₦airaland Forum

SilverNorGold:
.. I keep on saying it.. Una too dey overhype the US for nothing.. Compare the peaceful, transparent and mature elections conducted in Nigeria, under the administration of president Mohammadu Buhari with the disastrous, immature and shady election currently going on in the US, and you will agree with me that the Nigeria electoral system is far more advanced than that of the United States of America, under Buhari's administration..

The US should humble herself and come to Nigeria and learn from the Alpha Male himself...

I will not take the opinion of unpatriotic elements seriously.

And to our foreign brothers and sisters here, welcome to the new Nigeria, the Pride of the world..

God bless President Mohammadu Buhari.
God bless Professor Osinbajo.
God bless all patriotic Nigerians.
God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria.

Who supplies your weed?

It is very potent!

The soldier i am seeing here is in pain.

Are you sure he is not among those who shot the Lekki protesters and the spirits of one of the victims dey flog am?

www.nairaland.com/attachments/12620513_screenshot20201103174903_jpegea4adb9a98dbbdc31d6d7b06e402a5c9

luminouz:
You dont need to bother with that girl. I have her locked down, she is my babe. She was just lonely then but I have fixed her now. She is good

Now, get to the storytelling part bro...I'm eager to read some stories

Luminouz my paddy, you will never cease to make me laugh out loud with your funny replies.

I wanted to do some serious updates now but my boss just called via intercom that we are going out. This is one of the challenges i face in updating and it's like that because i prefer making use of my PC when on NL. Using my fingers to type long updates via mobile stresses my fingers

franklingud:
Oga discovery! Clap for yourself!

You go soon discover God's wrath and punishment, then you go come nairaland tell us another long epsitle of it all!

Someone said same to me last year and threaten that "God will kill me before this year"... i am still alive. Judge not that you mat not be judged!

Priam:
Curious much?

Calm down, that's how he takes his threads - slow and steady. I know he's by the sidelines watching and weighing in people's comments and experiences.

Don't expect him to be updating on a daily basis; I won't be surprised if this thread drags on for a year and counting with skales67 dropping updates like once a month . I know this from his previous thread.

So relax and take your time, maybe ask him to mention you when he updates.

You've made me smile

I just don't really have time for myself especially with the fact that i run 2 jobs

But i will try updating frequently from now on

Lamanii22:
Skales!!!! Where have you been??

I have seriously been busy.

LilMissFavvy:
I don't believe these women are naturally toxic as you claim, rather something or someone triggered such toxicity in them. It could be a bad upbringing, especially where a dad maltreats mum, or it could actually be their ex husband's who made them toxic. You mentioned that INFIDELITY AND DOMESTIC VIOLENCE account for like 80percent of marital break-ups...... a WHOPPING 80percent ? I totally agree with that. Now my question is, if 80 percent of marital break-ups are due to infidelity and domestic violence, taking a look at your immediate environment, have you not seen that husband's are not faithful and most of them beat their wifes? If you are sincere, you will agree with me that a good number of men are the ones who commit infidelity in marriage, same men beat their wife, so men are responsible for such marital break-ups, don't shift blames.

You think domestic violence is perpetrated against women by men alone?

According to international definition, Domestic violence is violence committed by someone in the victim's domestic circle. This includes partners and ex-partners, immediate family members, other relatives and family friends. The term 'domestic violence' is used when there is a close relationship between the offender and the victim

Going by that definition, men can also suffer domestic abuse from their spouses too.

Men are truly the perpetrators and women the victims. Most of the married toxic women became toxic due to sad marital experiences, same with the single mothers, it may not be all, but most of such toxicity were caused by bad experiences. The problem is that these women refuse to drop all their bitter experiences when they enter new relationships, but would there really be a need for them to drop their bitterness, especially since there is every possibility that the next man would come with same baggage? Toxicity is not an innate attribute, it is learned.

As for the Bible passage you mentioned, not all marriages are worth building, especially where a man isn't interested in making it work. In the process of staying to make it work, she may lost her life, health, etc. Stop shifting blames. Thread should also be in family section

Having bad experiences in the past is not and never will be a good excuse to allow someone else who had nothing to do with it to suffer.

Sixfeetbelle:
You have successfully managed to put women on the pedestal to be bashed again. Suddenly even men who don't know anything about single mothers or married women and the effects bad marriages and relationships have on their psyche are concurring and commenting one-sided fallacies just to appear 'manly'.

Well done. You'll receive the reward you deserve.

Cc: skales67

Easy Madam. If you read carefully, you'd see where i said there are still some men who err and there are some wives and single mothers who are still good. This is not about making me appear manly in anyway

luminouz:
Skales baba, I dey o....I see your summon and I full ground.


