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Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:39pm On Feb 17, 2023
geegee08:
God bless you and everyone here who has offered to support.

If you will coordinate, I will be happy to support once the story is confirmed to be true, to assist this young lady get a chance at a good life. I am willing to support her through University if she is willing to take and pass her UTME, by the mercies of God, seeing as she is quite intelligent and industrious - with what the OP said about her WAEC grades.

OP should tell the Mum that there are some faceless individuals offering to support them; and that the Mum should not jeopardise the child's future by marrying her off to a certainly dark future.

Please dm me once the story is confirmed to be true so we can arrange to videochat with the OP and his sister and take it from there.

I will try to check this space at least twice weekly for updates.

PS: I just saw that some people e.g. @gaby had already proposed educational support - God bless you too. I will be happy to partner with you all. I'm quite busy and no time to read through all the comments so far.

. I already told him that I am ready to also contribute if he can link up with anyone who offers to help and his story isn’t fake.

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Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:36pm On Feb 17, 2023
VoidLife7:
She reside in Lagos. Agbara precisely

You can help as the spirit lead you sir
dm the first guy that suggested it. If he verified that you are real and your story isn’t fake then he will say it here. We can take it up from there.

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Family / Re: My Mum Is Planning To Forcefully Give Out My Little Sister Out For Marriage by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:28pm On Feb 17, 2023
If he is able to prove himself then I can also help. We can start by getting jamb form and registering the girl. I also have someone I can call in some tertiary institutions if she is from the North or South south to give her admission. Let him tell us his full name and his place of residence. Let him act ASAP before entry for jamb exam is close. We can go further to open account for the girl so we pay all her school fees at once. The ball is on his court

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Romance / Re: What Have You Given Without Expecting Anything In Return To Those In Need? by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:00pm On Feb 10, 2023
FATHAT:
I've given many things and never expected anything in return
Always wait for the reward. I've got some proof. Let me share a current example with you: during my services year at the NYSC , a guy I met in my hostel after so many years gave me helpful information about an organization, which saved my neck. He told me, he wouldn't be able to allow me get into a horrible business, because of the generosity I exhibit.

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Romance / Re: What Have You Given Without Expecting Anything In Return To Those In Need? by sirjamesjnr(m): 11:50am On Feb 10, 2023
Aklee4994:
Well said 🙌🙌🙌


Just be kind it takes absolutely nothing from you ☮️

I choose my prayers because I am a sinful man, but I am fully aware that I always ask God to be compassionate to me because I am merciful. Closing doors are opened by kindness and a loving heart.
Family / Re: Married Ex by sirjamesjnr(m): 11:41am On Feb 10, 2023
Ficklemind:
Good evening, please how do I politely tell my married ex to stop bringing back our past memories?

My ex and I separated on good terms, he is AS likewise myself so we had to go on our separate ways. It over 6 years that we separated but we still talk once in a while. I don’t have any feelings for him anymore but I don’t know about him and I don’t have any intention of seeing him either though we are far away from each other.

I don’t want to block him and I don’t want to offend him ,but when I take a picture with a random male friend and I upload it on my status ,he tells me he is jealous that the guy is an idiot for holding me or touching me. Asking for my recent pictures and sending me my old pictures that I don’t even remember existed.

This guy is married with a child. How to I politely tell him to stop all this because I don’t feel comfortable with them.
I won't suggest that you cut off contact with your ex. Put him where he belongs in a decent way. This is what I'm saying because you never know when you'll need your ex. An ex saves me from this hide-and-seek game CBN is playing. My ex-girlfriend sent me cash in the form of raw currency, which I used for days even though I had to pay her back, I was unable to access my three accounts. People entered your life on purpose.
Romance / What Have You Given Without Expecting Anything In Return To Those In Need? by sirjamesjnr(m): 11:21am On Feb 10, 2023
I would say it’s very easy for the individual to choose the selfish path above the empathic path in this day and age. There are many unkind, indifferent individuals who have high standards and little to no regard for others.

