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Need to make some corrections. Its brigadier-general and colonel comes after brigadier-general then lt Col.

Adesiji77:
For those who have gotten the "license"


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3087953/An-orgasm-day-lower-man-s-risk-prostate-cancer-20-study-reveals.html#ixzz3ahnLIdY1

I have issues with this study. Its a well known fact that black men are far more sexually active than other races. So why then is prostrate cancer cases higher in black men than other races?

DollyParton1:
Nîğğâ please...... swerve!!!!

spoke d english nah!

DollyParton1:
What's there to learn? Pray tell me.
People like you encourages spousal abuse.

Eya common english u can't spoke

babyosisi:
You need to wake up
You need to wake up
You need to wake up
How much louder can I say this
Wake up!!

Every woman's first choice of a caregiver in this case is their mother
How can you have a living mother and your first choice will be your MIL who doesn't care anything about you
You are dishonoring that woman that gave birth to you
The Bible says children honor your father and mother so that your days will be long
Your husband dishonors your mother and you sign off on it
Shame on you

I think ure sick. With ur mentality divorce is crouching at ur door.

DollyParton1:
The MIL is not innocent per say. At that point that she realised her DIL has been hurt, I think she should have shown care at least. She even came to the house without waiting to say hello to her DIL.

Just like u wrote earlier, nickibarb is not focusing on the real issues here. The problem is with her and her husband.
Your husband doesn't like your mom and you are indulging him. I tell anyone that cares to listen that I dont joke with my parents and siblings, there is no way in hell, that I will allow my husband to disrespect my family, if they haven't disrespected him. He even tried to lock you out because he doesn't want you to sneak back to take the kids to your parents. It shows how much he despises them.

Secondly your husband hurt you (intentionally or unintentionally), and the next thing is to pacify you with some kisses and Italian wears. That right there is a classic sign of an abuser. He dint even appologise or try to talk about it. And you went ahead to collect the the gift. Weldone.

People like u don't learn. Ur style results in more divorces in our society.

nickibarb:
Thanks for your suggestion, but what exactly should I say I'm sorry about when I apologise? cos i believe you should be sorry about something when you're making an apology otherwise it's just empty words.

when I got back, my husband came up to me, kissed me passionately and gave me a box of new clothes and stuff he ordered from Italy that had just arrived. I told him i was tired of fighting. i guess that's us making up. he has never really told me sorry before so that's as much apology as I can ever expect. i think the only people who haven't made up are my MIL and I.

Ure small minded if u think ill of ur MIL. Infact u should be very grateful to her. I'm guessing she's been covertly making ur marriage work. Everyone has their methods of making things work. I guess one thing u'll need to learn is stooping to conquer. What u should do immediately is to send ur MIL an SMS thanking her for her help in covertly diffusing d situation. Tell her u were initially angry u didn't understand her style. Get her a gift as a show of appreciation. I guarantee that would earn u a phone call and make-up make out. Control ur temper, ur tongue and be politely persuasive backed with prayers.

Are u d seller or uve been given d mandate

siraj1402:
So APC and Alhaji Muhammad (In Ruben Abati's voice) are actually right?Time will tell.
Meanwhile need to take some relaxation.
To the post above me,whom ever wishes Buhari to fail is indirectly saying Nigeria and Nigerians should remain where they are.I pray Nigeria and Nigerians move forward positively and whomever doesn't wish such will not witness it happening. Simple.

hmmm, Obj wan spoil this camera. Anyway u think dis statement go, na u get brain.

Trailblazer1:
If them born you well look for their trouble.


Don't even bother toasting the girls o, if you no wan die

In fact, according to one unreliable source the last guy that attempted to rape one of the girls is now in the mortuary

Seun front page please

Imagine an armed robber in that house? Hmmm, I'm sorry for someone.

Hmmm! I directed traffic @tantalizer/Forte Oil junction only to land at Maroko police station because of a very useless woman who rend my shirt cos she was impatient and wasn't allowed to jump d queue to buy fuel on night b4 election. Got to d police station and they were even blaming me for directing traffic. If u know ure ready to serve Christ then go ahead. If uren't then I don't advice it. Otherwise u'll regret it.

What state is this located? What's d farm's proximity from Lagos?

D fact is that d man ought to have resigned d minute GEJ lost d election

koife:
Well, her father is late and her mom have single handedly provided for them since her childhood. The father ppl had neglected them for close to 20yrs now. Her mom is not close to any of her kings men. I'd like to navigate tru that axis but there is just no Lee way. So that leaves the mom the only prime persons to deal with...she herself despises her late hubby pipo
Tnx ol d same

then hold 3 possible meetings with her mum. 1st one should centre on getting to relate with her. Knowing how she has fared thus far. Ask questions as regards help they got. Maybe d church helped, perhaps key individuals helped from the church. Perhaps a family member who is a member of the church is a key factor. Perhaps very strict church doctrine on marriage. If her mum is d obstinate factor then meet again with her and daughter and plead with her mum. If she's not forth coming then allow sometime and meet with her using carrot and stick. This will make them realize in the future u own ur home and outside interference isn't welcome.

TrishaP:
Your Vaseline is always there to cool you down when she doesn't reply. Take heart.