What you said about women na the REAL TRUTH. Very few are truly victims but the rest are damaged themselves and can never make any man happy, because they can't even make themselves happy. My experience is from single ladies and trust me, I got an earful of their so called exes issues. In due course, I found out that they were the PROBLEM and even I couldn't tolerate half of what those 'supposedly bad exes: tolerated.

Its an inherent nature of women never to be accountable for their actions, they deflect, divert, redirect any blame of their actions towards someone else. They always have a JUSTIFICATION for some shiit they do. They are like cats: Vain, cruel and haughty.
I was talking to a girl like 3 days ago, who claimed men are bad. I asked her if her ex cheated on her, she said no but she cheated on him, JUST TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS. I probed further and she was still insisting it was his fault. she came with the 'he caused it BS" and If I had been like most men, I might have believed the issue was with her ex,not her.

One thing I've learned is this: YOU CANNOT SAVE A DAMAGED/TOXIC WOMAN, NOT NOW,NOT EVER. JUST LET HER BE, OR BE DRAGGED DOWN TO DARKNESS WITH HER


Though, like I admit, few women are real and raw and do admit they fuqed up and some do make amends.

I have a thread full of men who know these things and more... The link is below. Open your eyes and see



https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know#92715467

It's so terrible! Little wonder why the lifespan of men are shorter.

They were busy in Rivers state

odi1278, LawyerLomo, drake99, emmanuelpopson, gafman222, luminouz, sweettinz20

New thread connected to former. The main thread will still get updates.

I am penning this one down here like some sort of "reportage" on my "FIELD WORK"

It is not uncommon anymore seeing marriages and relationships falling apart out of so many reasons bordering from infidelity, domestic violence and other reasons.

Other reasons may stem from incompatibility, financial hardship, sexual weakness etc but about 80% of these breakups are from the first two reasons i stated earlier.

In the event of a breakup in relationship or marriage between two people, for the reason of domestic violence or infidelity, one person is seen as a perpetrator while the other is seen as the victim.

As you all know, in most cases of these events, the men are seen as the perpetrators while the women are seen as the victims. All over social media, we see ladies and women of all ages screaming blue murder about how they made sacrifices for the previous men they dated and how they ended up being dumped by these men.

Many of them who are single mothers from previous failed relationship(s) or failed marriage come online at any slightest opportunity to vent about how their ex got them pregnant and absconded or left her to raise their child alone.

While i would like to truthfully point out that there are indeed dead-beat dads all over the place who are irresponsible, my personal experience has also taught me to be wary and made me look in-depth at the scenarios that come to play while being with a fraction of the women who fall in this category which made be draw a solid conclusion based on my analysis before crucifying the men these women have either been with or are currently with. Oh yes...women who are single and even MARRIED...yes...i have dated them all and even opened a thread about some of my escapades with some of the married women i have had affairs with (see the thread here if you wish to be entertained or "disgusted" depending on your social and "moral standing" in the society)

Before you begin to throw charades at me, ask yourself inwardly if you are any better. We all have done things which society may not be give us accolades for but it takes guts to come out in the open and admit it like i am about to do so read on.

Like i said earlier, women seem to place themselves on the receiving end of most failed relationships and marriage as victims and the men seen as the villian but i have discovered that this is mostly false in it's entirety because most of the time, the man does not speak up.

Between 2014 till date apart from single ladies whom i have had something romantically with, i took a census which arrived at 8 married women and about 9 single mothers i was involved with.

All these women had something bad to say about their present or ex partners except just 1 among them. The only one case who never bad-mouthed her hubby as a matter of fact broke up with me as she said she was feeling pangs of guilt after making out with me and going home.

We were coursemates in the university back then and never talked to each other while in school but got reunited via our alumni Whatsapp group where i found her more appealing and radiant after having 4 kids. I approached her online via Facebook, we started chatting and before you could say "Jack Robinson", we kick-started a steamy amorous affair which but lasted for about 4 months.

While we were together "doing our thing" we never had any serious form of altercation or arguments or fights unlike the other ones who were slandering their partners or ex-partners as the case may be. We only ended it because she still had that love and respect for her husband even though she was caught up in the heat of the moment when i was making passes at her (trust me, i am very sweet-mouthed and artistic in seducing women)

I decided to really sit down and do an in-depth research and analysis and found out that these women's husbands and exes were really not the problem but the women themselves because they eventually displayed their crass attitude which their husbands and partners experienced to me!

The only case i made an exemption of apart from the "coursemate" was the very first married woman i dated. She is a mother of 3 but presently separated from him because of his negligence and the crude behavior from her in-laws which i later investigated and found out to be very true.

