Cutehector:
The very reason why a child needs a father is to put him/her in the right direction in the teenage years.


Single moms just need to put their egos aside and get their kids a father figure.

Anobody:
I'm a single mother of two teenage sons, lost my husband 10 years ago and have been struggling to cater for them singlehandedly. My first son is 19 and the last 17 years but I'm getting fed up with the disrespect and regret not taking them to the village so I could remarry.

They both left secondary school and worked to save up for school and I don't ask them for a dime. My last son suddenly started behaving like a tout, pierced both ears and turned his hair to dread, takes my stuff without my permission and even to extent of holding my hands when I get furious to beat him.

My first son is dating a girl and spends all his money on her to the extent of asking me for transport fare sometimes. Sometimes they come home by 10 or 11 pm and are ready to fight me if I get furious to discipline them.

What broke the camel's back was that my last son went to a friend's bday party overnight without telling me, my first son said he called to tell him he won't return and NONE OF THEM TOLD ME under my roof.

I've tried talking calmly, denying certain privileges and discipline but it keeps getting worse, my last option is to take them back to their father's village before I die of HBP.

I'm depressed nairalanders�, please I seek mature advice, thanks.

Please help me push it to the front page

delpee:


Sarcasm I believe.
We need many of his type in governance so our nation can make substantial progress.

Thanksful:


It doesn't matter. Instead of a Muslim to win, it will be rigged in favor of a Christian. Much is involved.

A dangerous pattern that will destroy this nation mustn't be set now.

pocohantas:
Your fiance just lost his job indeed.

All these she-males all over Nairaland.

CYBERSOLDIERSre:



Disgruntled yaribanza....

Una no dey change.

Very predictable people.


Fabricate more lies against Peter Obi.

You'll lose last last.

Trust Igbo's, when they start with Yoruba's, una go call for seize fire.

Thanksful:


Tinubu can't win. He is not a Christian. Watch out.

Afamed:
Obi himself is a certified Pandora thief. Don't preach holiness of Obi for us here

peepydelano:
There shall be no place for any residency till they are ready to behave and do to us as the afonjas are doing, still, we are the decider of this country and without our backing, you all can never smell aso rock. Afonjas are wise and obedient hence the reason we always back them when needed

peepydelano:
Keep deceiving yourselves, I wonder what a Biafran wants with Nigeria, Igbos think they are the wisest and foolishly brag about it in emptiness but we have been playing on their wiseness since time immemorial, I guess wiseness has a different meaning in Biafra land �

Frigga13:
Igbos must avoid being political orphans by all means possible

Voting Obi enmass is killing igbos politically in Nigeria
South south will replace igbos in Nigeria politics.. they will be votin enmass for Pdp and will be compensated in next government.. while igbos will be left out
Extending their political journey to another 8 years and might not even be sure of 2032..

And funny they will remain in Nigeria shouting Biafra or dead .. with IPOB scamming and dealing ruthless with them.. while they keep screaming Biafra or dead as Nigerians , with no international or local support

Politics is not based on sentiments in any part of the world .. is politics and it’s a game .. if igbos are tired or clueless .. they should negotiate with south south to keep the mandate for them .. let them go and do bussiness and leave politcs for regions that know better

Obi is now an IPOB thing as view by other tribes

Obi won’t win
Obi will divide igbo votes and keep them relevant
Obi is not an option at the National
Who come know Obi for Nigeria if not for Atiku

Who is selling Obi to other tribes

Obi decamping is a bad one for igbos .. politically igbos are not yet aware
Next election 2027

Igbos will still flood online to shout Igbo President y

Where is Ohaneze indigo after all their media noise and gibberish

Neighbours should wake up before its late

Obi's selfishness has formally cost Igbos a lot

Atiku will win without Igbos plus Igbos .. south has his back and southwest should Tinubu lose

inspectorg:
Lol. Sarcasm at its best.

peepydelano:
Na una dy deceive this clever thief called Peter obi

PROUDIGBO:


Don’t mind the fools! It’s now time for denials, diversionary tactics and outright lies!

A whole Prelate of the Methodist Church of Nigeria, and those kidnapped with him, are telling of their kidnap experience and who kidnapped them! Going by what we have seen happen in Nigeria these past 7+ years Buhari has been president: the influx of Fulani terrorists and other criminal scum from West and Central Africa into Nigeria….the high spate of kidnappings, abductions and murders that have taken a wider and more worrying dimension with the incursion of these vermin into southern Nigeria…the release of ‘repentant’ terrorists, with some being absorbed into the Nigerian military….the Wadume saga that showcased just how to go about fcking up the capture and transfer of a hardened Fulani terrorist (as evil as he was, can any Nigerian give us a accurate update on his trial and present whereabouts?…a man more dangerous than a detained Mazi Kanu could ever hope to be in a thousand years)….the pronouncements of the likes of Theophilus Danjuma, Obediah Mailafia, Ortom, Obasanjo and many other prominent Nigerians that have sounded the alarm over the collusion between these Fulani bandits/terrorists and security bodies like the army, DSS, etc….the senseless and inexplicable high-profile murders in the south-east, that started the moment the supreme court governor acquiesced to his masters bidding and declared he was inviting the evil Fulani army to Imo to confront ESN that was ridding Imo forests of sleeper-cell Fulani groups masquerading as herdsmen…etc!