Yes, it appears like people are becoming more self-centered as long as they get what they want, and they don't show sympathy for or care that others suffer in public. Many people play up their selfishness in ways they might treat others while still believing they are admirable people. It's as if they're cynical, aloof, or jaded.

You'd think they'd never have to experience suffering, heartbreak, or difficulties. If you feel lousy, struggle, or have a difficult day, they might even make fun of individuals who suffer and say you're a loser. I observe men who oppress and act like thin gods because they are lucky, as a man.

Many women are gold-diggers who are solely concerned about themselves. Instead of compassion or human decency, it is the dog-eat-dog mentality.

I'm not perfect, but I do recall that I used to open my home to anyone who wanted to come and ask for something while I was a student. Even though I know some were merely using me for their own gain, I still do this. Even when I wasn't wealthy, I can still recall covering a coursemate's costs. You will gain something from knowing me regardless of what it is. I make out conscious effort to help even now

Helping someone is something I consider to be an investment that will eventually pay off. Although I shouldn't have made comments about myself, I'm attempting to make the point that lending a hand is worthwhile. Because I am kind, I never lack anything.

If only we could develop the ability to provide a helping hand without expecting anything in return. This led me to ask: When was the last time you lifted someone instead of putting pressure on their neck?

Everyone has something to offer, as my mother used to say. Nobody is ever too broke to contribute. Why not offer assistance rather than being egotistical and selfish? Sometimes, it baffles me how two people can be in love and still be unable to support one another. Giving is how love is communicated. How do I know this? Because the only time I have ever witnessed someone smiling from the heart was when you lifted them up.

Instead of males taking advantage of decent women elsewhere, our women have turned into gold diggers to the utmost. Why can't we support one another as a sign of love?

Love is in the air this month. As a lady, make an investment in that man, don't be the only one to receive. Men show love by giving to the woman you love. Continue to be kind to people who are beneath you as long as you can. Let love take the reins. Enjoy your lovely weekend, everyone.
Family / Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:31am On Feb 10, 2023
NaijaOlosho:
Always remember there is a pat back time for all good dids and kindness.

Also remember no condition is permanent.
Situations can turn around for that Nigga tomorrow and he might be your saviour

So if you are in position to help in your little way always do.

Don't mind some foolish NLders here 80% of people that knows me take from me but I notice something, I never lack anything with a little effort. To me giving is an investment.
Family / Re: How Can I Politely Tell My Friend To Stop Coming To My House For Now? by sirjamesjnr(m): 10:24am On Feb 10, 2023
Sonnobax15:
grin
Country hard bro....

Say you're helping a brother man today doesn't mean table won't and can't turn around tomorrow......So chill and always be kind to a fellow brother man who's down,and if he needs help,try uplift am so that him wahala of coming to your house frequently go stop....

Las las,I dey come across such people on a daily basis.... People wey broke and when dem explain their condition to me,I dey always dey help in the little way I fit, because I know say country hard...
I never tell a brother not to come to my house even when I know he is using my head. I believe I keep getting richer by being kind. Food is nothing. Learn to share. It’s painful but the force of nature will always come handy when you need it most. There’s seed time and harvest time.

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Romance / Re: My Mum Doesn't Want Us To Get Married Because Of This Picture by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:24pm On Feb 08, 2023
Nothing improper about the attire. My girlfriend and I had fun wearing shorts. Be strong but patient while dealing with your mother. She should check our character and values that what matters.

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Health / Re: Female Chorister Discovered To Be A Man After Death In Port Harcourt (Photos) by sirjamesjnr(m): 11:35am On Feb 06, 2023
Chopcy29:


In aba Abia state
Contact Numbers: Command CP: 08034726458| Police-PRO: 08039148294| Com: Email: pro.abia@police.gov.ng
Abia state police headquarter:
GGP4+5PC, Umuahia - Ohafia Rd, Nkata Ubeku 440236, Umuahia, Abia.

Ministry of justice: Abia state. Call this number: 0806 419 6850:


Ministry of women affairs: 1 Library Avenue umuahia Abia.

