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hotwax:
i dont think she is into hookup. She just wanted to have a fling..one night stand...most ladies do..even the decent and faithful ones...

one guy will just come from nowhere and he will bang them...

I never saw any sign of infidelity in her...

I didnt disvirgin her, but she was well kept...I dont want to reveal everything

That girl is into baba hook up. She be ogbologbo confirm runs girl.
The kain confidence wey she take arrange that parole within a short duration and without fear shows she's a professional.
No decent girl or amateur runs girl will have the gut to operate at that level. Except she and the guy already know each other prior to that day.
Or u think hook up and runs na easy thing for girls, to allow multiple men dey knack them anyhow.
A decent girl with conscience and dignity won't allow such.

See children of perdition talking about the role and importance of holy spirit.
Christianity is never meant for black Africans. We should have continued with our juju worship. It fits perfectly into our belief system.

Simran94:
Cc SIRTee15 1x2x3
What do you have to say about this? Are we blaming the woman in this case too?

There's no case here. Every party involved is an adult.

Simran94:
Oga, you are only judging from one side of the story. The OP is obviously hiding details for him to say he is 200% fed up of the marriage and wants a divorce. Do you think a woman will purposely leave her kids starving and would go and take care of her sick mother? And it is easy to defend the OP because he is a man and every man wants to keep the train of "Women are Evil" going.

I'm not supporting the op. But this is not about Men v women. It's about the helpless kids
At least thank God he stepping up albeit struggling. What if he's an irresponsible deadbeat dad who also decided to abandon the kids.
I'm not interested in the acrimony in the home, children shouldn't suffer bcis of that.
Obviously the woman knows her husband doesn't know to cook, why then punish the kids by leaving them without making provisions for good food. That's my issue.
All this political correctness flying around makes no sense. The woman is guilty of child neglect. Simple.

Or u think social service will support the woman if the children report to their teachers that they've not been eating good food since their mum went away.
They will simply remove the children from that toxic home while both parents will be hauled b4 a judge to explain their irresponsible behaviours.

Simran94:
So a woman visiting her sick mother to take care of her is an Evil woman?
Did you even ask the OP why he's not able to take care of his own kids without the mother being present? What if the woman's enemy was dead, is this how the kids will continue to cry and he won't be capable of taking care of them? The OP doesn't even sound like someone who is close to his children because how can a father not have the ability to pacify his own children?

You men will end up killing yourselves before your time

All u people supporting this woman, is like something is wrong with u.
How can u abandon your kids without making provision for their sustenance? That's evil.
Or u think it's the man suffering from the lack of good food in the house. It's the children...her own children.
Making your children suffer due to acrimony btw spouse is evil.
U all saying he should go n feed the kids. Make himself carry side chick go lodge for hotel, what then will happen to the kids.
I know say naija men get there own for body but I'm beginning to think the women are as bad as the men.

Silvermandt:
Why don't you call her and discuss everything with your ex rather than posting it here? I don't really understand people who demostrate their personal affairs on forums. Talk to her first and then decide what you can do and whether your doubts have any ground.

u want op to call a married woman and tell her that her child belongs to him not her husband. u get liver o.
she go curse and swear for u same time. do u know the implication of what u insinuating? and u think the lady will even entertain such conversation.

owagbeba:
Brother, what you have written here are all propaganda parroted by the west to demean China in the modern day information war.

First of all, China did not take over Ugandan airport. That’s story has been addressed by the Ugandan authorities.

Like I have said before, China provides an immense opportunity for under-developed nations like Nigeria to gain a technology transfer; and a cheap transfer for that matter. Likes of Innoson (IVM) are taking advantage of this transfer to setup auto assemble plant. Europeans and Americans won’t provide this to these poor nations on the cheap.

I have been to China. And I tell you for a fact, our people need all the technology we can get from the Chinese: from power plants, heavy duty machineries to small scale setups for our entrepreneurs.

I have quite a lot of Chinese friends here who are into agriculture. Most of the vegetables supplied to supermarkets in Ikeja, Lagos island are from their farms.

