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[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg6408799#msg6408799 date=1279509737]Ah true that.

By the age of 6, I propose to have my children strapped with cell phones. . . or a walkie talkie while we're apart.
To prevent a "Lost and Found" situation, simply use a stroller or a cart in a crowded place.[/quote]6 i think is too young for a cello or walkie sef but thats just me. GPS might be a better idea

pweetychic:
Hello Dokki,
  Gat a questn dat has been bothering me for years, is it possible to loose virginity without any blood stain, and without feeling any pain during and after having intimacy for the very first time?

YES to both questions.

to second question: lots of pre-intimacy, lubs, going slow, muscle and mind relaxation helps a great deal. not every girl experiences gushing blood as many tend to believe and expect with first-timers, the same thing with pain. it all depends on the individual. for some its painful before and after but for some esp with partners who knows what theyre doing and have perfected the act, they experiences little to no pain

many blissful memory to share

NO but one thing is for sure though, its not for everybody

thanks Karma and Tatase! will definitely checkout your recommendations. i usually do flat-iron sometimes to help with relaxer stretching

link?


warning ke? they should know better than not to have sexxx unprotected with random ppl/prost you dont know their status whether in an hiv infested community or herpes infested society

can you post a link to the study/story?

how are you dear


nah, i havent tried it yet. is it any good?

still on the hunt for a good heat protector. currently using John Frieda Frizz-Ease Heat Defeat Protective Styling Spray also done with it, but im tempted to try the CHI 44 Iron Guard Thermal Protection Spray though. have you used any good one?

[quote author=Ileke-IdI link=topic=249630.msg6373017#msg6373017 date=1278949277]So what happened to "DO NOT TALK TO STRANGERS. DO NOT GO ANYWHERE WITH STRANGERS. DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING FROM STRANGERS". I hate to be a kid following a rule with so much exceptions that the kid wouldnt know when to apply an exception and when to ignore it.[/quote]not all strangers are bad na, sometimes this same strangers save live too . but i do understand your concern though however, in this situation, i still prefer a mother with little kids.

@2nd bolded; Yes, you can prepare ahead of time. However, a good preschool/ kindergarten should be able to prepare a child for all this. Like familiarizing a KG with legal uniform [such as police, security guard, firefighter's uniform] and when to or when not to follow a stranger.
I get you sha, I also pray he finds the "good kind". My aunt knows anything there is to know about children and technologies, I'd def will be asking her if there's a recent GPS locator out there that can be sown into a kid's shoe, shirt, undies etc

you can prepare but then again in a very crowd and busy place, looking up and searching for a certain uniform might prove abortive

i like the idea of those GP tracking thing though

i really like CHI Silk Infusion. Great stuff for my hair


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Lol my post got arrested by spambot. cant even modify some typos

your thighs are too thick for todays modelling "standards" esp catwalk or runway.  so, maybe you should look around for agencies that offer other types of modelling i.e  editorial modeling, etc at least if they think any part of you is "too fat/chunky" for their liking they can always Photoshop them off.

below is an idea of the kind thigh/body most agencies required in this days of "modelling"



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goodluck w/modelling career. dont know let what this deter you though. there are many model options out there for those who arent super skiny

blank:
The husband is a weakling.
How can he claim to be head of his house and he can not even enforce which Church they will both attend?
How does he take his stand as the man of the house?
I have very little respect for such weaklings.

i beg to differ. has nothing to do with "weakling" and being less of a man. its a choice some make and for many it hasnt in anyway being a problem in their marriage. at the end of the day, EACH PERSON will have to personally do their fight for their salvation so if attending different churches aid them in their personal journey and its something the couple mutually agree upon and doing so in a way that it doesnt tamper the function of their marriage then . . . . . .  .

i wouldnt be elated and willingly agree, if he changes to the church of this "false pastors" out there today(OR a place of worship my heart feels unease with) and drag me to go with him and i will willingly agree because hes the man of the house not be 'disrespected, wealked or questioned'.

its similar to those couples who share different political parties/views and still manage to respect each other and their marriage.

while i dont subscribe to couples attending different churches however, your argument of it "wealking" a man etc is WEAK IMHO.

bawomolo:
what if one is catholic and the other is baptist?

at the end of the day, catholics are Christians, baptists are Christians. the same Jesus, the same fight for salvation, the same Heaven. so personally, to me i still don't see the big difference. if i had the choice, i wouldn't knowingly marry a person i know that doesn't belong to the same religion/faith as me or marry someone i know i would be uncomfortable in the future attending his church (if there happens to be a re-conversion) 

i guess, it all boils down to personal choices , although not a choice i personally like or encourage someone i know to do (esp in cases where the intent to serve God is truly genuine) and if the church/es are not this modern day "wayo" business tents disguised as church/es.

