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omega25red:
what happened in the scenerio is that she left her ex for 5 years and he went to get some money. 5 years later he showed back up with said money proposed and BAM you got dumped and now she is married and the guy is non the wiser because im sure he doesn't even know you exist.

if i were you i would have went to her wedding and when the preist says is there anyone who has a problem with this union,

@ omega25red,

like I said in one of my earlier post, I said I know her ways, so no money is expected to be lavished on her. Secondly, I was not dumped cos I knew her type and adequate preparation was on ground just that I made it decision not to tell her to go until she is bold enough to say so which she did eventually and lastly, the guy in question will not and can not denied my existence cos am written all over his wifey

Ujujoan:
Actually, depending on the lady, Plan B is not always 'Plan B' in the strict sense of the word. It's more like a 'first to work'. So while she was pressurizing you, I bet she was pressurizing her hubby too.

@ Ujujoan,

May be, at least, as a lady, u might know what u pple can do.------but on the contray, I was with her sometimes ago when the guy came to visit her and she embarrassed him. But at then, who knows, it might be a plan work.

Ujujoan:
Do you seriously think she actually left him all these years? I think you were more like a Plan B!

@ Ujujoan,

Far from it. She had pressurized me severally that we should go to registry which I declined for some reasons-----money issue out of it ooooo.

I deliberately did that cos of her ways

Omolola1:
you are here lamenting, while your ex is probably on her second honeymoon wiv her hubby! sowee ~

@ Omolola,

It will take another 10yrs for the new husband to catch up with me on her------so i didn't give a poo------hope u got my point?

fubiluv:
[b]She tested the two soups a chose the one she prefers .
I like her kind.Meanwhile you were not serious with her.SO!!!
5 yrs? how long you want make she wait for you?She even try.

[/b]

@ fubiluv

Why won't u like her kind? Guess u are of the same kind tooo and for ur information, she was in 100 level wen i met her. So, I should give her time to finish her school b4 introducing her into another institution called marriage.

I don't av problem with her marrying another person. My concern was why will she go back to somebody she left 5 yrs ago? Does it means she can't find another man? Even the guy, why will he welcome her comeback after years of hot sexual relationship with another man? If u were that man, will you take her back?

Omolola1:
you are here lamenting, while your ex is probably on her second honeymoon wiv her hubby! sowee ~

googles:


obviously shez way smarter dan you

shez hooked now you are single

shez happy and content you are here whining to us about it

she did the two of you together at the same time and got away with it

hmmm after all said. . . if this is not smart mehn i dont know wat is.

sowii bro

@ Omolola1 and googles

Well if this is what u referred to as smartness, then I pity ur boyfriend.

I will come back to let the cat out of the bag so that u will know who truly I am.

We had been dating right from School and we had smooth relationship for almost 5years until last year that things went soar. She started avoiding me, which I knew but pretended as if I didn't know. This year May ie May, 2010, she told me she can not continue with the relationship which I took with pleasure and three months after ie August, 2010, she got married to her ex-boyfriend.

1) What do u think happen with the above scenario? Don't u think she had been seeing her ex-boyfriend while we were still dating?

2) If u were Her ex-boyfriend ( now husband), will u still marry her after leaving u for someone ( in this case me) for 5 years?

3) Why do ladies think they are wiser than guys when actually they are not?


Reasonable contributions expected.

@ OP

kissing someone u are not dating is CHEATING

mckaycee:
The whole stuff is like a football game; PECKING is like getting ready for a game, Kissing on d lip is like getting into the football pitch, FRENCH KISS, (ehe wahala), is the kick-off, wut follows after that- passing the ball around, showing some skills, and wait! Wut makes a game very interesting, GOALS 1, 2, 3, , the formation doesn't mean a thing!  hahahahahahahahaha
Pls tell us the result of the match when next u visit home, she might b a C. Ronaldo looking @ Real Madrid or a Fabregas who's mind is divided.
Best of luck dude.

I love the above analogy---------this dude na real player!!!!

ijcurt:

d truth is one can sleep with anybody but cannot just kiss anybody. kissing is deep. i cant kiss someone i dont have feelings for but i can have *** wit someone i dont have feelings for.
bitter truth.

Don't even go there-----if u can sleep with someone u don't av feelings for, that means u be RUNS girl, Aristo or simply put ASEWO.

top_kin:
I guess it's just the state of the mind that matters. I really wouldn't consider it cheating if there are no strings attached! 

Which string are u waiting for again? Will kissing opposite s3x just come like that? My friend, for anyone to kiss opposite s3x------not peck ooooo, there is string attached already.

What about the guy that sang Jailer or prisoner by Asa? Where is His pix?

@ Poster

post it and others too. I guess they are 18 in number. so where are the remaining pixs?

@ Poster,

Can u pls provide source/link of the story?

