. I doubt if today's woman can take responsibility for her actions. If there are kids in-between, let her stay for the kid. Do not for any reason sleep with her in the same room. Cut all forms of closeness. Involved her family, and let them know you won't throw her away because of your kid/kids. Remember it take Mama and Papa to raise a kid. Also never forget a woman need a reason to cheat and cheating is a premeditated act.

Tallesty1:
Okay.... Obi got six thousands votes in Lagos, but according the statistics from your brothers; at least 10 Ekenedili Chukwu buses[two per state in south east] load Igbos and drop them in Lagos every day so one can say that the votes Obi got is not even up to number of Igbos that enter Lagos monthly.

Secondly you and Falz who saw and agreed to what I am saying were disowned by your people. Omo Ale trended because you supported an Igbo person.

FKK is celebrating the NEW NIGERIA formed by Yoruba and hausa/fulani.

Igbos were threatened by your people, their businesses were destroyed and some of them had gunshot injuries.

Igbos have never killed any Yoruba person in his or her farm, I am not sure they have started any riot in Yoruba land.

Yoruba and Hausa and Fulani have been fighting and killing each other in recent history.

There was a massacre in a church by Fullani Herdsmen in youba land.

But when it was the time to unite and remove the leaders that watched while people were killed, Yorubas aligned with Hausa Fulani.

So why should I pity anyone that dies or even feel sorry? 

Bro, it is unfortunate that your people who see things the way you do are few.

Tinubu came first, Atiku came second, and Obi came third but Obi is constantly under attack by your people. Nobody talks about Kwankwaso or Atiku. Your people are the one calling for Obi's head, not any other group.

Bro, if you are online here during operation python dance, then i am sure you saw how your people used the pictures of our dead brothers and sisters to taunt and torment us for months.

I sincerely don't know why we are having this discussion. You and I know that this killing started again because Tinubu and his vice won, it is the truth and you know it.

. Borrow sense, you are creating enemies for Peter Obi by not being reasonable .

Thanks all.[/quote]. Nice advertisement. Please find yourself a job. Nairaland ladies only need money, not your fairy tale.

How do we go about it? I propose setting up a student account in the girl's name. We can use the first bank so that the money can be used exclusively for the education of girls. One of us can make plans with the family and go to the bank with them to open an account into which we can deposit donations. I can be reach through this email.: danwattemm@gmail.com

gaby:


We are still waiting for amdman to revert on his findings.

. Okay my brother, thanks please let me know when the story click.

gaby:


Sickening.

Just reading your submission and I kept feeling my inner man being spoken to. Your kid sister's dream needs and deserves to be kept alive.

Whatever life has thrown at her was never her bargain and shouldn't be used as an excuse to kill her lofty dreams.

To this effect, I am volunteering to take charge of that kid's educational needs so long as you can provide every necessary and confirmable detail down to the physicals.

God bless...

. Good morning, is the story real?
How do we proceed to help?
Can someone volunteer on our behaved of us and open an account for the girl maybe a student account in any First bank branch?
I like we sort out this issue once.
Sending money to that guy is not a guarantee that the girl will obtain an education. We can achieve this, please, thanks.

texazzpete:


Kindly DM me so I’m looped in. I can pitch in something if the story checks out.

Thanks to you and @gaby for following up

Please kindly quote or dm when he checked out the story is true. I will also support.

VoidLife7:
Sadly my mum believe she can't get enlisted without having a God father or someone who'd help her get enlisted

She's talking base on Nigeria factor

why do I have this feeling that your story is fake? What does it take to get jamb form in any cbt center? I suppose you graduated from secondary school. I can understand about lack of funds (at most 10k)
But saying someone have to help her enlist when you are there and should tell your mom step to fellow. I am out because I never support you to cheat other Nigerian

dawoyo:


I intend to first and foremost get her a sewing machine and then think of something for both her and the mother.

I’ll wait for @amdman’s checks and for those willing to assist, we can collabo so that it’ll be more effective.

. Let a known nairaland who live in Lagos help us very the story the we can collabo and help.