₦airaland Forum

na2day?:
u'r iight mami  gotta represent the true brodas on da streetz, i am a 2pac with a degree, howz that for "change we can believe in"   

yup! this recession thing is causing much more problem than u know girl 

olanajim:
@topup,
Guseman is up there. Perhaps I got his name wrong.

@Karmamod,

They are men that claim to be MAN in public while their minds is feministic. Men that consider themselves far superior to every woman by fair or folly. Those are the men I was refering to!

KarmaMod:
what does this mean?

esilove:
Ladies sometimes don't know how to keep a lasting relationship.

It's always good to study the kind of kind u are dealing with and know what he like and what he don't like in order not to cross the boundary that will make him change his mind from.

galatico:
Yeah it true that guys are always found wanting when it comes to closing a relationship because they feel its not necessary because they'll brake the heart of there loved ones it quite pathetic,

Adam Brody:
The chick that fu***cked my mind up was a total nut case!

I used to remember when we we used to have disgreements in University, she would just do some freaky crazy things that would scare me. I attended one of these Nigerian state universities and there is something common about all of them. They are located in a remote part of the state to help aid community development and inrastructures but these communities still retain their traditional cultures and rites. There is the popular yoruba festival called "oro" where a masked masquerade would move around during a special night and girls aren't allowed to see the masked one unless the consequences would be dire.

My ex knew this law and like mos other girls, they adhered to the rule strictly, but this particular night after a disagreement, she just sat down for 10 mins, removed her clothes and went to bed wihout saying anything. 5 mins later, she woke up, changed back to her clothes, opened the cupboard, started packing her clothes and before you knew it, she she left my room. This was around 12.30 or something and the oro comes out at 12am. At first i thought she was joking and was just going to the corridor to brood over our disagreement but when i came out to ask her to come inside and not attract the oro guys, she was already meteres  ahead on the road walking to her house which was aprroximately 20 mins on foot. I was freaking scared to death for her and although i tried running after her to call her back, but i couldnt go far enough or shout lest i attract attention before she faded from miy sight. I tried calling her but she switched off her phone.

The whole night was very scary for me and i couldnt sleep, because so many things were running through my head. What if she was caught by these local guys or ritualists or raped or something nasty. Why she decided to just start walking for no reason that specificnight was just scary a thought for me. When it was 6am, i walked all the way to her house looking for her and called most of her friends in te vicinity whether she slept in their house. They were all suprised that she did such a thing. When i got to her house, i found her crashing on her bed.

Kai! that day i almost ran mad because i was so scared to death that something will befall her because you don't mess with a communities riualist culture for nothing. When i asked her why she left and and how she got home, she didnt answer me till today. If that's not a crazy chick, i don't know what else can be tagged crazy except the chicks that bite their boyfriends sha!

netotse:
_{noting the exact sequence of the actions and jotting them down before turning of laptop and going to bed}

night y'all. . .(its more like moning tho)

topup:
[color=#cc0066]Sisi jinx, let's say you're in the early phase of a relationship and you don't feel you can tell your boyfriend something that is so deep that is affecting you so much, or you are waiting for the right time to tell him. He takes this silence/stillness and awkardness as a sign that you no longer want to carry on with the relationship, and he just packs his bags and leaves. . [/color]

Ebony-Silk:
lmao!! You're not serious.
Only if you knew H202  you wouldn't type this.

Carry on jare. He's a good guy[b]. Not mines[/b]

davidylan:
signs like?

I'd rather a heart to heart than just picking up ur bags and running away. could be the guy is going through one of those moments when guys want to be left alone for the moment.

H2O2:
Please be sure to let the man you're in a relationship with know this.
The guy might still be very much interested in the relationship, even if your peripherals force you to think otherwise.
Communication is an oft-undervalued tool for success in relationships.

Ebony-Silk:
SisiKill, I'm lost. What did you do?

