₦airaland Forum

oisehumen:
I watched with consternation, resentment and pity as our darling, skillful and articulate ladies (under 17) crashed out of the on going FIFA under 17 female world in Trinidad and Tobago last night. More annoying and disturbing was the fact  that we lost to a less skillful bunch of Korean ladies but with better technical input from the sidelines.

How on earth could our dumb coach replace Francisca Ordega (shirted 9) with Yetunde Aluko (shirted 19) who could not even dribble pass an opponent  throughout her play? That a striker has missed several begging chances is never enough to substitute him/her. Ordega was a torn in the flesh of the Koreans and it was only when she was removed that the Koreans had the big relief to start coming out of their defense. You don't need to hold the best coaching certificates to make some meaning changes in a game.

It was the same scenario when our under 17 boys could not win in Kaduna against Congo DR last weekend. We crashed out largely due to the incompetence of our technical bench. The boys were very good and skillful individually but lacked good technical input.

I can put my money down that Austine Eguavon at best will qualify us for the Nations Cup ( i doubt anyway) and CERTAINLY disgrace us when the tournament begins.

Now, the big question is; when will our local coaches ever get it right?
I think we should start using foreign coaches in all our categories, both male and female.

@ Bolded,

I was disappointed yesterday with the substitution. Immediately the lady was substituted, the game changed. That alone gave the Koreans gut to attack us cos there was nobody to trouble their defence. But all in all, our ladies tried and if we can do this at all level of our football, we can have hope of winning senior world cup one day.

Ujujoan:
^^^ So if they are far apart that justifies him getting another woman pregnant?? Jeeez!

@ Poster

You friend's bf is very irresponsible and the earlier she realizes it the better. He's having sex with oda women without protection, what about stds?

It's like once a guy mentions the word 'marriage' girls become dumb!

Guess Ujujoan is ok with the man sleeping with another lady while having a serious relationship, but frown at the stupidity of him not protecting himself and indirectly the lady?

How lucky ur man is? He is free to bleep any lady if and only if he will use raincoat. How I wish I have somebody like u as girlfriend?


Back to topic,

The lady should run. The man is not serious at all.

Specialist900:
even when they know they will lose they will still come out.

I tire oooooo.

However, I think did is just a strategy. It is either he will back out at the last minute and support his God Father, IBB or He is looking for favour from anyone that emerges as the president. Don't forget, he will be in the record that he had contested for Nigeria Presidency and that alone might put him in another level higher than other outgoing governor that never showed interest and b4 we know it, he will be nominated as minister.

Shameless G.O.A.T

Glory be to God, we still have upright pple in our society. However, I was particularly sad with the SUEBEB chairman comment. Why should a PROF and A DOCTOR said such thing? Infact, if it is possible, that prof should be derobed. He is a disgrace to the academicians.

If I be woman, I go prefer to dey single than to marry either of them. Even as a man, I won't like to be any,

This Albino guy no even get class. Na charge and fuch girl he dey follow. What about the classic Aristos? A bi Aristo no dey England? Yeye boy. If na Chelsea player now, the thread would av moved to 100 pages withing 5 hrs. All the Man U fans are hypocrites-------Shame on u all.

Chelsea for life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Heheheheheheheh----somebody screwing my daughter in my house? Honestly, the boy will hate pussy for his entire life. As for the girl (no be my daughter ooooo, God forbid bad thing), I go disgrace her b4 other kids at home and withdraw some privileges she enjoys at home.

@ Poster,

Pls inform ur friend. This lady is a killer and should be avoided. I do tell pple that no one should indulge in any past he/she can not defend. The lady in question was an adult wen she committed this act. She can not tell me that she did not know the right from the wrong? So, if after knowing this, she still went ahead to "exploit" the world, then she should be ready to face the consequence. Some pple might av wrong interpretation of my point, but I will give an example to justify my point.

I was discussing with a lady sometimes ago and she told me she had slept with more than 50 men in her life. This lady is just 24yrs old ooooooo. When I showed some kind of disappointment, she branded me Old skool. She said that was the best way to feel among and I kept quite. About two months wen she joined my company, she started having affairs with other colleague in the office and guess what, all form of rubbish any one can think of was engaged in, ranging from fingering to Mouth Action and intercourse both in the office and the guy's car. Even while driving, the act continues. After about two months, she had misunderstanding with the guy and another guy came on board and so on .