I doubt this News. From the link provided by the poster, the reporter said "baring any last minute hitches, Siasia will be named Super Eagles Coach"

However, if it is true, I wish him well.

Congratulations to the winners of various awards.

Nigeria should now see reasons why proper preparation is paramount to success. Brazil 2010 FIFA World Cup is around the corner. To avoid this kind of heart break, Nigeria should start the preparations now.

May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

changing names, to me, is not my headache. However, my concern is the exploitative nature of Indians, Lebanese, etc.

Hope NCC will do their role this time?

@ All

If truthfully she uttered that statement, she must be stupid, thats why many actors/actress are failure maritally.

sir t:
@ Poster,

If my memory won't deceive/fail me, you mentioned about how u allowed a nice guy slip off your hands. Was this during the course of your present relationship? Does it means u were double dating or u were about to do just that? Do u think your present boyfriend did not know this?

Let me just tell u the truth. your boyfriend knew everything u thought he didn't know and now that he can stand on his own financially, it is necessary that he pays you back. Like pple do say, that niggar called KARMA is a naughty woman.

Why is computer/moderator changing my words? I didn't say " Karma is a naughty woman" I said the niggar called KARMA is a bit*ch.

Computer take time oooooooooo

@ Poster,

If my memory won't deceive/fail me, you mentioned about how u allowed a nice guy slip off ur hands. Was this during the course of ur present relationship? Does it means u were double dating or u were about to do just that? Do u think ur present boyfriend did not know this?

Let me just tell u the truth. Ur boyfriend knew everything u thought he didn't know and now that he can stand on his own financially, it is necessary that he pays you back. Like pple do say, that niggar called KARMA is a bitch.

slyfoxxjoe:
at kenny G its obvious u dont know the power of money and the effects it has on most[b] (black) men[/b]. the bible knew what it was saying when it pointed out[b] money is the root of evil[/b]. its the only thing that can make a man go mad over night. it turns brothers against each other, friends into enemies, child against its own parents, it divied families, u think it doesnt have the power to turn a guy against a common girlfriend i assure u if u unexpectedly won £5,000,000 by tomorow morning u wouldnt even recognize urself u would be doing and saying things u never even  knew u where capable of.  as some one already said ,"the true character of a man is known when he is rich" but that applies mostly to the weak and shallow minded guys who thing money is the begining and end of the world(and beliv me 80% of nigerian guys fall into this category). another thing i know is love is ALWAYS stronger than money. a man who really loves his woman wont ditch or mistreat her when hes rich,instead he will be looking for ways to spoil her and make her feel special. im sorry to tell u babes but this guy never really loved u! he was only sticking with u back then probably becuz u where the only woman willing to date him in his broke situation and losing u to a richer guy would have been the last straw that would have completely shattered his self estime. the sad thing about relationships is most times, one way or another one person ends up used and ditched. just free the guy babe and trust me, hes karma will catch up with him sooner or later.

@ slyfoxxjoe

Money is not root of evil, but the love of money. So don't misquote bible.

what has colour got to do with character?, this speaks a lot about you.

Ujujoan:
Then you know little about how the human minds work!

That's why I never date broke guys, cos they r never really their true self untill they have a few extra cash in their pocket!  

A man might try to stick to a woman when he feels he needs the financial assistance butwhat happens when he doesnt anymore

@ Poster!

You are lucky you didnt marry him and end up finding out this part of him. Just leave him and face your life, he's not worth the stress!

@ Ujujoan

Am I correct to call ladies like you gold diggers? I can bet it, that is more reasons why ladies like you got laid and be sent away. Learn how to protect ur dignity. Your body aren't for sale.

@ All

Human beings are prone to changes, even ladies too are not exempted

pix:
I sincerely sympathize with the chairman,he was a good man who did well in his days as chairman earning international accolades. If only many knew what went down in this case, i rest my case.

Pls, tell us now or keep ur mouth shut forever

kobikwelu:
thank you my dear,

dunt mind them, they clamour for justice, when they get one, they subject it to ridicule,

so its only when they get IBB y'all rest,


as for me, any conviction shuld be celebrated, whether its one day,



freaking pessimists

U be witch?------u took it out of my mouth--------rapid promotion recommended

davidif:
unbelievable! justice in nigeria??

So, u think say na like this we go dey go?-------more shockers coming.

OYINBOGOJU:
Bello Lafiaji

Former Chairman of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency, NDLEA, Bello Lafiaji, and his personal assistant, Usman Amali, were this morning sentenced to 16 years imprisonment by a Lagos, Nigeria, High Court for corrupt enrichment while in office.
Lafiaji will spend the next four years behind bars while Amali will spend three years as the sentences are to run [b][b][b][b][b]concurrently[/b][/b][/b][/b][/b].
The two convicts were arraigned in 2008 on a seven-count charge of conspiracy, using their positions to corruptly enrich themselves and receiving money before performing their lawful duties were convicted on six out of the seven counts.