Given the aforementioned, and much more sordid facts about the Nigerian security…or lack thereof, why would anyone with a working brain wanna argue against the position that states that we southerners don enter one-chance with Buhari and his marauding kinsmen controlling the levers of power in Nigeria!?

Kriss216:

I'm trying my best. I've been persuading Nigerian girls here to be best they can be. I expected you to applaud my efforts.

Kriss216:

I love and agree with everything you said about Nigerian girls. Funmi must really be proud of you.

Kriss216:

I love that you still stand by your girl. It shows you truly love and value her relationship with you... Now answer me, did what I said back then against you both stopped you from loving or not being with her?

Kriss216:

I know when and how you started with Funmi, save me those lectures.

The moment you bring your matter to the public, be ready to face whatever you see...it's very simple.

Mooh247:


True, the same poverty of the mind got many poor in the first place in a land with so many opportunities

Kriss216:
The moment you bring your matter to your online in-laws, be ready to face the consequences.

Mooh247:




In a country where 60% live below the poverty line, the majority are generally biter, frustrated and very hateful

Don't expect happy comments from bitter people
Nigeria's case is a classic study. They are other poor African countries, Asian, South America etc. Never will u read some many hateful comments on their forum. It is not a lack of basic needs but the poverty of the mind. I once asked my old boy why he decided to stay put in this country.

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Ndimkpurummiri:


https://saharareporters.com/2022/05/02/breaking-unknown-gunmen-behead-nigerian-army-couple-imo-threaten-kill-family-members-too

SwissMass:
See how Yoruba people coordinate themselves in orderly manner, even a professor, a Nobel laureate, identify with struggle for freedom, but in the other side of the south, the south east is death awakening, blood flowing everywhere, even traditional rulers are victims of the monsters, they are killed, if they are lucky they will be dump in the market place naked, or they will eaten by IPOB miscreants and cannibals

IKBARUTEN11:
Somethings should be made as a reminder in some of these churches to avoid embarrassing anyone.

In 2019, I attended a wedding of a friend. I forgot to silence my phone. During the wedding mass, my phone rang and before I could silence the phone, a man was standing by demanding my phone while trying to hand over a paper containing a fine I'm to pay for the distraction my phone caused.


Long story short, I refused to do any of his demands simply because there were no prior reminders nor a notice that phone rings during the mass were not allowed especially to us- the non-worshippers of the church.

Based on this, if there was no mode of dress stipulations from the church, the pastor should tender apologies to the ladies, the celebrants, the congregation and the general public
Common sense should tell you that your phones are silent in a place of worship.

hearttoheart001:
I have been away for some months now. I and my fiancee always do video calls every day. So we keep each other company.
Yesterday, my girl insist I should order a intimacy gadget for her or she will get it herself. I stand my ground and told her this will amount to cheating. She says that she should use a intimacy gadget than another man sleeping with her
Folks, should I allow her to get the toy? How will it affect our relationship? Am I not competing with sex machines like this?
No bashing, I need informative advice.
I feel like I am been intimidated in my territory.

CruiseCity:
Let's catch cruise.
What's the weirdness place you've ever had sex?

Me: On the Roof

Omo y'all should try it... The way breeze was blowing my nyash that day... I can't explain...

MrBrownJay1:


REMEMBER: sex is indeed a simple exercise but [color=#990000]WOMEN ARE COMPLEX CREATURES![/colour]

Double0h7:


A rape apologist... I thought as much.

MrBrownJay1:


YES BRO, to many women "yes means no" and vice versa....but you have to be an expert in understanding this emotional rollercoaster (and not wrongly assume that every time she says no it means yes). just because you have stopped your attempt at doing something, does not mean you got to abort the mission, it just means you have to find a different point of entry.... aka if she says no, then stop and communicate with the babe so you understand whats going on....maybe she ain't ready; maybe she ain't h0rny enough; maybe you need to reassure her that you will go meet her parents next week (lol); maybe she wants you to lick it before you stick it in; who knows what could be the issue, if you don't communicate with her?!

Double0h7:


With this mindset, you get trapped in a rape situation or actually rape a woman and not even understand what you did wrong. Grow up because you can't dictate to people what they should or shouldn't do! People will do whatever they want to do and it's left up to you to make the right choice.