Lately, she claimed her Mum sick and she took two weeks break from office. When she resumed, she came back with wedding ring!!!!!. One day, wen we were discussing, she told me she had not married. She said the supposed be husband lived abroad and the guy came home to give her engagement ring in order to drive guys away from her. From what we discussed that day, I was very sure she will still continue with her usual way of life.

Now, if some months to the real wedding, I discovered that the abroad guy was my childhood friend, wont I tell him what his fiancee's past was?

The moral aspect of the story is that, Ladies especially should be conscious of their way of life. What goes around will surely comes around.

Quote from tkb417,

u no sabi mi na

Who tell u say I no sabi u? U made me laugh in faranse

Our problem is the govt. Truly, Nigeria is a failed state. From the post so far, it is evidence that soboma, pere and co are street urchins who metamorphosed into gangsta cos of the selfish interest of one single soul-------perter odili.

If govt had done their part early enough, wont soboma and co further their education and grew up to become an asset to their Nation and generation? You can see the result of useless and clueless politicians who forced themselves on us everyday.

When I read thru the post and saw the link btw Odili and Amaechi, I was surprised. I was at the last convention at the camp wen Ameachi was given chance to talk to the entire assembly. How can anyone imagine this man has his root to the power  in devilish act? I wept for this country.

Mobinga:
Even a retard will know who killed him.
Track him ke? How? So the government would leave election preparations and track down a Nairaland poster speaking the obvious fact.
#The obvious facts are the ones less found

Whether directly or indirectly, govt was involved.

rasputinn:
@ tkb
You dey accuse beaf and eros say them dey sail,but from the way you dey sound,I sure say you dey follow water
Ahhhh,tk,you fall my hand,when I bin tink say you be alter boy

Me sef they wonder ooooooooo.

@tkb, which one u dey. One thing I dey sure of be say, even if u[b] belong[/b] for school, na passive member u go be-----lol

jay bee:
hmmmmmmm so God punishes people with mysery ailment? Na wa oh. Cud it be that her ailment wasn't properly diagnosed?

@ jay bee,

Yes oooooooooooo. If u doubt it, go and read the book on Exodus.

Aproko:
so what about the gospel of love? where does that leave us?
some people have gone on to become 2nd, 3rd, 4th wives, surely they started by dating a married man ,

i still wonder why "God" chose to deal with only Fadeke, meanwhile the husband was equally as guilty. where is his own slow and painful death?

that is the reason why the men will not stop looking for single girls to prey on, there is no punishment for them!

@ Aproko,

Yes, gospel of love still hold. But the action of Fadeke caused all this calamity that befell her. God said he didn't want a sinner to perish, but to come to repentance. And God went further to say that for one sinner that repented, there is fullness of joy in heaven.

In this case, Fadeke refused to repent of her deals with Jude. Common sense should av told Fadeke to leave Jude from the day/moment Nneka called her to order.

If u read thru the covenant of Marriage institution, u will see that marriage was meant for two pple that are ready to become one. there is no room for any intruder. Who knows the relationship of Nneka with God? God will not deal with Jude in that manner cos any punishment meted out to him will surely affect the wife who is Apple of God's eyes in this matter.

To cap it up, When miriam and Aron sinned against Moses, God decided to punish Miriam and leave Aron. This justifies that God will av mercy upon whom HE wishes. In this case, Fadeke was not that fortunate and that made her paid with her soul.

Didn't know what to say. To me and from personal experience, NYSC was/is a shit and hd made a decision not to settle down or engage in any serious relationship with any lady that has not done with the scheme. During my time, the so called " holy sister" that do criticize me and my friend got screwed by one of my friends and the funny thing was that she was the " NCCF MAMA' in my local govt. My friend later dumped her for another lady (her friend). What a pathetic story.

funkybaby:
after dem don do introduction?  thats leaving it too late oh.

anyways, to each their own.

if na me:before we get to that phase of our loff, i will check the length, width, breadth, weight of the prick to be very sure it meets my specs.   

hehehehehehhe---------e be like say u go like dick well well ooo

honeric01:
[b]And what happens she ends up testing left, right, up, down [/b]and the guy fails to show his real color?