Chei wickedness dey learn for where u dey. Mean and ruthless.

koife:
Church of christ

sleekman:
what is COC?

most marriage planning requires a lot of politics. U should lookout for key actors in this script u'll maneuver to ur camp. The important thing is how she responds to you because this can actually tell u what to expect when ure married. Is she being tactical or obstinate? If d latter then I'm afraid that woman's not meant for u. If she's being tactical, then u need to go political. Some private vists with d key actors and some very informal meeting btw family heads as well as a senior church representative from a neutral church they both respect.

koife:
she ecwa...me coc

what is COC?

koife:
She Said White Wedding In Her Church Or Nothing by koife(m): 4:41pm
I met this young Lady some years ago, fell in love with her and finally proposed last year. I decided to make neccesary findings so as to get the whole deal through, but hit a serious brick wall. She said that the tradition in her church and family is that the man does the wedding in her church or nothing ...her mother isn't helping issues. My dad is a Bishop in a church that doesn't believe in white wedding talk less of going to another church to do it. I had a chitchat with him and he declared to me in confidence that I am the man and I should be the shot caller. The downside is that if I dare try it, my dad will be excommunicated. Having seen the danger that lies ahead I confided in my father that we can take the so call white wedding to a neutral place outside the walls of her church so not to give my church the reason to lynch my dad. I disscued this with her but she and most esp her mom aren't giving my proposal a thought. First her mother has nothing to loose been that the proximity will be such that her friends and colleague will still turn in their numbers..since her reasons in the first place was because she wanted a good attendance esp from people within her church circle and that she has been attending peoples wedding and they all are waiting for her daughters and that I can't afford to dash her own chance of inviting people.I find this very selfish....considering the fact that she hasn't given thought about my faith and what will happen to my dad...hence my proposal for a neutral place. I am very confused as I write and really want some good advise here.....
Pls I beg you, it a thing of the heart...
Kindly ignore if you don't have any reasonable contribution
Tnx

what church do u and ur fiancé attend?

baralatie:
hmmmmm!there is one room self containtwo room self contain and there is one bedroom flat self contain.it is was not specified by the op!guess the ladies will go for the better!

Oga stop making up things that don't exist. A self contain is a room with toilet bath and kitchen. Mini flat is room and parlour. Better learn and don't go disgracing urself outside.

babaolope:
500 Acres of land at Oniganrigan 1 Ibeju Lekki by Free trade Zone

PLOT NET: TITTLE C.OF.O

Pls mail me for more info: olope2015@yahoo.com

how much?

mirexxx:
a parlor,bedroom,bathroom,kitchen n store

you don't even know what a self contain is. Its just a room that is ensuite with a kitchen. That is a room, kitchen and bathroom.

Find out yourself.
www.emsng.com/Online_Calculator.aspx

farano:
Congrats Denrele. She looks beautiful

https://instagram.com/denrele_edun/

she looks gay. This looks like an arranged marriage.

Herzumpther:
Thanks a lot.

u can also beat it on a chop board with a knife if a blender is unavailable.

menix:
Hmm...

Sure its a Ponzi scheme buh d truth b told, wen this started it was genuie cous som used it trading on shares, crude etc buh wen majority of nigerians queued in, it failed cous d commercial banks were not happy cous pple prefered it than bringing funds to d bank...

Yes dey ate my fund as far back 2007, buh d authorities(Soludo was instrumental) caused it..

I had this colleague who was able to purchase two properties in lagos, 1 at Apapa nd d oda at Kirikiri town nd she is so thankful today to d so called Ponzi scheme thou she lost her 1.5 million naira pricipal buh she gained more frm them...

Its not advisable going into such now cous d authorities frown at such...

Ponzi schemes always look legit from d beginning. They always have gnashing of teeth and regret at the end. In a ponzi scheme, if u start off with d scheme then u stand to make a lot of money because they must sell the authenticity to unsuspecting, greedy people. Ponzi schemes are illegal but if ure lucky to meet one that has just started off then ure in luck. Number one ponzi schemer is Mudolf serving 50yrs in a US jail.

unclebee:
The people of South south shouldn't miss d chances this time so that they will not compain of nationalizations. They should cooperate and support Gov. Rotimi Amaechi who aligned with the newly elected Federal Govt. all sentiment should be be put aside and join the progressives.Developmental change which most Militants has been fighting for can now be realised,please let's have common focus on issues.

U think we're that stupid? We don't need 2 align anywhere. D FG needs us not d other way round. The FG doesn't pls us they'll be broke. Its as simple as that.

pafestula:
Your Contribution would have made a lot of sense, but very contradictory type to be realistic.

1. If am a runs man, would I opened my iPad in the presence of my wife? not even with password o.

2. He left the lady based on maturity ground and obviously the lady showed him no affection and love, after he read the chats between us.. what else?

3. If am indeed her customer... this thread won't come up.

guy na so u chicken reach? Ignore ur wifes moodiness. Go out and come back in like nothing is amiss. She'll either get over it or she'll want to talk about it.

Ewuro4:
What??

Una dey place curse on your brides during traditional marriage?

If She Cheats Thinking She Is Sharp The D Curse I Activated. If She Confesses Then She Must Appear B4 D Egbe And B Prayed 4.

Ewuro4:
Dead over what, Murder??

either murder or d curse from traditional marriage

elantraceey:
You need that better than I do ,don't you think so?

Chei! Ur case is very serious. Add sepe join am.