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@ Poster,

The relationship doesn't worth the stress. It is obvious , she is not ready for a relationship or may be she is one of those play arround gals. If u av her time, u may play along, bt be rest assure, she is not the type.

@ Poster,

It is not good. It doest portrait u as a person with sound morals. Pls flee (fly) any evil appearances, it is dangerous.

@ Poster,

Human beings are very hard to predict. Not only guys, but gals inclusive. so i will advise, if ur mind is still with him, to give him chance, but this time , try to be more cautious untill the cloud is clear. Just my piece.

I salute the courage of the MEND for the struggle to free themselves from the politics of "national cake sharing" at the expense of the masses. But my reservation is the effects of this attack on the commom man. I think MEND and other freedom fighter groups should come together and have discussion on how to foster a common goal of freedom.If anything to go by, I think the target should be the sit of power and not any area.

@ All,

Watch out for this poster at new fraudster talent hunt show. I can bet it, he is going places.

@Poster,

Congrats!!!!!!!! Wishing u conjugal bliss forever!!!!

Anybody wey no like better thing is free to commit suicide. Bad belle pple

Once again, congrathreelationssssssssssss

@ Poster,

Going by your response, the lady in question is a bitch, pls dump her or else, ready to father a basterd.

@ jjc,

Big welcome to u all. A piece of advice, always be at alert!!!! Why?, enough bashing in the house. Enjoy urself,

@ poster,

Indifferent to this issue. Okunrin rejo, obinrin pa, ki ejo saa tiku

@ Poster,

Play her to the gallery and f**k stupid out of her.

Romeo4real:
The general gist of ur posts, and the replies to it amaze me.
Infidelity has now so become the norm in Naija, that the usual response is to overlook, forgive and move past it. Never mind the lies, deceit and disrespect it take to perpetrate it. A poster even suggested the aggrieved party take the perpetrator to go have an STD test, and move past it! Wow.

Nigga, dont be an idiot, or get taken for a fool; for she must think ur one to even begin to spin that story to you. . Let her go. There are women who wont do this to you, so why be with one that does?

@ Romeo4real, thanks for the candid response

I wonder what civilization and hypocrisy will turn this world to. Is there anything call moral again? Do we fear God at all? Even, I doubt whether we av conscience. I was amazed at the responses on this forum. All what i can see is for the guy to 4give her and bla bla bla instead of scolding her for her stupid act. I began to wonder the kinfd of homes we want to build. Av we 4gotten dat the lady in question might be reading the responses? Now She will feel what she does was right.

she should be dumped and thereby learn her lesson the hard way.

@ poster,

Doesn't affect me in anyway.

Africaine:
the name of the company is healthplus limited, and the pay is good with loads of benefits, really nice

am so grateful,never believe in this online application,thought most of them were 419er's, and look at me.

Congrats.

When and where is the celebration party? Or chop alone u wan take am do?

@ poster,

The key word here is persistence. Dont quit, cos if u do, u may live to regret this for the rest of your life. I will advise you arrange for personal trainig during weekend, do a lot of research on the net, relate with senior colleaques at work and open your heart to new innovations. Ori gige ko ni ogun ori fifo ( i.e cutting ones head is not solution to headache)

Belief in your self that u can do it, and be prayerful.

@ Poster,

----  Why did u ask her out in the first place when you know within yourself that you did not love her?
----   Or were u match -maked together in your church by ur pastor or whosoever?
-----   Do you sleep with her in order to satisfy ur sexual urge?

Bros, the deed has been done and there is nothing u can do about it. My candid advise is that you see your marriage as  "do or die affair" . Close ur eyes and heart to any other options and see your wife as the only option available to you on earth. When you av this mentality, you will be forced to love her.

Pls, dont put this innocent woman in life trauma. It is not fair in any facet.

To you ladies, pls I beg you in the name of Jesus, dont force yourself on any man, the end is always pathetic. Dont use pregnancy to trap any man, he will surely come to his senses and dump you.

And to guys, dont sleep with somebody you can't marry just to quench your sexual urge, inoder not to find yourself in this  position.

To the poster, I wish you best in life.

@ Poster,

When the "verbal NO " is backed by action.

@ Poster,

Can't tolerate anyone. I av minus zero tolerance for such indiscipline act.

[i]Extract from Open Heavens group on Facebook,

Good evening Ladies and Gents,

Im sure by now you have received a text message saying that Pastor E A Adeboye said you should pray from 1am to 3am so that someone close to you wont die or something like that,  

well this is to let you know this text message is NOT FROM PASTOR E A ADEBOYE. but however He did say there is nothing wrong with praying at night,  

if anything do pray for yourself, your family, RCCG as a whole, for Pastor Adeboye himself and his family,

Happy New Month and GOD be with us all,

Shalom.

Leke Adeboye.

PA to Pastor E.A Adeboye
 

[b]tkb417:

Oh Jesus of Nazareth!!

i prayed for my family sha. nothin spoils[/i][/b]

shai, naija pple h'd started again. Anyway, nothing spoil.

Nlanders don come again. Somebody said you should pray for yourself and  your loned ones and you are complaining. Haba, is he asking for money or publicity? If you pray, to whose benefit, Adeboye or yourself? In fact, I'm tired of all this "I too know syndrome" that is killing us in naija.

Pls, leave this man alone and follow ur heart, it is not compulsory.

@tkb417,

How u dey? Abeg leave this pple to their problems. Aja to ba fe sonu, ki gbo fere olode. Bye.

@ ronkeD,

Pls hear the words of advise. Leave the married man alone. He is a bloody lier who will do the same thing to you wen he eventually get you. Men are so funny to the extend of crying in the presece of a lady just to lure her into what she wouldn't have done. Pls, beware of this. You are just 24 as u claimed, that means you are too young for polygamous war, Ile olorogun, ile ogun ni ooooooooo. (polygamous home is a war zone)

As for the second guy, I want to believe that you did not pick any interest in him cos of this married man in your life. But then, why did you enter into relationship with somebody you can't marry or have feeling for? You need to check yourself very well in this area. It is never too late.

In my candid opinion, send the married man packing and give the second man chance. You will be surprised at the rate the love will grow. However, if there is no improvement, then you can free yourself. I wish you best best in life.

I dont want to belief u've committed any crime by expressing ur feelings towards a lady no matter how close u are. Just be urself. Keep d frienship flowing and who knows, the story might change.

If u cant marry her, pls dont touch her. I was once in your shoe.My former g/f came to visit me and rain started. She said I should play with her and b4 u know it, it nearly led to another thing. At the point of getting down, she said I shuld not disvirgin her if I wont marry her. Immediately, I stood up and tell her to go. Though she pleaded thereafter, but i refused. Why? all this ladies can be funny. I wont allow 5mins enjoyment to ruin my future. Bros, take clue from me and let her go.

As said earlier, it is valued and cherished by many. But one thing to note here is that married to a virgin does not guaranttee  happy home. Character ,and not virginity,  plays major role.

@ Poster,

Work on him a little while and if there is no change, take bow and walk away.

Pple just dey talk luv as if say na moimoi wey u fit buy for market. If truly she loves him, why didn't she forgive him in the first place? My brother, run for your dear life., danger is looming!!!!!!!!