What if the guy decides to save the best for later?

wetin go remain wen married?

funkybaby:
awwwww. correct girl! you have test run the package very well

do you have to tell your parents you are going to your bobo's place

you do not need us to tell you what lines you can come up with

so, dick don turn to machine wey u dey test run--------Nl babes no go kill me for here oooooo---------ROFLMFAO


For the OP,

U better take things easy, afterall u don dey chop this thing tete. Even, if ur pastor no know cos u no get belle, what about GOD? He dey see u wella.

@ Poster,

If u are reading this, pls take it as it is-------u are nothing but a LovePeddler. How culd u be a friend with somebody u just met and on first visit allowed him to lay u? It still beat my imagination. Some pple might call ur action 2010 syndrome, but I beg to differ. There is no excuse for cheating. If u are tired of one relationship, simple opt out and go for another one. If ur priority is marriage and ur b/f is not ready, then quit and protect ur dignity.

It is a bitter truth, but I need to let u know. No man wuld appreciate loose girls. For a man to av slept with u on a first visit had said a lot about u and I can bet u, this ur new b/f will soon leave u.

As for VIVA or what is he/she/it called, I won't blame u. There are many of ur types outside there. What u want is to acquire more acquaintances, and for your information, hopping from one bed to another is not adventure.--------it is called ASEWO------prostitution. Some might be doing it for money, while u do ur own for free------ it doesn't change anything.

It is never too late only if u are ready to make a positive U-turn.

@mobo444,

See the way u dey mess urself for Nairaland. Even if u want to tell lies, can't u come up with something reasonable? With this one now, it is obvious that if u be movie writer, ur movie no go sell anything.

@ OP,

If truly u are wealthy, I believe u won't come here and flaunt it. So, get real.

It is even funny that some ladies are taking this guy serious------or are u gals catching ur fun or what?

liksy:
Obviously she is wiser than you and her husband, and u cant do anythin about it. Stop lamenting , she is happily married. She has used u for 5years and she has dumped u for her Ex. She must have seen your good for boyfriend r/ship not for marriage cos  marriage is for matured minds.

googles:
hey wassup been a while that said,lets move on to more pressing issues 

she is way smarter than the both of them but the poster is the sore loser

of course her husband must have known she was up to something all those five years which am sure he did not waste himself

but at the end of the day they both dumped their sidekicks to get married.

the poster on the other hand was feeling somewhat smart not wanting to marry her, while her ex was ready she left him to get married

i see no reason why she should be crucified. Am sure hez just being pathetic for a girl to leave her present boyfriend and go back to her ex

that means the present boyfwend is not good enuf compared to the ex

she must have weighed her options before going for the better out of the two !!!

My point is she is smart no doubt abt it and this poster is a sore loser who should face reality and stop whining over being dumped !!

@ liksy and googles

I will advise u go through my post and see where I said I caught her with her zig-zag behavior. The relationship was just 5 months then. I decided I won't marry her from that day and I didn't send her away.

Now, do u think I was used or the other way round? I was not dumped cos i never expected anything meaningful from her anymore. All I do was just playing along and pretended I didn't see anything for good 41/2 yrs!!!!. For your information, the last text she sent me (May, 2010 to be precise) was loaded with curse that I wasted her time for 5yrs when I knew I won't marry her. Must I speak with all my mouth b4 u can understand simple information?

I will advise u learn from this scenario b4 it is too late.

kpolli:
googles, i wont say she was smarter than the poster but definitely smarter than the husband

@ kpolli,

God bless you. I won't blame many ladies for their comment. Like I said, they are birds of the feathers . They believe immorality is synonymous to smartness.

whiteroses:
she's been engaged to her now husband while banging another man? real nice of her, if her attitude stinks like that i give her marriage 5 years approx she'll be a single bird again, you can apply then, if you like kids of course

@whiteroses,

I pray she will change her ways. Divorce is a sin b4 God. Apart from that, the emotional and psychological trauma the children will pass thru is enormous. I won't wish her evil------but rather wishing her good.

whiteroses:
she's been engaged to her now husband while banging another man? real nice of her, if her attitude stinks like that i give her marriage 5 years approx she'll be a single bird again, you can apply then, if you like kids of course

@whiteroses,

I pray she will change her ways. Divorce is a sin b4 God. Apart from that, the emotional and psychological trauma the children will pass thru is enormous. I won't wish her evil------but rather wishing her good.

Druss:
smart or devious?