Police headquarter will respond very quickly. Keep your identity secret. I hope this help.
Health / Re: Female Chorister Discovered To Be A Man After Death In Port Harcourt (Photos) by sirjamesjnr(m): 9:17am On Feb 06, 2023
Chopcy29:


Where can I find this please
What state were you a resident of?
Health / Re: Female Chorister Discovered To Be A Man After Death In Port Harcourt (Photos) by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:32am On Feb 06, 2023
Chopcy29:
There is a terrible thing that I saw today that really got me in tears. I came across a pedophile that hijacked two little underage girls kept them in his 3 bedroom flat and got them both pregnant. An old man that is nearing his 50s caged two little girls that is not upto 17 years and keep getting them pregnant. I heard that he normally sell the babies and make profit. Please does anyone here know the right place or person I can lay this horrific act to?
. Go to state police headquarter, ministry of justice or ministry of women affairs. Please do this discretely for the sake of your life.
Politics / Re: A White Lady On Tiktok Looking For A Townhall Different From Balablu by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:16pm On Feb 02, 2023
id911:

Stop using this line to campaign in order not to drive away some people. A lot of Yorubas around me are rooting for Obi especially those that wanted Osinbajo. Some of them hate Tinubu. Besides, Tinubu is sick and incoherent. People can see it, electing him will bring shame and disgrace to Nigeria.
I am not Ibo but I know the effort me and my team has made to market Peter Obi in our little ways. Reading stuff like this is a total turn of.

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Politics / What Makes You Back A Certain Presidential Candidate? by sirjamesjnr(m): 8:13am On Feb 01, 2023
Why I am For Obi

Vice President would have been my candidate, but the APC did me dirty. I have a decision to make as a Nigerian, and I am proud of that decision. Obi is among the best prospects we have in our nation. He has the ability to make things happen in terms of education, morality, performance, reaching out, being a pan-Nigerian, industrialization, and passion to ensure that our nation is liberated from where we are; out of unrest to security; out of economic difficulties to economic vibrancy; and out of lack to a sufficient social life. Due to my commitment to equity, justice, and fairness, I am supporting Obi. Obi is my candidate.


Why I am against Tinubu

He is the best person to promote digital reform in areas such as communications, taxation, education, and governance. His pragmatic approach and preference for modernism in addressing security concerns and other difficulties. He has administrative skills and can draw in smart individuals to complete tasks. Although he may have shortcomings, there are no decent people in Nigerian politics. His health is one thing working against Bola. Nigeria is TERRIBLE. We require a man who is mentally and physically sound. More than a thousand offices are directly and indirectly under the supervision of the president's office. As a president you occupy 6 positions. I am aware that if Bola is elected president, his health will prevent him from ever performing the duties of the office. Another ill president is too much for us to bear; we can no longer be ruled by proxy.

Reason I will never support or vote for Atiku.

In this election cycle, Atiku forced his way into the PDP presidential ticket, which rightfully belonged to the South. There are repercussions to actions. Alhaji Atiku is constructing on a very shaky foundation. Therefore, cracks are appearing. Alhaji Atiku's campaign is incredibly erratic and anti-democratic. His party's charter is broken. It contravenes the power rotation agreement with Nigeria. It symbolizes Fulani political hegemony. His extravagant privatization vision is inadequate. He is too old. He has been accused of corruption in various nations, including Nigeria. His moral and mental qualities are average.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:48pm On Jan 26, 2023
Neatboy:
If Atiku wins eeehn, it will be a very big blow, a shame and insult to the entire Southern part of Nigeria and even the Middle Belt. The core Northerners will start treating their fellow compatriot in the South like trash with no electoral value. Fulani herdsmen will even do times two of what they did in Buhari's era.

But if Tinubu wins, it is a problem for the entire country, not just the South. It will take us 50years backwards. Most Nigerians will totally give up on the country. They will think that Nigeria is irredeemable. A whole lot of rebel groups will spring forth. Tinubu's emergence will usher in a new kind of politics that we have never seen before. Political opponents will be eliminated and annihilated with God forbidden impunity. Nigerians all over will be loyal to Lagos, and Abuja will lose its strength. MC Oluomo will become even more powerful than the Attorney General, Malami. In fact, the possibility of Nigeria breaking up is higher with Tinubu at the helms of affair than with Atiku. There will be no rule of law, everything will just be dirty politiking. It will be so nasty, and brutish. Agberos in Lagos will be fully armed and worst evils will happen under his watch. Remember End Sars!