chy4luv:
of course i am in Naija. why all these interrogations b4 i can get the food time table.

to help tailor the right food available in your area for you and your family.

im sure it wouldnt make sense to you if you are given table for bukina faso peoples food

mohawkchic:
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Nope!

some couples do it, even though it sounds honestly quite silly to me. i mean if you both are worshiping the same true God, why the need for separate churches every sunday or everyday? which church will the children be raised in? how will you explain to the children that although mommy and daddy worship the same God, daddy don't like mommy church and vice versa? some might even use the opportunity to do some abian way "business", "oh honey, we're having some midnight 'prayer' and 'worship' in pastor Luke's house today and i wouldnt be back until the next day"

different churches would make sense to me, if one spouse is a devil worshiper

meplus

go to a hospital and request a pap smear test. with pap smear test, they will be able to determine what of infection if any, it is. a pap smear will be the best test to confirm or dis-confirm anything.


GP= General Physician (doctor)

nice info MC!

Eke Lucky:
I love my wife so much because she has been the source of my joy.
But,recently i met a girl in the course of my job and we both had  conversations.Thereafter she started hunting after me.WHAT WILL I DO?
I dont want to hurt her.
Can some one advice me on how to make to her know is wrong to chase a married man.

really?

youre "married" and some girl is after you and you dont know what to do eh?

isnt this the one, you guys are using?



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so this is the new definition of a controlling wife?

spoilt:
There's something a little creepy about a man discussing self-servicing with his daughter. Surely even if the man in question is a single parent there must be some positive female role models she can discuss issues with. Its already a sensitive and akward subject but if you insist go right ahead and watch her painfully cringe and wish the ground swallows her.  .  .  .  .  .  .  . 

i know!. i mean its already awkward for some mother and daughter sef, talkless of father and daughter. chai! i dont want to be in such awkward lecture

many fathers who are single dads and have daughters that needs the "talk" se/x and menstruation usually have their sisters, aunties, or trusted female friend do it.

it'd be better if both parents are there while the lecture goes on, at least the presence of the mother will make you look up. 

but anyways, some daughters maybe wouldnt mind hearing the "lecture" from their father due to open communication established prior before,so whatever rocks each persons boat i guess

[quote author=African_queen link=topic=475925.msg6361013#msg6361013 date=1278751394]There are so many things I'll love to tell my mom but cos we're not close I turn to friends. So wit kids, its just how close we are to them. See my cosin is 17 now she doesn't hide anything from me but can't say a word to her mom cos she's scared of her reaction. Kids wants to look up to there mom but sometimes we scare them away. Don't push just try to be close to her as a friend, don't judge just listen. You'll see she'll tell u those things she tells her friend. Trust me when I say its fun[/quote]i understand what you mean. but i still prefer a close net daughter-mother relationship. not being her best friend doesn't mean i will scare her away, judge her or anything as such. i will create that close-net channel of communication where we can openly discuss and maintain an open mind. i will not expect her to share with me every tom,dikc, and harry that happens her way. no matter how close you are (as in besties) she will still hide certain stuffs from you as her mother and would prefer to share it with her bestie. you know there are certain stuffs/gists that are just better shared between two close best friends.

awwwwwwwww CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Warm Greetings to mother and baby

Big Warm Welcome to Parenthood!!!!

Very Lovely!!!!

Lunch at home -yes

Lunch at work- not advisable

if its disturbing your study, then its time to stop completely. or stop and re-adjust, making serious time-table for it.

oweniwe:
A close friend told me that a few years back, they were very poor. But after his dad married a second wife, they become wealthy. He said its the second wife that's producing the money thru some[b] "skeletons in the wardrobe" (hope you know what i mean). The[/b] pop spends a lot on the seconds wife, but sends peanuts to his mom. He said most wealthy polygamous families are like that- the men MUST NOT spend on their first wife and kids or the money would stop flowing. Does that mean today's men now marry second wives coz of dirty money? Nairalanders, pls bare your minds on this

pls explain,whats that? i mean what kind of skeleton, human or animal (if you know what i mean).

many go into polygamy for many reasons, childlessness, male son, power, money, se,x without any restrictions, religious/cultural reasons and the last one you listed, financially gain through sucking dry the second wife