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@ Switch47,

U are not funny at all. I advised u use better part of ur life for something reasonable instead of ranting nonsense on a social network

What has Chelsea done to u? Did Chelsea borrow money from u? Rubbish repeating one statement several times.

190:
[color=deeppink]yea it does i witnessed it last year[/color]

Yes it does. I can say it that 95% of relationship crumble after that one year scheme. If u don't believe this, go and make ur research. Even those relationship that did not scatter were not spared of "batching"

myk2mic:
nonsense, now he is pointing fingers at obasanjo, but wen the going was good between both of them , he kept mute, foolish man going around playing regional politics.
this gist shouldnt even have appeared here in the first place.

A beg don't mind the nuisance. When the going was good, nobody heard anything like this.

I don't even know where to start.

But sure, the man try no be small for not taking law into his hands as I wuld av done. Secondly, the husby needs medical attention to ascertain his mental fitness for wanting to withdraw the case and take his wife back into his house   lwkmd

freeflow:
If it was your father he saved will you ask whether it is government money or personal money ?

this guy dey vess no be small, a beg take it easy ooooooooo.

sir t:
OP,

Initiate the gist and see whether he will flow along with you. If not, call him to other and see whether he will change. Otherwise, take solace somewhere or adjust urself to suit his condition.

@ bolded,

the correct word is order

OP,

Initiate the gist and see whether he will flow along with you. If not, call him to other and see whether he will change. Otherwise, take solace somewhere or adjust urself to suit his condition.

this one no concern me. The question na for ladies, so I should take my leave and see what ladies gat to say.

jamace:
Abeg, let me laugh anonymously jare! Ha ha ha

Me sef dey follow u laff Ha ha ha ah ah

Good of you Fash

But then, does it means the whole AGN and Nollywood can not raise the money among themselves so that Fash can use the money for ordinary citizen who could not afford the cheapest medical treatment available.

Just mt thought anyway. God help you Fashola.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]No but, imagine uv'e know this person on the forum for a very long while & u guys are really cool, u think that they are like how they ave painted 2 yu all this while, till u find out!it's repulsive & i believe dat's a form of betrayal & fraud![/color]

guess Pweety4me had sour experience of e-flirting.

I doubt this story, where will he get the money from?

But then, why is developed countries aiding and abating  corruption in Africa? I believe if they don't accept the money from African leaders, they will be discouraged and probably stole little they can save within their countries. Mubarak should be forced to resign and tried immediately.

God bless the initiator of this thread. God is awesome. He had worked miracle in my life despite my sinful nature. He never left me alone. When I thought it was finished, God said He has not done yet with me. What more can I say? If not for him, I would have been forgotten long time ago. He delivered from fatal motor accident. He rescued me from notorious kidnapper. I can mention from now till tomorrow what he has done for me. Growing up was not easy. Battles here and there, both physical and spiritual. But He stood with me and my family even when I did not know Him. No wonder the scripture says " even we were yet sinners, He died for us".  He kept his words that wen we pass through fire, he will not leave us alone. Glory be to His name.

I beseech  every one to pray for me. The battle is too much for me. I can not do it alone. Pray for me. I want to know him more and more this year and for the rest of my life. I need your prayer day and nite.

Horayce:
I stopped believing in the existence of god pretty recently and my life has become better for it. I feel much more in control of the trajectory and shape of my destiny rather than hinging my hopes on an unknown external deity who expects I should grovel at him all day long to get my needs answered.

But then again, I don't foist my non-belief on others (christains need to take a cue from this). People have the right to lead their lives and minds as they so desire. Scripture never made logical sense to me, and the day I had the boldness to question long established beliefs marked the beginning of a fulfilling intellectual journey I'll never regret till the day I expire.

@Horayce,

I pity you. I wish you could see beyond your nose. The bible says " a foolish man says in His heart there is no GOD" I pray you will come to your senses before it is too late.

ragdollz:
Lol thanks. I remember Bella Adenuga's wedding; it was rumored Beyonce was billed to perform. The outcry on this site was incredible! Now they want "opulence" .

U dey mind them? Awon elenu mefa,

If Harry Akande spent lavishly on his son's wedding, they will still complain and preach that such huge amount should be spent on destitutes. Now, the man decided to go solo, they still complain. Human beings------ Na real wa for you.


To the Couple, I wish them conjugal bliss forever.

Mrs, Eve:
You men wouldn't last a day without us WOMEN!

Can't deny that babe. Everything revolves around them. Its is women World for real.

SAlUV:
I'm tempted to tell my boyfriend that his manliness is too big. Sometimes I get severe pains in my abdomen after having sex with him. I don't wanna tell him because I'm afraid it'll hurt his feelings but sometimes I feel like damn how much can a sister take. The strangest thing though is that I initiate sex 60% of the time and after the pain is gone I want him even more. It’s so weird hey.

@ bolded

That is the beauty of " long thing " The more it pains, the more u desire-------lol

No doubt, Pat is an intellect of high repute. However, he can not absolve himself of the rot in the Bank PHB. While he was the deputy MD at VWN, he should av resigned honourably if truly his opinions were not valued. But guess what, Africans are not good in that area. They preferred to be passive partner/director in as much as their salary and other entitlements are not tampered with. The same scenario goes for Bank PHB saga. I can say it categorically that he should be queried. If as a chairman or deputy chairman, he can not question any policy that does not tally with his belief/preaching/teaching, then I need not say that he is not what he claimed he is.

On the presidential ambition, like someone had said, why can't he started at grassroot i.e  from his state? Must he be at Aso Rock b4 he can affects lives? Let him start from somewhere and his performance will speak for him.