They were sentenced as follows: fours years on count one, two years each on counts three, four, six and seven.
The prosecutor, Bolaji Ayorinde, (SAN), called 12 witnesses including assistant director of investigation, Samuel Gazama and Director of Prosecution and Legal Services, Femi Oloruntoba.

The defence counsel led by Prof. Taiwo Osipitan, (SAN), called five witnesses.

In his judgement, presiding Justice Olusola Williams said that relying on the evidence of Gazama, it was established that money was recovered from the house of a drug suspect, Ikenna Onochie, and was taken to NDLEA office in Lagos and the money got missing. And it was Gazama who narrated how the money got missing. His evidence was not controverted.

Pls, what is exactly is the meaning of this word in legal term? Seems I don't understand. Somebody to explain and relate it to present issue of former NDLEA boss that was sentenced to 16yrs in jail but will actually spend 4yrs. Clear explanation needed pls.

Lets give this man benefit of doubt and support him with prayer. For GJ, i think the man meant well for this nation. Lets all watch with keen interest and wish him best.

@ Poster

I will say it depends on the relationship that exists btw two of u. If u were just friends, and the lady in question doesn't have any hidden agenda, then, u may not be branded " impotent, ju-man or mugu". But if the lady is interested in the real show, ahhhhhhh na wahala be that ooooooo cos you will get another name that day.

But then, do u think any lady will want to sleep on the same bed with u without having something at the back of her mind? I doubt it.

Good for our country and Mr Segun Aganga, and can I say I'm proud to be a Nigerian? Until Mr Segun do us proud and use his new appointment to effect positive change in our economy.

On borrowing, there is nothing wrong ONLY if the money will be judiciously spent. We av borrowed in the past and nothing came out of it except the huge debt we found ourselves. I wouldn't criticize anybody now, but I pray it won't be business as usual.

I don't know why pple culd not reason with their brains. Why are u haters ranting nonsense cos an industrious person decided to spend his money the way he likes, even on his daughter's wedding? Let me put it straight, he has every right under the heaven to spend his money the way he likes.

If u argue on the sources of his money, whether he has connection with Babangida or not, that should not be a problem. He got the money and invested it in the country for pple like u haters to benefit from. What if he decided to take the money abroad like Harry Akande and co? For crying out loud, he has more than 15,000 Nigerians on his pay role in which u are a beneficiary directly or indirectly.

Honestly, this man has done his bit to alleviate poverty from our land. What has our govt who are saddled with such responsibility done? Who are to be blamed---- politicians that failed us or business man that spent his money the way he deemed fit?

Like gbengaijot had rightly said, it is law of relativity. As your neighbour who can not afford 3 square meal will complain about ur frivolity spending on phones, cars and so on, so also u are complaining here about his spending just cos both of u ( thats is ur neighbour and u ) could not afford it.

If u argued that the Man should av used the money to help masses, I think the Man has done much in his own little way. How many pple have u helped since u started ur job? How many kids have u bought books for cos their parent could not afford it? You want to argue that u are still struggling? But many of u could afford N50,000 phone and even buy for ur girl friend when ur neighbour,s children were sent out of school cos of N5,000. What did u do to help him? Think twice!!!!!

Honestly, I wept for this Country especially the YOUTHS. I never knew IBB culd declared openely that he wanted to run for presidency after all he did to us as a nation. May God saves us.

Wishing him speedy recovery.

kobikwelu:
its amazing that people think by removing the inec chairman would solve the nigerian election albatross??


i have said it before and would still say it again!!!!!! the problem is not the chair, IT IS THE POLITICIANS!!!!!!!!

IF YOU LIKE, PUT THE POPE (no pun intended to the  catholics )it would not solve nigerian election problem,

how do u solve election violence with the inec chair how would u stop ballot box snatchings, stuffing, multiplication of votes


do people actually know that there are full fledged commisioners  on the inec board and he is just a chairman


do people know that there are state electoral commisions

do people still know that of all the electoral reforms being canvassed, that the president woould still reserve the right to appoint who he wants.


if he puts soyinka there, soyinka must still answer to his boss.


am tired of all these escapist solutions, instead of solving the root of the problem, you are cutting off the shoot  


***********HISSES AND MOVES ON TO NEXT POST************

True talk u worded there. However, I think New INEC Chairman should have power to choose whoever he wanted to work with? If this is true, then he can choose credible pple to work with and thereby eliminate/curb election rigging to some extent. Just the way I see it.

mikeansy:
You can make of Dora's actions what you like. She has been nominated and [b][b][b][b][b][b][size=8pt][size=8pt]cleared[/size][/size][/b][/b][/b][/b][/b][/b] as minister. Thats the major story of the day.

Has she been cleared/confirmed?

~Bluetooth:
was she nominated or RECYCLED.you are happy now

What exactly is ur point? Is it a crime for someone who had served in one government to be recalled to serve in another one if deemed fit?