This is what I call "The Twin Evil"

. I might not entirely concur with you. Aging and health problems are a challenge for Tinubu. In addition, he has experience working with people that are quite brilliant. Even if Nigeria can't be any worse than this, I support Obi because Ibos are also Nigerian citizens. Second, while Obi is not flawless, he is the least bad of them
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:41pm On Jan 26, 2023
technicallyrich:

No only tribalistik Yoru bad fake Mudslims lost.because atiku is our friend and ally.
. In keeping with the concept that friends and allies appreciate loyalty, I once more ask: What moral right does Atiku have to run in this election when South Easterners are on the ballot?
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:06pm On Jan 26, 2023
stacyadams:



After tinubu loose we can be treated as equal..but for now every where good grin
. If he loses to Obi great but if Atiku win then every Southerners lose.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2023
Gadafii:
Northerners use tilinbu clean nyash, now dem wan discard am like tissue paper, so much more for master tactician, baba wey no well 🫣🫣
. I am not happy as a Southerner because it can also happen to me tomorrow.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:04pm On Jan 26, 2023
luvmijeje:
Obi do not have a path to the Presidency.
leave your keyboard. A lot has happened. If I can leave my comfort zone to campaign for him, anyone can. Mind you, I am not a politician but a Nigerian who believes there can be a little sanity in the system
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 4:01pm On Jan 26, 2023
Neatboy:
Let me just tell you the truth, if we have more politicians of Obi's caliber in the South that are void of greed, wickedness, tribalism and tribal sentiment the North won't have the capacity to politically rape the South.

It is quite disheartening that the Northern Oligarchs in power always enable wicked politicians down South that they can easily manipulate. Orji Uzor Kalu, Ozodimma, Rochas, Tinubu, Chimaroke, Dave Umahi, Oshiomole and and the other sellouts and their enablers, they are the people we desire to retire for peace to be restored down South. These guys have sold us out to the Northern Oligarchs. And I don't pity them one bit when woes betide them.
Many of our young people in the south are waiting for these thieves before they eat, so you won't be able to retire them. Only the south east differs somewhat.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 3:57pm On Jan 26, 2023
Jnkay:
Why are Tinubu urchins crying upon and down? If Tinubu is truly loved by Nigerians why all this wailing. If Tinubu didn't plan to use vote buying to win the election why this wailing? Have you seen Obi or Atiku or Sowore complained about the volume of money to be used for the election. Tinubu is complaining because INEC and CBN has put up a measure against vote buying in this election.

If Tinubu had block votes in Kano, Kaduna, Kastina and Lagos without vote buying why all the wailing?
Hope you are not referring to me? I want a fair contest where Obi is declared a winner.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 3:55pm On Jan 26, 2023
technicallyrich:
First theifvynubu is not a southner or a Yoruba man.
No one knows we're he comes from.
And ss/se will gladly vote atiku than vote for a backstabbetrs,betrayal, theivves Someone who hates ss/Se with passion.
of what moral right does Atiku have to stand for election when his constituents are about to finish from the same office? Maybe Nigeria is Fulani’s property. I don’t support what I never defend when I give account to my unborn children. It’s your choice but vote your conscience.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:50pm On Jan 26, 2023
babasolution:
Southerners reason like SLAVES
Slaves occasionally plan their own activities. We're acting like a bunch of idiots.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:35pm On Jan 26, 2023
[quote author=yarimo post=120392597][/quote]. If the North allows a fair contest I have confidence Obi will win.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:33pm On Jan 26, 2023
Pierocash:
Election hasnt come yet,and they are already crying. After the election when Obi will be declared winner,they will commit suicide.
. Do you mean to mention me? To support Obi's campaign, I have given up my time, courted friends, traveled to several states, and used knowledge and resources even though I am not Ibo. Stop this bitterness immediately; it serves no purpose. Let everyone have a fair contest. I want Obi to win fair and square.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:22pm On Jan 26, 2023
OnyeAshuaUru:

If someone keeps using your head, then you should blame the quality of education you are getting. Everyone looks out for their interest, so it's nobody's fault that you are not capable of looking out for yours.
A new Nigeria is POssible.
Vote LP
. My brother, the southerners take pride in being smart, educated, and intelligent, yet the Aboki quota always tricks us all. I fear for if there is hope down south.
Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:09pm On Jan 26, 2023
OnyeAshuaUru:
Buhari has raped the whole country for 7+ years, while Tinubu gladly held the torch for him. So, why should anyone complain if Buhari turns his d.ick towards Tinubu's butt hole?
I am concerned how the North is using our head. Wike is also suffering the same fate. We should be treated as equal not this.

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Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:07pm On Jan 26, 2023
yarimo:
this is next president of Nigeria
He is helpless to defeat. Obi and Aiku are currently battling it out. He's being hurt by the north.

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Politics / Re: What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 1:05pm On Jan 26, 2023
OneCandleAway:
Well Tinubu joined them to push Jonathan out. So he can't even threaten to reveal all what the north did to remove Jonathan. His v.p was the governor when chibok girls were kidnapped and I bet shettima knew the kidnap plan was to frustrate Jonathan.

I know Tinubu has a lot if smart people in his team and honestly if not for his age and health he could have been the one to put the north in their place and save the south.
I concurred that he strike a compromise with the north in order to remove Goodluck from office, but we can’t continue to let the north manipulate us like Ludo.

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Politics / What The North (buhari And His Gang) Is Doing To Bola Tinubu Is Not Fair. by sirjamesjnr(m): 12:28pm On Jan 26, 2023
I support Peter Obi because I believe it to be just and reasonable, but this does not cause me to act foolishly or lose my sense of reason. We the Southern Nigerian now only a pale shell of what we once were, and the northern political elite laughs at us. Knowing that we have limited political understanding, they may simply deceive us and treat us like second-class citizens. The situation is becoming worse by the hour, and all we do is play dirty politics, be jealous of one another, divide and conquer, and act like a directionless set of individuals.



Everyone is aware of how much money is spent on the presidential election. To get into it, you need to be affluent or have a lot of support. If someone believes that Tinubu cannot access money because the ink on our currency has been changed, they lack a thinking brain. The current administration is causing confusion and harming the APC badly reputation. You, a Southerner, are aware of the beneficiaries of the Northern political class's absurd game.

Politics, as we all know, is centered on interests, whether they be individual or societal. The Northerner class and Tinubu have a gentlemanly arrangement, but as usual, they are plotting to break that trust. If the president were seeking reelection for a second term, could he really allow gasoline issues to continue for this long? If he became the candidate, could he possibly enact measures that would make APC seem so bad? He is undermining all of his party candidate's efforts. Why can't he carry out a straightforward agreement?


Why can't we give a hand of fellowship to each other, aid the winner in governance in order to improve peace, trust, and unity among the Southerner? Winner take all syndrome has persisted to produce bitterness and rancor. Why can't we stop trying to be the underdog and start working together so the Northerner can see us as EQUAL.

Any wrongdoing is wrong. When Obi wins, which I believe he will, I want Tinubu return home in peace if the North permits a fair contest. I want Tinubu to have a fair challenge.

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Politics / Re: Gunmen Behead Chris Ohizu, Imo LG Boss After Collecting ₦‎6M Ransom by sirjamesjnr(m): 2:36pm On Jan 23, 2023
Ojiofor:


So Gov Obiano was involved in killing of Dr Chike Akunyili because he was the governor when they shot him dead at Nkpor near Onitsha.
Are you aware that every governor has a contact in every neighborhood where they frequently reside who may provide security information? Since he was neither a politician nor a political influence, his death must have been the result of identity confusion. Most people are merely collateral damage in these men's eyes. He has no business serving as governor of Imo State if he denies being involved in the massacre there. By the way, I'm not sure when Ndibo started beheading people.

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