₦airaland Forum

bebe4u:
[b][b][b][b][b]I will not disclose how much i earn, but he will disclose his own to me[/b][/b][/b][/b][/b], afterall they say its a man world so i need to know how much he earns to model his obligatory family commitments, and i can support him with whatever i have.

kalmebad:
Dont give me the impression [b][b][b][b][b]that u are one of those men who thinks women are slave to men[/b][/b][/b][/b][/b].

She can not be subjected to it, get that point, but with willingness and love

And if i may ask?? wats wrong with your hands? paralysed??

Like i siad, i can for love sake but not an obligation. simple fact.

izeek:
those of us who dont have younger sisters will easily say no problem to such advances by a friend, but seriously lest check this out, [b][b][b][b][b]how many of you can stand the fact that you know your lil sister just got back from where she had been bleeped, ormaybe u visit your friend and find out that she is in the rrom and having a mind blowing sex with your friend.[/b][/b][/b][/b][/b]
its something we all know we cant stand it.

its not sometin of joy when your lil sister is being used in that manner.

friends alike act alike, it depends on how u treat your gf, your friend will treat your sister same. we all know the theory.

darqly:
@pappilo- It has nothing to do with the WASC, I know that the experience counts even if it's just to be able to spot a cloned cheque. But pray, how do you teach a man who is used to customers coming to pay him homage to sign their overdraft or loan applications, to agree that the CUSTOMER is king and roles need be reversed??
Do you know a senior manager's LEAVE allowance is almost what an ET earns PA?? The issue should be what value, how much value can they bring in? And since it's FBN, sadly, the answer is next-to-nil.

@papabrowne- I beg to disagree that banks are scared to give out loans now, or that entrepreneurs are scared to access these facilities. There are businesses that need periodic injections of cashflow, mainly from banks, to thrive. Such businesses are legit, are growing/going concerns and are indeed profitable.
All that is needed is due process, proper documentation, the applications must meet the minimum requirements of regulatory bodies and indeed the financial institution involved.
[b][b][b]As a matter of fact, these banks failed not directly as a result of the MDs/CEOs, but as a result of lapses from internal control and level management. These are internal police, where were they when credits with weak credentials were being appproved?

MuNeme:
The best thing to do now is to go on our knees for our beloved and only country, Nigeria is our home

nwamabia:
I believe Dr.Cecilia Ibru is a nice woman to a fault which i believe is her own weakness as no man is perfect.Mama as she is fondly called was the first to increase the 40000 payment to corpers b4 any other bank of which i was a beneficiary.If u are not an insider dont say what u dont know.I believe in some of what agent MS said its only in oceanic bank that u will be working nd have peace of mind even as a corper they dont expect too much 4rm u.all I have to say is that mama is a nice woman nd God will fight 4 her.

Nduvic:
they should free the lady jare, the whole issue is pissing me off

Nezan:
Na today?

dappssee:
Very soon, employers will start using the MRI as a substitute for birth certificates and especially declarations of age.

sherry lo:
[b][b]Invite their parent to come and ascertain their age[/b][/b] as if NFF no know their real age.Nija we really hail thee.

A-town:
There's nothing to be ashamed of. We Nigerians live in a world of denial.
The only difference between Aristo girls and regular Nigerian university girls is that Aristo girls charge directly for sex.
If you remove the immediate payment of money involved, 97% of University girls are prostitutes.

Epiphany:
Lol. All lies.
Half of them will disown their children. All that, 'i will sit her down and talk to her, ' is a pack of rubbish

jaquan:
i would hail her and ask her if i can be her manager. that way i get 30% of the payments.  

mama-g:
Can someone wake that woman with a thundering slap[/b][b][/size][size=8pt].

Remii:
e reach to ask her, maybe very soon all those abroad need to do is send stained panties and boxers home to get their wives pregnant back home. ;D he he he I need laugh partners here, i no fit laugh alone. [/b][b][size=8pt][/size]

debest1:
Oge are you a medical doctor? just curious

mama-g:
Can someone wake that woman with a thundering slap[/b][b][/size][size=8pt][quote .


I've done that already and she should be on her way to the great beyound!!! We dont want stupid pple in our papa's land anymore.

debest1 link=topic=294928.msg4291854#msg4291854 date=1249314483:
Oge are you a medical doctor? just curious

I tire ooooooooo.

Remii:
e reach to ask her, maybe very soon all those abroad need to do is send stained panties and boxers home to get their wives pregnant back home. he he he I need laugh partners here, i no fit laugh alone[/b][b][/size][size=8pt].

lets have collabo here. laughter galore

philip0906:
please tell em.u sound as if u just bursted into the thread and started spitting dust without making some enquiries or research.many of em r litterates.I even read of one on yahoo,who was a proffesor in the uni and then he dropped his job,sold his properties and then joined the group in order 2 fight 4 "ALLAH"(craze at the highest level).There r even "insuinations" that many of the members r litterates and had very good western education.The leader himself is a well educated chap.And mind u,that group had the backing of some prominent individuals in the society.If u doubt,then the internet is there 4 u 2 make ur research 2 clear ur mind rather than come here and spit dust about them been poor,illiterate and all that.Afterall na only them poor and dey illiterate 4 naija?

Divab:
Its never a win win situation, nature made it 4 a man to be the head of a household, Even the Bible says a man that can not provide for his household is worse than an infidel, A man should be able to pay for wedding expenses, A woman can only do so with mutual agreement and understanding, but the man should atleast pay the dowry,

For babes who wants to pay:  Are u prepared to be d bread winner all ur marital life, cos once u start paying now, ure making him lazy and unimportant, Will he appreciate you in the long run? except from exceptionally guys from the moon dat will realise ur worth and still treat you like the Queen and Angel ure to his life,

For the poster,  Do you want power to change hands in your own household? I hope you do not except the sweet honey paying all bills wife of urs to be submissive & respectful to u always, Lets face facts, are u prepared to wash d kids, prepare the meals, wash & clean the house where she's out there chasing money?

Marriage is a contributing effort of all, Love is never free or cheap, Let the 2 parties work on it and provide for all,
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@ Divab

True talk, chop ur nuckle

aduje link=topic=284076.msg4235621#msg4235621 date=1248339800:
A man who is not financially able to contribute at least 60% of his wedding cost is not fit for the marriage at that particular point in time. Sentiment and emotions apart. He is not matured for marriage.

I have seen instances where the guy contributes something, but the inlaws maybe wealthier would double it or more to ensure their daughter had a desired wedding.

FOR A MAN TO MARRY, HE HAS TO PLAY HIS ROLE VERY WELL

@ aduje

Thumb up for u.

@ All

For any man to command respect in his home, he must be financially resposible. Once any man fails in his financial obligations starting from courtship to marriage proper and homefront, he looses his respect nor matter how religious the wife is.

henchmark:
our ladies never seize to amaze me, truth is 70% of the time when a girl says yes she actually means no, translate that to the comments generated on this topic, virtually all of them will sponsor their weddings if they are in a tight corner, cause they always want their mates to believe they ve got the best even if they will die the next minute, dont get me wrong, its the truth, all ya saying you wont , simply wait until u find urself in a tight corner.

bluespice:
isnt the bride's family the one that foots the bills anyway?

Winnergal:
I co-sponsored my wedding . . . My hubby wanted to do the sole sponsoring but i didn't let him . . . I've got my pride you know . . .

Becomrich:
In yoruba culture is the lady family that sponsor the wedding those day. it is not a big deal.