Lexzycane:
Even Pastor Adeboye know better than to judge any man. The man came for prayers and the man of God had to pray for him. Or would you prefer he had chased him out of the camp? And i didn't see in the post that says P. Adeboye said "vote for GEJ" he only implored everyone to vote. Remember everybody comes to church even the unholiest of persons. JEG coming to the holy ghost congress may be human.

Thank you jare.

I don't know whether they wanted Pastor Adeboye to chase him out. Anything u want to become in life is been determined by God and I don't see any crime in what GEJ did. It is now left for him to act wisely and do what is expected of him as a good leader. Like someone on this thread had mentioned, God can not be mocked. If after winning the election, he decided to turn deaf ears to God's voice, he will definitely be dealt with by God himself.

Talk anything u like till Jesus comes------GEJ is our president come 2011.

Very soon, IBB himself will become Director General, GEJ Campaign Organization., lol

Mkpotu:
@ Sir T, so u have not heard about the automatic return ticket thing for all Senators/House members rocking the National Assembly?

^^^^^ So that justifies Her action? Naija will never cease to amaze me. I wish Her best of luck.

Firstly, I salute her courage. I want to believe she was/is a PDP member. why can't she contest under PDP? Does it mean she can not win with that platform? Or winning an election is a function of political party and not integrity/character?

Honestly, Mutter has said it all. The equality thing is the problem here. When a lady believes she can do it all by herself, when she thinks she can handle and get anything she wants on her own, the problem sets in. On the phone saga, lets assume Ujujoan can not afford the cheapest phone in the market, don't u guys think she will appreciate whatever her Man bought for her? Same goes for the Tyre story.

A man is naturally built with ego and anytime a man gets things done in his own way especially to his wife/female friend, he feels on top of the world. When a woman gives any man impression that she knows better or trying to prove a point, a man's ego is chattered!!!

Now Uju, let me ask some questions. If ur man leaves to ur decision always, how will u feel? If he is the type that will tell u to go ahead and gets anything done by yourself cos his mother used to do the same thing, would u still feel secured? If he is the type that will give u money for anything u want and ask u to sort urself out, wont u feel he is not caring enough? U better appreciate what u av and take the position of African woman u are.


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I'm not saying man should be overbearing ooooooooo, but him be the African Man he is.[/b][/b][/size]

May her soul rest in peace

@ Poster,

hmmmmmmm----taking a deep breath, life sometimes is not fair!!!

I will try to be brief here. I'm a man and I know what it is wen u are not in control of ur relationship. Not because u are not capable physically but financially. It will turn u to "mad" person and u begin to think otherwise and suspect every step ur partner take. I will say categorically here, that the man ie ur fiance had helped u to achieve ur aim. He must av sacrificed a lot for u wen the going was good. I remembered u said u av started the preparation for ur wedding wen he suddenly lost his job. If u had married then b4 the incidence, what wuld u have done?

Secondly, u made the matter worse by refusing to introduce him to ur so called " father's friend " If truly, there was/is nothing btw u, u should be eager to let the man know him so that he can help him too. For this action alone, I smell rat!!!!!

However, I will still give u the benefit of doubt. reconcile with ur man, introduce him to this man and go ahead with the marriage. Just little engagement ceremony will do as both of u are legally married b4 whether directly or indirectly and start living together as husband and wife.

@ Ujujoan,

U earned my respect one more time. u spoke the bitter truth. No man should be trusted. The man must be up to something-------man no dey do free help ooooo, especially to young babe. I know some pple wuld want to thrash me, but the truth needed to be told. What really make the matter worse is that the man is a politician. If u know what the politicians do with young ladies, u will not think otherwise. They are so randy with no exception.

Hmmmmmnnnnnnnn, hope IBB will not make a U-turn at the dine minute?

Ex 1.  Pretty, hard working, but a cheat

Ex 2.  Cool, intelligent, but a Religious fanatics

Ex 3.   Liar, se.x addict but very beautiful gal

Wen will the thief himself get his own dole?

Contrary to what pple thot, GEJ might not find it easy, if truly, all the northern candidates supported this arrangement. Don't forget that Abokis no dey leave their own oooooooo. GEJ-SAMBO needs to beef up their strategy or else there might be record of sitting president loosing out in an election. A word is enough for the wise.

@ Poster,

It is obvious that u are not Man enough. No matter what u av done in the past, u are still the head of the family and u should be in control always. I didn't know ur escapade in the past and am not supporting whatsoever ur past dealings with opposite sex are. But, all in all, u are still the Man u are suppose to be and should be in control.

Lets assume the child died that day ( God forbid ) and u came home b4 ur wife, will that law still hold by not telling u of the incident? If it requires some huge cash to rescue ur son and u were fortunate to be at home earlier than ur wife, does it means u will not be asked to drop something so that the doctor can continue their work in order to save the live of ur son or at the extreme case, if ur wife had traveled and will not come back that day. Does it still hold that the maid must not talk to u or inform u of the state of ur son? Honestly, u need to grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To some pple that thought the decision of the wife culd be to save her marriage, does it means that if the man is interested in bedding the maid, will that stupid law/rule stops him from doing that? or will that stops him from looking elsewhere to satisfy his flesh? At times, we need to fave the reality, the wife needs to sit tight and learn how to be what God commanded her to be---------- an help mate.--------- and should be submissive to her husband and not acting otherwise by coming up with ridicule rules all in the name of wanting to save her marriage.

All said and done, the man still need to wake up from his slumber.