@ Druss,

May be Nl ladies will be able to answer that--------

xmasgift:
@ Poster: You sound so bitter and I'm sure you feel miserable too. As you have claimed, you don't give a hoot then y bother posting your topic @ all
Face it,  you are hurt cos you got dumped (I've been there b4) but all this negative energy will get u no where. _{unnecessary EGO!}
If you are as good as u think u r, u'll surely get someone who deserves you. Afterall, it good riddance to bad rubbish shey u said she had "ways".

So sad that u didn't see anything bad in her behaviour. Is dubious character synonymous to smartness? Seems most ladies are very far from been called "VIRTUOUS" --------- it sucks real time!!!!!

Just that I wuldn't like to go into details. I had called to congratulate her and she was ashamed of herself. I didn't post here to seek for sympathy, but rather to let guys learn how to deal with ladies. If I had no knowledge of her ways, I might probably be in shock by now and for your information, I'm searching.

sugar pp:
dear poster i dnt really get the purpose of this thread. Is it to garner sympathy? get encouragement or what? so far your responses seem to be defensive bordering on aggressive when peeps point out the obvious that she is nt necessarily worse off in this situation.

1st of all your story does nt conclude in a sad endn for her but rather a situation in which she gets married (presumably happily) u on the otherhand wasted 5 yrs of your life in a relationship you refused to quit even though you claim you were aware of her "true" agenda and not being entirely surprised by the wedding. So while she accomplishes her goal of finally getting married you open a nairaland post dedicated to her (this is a guy that claims "he is written all over the girl" from the looks of things you are the one that is still obsessed and refuses to move on not her.

Please face reality and stop livin in denial- on this occassion she outsmarted u, probably used u n took u 4 a fool. I normally feel sorry for those that suffer from an underserved heartbreak but when u try to disguise it in a ridiculous way i just hv to give u the brutal and honest truth. MOVE ON BRO!

@ sugar pp,

1) I didn't seek for anybody's sympathy------get that straight into ur head.

2) I never wasted my time, rather I deliberately wasted her time and used her to pass time, U might see me as a wicked person, but I'm definitely not.

Our relationship was barely five months wen i discovered her way of life and I decided to teach her the lesson of her life. She got married to her ex-boyfriend out of frustration------u might be curious to know------- After her youth service, she said we should go for proper introduction and I refused cos I can't marry somebody I can't trust like YOU. Guess she began to suspect my move and out of desperation, she got belle for her ex and refused to terminate it.

I shouldn't av stated all this and many more I didn't say, but u and others that didn't see anything bad in jumping from one bed to another forced words out of my mouth. She has her good side too, just that the bad one out-weight the good one. Now, do ur calculation and see whether u can learn from it. Don't think u can outsmart ur boyfriend. because he didn't complain about ur escapades doesn't mean he didn't know. His silence might be to punish you and teach u lessons u might not forget for the rest of ur life.

Sam Milla:
Sir T is a young man who just graduated from school. He has been dating Linda for the past five years, They were in the same school. He never tried to know where Linda came from graduates from school. He never called her parents. Linda in the other hand has another boyfriend who is a trader in one of the Nigerian super cities. His name is Emeka. Emeka promised to marry Linda as soon as she graduates from School. He kept his promise and married Linda.
Sir T, the lover boy juts found out that Linda is married to Emeka. He concluded within himself that Linda must thought she is smart by doing that. He believes Linda should have waited for him instead of marrying Emeka who saw her through school expenses.
Likely Scenario stumbled on Sir T's message on the internet and decided to help him understand what happened.
Here is our Likely scenario for the smart Sir T.

Read his post :
Here goes our Likely Scenario

[LINDA AND EMEKA THE TRADER.]
https://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/20060403/flair/Images/black%20lovers.JPG


LINDA : Emmy, i am going to miss you so much now that i am going to school.
EMEKA : I know , Just take care of yourself in the school. I heard there are a lot of bad boys there. Just do what they say and you will be fine. We will get married as soon as you graduate. I promise.
LINDA. oK darling. I cant wait to graduate so we can be together forever.

[The following day, Linda goes to the university where she met Sir T, The cult leader.]
https://blackchristiannews.com/news/images/black-couple-arguing.jpg

Sir T : Linda listen, You must be my girl friend , I am the only one who can protect you here. I am the leader of the AYE boyz in this campus. Its either you agree or you die.
Linda : [After considering the part of advice where Emeka told her to do what they said, agrees to day SIT T] Ok Sir T. I will be your girlfriend.