Of the other women, i investigated their husbands and found out that for some, they were either slandering the man or there was very little truth in their claims but mostly, the man was being who he was because of the negative and TOXIC character which they eventually displayed to me in due course!

This made me realize that the only and most effective way of finding out if what a married woman says about her husband is true is to DATE HER and in no distant time, her true characteristics will surface because like they say, "A leopard cannot shed its spots"

These women go all over social media groups, talkshows etc talking about how bad men treat them while they are the problems themselves.

Painfully the society takes whatever they say seriously and begin to berate the man because when they narrate "their ordeals", they go emotional and the man is seen as the devil because when he is narrating his own side (that is if he is even given the chance and opportunity to do so) he is barely emotional but says it with either a vent of bile or a straight face.

I will in due course recount my experiences with these women starting from the very first i dated till the last one which i broke up with few days ago.

My reason for creating this thread is to change the narrative that women are generally the victims of failed relationships while to me, it seems it is largely the other way round.

I am not a religious person but the BIBLE which Christians read says in Proverbs 14 that "A wise woman buildeth her home but the foolish woman pulls it down with her own hands"...if we should interpret that passage to my own understanding, it can be said that THE MAN IS THE HEAD OF THE HOUSE while the WOMAN IS THE ONE WHO RUNS THE HOME! This is akin to a captain who steers a ship but the wife is like the ship mate who organizes the crew...if the crew becomes disorderly, the captain can be disoriented and that can wreck the ship!

If we should go with the narrative of the bible which say that the foolish woman pulls her house down with her own hands, then it is pertinent to say that so many of our women are really getting damn foolish these days because of so many broken homes we see and single mothers all over the place who lack decorum and display their brash attitude at any slightest given chance. (APOLOGIES TO THE FEW GOOD ONES WHO ARE THE REAL VICTIMS).

My fellow men, it is time for us to look inwardly...it is high time we begin to take the narratives of these slanderous women with a pinch of salt until we hear from the man's side or better still, try to get involved with the woman and no matter how hard you try to do things differently and better from "her husband or ex who she slandered" you will still get your own fair share of her venom!

A toxic woman will always be toxic even if she dates or marries JESUS CHRIST!

Will drop my harrowing encounters with some of these women whom i dated subsequently on this very thread so you all will learn from it!

Stay tuned!

"Put COVID, put malaria or typhoid"

pooozeee:
Dear Nairalanders

Please permit me to bring this to your notice

One Oche Solomon with diamond bank account 0107292004 and mobile phone number 08185176217 and 08181876328 has been defrauding innocent people on whatsapp and on the Internet using multiple mobile phone numbers.

He has been scamming innocent Nigerians and new people are still falling to his scam using multiple phone numbers.

I am not sure if this mobile phone numbers are properly registered according to the NCC rules and regulations.

I've taken my time to copy out the suspicious phone numbers and also attached some screen shot from his whatsapp activity.

07066766539
07061040421
07017015549
07019829880
07018962659
07030111153
07014175604
07033677766
07033874647
07033683034
07036182399
07036988177
07037135542
07037445170
07030736937
07038422352
07039524792
07039777933
07052726106
07055056544
07056539844
07061523980
07061657969
07061693737
07062829071
07039192316
07038986292
08133823946
08135974618
08138552551
08138639051
08138842584
08139077471
08139590464
08144094266
08140740366
08137142341
08134690942
08148036409
08148061327
08160331623
08155384061
08160339286
08153977589
08145457982
08162202663
08162109067
09038359196
09038530454
09033879508
09032596593
09062708738
09053102608
09065605788
09065475557
09069998833
09066849924
09074646211
09098519006
09096547679

I don't understand!

You sent N20,000 to somebody's account with your eye open wide and you say you were scammed! How?

Women will not hear. They will still patronize those weight loss merchants.

The only way to lose weight in Nigeria are...

1) Lose your job

2) Have no viable source of income

you will definitely lose weight because no food to eat and youll think too much

This one is trying to become relevant again

Misleading title

Kaduna people i hail una o!

Heard they stripped a warehouse of all the palliatives and when the whole food was gone, they stole furniture... when furniture disappeared, they removed the roofing sheets of the warehouse...then the latecomers seeing there was nothing else left STOLE THE GATE!

KanwuliaExtra:
Your opinion sir.
I blame the single moms who asked you for help in the first place.

Don’t help “single dads” either.

Did he tell you single dads asked him for help?

Foolish man! Were you not among those who sold this administration to us?

Did you turn your son back when he brought the N300m Motorbike he had an accident with which almost claimed his life?

