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can you describe the white discharge?

any odor with it? any itch/burning? whats is the constituency of it? i.e clumpy, chessy,thickish?, etc

Davidkpobo:
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Although, am not doc but rether a nutritionist.
Contraceptive is against nature especially, when talk of chemicalized drugs. Without much talk, think of fibroid which after using contraceptive. There are natural drink u can take and give to u woman, and can act as cleanser.
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i dont think OP mentioned  hes thinking of abortion. and no contraception is against no nature,being irresponsible/selfish and producing children you obviously dont want and cant care for  is against the common sense of nature. and what kind of "natural" drink, will prevent them from getting pregnant? pray tell

Emeka and his extreme examples again.

@Ebony

did you watch the part where he wouldnt allow his father and his stepmom, to have their "moment" in the night when they thought he was sleeping. naughty naughty boi

this man doesn't know how to lie seriously. she had heart attack with blood all over the place, a bloody bat and bruises/blow on her body?. he thought this people were this incompetent?

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=477467.msg6369868#msg6369868 date=1278917310]That is why it is called momentary madness. He wasn't thinking straight.[/quote]momentary madness for where? he repeatedly hit his wife with a bat to the moment of complete death. no pulse, no heart beat and youre trying to say that was just momentary madness?

Emeka, is momentary madness a ust a fancy word youre trying to use to cover this mans act or what?

LOL

it would very funny to see the dude facial and body reaction when the "silly" woman turned out to be his wife.

99days for the thief, one day for the owner

LOL . i watched the movie when it first came out, so this is my secondtyme watching it, still cant stop laughing



son: papa, let me ask you, if you say dis woman is beautiful as you say, how come she agreed to marry you?

papa: what r u trying to say, am i not handsome?

insult at the highest order

"the acceleration is not in full compression as a result of poor compression from the compressor and so its affecting the ignition, that is y d bus cannot start"

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=477467.msg6369833#msg6369833 date=1278916612]Isn't that the function of digital  cameras in cell phones and notebooks?[/quote]you can still have PS without sending your pics, however, assuming that was the case here(unclothed pic involved), its still not reason enough to murder her. is it acceptable?, hell no, does it warrant murder? hell no. there are options to infidelity

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=477467.msg6369789#msg6369789 date=1278915362]What if he caught her having phone se/x with the stranger?[/quote]phone se/x thats all. at least the stranger didnt see her unclothedness. still not enough reason to take her life

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=477467.msg6369683#msg6369683 date=1278912367]You don't know his intention. His case is like the American doctor who killed her philandering husband by climbing him over and over again with her mercedes Benz. It may sound heinous but that momentary madness of catching him screwing his secretary even though he swore to her that he is no more doing it in order to talk her out of divorce. She went mad momentarily and realized what she did afterwards. OJ Simpson is another similar case.[/quote]if he caught her redhanded on top of a man, then one might argue it was in heat of the "moment" however, that wasnt the case here. and he probably hit her before the this final straw

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=477467.msg6369632#msg6369632 date=1278910949]My argument is that he acted on impulse. I am sure it wasn't his intention to kill her but that momentary madness led him into this. Let us not judge others like Christ asked us to do so we cannot be judged[ except Abacha, lol].[/quote]which impulse? his intentions was to kill her and that was what he set out to do and thats exactly what he did. remember, he didnt just point a gun and shoot her, he beat her mercilessly with a bat to the point of death. and probably it wasnt his first domestic encounter with her. cause, if he hits you once, there is a 99.99% he will do it again

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=477467.msg6369588#msg6369588 date=1278909972]Did you care to feel for what this man went through and how vulnerable he was when he committed the crime?[/quote]went through to the point of murdering her? he suspected their son wasnt theirs, and he was in a better position/place to opt for a dna test and his infidelity accuse was based on emails, no other evidence provided but went ahead and murdered her as if the beatings wasnt enough. please, this man has and will never any excuse base on this claims for murdering that woman.  if very nigerian woman murdered their cheating backside husbands, we will be running out men by now, and probably be importing men from bukina faso and equatorial guinea