[They dated for 5 year, Sir T never cared to know anything about Linda, He dont even know where Linda goes during the breaks and Holidays]
[After the final year exams, Linda ran back to Emeka the Trader, and marry him. Sir T just discovered through a friend, and ran to the internet to tell us how silly Linda is.]
https://www.crestock.com/images/1020000-1029999/1028744-xs.jpg

Sir T : Hey guys and girls, My girlfriend thought she is smart. She married another man. blablabla

Sam Milla : You are such a silly person. Who is smart between you both ? Who got what he/she wanted ?

Source : The laughter Joint - http://sammilla.com/2010/08/11/my-girldfriend-thought-she-was-very-smart/

@ Sam Amila,

For your information, I'm a full grown man.

Apart from this, all i can do is laughing it off

Sam Milla:
Sir T is a young man who just graduated from school. He has been dating Linda for the past five years, They were in the same school. He never tried to know where Linda came from graduates from school. He never called her parents. Linda in the other hand has another boyfriend who is a trader in one of the Nigerian super cities. His name is Emeka. Emeka promised to marry Linda as soon as she graduates from School. He kept his promise and married Linda.
Sir T, the lover boy juts found out that Linda is married to Emeka. He concluded within himself that Linda must thought she is smart by doing that. He believes Linda should have waited for him instead of marrying Emeka who saw her through school expenses.
Likely Scenario stumbled on Sir T's message on the internet and decided to help him understand what happened.
Here is our Likely scenario for the smart Sir T.

Read his post :
Here goes our Likely Scenario

[LINDA AND EMEKA THE TRADER.]
https://www.jamaica-gleaner.com/gleaner/20060403/flair/Images/black%20lovers.JPG


LINDA : Emmy, i am going to miss you so much now that i am going to school.
EMEKA : I know , Just take care of yourself in the school. I heard there are a lot of bad boys there. Just do what they say and you will be fine. We will get married as soon as you graduate. I promise.
LINDA. oK darling. I cant wait to graduate so we can be together forever.

[The following day, Linda goes to the university where she met Sir T, The cult leader.]
https://blackchristiannews.com/news/images/black-couple-arguing.jpg

Sir T : Linda listen, You must be my girl friend , I am the only one who can protect you here. I am the leader of the AYE boyz in this campus. Its either you agree or you die.
Linda : [After considering the part of advice where Emeka told her to do what they said, agrees to day SIT T] Ok Sir T. I will be your girlfriend.

[They dated for 5 year, Sir T never cared to know anything about Linda, He dont even know where Linda goes during the breaks and Holidays]
[After the final year exams, Linda ran back to Emeka the Trader, and marry him. Sir T just discovered through a friend, and ran to the internet to tell us how silly Linda is.]
https://www.crestock.com/images/1020000-1029999/1028744-xs.jpg

Sir T : Hey guys and girls, My girlfriend thought she is smart. She married another man. blablabla

Sam Milla : You are such a silly person. Who is smart between you both ? Who got what he/she wanted ?

Source : The laughter Joint - http://sammilla.com/2010/08/11/my-girldfriend-thought-she-was-very-smart/

@ Sam Amila,

For your information, I'm a full grown man

Apart from this, all i can do is laughing it off

190.:

u have 2 be careful man, watch your utterances, cos i dont trend lightly on people who has no tongue behind their teeth~

@190

U better be careful b4 u will be dumped like poo like 14th century benz 190-------just my advise

afrobaby:
speechless

Why speechless? It wasn't funny at all.

deniyor:
Hehehehe she sure played a fast one on you, and you are probably bitter. Maybe you were so bad a bf that you made her realise what an angel she had b4 you.

Just teasing man. It kinda sucks but I'm sure you are 'smart' enof to move on from it. You were probably just her rebound, and she was never really over the guy. Maybe angry with him but not over him.

With all modesty, no woman can outsmart me on that------I had move on with life long time ago. I just kept her there for nothing  and for your information I was never a bad boyfriend cos she had confirmed this severally with her mouth especially during both home and away matches.

Ujujoan:
I'm not going to go into details about how she must have shuffled between you guys, but trust me, he was never an ex!

and that was why I said I knew her ways------so not a shocker at all