I hope you change your views on China. They mean well with BRI projects. For them BRI provides an escape from the hegemony of the west; and alternative to the western trade routes. In the current war with the west, the Chinese are seeking friends elsewhere in Africa, South America etc. we could align with them strategically but not hurt the egos of the western world.

Visit China when you can. I promise you a change of view

Where are the farms?

1Sharon:
Technically they are not negros based on their features...

But their women have straight hairs.
The problem is we all painting Africa with one brush. Africa is the most phenotypic diverse continent.
If u see niger or Mauritania or chad women, u will be confused.
We are not all black.

oldtruth:
You are not getting it Mr. Man.

A pilot duy is to fly the plane. There shouldn't even be any face to face interaction. His duty lies in he cockpit.

If he got any report, he can radio in for securities or if already on air, should radio the nearest port to land and allow securities take care of things.

Can the stupid pilot control issues if the culprit holds a dangerous ammunition? Be sane for once and stop this show of being green.

I don't think we are on the same page on the subject matter. Your argument is different. U shouldn't have quoted me in the first place.
That close the chapter btw me and you.

oldtruth:
So, the video jutified what the pilot did? No! This is just to tell you that fools can be anything and won't mind losing their job or tarnishing their career.

This video never supported the pilot but goes to show sample of such incident.

So, had it been this is an exam, this video is what you will come up as fact?

Fools can be from any race or from any profession.

If a pilot see something bad he has the right to report such a person and security will take control. Only foolish people act otherwise irrespective of their race.

Thank you

The highlighted settles it. The something bad is at the discretion of the pilot. Yours as a passenger is to comply. Arguing with him on what is bad or good is futile. U will be kicked out anyway. Know this and know peace.

oldtruth:
Did you watch the video you uploaded or just quoted the video to show us that fools also fly planes?

She was told to put a top on and she complied yet wasn't allowed to board the plane. She never admitted to fighting anybody.
It was the airline that claimed she behaved disruptively when told to put a top on. we don't know if its true or not.
The point is you can be kicked out of a plane for reasons not related to security risk.
I brought up those examples to show u 'pilot has no right crew' that u can be booted out of a plane if they don't like u. They will always find something to say.
Just like they did to that Nigerian woman in the 2nd story....go read it up.

Miyachi:
They do not have the final say, don't be blinded by your sentiments. They are guided by the rules of the airline. If you took the time to read up on the instances you cited, you'd find out that the airlines cited rules that the passengers broke.

Even at that, if you feel a rule isn't fair or infringes in your rights, you can go to court.

You are not a judge and you can't adjudicate over a matter and say a person doesn't have the right to seek for a redress.

What I don't understand is how anybody can defend the pilot and say he can deplane a passenger because he doesn't like him. That is not a valid reason.

Again I state my point, a pilot or air hostess or airline carrier cannot kick you off a flight arbitrarily after you've boarded, you have to be breaking a rule.

I had to quote because u erroneously stated 'except for security reasons, a pilot has no right to remove u from a flight'. I had to give u the reality check.
A pilot can kick u out of his plane even for flimsy reasons. Or what has exposing the titties or having body odour got to do with flying the plane.
Any behaviour that has the potential to cause disruption in the plane is a threat to the safety of the flight. Now this statement is very broad and subject to multiple interpretations.
In the case of this thread, a passenger was seen arguing with an air hostess. Now things can escalate quickly and both may start exchanging blows inside a plane in mid air. The pilot can become distracted, endangering the lives of passengers on board. To avoid this scenario, the threat has to be removed.
The above can be applied to all examples I gave u earlier, thus their removal.
Once u start arguing with the air hostess in the plane, u can be removed. know this and know peace.
As for going to court, I wish u good luck.

Miyachi:
There is no act or law to that effect. The pilot doesn't "own" the aircraft, he acts on behalf of the aircraft carrier.

An aircraft carrier doesn't have the right to cannot remove a passenger except for security reasons. This is a fact even by international law(FAA). The passenger can rightfully sue for damages and I would add assault, if I were him.

Please point me to a local law that supports your opinion.