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=475305.msg6367177#msg6367177 date=1278865897] Very funny video sha. It's not as if things like this won't happen but we won't continue to allow child abuse for fear of the few kids with fresh mouth and mischief getting back at their parents. Just learn how to deal with it.[/quote]am not interested in the wayo he played on his father w/the police. my only interest was where he called police and his father was like "so na dis small thing wey happen, na hin make u call police for me" and the part where the police was telling him "so because hes your son, you wan kill me, dont you know the world is changing" when the father was telling police he was the boys father

@ Ebony
i had tears in my eyes from laughter when i watched the whole movie. very funny

papa its says wash n wear, you wash, you wear

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=477467.msg6369566#msg6369566 date=1278909353]same one

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-467451.0.html[/quote]so the reason for the murder was infidelity, while there was the option of DNA test and/or divorce. kai!

why cover the n1pples? please next tyme, she should let them hang and lets see which side of the south pole they're pointing to. shior

Emeka, wasnt this the florida man that we discussed a few wks back in the crime section? abi na new one?

this is what is going to happen if this "law" passes

watch starting from 2:44min, the part where he flogged his kid and his son called police for him(his father)




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if she gets pregg @ 17 like her mom, her child have a high chance of also being a teen-mom and the teen-mom linage continues, so does the poverty

funny part is if she does become a teen-mom, her mom more than likely is going to be real mom of that baby, its then that she will realize that she has "own life to live"

dont get think shes over that "baby fever" yet, she just found a distractor( are they good sleepers? ) she will get over that and get-on w/her fever

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg6365256#msg6365256 date=1278827997]I agree with you. . .  but I'm quite worried. How do you describe a "mother"to a lil kid?

1. A woman with a child
2. A grown woman?

Not every woman has maternal instincts, not every woman has a clean intent. What if she's a criminal or a kidnapper? And let me be honest, if a lost child comes to me, the first thing I'd do is find the nearest official or customer service to report a missing child. I, of course, will stay with the lost child until a parent comes by. So with that, I'd just tell my kid to find a customer service table or go and find one of those mall officials. [/quote]@  1 bold:

of course the whole idea is for her to help find her find help, call the police or CS.

@ 2bold:

if its a crowed heavy place and also depending on the age of the child, she/him might have a hard time finding the CS or police and might fall in into the wrong heavy hand

preparing ahead for the unexpected unknown, i will tell/show those things. i know not every woman has those instinct, but having little kid/child yourself and  seeing a little child coming to you or roaming around looking a-little lost, you will get that feeling something is wrong because you will somehow imagine your kid/s in that same "lost" position, i mean there are certain fear/emotions IMHO, most mothers cue in on. not that i am placing too many trust on mothers out there, there are crazies/zombies masquerading around quite alright but if she never gets missed up with me, i pray she find the "good kind" Lol

at this young age, i prefer her to go to a mother with a little kids and tell her i lost my mommy or am looking for my mommy etc i believe being a mother herself with little kids, she will have that "mothers instinct" in her to help get her help. esp in those crowded mall/places(no  trust ppl this days)but god help me, the day it will ever happen i will be madder than a mad woman, that plus, having a double heart attack, tripled with instant stroke. thats the day Jesus will be doing his second coming . but when she is grown to a certain age, we head the other direction.

might sound ridiculous and crazy but pardon me yall at least i would be more than willing to do it for another mother/parent/guardian/person/man/woman/ and what have you

Ebony, i like the idea of the GPS tracking thing. sounds good and effective


[size=4pt]we never finished our discussion on child sexual abuse[/size]

Why?

did it breakout your skin?

addiction and freedom/choice

why hate your own flesh and blood esp with something they werent clearly part of?

yes, he beat the wife when he should clearly know better and he was sent home bloody hell, whats has the kids got to do with it?

did they gang up with their mom to call the police or send him home?

i guess, he is hurt by the fact that he was sent home and what his relationship with his wife had become, but HATE is such a very strong word to use

on the "mini yous" you helped mold.

