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You are right. Unilorin is noted for high discipline. I was there in early 90s. It did not start from the era of Oba, high level of discipline has been even from the era of Oyinloye. Every university has peculiar disciplinary measures, anyone who can not abide by unilorin policies is free to choose other universities that may allow their shenanigans. GREAT UNILORITE, GREAT! 😝

NaijaGoBetter2:
For those expressing concerns about the severity of the punishment, it's important to note that this policy is not recent; it predates Professor Oloyede's tenure and possibly extends back to Oba. The strict stance on academic misconduct, including cheating during exams, has been clearly outlined in the handbook provided to and signed by every student. According to the established rule, any student caught cheating faces expulsion, commonly referred to as "Face Tanke."

This rule has been in place consistently, and those who find the punishment too stringent have the option to choose a different universities with milder consequences for similar infractions. It's essential to acknowledge that various schools in Nigeria have different disciplinary approaches, and individuals dissatisfied with Unilorin's strict policy on cheating expulsion are free to explore alternatives that align with their preferences.

Firstly, how do you come to the assertion that 60% of couples CLAIM happiness due to societal expectations? Show us empirical data source.
Meanwhile, Marriage is an achievement for men and women, though may not be to you.
It is an achievement to find a beautiful soul worth spending the rest of your life with. It can as well not be an achievement for one with zero interest in it. And it is okay to not want to be married either.
Let everyone find peace in their decisions.

If you fail in marriage, that does not mean others do. A successful marriage is a blessing and a great achievement.
Desist from deceiving some low minded young ladies out there.

This doesn't change their genes. Any child born by them will be ugly like them or even more uglier, because there's high chances of being so.

This is good approach from NAFDAC, but they can do more. They can periodically take random sample of this and other consumables being sold in the traffic and marketplace for analysis to save the nation. Some of these compromised foods that has been consumed overtime is a time bomb for future diseases which our medical teams here may not be able to help.

I doubt if lecturers in my country can adopt this approach. This approach will make learning interesting.

Though it seems age has caught up with her, but her melodious voice still remain topnotch. Best of luck in your endeavour.

Even FG workers are not spared. Up till now, their December salary is yet to be paid.

Multilinks, the first indigenous private telecom in Nigeria, owned by Chief Fatoye from Gbongan in Osun state. It was later sold to SA company.

Noted and welcome back. May God strengthen you. Olúwa á máa fún ẹ se o.

They won't sink, but would have become and stand as a new country of their own.

That is not correct. Only one month was paid. I received just one month.

Kukutente23:
I can read so many lies. This president is simply not serious about delivering any agenda. He's just there to mouth platitudes without commensurate action. 3MTT only exists on YouTube. Where's the 75bn promised SMEs?




Ngbo civil servants, Tinubu says you've been paid two months off 35k. Is it true or false?

If by tomorrow, NLC don't make a public statement about the 35k minimum wage, just be aware that the money has been shared or earmarked to be shared.

May God repose his soul. He was a great and vibrant labour union during my university days.

My advice for you is to get to know your constituency representative (senator or rep), then write a petition to national assembly and send it through them. Then send a copy to your VC, provost, ministry of education and nmdc.

Happy birthday to him. It looks good on him.

Coping with the loss of loved ones depends on who they are. The MOST tragic and excruciating ones are spouses and children. I've experienced former, never latter. Being an orphan is painful to me even at my age. Don't get me wrong, parents and siblings loss are painful too. Coping is always in stages. If the loss are spouse and children, be sure of health break down and depression setting in. To cope, be surrounded with two or three trusted friends/family members. Register with professional counselor and therapist. And draw closer to God on your own and forgive yourself.

It is long overdue. No Nigerian banks is among the 10 richest bank in Africa according to Bloomberg 2023 survey. The leading banks are from SA. The banks with the least capital base has $28b and the largest has $128b. Out of the 10, SA has 5,Morocco and Egypt has 2 each while Algeria has one. Nigeria banks are "big for nothing" in Africa.

It has been long overdue.

Bush rat is different from the house rat. Come to Lagos, e plenty boku there.

preekahantas:
A rat is a rat.
Adding bush as its title will not change that.

Educative post like this is what we need, not all those erotic, immoral and emotional fantasy posts that many always rush to comment on.

Sorry for that nasty experience of yours. All I can say is that, there are still good and responsible men out there who will not cheat no matter what. Only that we are few on this space. It's because you have not prayerfully meet one. May God direct your path.