Be deceiving yourself.
Air hostess can kick u out of the plane if she feels your dressing is inappropriate. They have the final say inside the plane.
An American professor was removed off the plane because she was allergic to pets and didn't want to sit near a dog in the plane.
A Nigerian woman and her kids who bought a first class tickets were kicked out of the plane because another passenger complained she had body odour.
Leave all this rights and international law u talking about. Its obvious u not familiar with air travels rules and regulation.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zcqcCeBeXw

https://www.legit.ng/1169114-nigerian-woman-kicked-plane-white-man-complained-body-odour.html

4ckyou:
worst thing is he always visit the dirty places, he refused to visit abuja.

seems like he have a mission and he's fulfilling it

There are nice places in Ibadan he can visit. Why didn't Muhammad take him to bodija, challenge, agodi, oluyole, felele etc. Same thing he did with Lagos, visited slums n tagged it Lagos.
Someone who is an auxiliary nurse, where else does he except her to live. Or healthcare assistant live in posh areas in USA?
What's his motive? I really don't understand. This is one reason Nigerian immigration don't issue visas to all these so called foreign tourist.

majamajic:
No matter how beautiful
Nurses na no no no for me

Until they relocate abroad and u guys wan die on top their matter.

thebosstrevor1:
You know what i meant clearly.

Council flat = public housing.

Answer my question, if a bus driver in the uk can afford a 2022 model toyota Camry car by just putting in 100 pounds,then why are most of these people living in public housing?

It's obvious u know nothing about council house in uk. Every modern development in uk must allocate part of their buildings for council housing. It's the law.
Even posh and expensive estates have council houses. U will be surprised you are paying 1200 pounds per month while your neighbour is paying 400 pounds for same type of building in same neighbourhood because he got it via council house.
And u can even buy a council house if u've lived there long enough. It's a convenient way of buying a house rather than paying someone else mortgage as rent.
U guys should research b4 spewing rubbish.
If naija works for u, good. If u feel uk isn't working for u then leave but don't come here to spread lies.

As per the lady in question. All work na work. Or u prefer her to come to naija and be begging. I'm sure if super falcons offer her a job, she will accept the offer. But how many coaching staff does the national team need? The women league is as good as dead and I'm sure neither players or coaching staff are well enumerated if paid at all.

My only issue I have is that she should have pursued a football career in uk, like being a coach or scout. She can even be an high school football coach. It's almost the same wages as bus driver if not more.
But it's her choice and I'm not the one to judge people. Besides she looks fresher compared to when she was a goalkeeper for Nigeria. I'm surprised no one noticed that.

ngoziwrites:
We don't discuss marriage.

But u want to discuss it with him next time u guys meet and it's only 2 months. That's too soon for a normal dating pattern.

Look here, there's nothing wrong discussing marriage with a guy within 2 weeks of dating if both of u are on the same page of marriage.
That's why I said look for an eligible bachelor who wants to get married soon...them plenty.

That guy is not under pressure to get married, some even said he may be a married man preying on naive spinsters.

U know what u want, don't allow any man waste your time. Are u ready to spend 2 years of your life dating him with an unknown and unclear destination. If not why not cut your loss and move on.
The guy may be the best for u BUT are u the best for him?

As I said earlier, the guy wouldn't mind u being around so long as u service his engine. Nothing apart from this is certain at the moment.

Too many red flags. Besides the guy is not really into u like that. And it's too early to be bugging someone u barely know with marriage.
If u are desperate for marriage, look for someone who's also desperate like yourself.

For now u are a side chick to the guy. Things may change in the future but at the moment he only needs u to satisfy his sexual urge. Simple.
All this talk about him not ready for marriage is just a way of putting u off. Let him meet otedola daughter and see whether story will not change.
I'm a guy, it's a familiar game we've all played.

khilardz:
So I stumbled on a book titled "how Europe underdeveloped Africa" I am not interested in opening that book because it is filled with delusional "feel good" contents, I know this.

I think u need to take a proper lesson on African history. U are very much guilty of what u accusing others- ignorance and being delusional.


U said Africa had no written language until the white man arrived. Really!!!
So what was the written medium of instruction in university of Timbuktu?
For your info ajami script was widespread among west African native language speakers in the pre colonial era. This include hausa n yoruba language. And b4 u say ajami was derived from Arabic, I will advise u to take a lesson in written language itself.