he should cool down and try to differentiate between his wife and kids

i hope his kids never get to hear that their fathers hates them not being physically there with them is enough pain

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=475925.msg6361013#msg6361013 date=1278751394]There are so many things I'll love to tell my mom but cos we're not close I turn to friends. So wit kids, its just how close we are to them. See my cosin is 17 now she doesn't hide anything from me but can't say a word to her mom cos she's scared of her reaction. Kids wants to look up to there mom but sometimes we scare them away. Don't push just try to be close to her as a friend, don't judge just listen. You'll see she'll tell u those things she tells her friend. Trust me when I say its fun[/quote]

tpiah:
you've made your point.

now move on to better and more relevant issues.

LOL

mutter:
When I was a kid i never knew it was abuse just saw it as being normal now I know better. I have a few friends that were never beaten, they ended up more stable as adults that kids that were beaten.

what Dayo, said here

dayokanu:
And I have seen contrary too, People who were not beaten but ended up worse

when you flog or abuse a child you do much more than inflicting physical pain. You hurt a soul for life.
When you flog or abuse a child you do much more than instil respect. You break a child for life.

thats when you abuse a child. and again there is a difference between the two.

we raise men that are themselves brutal callous and insensitive towards others. We raise women that are so intimidated that they don`t have the confidence to stop abuse when it takes place. The body is a temple and should be treated as such. I shudder to think of all the abuse going on.

thats not true. it has alot to do with our culture/value as a whole rather than flogging as a disciplinary action. im sure you are also aware of places were flogging isnt used as a disciplinary method but their women are still submissive to the men who beat them. the same with the men.

mutter:
I believe and have faith that God approved my divorce.
I prayed very long about it and God knows I endured. To avoid divorce I found myself even praying for God to take his life and set me free Then I would quickly pray to God to forgive me for even thinking such a thing. But I know now it was wrong to have believed that the marriage would work out. It only got worse. That is why[b] I cannot honestly say that I believe that one must stay in a marriage at all cost.[/b] What did my divorce add to me? It gave me back my life, my sanity,
I really hope and pray that Nigeria would one day be so developed that women do not have to be trapped in marriages for financial or other reasons when it becomes unbearable.

definitely agree. "for better, for worse" not when i am being abused and tormented. i believe and i know God loves me dearly and would want my joy and happiness and has more in-store for me as his beloved child than to die in a miserable 'marriage'.  life is wayyyy tooo short to be the punch back of a boxer who will never make it to boxing hall of fame. but many women still sadly learn that the hard-way

not only nigerians. its everywhere. there are people out there who wouldnt want you to prosper due to competition,jealousy and personal animosity etc.

regardless, one have to choose their battle carefully cause not everyone out there is happy for them

exercise
stress management
balance diet
good skin regime/personal care
proper lifestyle
self-contentment and helping others
genes

yhemmmy:
Dudu oshun exfoliates your skin and makes it glow, i make black soap for myself and the ingredients i put is the black soap itself mixed with aloe vera, sulphur, honey, lime and oshun (cam wood). T[b]he original oshun which is dark red in colour and hard to find [/b]anyway really tones the body, but in a natural way. It does not have any side effect at all. Also lime tones the body. So it preferable buying blacksoap or making yours instead of buying toilet soap. Some people react to some of the ingredients in the blacksoap, so if you are making your own black soap, you may not put the ingredient that makes you react.

yea, i heard they stop making it. the tropical one is the only one available

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=474319.msg6358194#msg6358194 date=1278691144]Even when some fathers are blinded and biased with tribalism?[/quote]sadly, i think yes. with the disguise of "knowing more those kinds of marriage related stuffs" and these type of women wouldnt want to get married without their fathers blessing/consent.

I hope you know there's a universe of difference between a good father and a good husband.
That these babes want a man like their father does not necessarily mean the man will be a good husband.

of course there is difference between the two. but the women i mentioned tend to lookout for general traits their father possess in a husband. more like, fathers do make great impact in their daughters lives good/bad, which is something many dont know