H2O2:
I've been waiting for this opportunity for eternity.
*_{grabs her by the waist
presses his body tightly against
squeezes her buttocks
pushes his hands up her belly
then kisses her on her neck, ears,
and even harder on her lips.}*

Thanks  

davidylan:
sisi jinx and her attitude . . . may the Lord help us.  

bla bla bla i'm gone . . . i used to be like that but truth be told . . . you sound "tough" on the exterior but pretty miserable inside.

Relationships take a lot of effort to make it work, if we all took a hike at the first hint of disaster we're never going to develop.

netotse:
@sisi jinx
was it u or someone that sed somefink about noy doing stuff for a guy until he takes u seriousthats similar to probation now. . .

H2O2:
sisi your daddy lied.

JJYOU:
how did you know our sister didnt just miss the probationary period/rules of africas first president. this lady could have easily become first lady in some banana republic at least. being single has never been better

na2day?:
huh! but i am a soldier from the ghettos  when they see me on the block, i don't try to hide bcuz i just blend with the hood thing 

nah, i really don't have one to wear at all bcuz the stupid folks took the samples that was available before i got to try one 

promise72:
its very obvoius that  the picture was set up. Tha cars were parked almost at an angle to each other.

don't you know that both cars can actually belong to the same people?

Its not a big deal. Just lighten up.

olanajim:
@topup,
your ex was trying to communicate with you by his silence. I guess you are too much concerned about the relationship than what is eating him.

Let me give you an example. I once had this lady friend who I was looking up to date. We have been going out for 3 months. In my heart I have not make up my mind to make her my choice. She was a good lady. Wash my clothes, cook my food etc. [size=18pt]But then, she forgot she is under probation. [/size]At least I told her. That is me. Maybe I was crazy too. I pick my words very carefully so that I won't have to felt guilty when things go awry.

Well just as I was about making her permanent, (I was to visit her parent) I started observing some traits I know I can NEVER live with. I tried to talk to her but she was careless. And so, I began my own withdrawal tactic. Actually, I need to think about it deeply. [size=18pt]But she made a costly mistake by crying and reporting me to my friends[/size]. I got angry and had to extend my "vacation!". Again, she started saying maybe I had a lady in my life and then did things I found unacceptable. I called her aside and the asked her to give me a break. It was during the break that I ended it all. She gave my call to a guy I suspected to be her male friend. It was night. So I simply format all her memory from my head. It was so simple for me because I had resolved not to be blinded by love. So I always know when to press my break.

Men aren't all crazy just as women. But when he stop calling, you must realize he need help not love. Wisdom will bail you out.

olanajim:
Sis jinx,
I didn't read the particular post you mentioned. ]Man or woman if you fall in love before you know your partner, you are gambling with your heart

In truth, what happen at first meeting, what we often call love at first sight is nothing but LUST. Ask a good psychologist and it would be confirmed. However, lust is very essential for love to germinate. The animal in human make it imperative that the two be attracted before anything can follow. We just tried to glorify LUST by calling it LOVE AT FIRST. Everyone feel it.

At the the s next stage, the two partners agreeing to be friends. It is at this stage that couple evaluate themselves. Thereafter commitment come it and the LOVE. Those who skip this stage and allow the lustful affair to deepen without due diligent are those who often have the cause to regret not knowing their partners.

It is strongly recommended that one know the other before making commitment.

bawomolo:
acer laptops aren't bad for broke ones

brauneyes:
Can't u imagine the guts that guy or girl had to park the other car right beside the Rolls?

*Hauwa*:


ape like behavior

lol Jinx she wouldn't have to wait to be trained at a doggy school.  

JJYOU:
this is all your fault.  too many people have been listening to your teachings on naija wife

Ebony-Silk:
Lol, kilo se enu yin?

@topic
This is why I prefer quiet men. Al this gra gra men with ape-like behaviors are not my cup of tea

studio43:
well, i don't think there's anything wrong in beating a woman if SHE MISBEHAVES,