Then u asked the contribution of University of Timbuktu? Songhai biggest export after gold was books from the university. People travel all the way from Baghdad to purchase the university written manuscript.
As per what happened to the university- the north Africans invaded and burnt it down. Then looted majority of the books in the university library.

Africans should read to know who they are and stop being ignorant.
It's becoming a regular occurrence for some self hating blacks to come here and write trash about what they know little or nothing about.

No race is better than the other. It just a matter of environmental factor and opportunity.
There was a time Africans conquered n ruled part of Europe for more than 500 years and this was in recent past. They even introduced libraries to Europe.

The op lacks understanding of the basic problem facing the African continent.
The Lack of nationhood identity among it's inhabitants. The African man does not identify with whatever nation he has found himself. Why should you develop a country that means nothing to u?

The president of Nigeria came on air to say his cousins are in niger republic. And u expect such president to develop Nigeria.
Another governor of a state in nigeria announced the sharia law is more important to him than the Nigerian constitution. And u expect such gov to have regards for Nigerian Christians.
We are just deceiving ourself with self hate discussion. It's evidence of lack of innate intelligence.

It doesn't matter who underdeveloped Africa...whether whites or Africans.

The first step is to restructure Africa to reflect the reality on ground. Nigeria for instance should be decentralised and more governance handed over to the federating units. We are too different to be operating a unitary govt. Ditto for many African countries.
This will put an end to civil wars plaguing the continent. Once peace is established, meaningful policy that will usher in development n prosperity can by pursued.

blueAgent:
Am not good at arguing with people who lack capacity to analyse facts and do rational thinking.
I never distorted anything my arguments is still clear and consistent.
I never said it was the whole year, I even stated it clearly that it increased in favour of Africa in the first 7months of 2021.

You are losing ground that's why you are playing with words trying to fool yourself not me.

How does Africa's trade with China prove anything?

Is not by posting link to Aljazeera, its by rationalise what is on the the site.

It's obvious to any one with brain that most big media are political correct and filled with false stories.

If you are smart as you claim rationalise whatever lies your link gave you.
Show how the money was earned by the African nation and how it was been looted by Western powers.

Guy let's just drop it. At least u are better informed about the economy of Africa.
I deal with evidence based facts and thoroughly researched statistics not some mumbo jumbo statements based on nothing. U want me to ignore aljazeera or any big media report and them believe what? Your opinion?

3 people on this thread told u loot from Africa built Europe. U demanded for prove and I gave it to u. There's nothing more left to argue about.

Chinese companies repatriate 250 billion dollars from Africa every yr. No wonder they are all over the continent. Yet u insist Africa cannot cough out any significant revenue.

U are no different from African leaders, myopic in thinking and lacking foresight. U've all been brainwashed with Africa is poor...bla blah. That's what they want u to believe while they continue to loot the continent.
Africa problem is poverty of the mind not the land. Africa is the richest continent in the workd- fact. Congo alone is worth 23 trillion dollars in resources- fact.

I will ignore your insults...its hallmark of feeble minded people clutching at straws.

Cousin9999:
1. Oyinbos go to great lengths to stop/damage progress of African nations, e.g. grossly unfair trade, looting resources, proxy armies, and stooge leadership.

2. Europe would look like a crack house without the resources oyinbos stole and continue to steal from Africa, and without Black American (forced) labor.

3. Black Americans and looted African resources gave and continue giving America its wealth.

4. Sabotaging the competition isn't a win. It shows that oyinbos are terrified of African power and success. They should be. Africa is the only continent that can be 100% self-sufficient and not have to engage in any trade with outsiders.

The white race may have the capability to initiate development and capacity building, but they lack the resources and physical strength to build and sustain a civilisation. They always have to resort to subjugation of other continents and its resource to foster their own prosperity in their entire history.
The methods employed include annihilation of an entire race (red indians), forceful deportation of the native population (australian aborigines), slavery, colonisation, neo-colonisation and promotion of racial supremacy.