Jewessgratitud3:
I just thought to share and again it's no bodys business what I share about myself here. I chose to do it and don't care if it sits well with anyone or not. My life, my share .

I'm sharing this just to let some ladies know that being a widower doesn't break a man and will not stop him from being an unrepentant cheat if he wants to. I used to think a widower will be more responsible and loyal to one woman considering the fact that he's now a second hand value bachelor and the death of his former wife will make him get closer and more committed to his spouse, home and family at large but I was wrong cos after my experience with one, I realized men will always be cheat men.

This happened in 2013 after staying away from relationships for a long time. So I joined Badoo ( it was the rave then, though I joined in 2012). A young man ( in his 40s then) chatted me up and I checked his profile. There he stated that he was looking for a lady for serious relationship and added he was a Christian. He was also looking very handsome and tall. We chatted and exchanged numbers.

When we got talking he told me he was a widower. It was hard to believe because he looked very young. He now told me he married very early. He went ahead and told me he has 6 children 👀👀👀. I didn't believe until he showed me their pics. 4 girls and two boys. He said the wife kept having children because she wanted a male child and died after giving birth to the last child, a male. She got home from the hospital after childbirth and started bleeding immediately and was rushed back to the hospital but never made it back. Meanwhile he was not in the country when this happened.

This made me have compassion and developed feelings for him. After a few months of inviting me over, I finally agreed to visit after he assured me the elder sister is staying with him to look after the baby ( he was already a year then but was not walking). He never liked the boy because he was always saying the boy caused his wifes death and each time the baby boy sees him, he'll be screaming due to the way he looks at the baby and I'll be telling him to stop, teasing him that it's him the boy resembles. So when I visited for the first time, I was shocked at what I saw. He actually owns the house he was living in in Sango. He built it when the going was good but after the wife's death, he came back and stayed for a whole year without a job. He just got the job he was doing as a hotel manager when I met him and his take home was not good at all. So to maintain the big house was a challenge. He could barely feed his kids. Even the two older ones were not with him. They were living with his brother just to ease him of the burden. when the sister saw me, she got angry and told him that he has not finished taking care of his children he's bringing in another lady. He told me to ignore the sister and face him. If I go there, I'll cook and serve everybody because he was always complaining of not having money but sometimes he'll give me part of the money I used.

Initially the children didn't like me and he said I should be buying them snacks. So then if I close from work, I'll go and meet him at his office and we'll go home together. I bought snacks and the children reluctantly collected the snacks. He went to work on that Saturday and I gathered the children and started telling them stories. They began to come close. When he got back he drove all of us to a football viewing center and bought me pepper soup. I thought I had found the right man. I was even saying I don't need to birth any children since he already has six. We'll just stay with his own children ( lol . small girl sense). He would tell me no, that he wants me to give him a beautiful daughter like me.

Six months into the relationship, I noticed something in his room while he was away at work. I saw a foreign prison card in his jacket I now began to connect the dots. I remembered him saying he was away when the wife died and while she was pregnant, he had problem abroad. So she developed BP. He even told me he wasn't around when his house was built that the wife supervised the whole thing before he now had a problem but be never told me what the problem was. I then discovered with the prison card, he was prolly in jail all that time. I didn't ask him anything.

Later he started telling me there's this single mother that has been begging him to marry her and she buys him stuff. I was like marry her now afterall two of una na second hand value. He'll laugh and say God forbid. That he wants chassis. The lady buys him and his children stuff. At a point I told him to stop collecting the gift or risk our relationship. He promised to stop.

One day he was sleeping and i was just going through his phone ( I never used to do that) and saw "my love". My head sparked. I woke him up with a heavy slap and showed him, he started saying its you I love. I said no! Tell me who this Is.. then I began to cry because I just knew it was over. He started begging and called his Aunty into the room. The aunty said the person is a family. I said call her. He now called the number and an elderly woman picked and he started telling her that I'm crying my eyes out here because I saw a message he sent to her. The woman spoke with me but I wasn't convinced. Throughout that night, he played "please forgive me' Brian Adams. hmm.. feeling nostalgic now. I calmed down and we continued.


After some months my chairman sacked me because I refused to go out with him and told him I'm in a relationship. After I lost my job I reduced my visits because bus fare from mainland to Sango was quite expensive and he too could not sponsor my visits regularly due to so much financial responsibilities and since I had been the one doing it when I was working. It became a once in a while thing.