Sleeping with other men's wives can be thrilling! As i am talking to you i just bleeped one housewife that owns a provision's store in my area. Her hubby travelled and she was complaining of back pain when i went to see her in her shop and so we arranged she should come to my place this morning so i could massage her back from there, see correct bleeping.

There is this trill you get from nacking married women which is just unexplainable. They can be very sweet and they hardly demand!

OP sorry for your pain sha...your landlord attacked too quickly.

Best wives to bang are those who have spent nothing less than 10 years with hubby because by then, they are craving for new d*ck

I opened a thread about my escapades with them

https://www.nairaland.com/5037157/why-prefer-married-women-single

Dr Ola Brown "collected his share" before paying for her scholarship

Nooil:
I'm posting this for the sake of anyone that will come across this thread and see a mentally unstable fellow by the moniker Decryptor disgracing his ancestors and generation.

Soundproofing is not required building code for rented apartments. It is not required. But when you're doing something for the highbrows, luxury is the name of the game.

Learn about noise pollution control in Nigeria. If you're outside the country, US, UK, and so on, I'm sure you already know that it is a law (building codes) in some jurisdictions to soundproof your house/building. Yes, the govt has this right, not the estate developer or whoever this psychopath has been mentioning. The only visit you'll be receiving if you don't obey soundproof orders is from a building inspector employed by the govt.

Now, a real estate developer will build an estate for elites (high brows), sophisticated people, and allow the walls to have ears. What elite will agree to live in such a place?

I don't know how someone can be depressingly stupid (at least some people are alarmingly stupid), and be proud of it.

For some reason, he thinks an estate developer will be against soundproofing because of security reasons when noise is a security issue as well as a health concern.

Please stay away from poverty broke ass niggars like decryptor. He will definitely die in poverty.




This is the slowpoke's comment. For some reason, a real estate developer will sacrifice the peace and quiet of the houses in the estate because of some so-called emergency situation.

There are no other technologies available to alert residents in case of an "emergency situation". They'll have to sacrifice the health concerns and privacy of the residents of a high brow area.

What a demented fellow!

People like him are the reason why buildings collapse in Nigeria, because of his archaic and poverty mentality.

Hey! I read the comments between you and decryptor. The guy is right. There is no estate i know of which will be prone to so much noise such as massive vehicular movements, loud blaring of music, gasoline generators, loud honking of vehicle horns etc. These things mentioned rarely occur in estates but are a norm in middle-class areas and low-income areas.
I remember when i visited a relative in an estate in Port Harcourt. You could barely hear any noise only for the periodic passing of vehicles in space of so many minutes. Everywhere was so damn quiet that you would think people left their houses and ran away.
If there is a case of noise being a health concern to any person living in the estate they can decide to buy the place personally and put soundproof to their taste.

OritaIbadan:
I employed this 21years old lady last year as a sales rep. At resumption to work she appeard so decent and godly always With her Bible and Sunday school manual. I was really impressed by her spiritual and respectful nature. This made me treat her different from others. I buy her things and sometimes gives her money and always discuss her good life style with my wife. But what amazed me was that my wife was so indifferent about her each time I discuss her my wife will quickly change the topic. I thought, well woman with their naughty behavior towards other women.

Fast forward to June first this year her phone was stolen and I have a phone in office that I allow them access to incase their phone is off I can easily reach them through it. This faithful day, I tried to access my Facebook account using the office phone and found out that this same lady had used it but forget to logout. Well, I knew it was wrong to check her inbox but all the same I did.

After checking her inbox I couldn't sleep all night. I found out that she is having unprotected sex with 5 guys each guy per Sunday and she just did an abortion March this year the very day she told me that she was sick and can't make it to work and she wasn't sure who among the guys that impregnated her. I also found out that she had missed her period again and trying to hang it on one of the boys. The amazing thing is that non of these guys suspects her, they all believe she is a faithful girl friend.

I have thought of relieving her of her job, but my wife is asking me what should I give as reasons. But the truth is that I had never winessed such a wayward life before. If I pretend as though I know nothing she will eventually commit another abortion and continue with such life which is very dangerous at her age. What if she is my own daughter?

Please I want the mode to push this to the front page. I want to seek others opnion about it

She is a pure and unadulterated representation of what Naija girls are! That is why 85% of HIV infections are on the female gender

Ade-YEYE!

There is truly power in names!!

Jail the IDIOT!

Patiently waiting for jobless Nairaland feminists misandrists to come here to blame the husband and defend the murderer and the deceased mother!

Sowore has become hungry! He wants DSS to arrest him and feed him in detention!