Now, for the first time in their history, they met their match in china and see how the running around like headless chicken.
Western nations had hope to use china as a sweat shop factory but china changed the game and emerge as an unrivalled manufacturing giant.
Now they wailing and moaning that china is eating their lunch, unfortunately there's nothing they can do about it.
China will continue to expand its manufacturing capability at the expense of western nations.

The day Africa emerge as a global power, it will be game over for the white race. With immense resources and a productive population, africa will become unbeatable. They know this and that's why they will never allow a success story out of Africa.

blueAgent:
As usual you dodged to answer my question.



Your estimates are mere wishful thinking .it does not hold water, if you had answered my questions you would have seen the facts for yourself.

https://www.globalcompliancenews.com/2021/09/26/africa-chinas-trade-with-the-continent-grows-to-record-highs-16092021/

Secondly is like comprehension is a big problem to you.
The article says trade between China and Africa worth 139billion dollars that's the value of both African exports to China and its imports to China, and not its imports from China alone as you claim.

The article even emphasised that Africa's exports to china increased by 40% within 7months in 2021, I guess that's a bad thing to you.

Africans loot 200billion dollars and my question is from where do they get the money?

Which African country has enough money to fand for itself talkless to give France?

I don't idolise whites, am a realist I say things irrespective of personal feeling or affiliation, if you think I favour whites than you are confused.

Distortion of facts is one of the hallmarks of propangadist.
The article u quoted stated african-china trade volume in the first 7 months of 2021 was 139 billion but u cleverly skipped that and made it looked like it was for the whole year.
According to China’s Ministry of Commerce, trade between China and Africa increased by 40.5 percent year-on-year in the first seven months of 2021, and was valued at a record high of USD 139.1 billion.

China-africa trade volume in 2019 was 200 billion dollars with africa buying goods worth 113 billion dollars. FACT.

As per how western nations robbed the continent of over 200 billion dollars every year.
Here's another source. Read and don't be lazy. I will rather believe hardworking investigative journalists than lazy online trolls who can't even fully comprehend the article he dropped to back his own argument.

https://www.aljazeera.com/opinions/2017/5/24/africa-is-not-poor-we-are-stealing-its-wealth

blueAgent:
You are a very big idiot, its obvious your IQ is far lower than room temperature 35.

If you had sense you would know that not even the richest nation in Africa makes that amount of money in 3 years how much more enough for the whites to loot.

What is the GDP of the biggest economy in Africa? That's if you know what Gdp is.
What is the annual revenue of most African countries.

All you wrote are just stupid excuse of a failed race.
Let's use nigeria as example, who is minning our gold,copper ,zinc and other solid minerals, whose responsibility is it to hold miners accountable?

African leaders looted 500billion dollars I guess from thin Air.

Economics you do not know,World politics you don't know, Sense you don't have, tell me what you are good for?

Your stupidity is irritating, can someone be this willingly full stupid?

You are the very reason whites see us as inferior, your logic is selling you out.

calm down , no need for unnecessary emotional aggression. Your white masters hate blacks who are too emotional. U wont make a good house nigga, they will likely kick your butt to the field to pick cotton.

Now lets reason like matured debaters, we are all here to learn.

Laiperi told u loots from africa contribute significantly to the development of western nations. u demanded for prove and I gave u- both from the horse mouth and documented evidence.

Now u asking me if I know the gdp and exports of France? what does that have to do with the subject matter, does that mean they cant go insolvent or what? The point remain France service their debt with loots from Africa- a well known fact.

U claim its impossible for Africa to cough out 300 billion dollars annually...what an ignorant comment.
china alone exports 130 billion dollars worth of goods to africa in 2019. Meanwhile, the revenues of Chinese firms doing business in sub sahara africa average 250 billion dollars annually and its projected to be around 440 billion dollars by 2025.

U know nothing about Africa except what's parroted by your racist white masters. Go and read about africa from independent sources and then come back to continue this discussion.

https://www.mckinsey.com/featured-insights/middle-east-and-africa/the-closest-look-yet-at-chinese-economic-engagement-in-africa

https://www.orfonline.org/research/china-in-africa/#:~:text=Trade%20in%20goods%20and%20services,for%20the%20past%2016%20years.