Then one day, he told me to come to his office let's go home that he has missed me. I asked him, do you have money he said we'll manage. This man did not tell me we were going by train ( chai things we do for love) from his office we set out to oshodi. This man put head for train lane. I said waaaat t... I almost went back but it was already getting dark. I entered train for the first time. See me shaking. He had to hold me before one man now stood up for me to sit. Because it's been a while I've been to the house, when we got home, the aunty said you'll not stay in one place. Today you carry this, tomorrow you carry another one. I told him what the sister said and he told me not to mind her. In my mind i was like... see this second wen I dey manage too wan dey play ... I kept asking until he now confessed that the Aunt was referring to the other single mother that the lady has been forcing herself on him but it's me he wants. There and then I zeroed my mind.

After that visit, as we were going that morning, we quarreled on the way because the vehicle we borded got spoilt plus I wasn't happy after hearing what the sister said. So I was just edgy that morning and blasted the driver and some of the passengers. He got angry and left after trying to get me off the bus and I refused, saying I should run after him cos he's running late for work. I was just looking at him. I didn't get down. I waited for him to go far, I now got down and took another route to my house.

I didn't call for a week and refused to pick his calls because whats the point killing myself over a widower with six children who has refused to stick with one woman. When I eventually picked, it was my guy ( now ex) who told me to pick in the bus that day we were going to camp and he was chyking me. Oga kept calling and as usual I ignored him but the sound was disturbing our conversation so my gy told me to pick and hear him out. I picked and he was crying and put all his children on the phone to beg me. He said they are missing me and one of them is sick. I said ok, I'll call you later. That was it. I blocked him. Went to Badoo and blocked him there in fact I deleted my Badoo account. Deleted his number and ended the whole thing..

Men will always be men

Modified

When I said all men are the same what I'm simply implying is, whether they are poor, rich, widower or handicapped they will still cheat or have that tendency to cheat. Take it or get lost!

A man's vulnerability doesn't stop him from exhibiting those bad habits (cheating and deception). They'll will always do that thing that make us call them meennnn... If you know what I mean and if you don't Gerrit, forget abourit. .

Now that this policy is canceled, can we now have all universities that have reviewed the school fees upward revert to the status quo of old fees.

It was indeed. I did spend it in early 80s during my secondary school days.

LeoDeKing:
How can 50 kobo be a note?

In all these demands, workers demands are not stated. FG is yet to pay palliatives incentives, salary adjustment and others for workers. NLC president is selfish from the above demands.

Even those that are collecting minimum wage are not spared. Most of us finished ours under 24 hours. There are so many commitments and loans to settle. Remember that it is the same salary since last year, no increase except 35k sent two days ago. And that one too is finished.

You are not the only one in this mess. Federal workers too has not received any pay rise too. Our salary finish the day it was paid or a day after. It was the same salary since last year. Wittynes said, it's time to create another source of income. It sounds good but very difficult though not impossible. If those of us that has a means of income can agonizingly feel this heat like this, imagine millions without any means. May God send help to us all.

Detection of paternity fraud :
This can only be detected and solve once and for all on Friday and Sunday. On those two days without prior notice or announcement, let the religious leaders across the country provide DNA doctors/experts once every worshippers with their children seated, and secrets security agents stationed outside, that nobody is going outside until the text is completed for all couples. There will be pandemonium that day.
Alternatively, if the announcement was made a week before the actual day of test, be sure that most couples and their family, especially wives will be absent, even some of the religious leaders wives too.

The man has not been psychologically and emotionally certified by a good counselor and therapist before going into marriage. He needs to get heal and recover fully from this first. The healing and recovery process now depend on the individual, and the time frame also differ. With the scenario painted here, there will definitely be a problem in that home. This is not an issue of prayer. I'm an ardent believer, so no one should sermonized this. Moreso, I've been there before. If they're legally married, it will be turbulent and take long time for them to adjust to the reality. But if they are still courting, let him cut it off for now and follow the advice mentioned.

Abeg wetin Imisioluwa mean? I know say Oluwa na God but wetin be Imisi?


Make e no come be Tonto wey dem dey Imisi o. [/quote]Imisi means inspiration.

Dyfynezz12:
Lol😂 u 're confusing me

He's not confusing, he's just being sarcastic.

The rich also do cry, and their cry is more agonizing.

Imagine reading this post by couples who have been married for years without any child. This life!!!

He was born Gbongan town in Ayedaade local government of Osun state.

raskymonojendor:
Ibadan born and America raised. Don't let anyone tell you that school is a scam. The dude is very educated.