As for african leaders culpability in the destruction of the continent, thats not the subject matter here. Lets stick to the main point.

blueAgent:
That's a lie, so said Wikipedia and many other sites, try another one.

Do u know anything about liberian history at all.
Samuel Doe took over the reins of govt via a violent coup detat, killed William Tolbert and other African Americans in his cabinet.
Pls go and read about Liberia b4 u cont to make a fool of yourself.
At least this is the Wikipedia u quoted.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/1980_Liberian_coup_d%27%C3%A9tat

blueAgent:
Story telling.

Is that why Equitorial guneia with all its oil wealth is a third world country why Singarpore a country with less than 10% of the resources of Equitorial guneia is a first World country?

When you say African loot be precise and give figures.

Over 300 billion dollars is looted out of sub Sahara Africa every year via illegal mining, corporate repriatation, illicit financial flows, dubious loan repayment burden, corporate theft n exploitation of fossil fuel, illegal dodged tax by multinational.

Then there's 500 billion dollars looted by African leaders and kept in European banks. This also include rich Africans using foreign countries as tax haven thereby robbing their own people of needed revenue.

Even the Italian minister admitted France economy will collapse if not for Africa.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RgQGVaAAV0

Read about Africa. Don't be stupid. Stop swallowing ignorant comments spread by racist white supremacist.


I'm sure u also believe blacks never wrote or wore clothes b4 the white man arrived the shores of Africa.


https://amp-theguardian-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/amp.theguardian.com/global-development/2017/may/24/world-is-plundering-africa-wealth-billions-of-dollars-a-year?amp_js_v=a6&amp_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQKKAFQArABIIACAw%3D%3D#aoh=16384443888980&referrer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com&amp_tf=From%20%251%24s&ampshare=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.theguardian.com%2Fglobal-development%2F2017%2Fmay%2F24%2Fworld-is-plundering-africa-wealth-billions-of-dollars-a-year

[quote author=blueAgent post=108140458][/quote]The natives afticans killed the African Americans and took over.
The ugly tribalism factor reared its ugly head and the country descended into anarchy.

SportsHD:
Don't start. Read and research before you spew bull.

Every single person above the age of 21 is permitted to have a license to carry. And, Michigan is an open carry state. You can carry a gun in public without a permit.

So, which legalization and blah are you talking about? Even if firearms were illegal in Michigan, if the 15 year old needs a gun to shoot up his school, he's still gon get it.

Especially In a state where semi auto are dime a dozen. (Not literally)

So, it's not about control and legalisation. Guns don't kill people, people with guns kill people.

Who's this one? I too know or wannabe dey worry this one.
Why is there no gun shooting in schools in neighbouring Canada?

khia:
There are multiple reasons Black Americans don't socialize not to mention marry Africans, mainly Nigerians.


8. Their culture (or lack there of a sensible one) is primitive and useless to the modern world which prevents them from progressing.


Akatawoman, Marjiej57, what say you?

I noticed u mentioned that African culture is primitive.
I'm curious as to how u came about that conclusion because its definitely not from the African American community- they know that's not true.
African culture is no less inferior to other cultures. Do not buy into the stereotypical narratives of Africans being sub human who were civilised by whites.

They told us we never had a writing system until we showed them that black Africans not only wrote thousands of books but actually exported books to the rest of the world b4 Europe even had a library.

Your fellow African American scholars have done a lot of work in that regard, exploring the continent and taking time to detail the cultures- esp pre colonial period.

I understand u trying to stand up for your people on this forum in the face of bully n insults from myopic n deluded africans, but do not join outsiders in bringing your heritage down.

Biodun556:
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All u these Yorubas supporting this man called buhari..what exactly is the deal?
Buhari is an incompetent demented failure who has elevated nepotism to height never imagined in this country.
And who told u Americans are not complaining about biden seemingly dementia problem. His incompetence was called into question after the Afghan evacuation fiasco. Some prominent Americans even challenged him to take a memory test.
Biden saving grace is the quality of his cabinet who always cover up his lapses. Something that can't be said of buhari's ministers.

Buhari knows he's a failure, he has never hidden that fact. He has equally made clear his real agenda as president of Nigeria. Only his supporters continue to be stu.pid and make a fool of themselves.