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Kobicove:
Is it your neighbours that should pass judgement on your wife?

She was caught red-handed by the neighbours you dey here dey preach what exactly? Abeg if na alcohol u need this evening you better get one fast.

Perused through all you wrote and I'll advice accordingly.
It seems you love your wife deeply and its hurting you like hell that she's this irresponsible. If I advice you to leave hers, you won't because you have got a rigid mindset which frankly might be another source of problems with your wife.
Let no one deceive you that it's her sin and waywardness that's affecting you. If you're a Christian, prayerful and all then the Grace that covers you, covers your wife. Never make the mistake of seeking solutions in spiri houses otherwise you'll be bargaining for far worse problems.
Divorce your wife and stay unmarried or remain with her, use a condom and help her seek help. Her mother is that way. She's been indoctrinated by her mother so don't waste your time. Don't eat anything she cooks till there's total repentance.
My candid advice though will be to break up your union. She has since left you. Move on my brother. Alternatively, you can pick up a second wife. Marrying à second wife isn't wrong, rather it's necessitated by circumstances beyond your control. Make sure your second is aware of the first and vice versa. Let your 1st wife remain where she is and let the second be where you are. They must never be under the same roof or same city. That way you are free. Let her be her and you be you. Shine your eye well before you embark on the second journey. Under no circumstance must you eat something from the 1st. If you must do, grab ya rubber.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/constructionreviewonline.com/2014/08/nigeria-federal-government-completes-dredging-527km-river-niger/%3famp

https://247ureports.com/2012/09/onitsha-river-ports-many-unanswered-questions/

https://sweetcrudereports.com/govt-to-provide-security-for-onitsha-river-port-bound-cargoes/

https://container-mag.com/2011/09/07/two-liebherr-lhm-180-cranes-for-onitsha-river-port/

Please argue with facts next time. That port was visible for all to see from the river Niger bridge. It was completed. Buhari left it dormant just to take glory for what was completed.

NGpatriot:
This news article is from 2011, the project was initiated 30 years ago under Shagari Administration, Yaradua awarded the contract and construction started in under Yaradua.

Read the news, educate yourself and stop embarrassing yourself with lies and misinformation.4

i still don't understand what was so difficult about infrastructures and similar projects all over the country that previous administrations abandoned for decades when money was flowing all over the place, when we did not have to borrow 1 kobo to do anything. Why?

What was so difficult about building and commissioning ordinary river port that it must be abandoned and remain unproductive for decades.

Why is it that PMB with little money is the only president commissioning projects, completing projects that past administrations abandoned for decades. Why?.

And the same useless, lazy, incompetent looting and stealing people want to come back. For what? To abandon more projects and send us back for decades. ?

gideonvalor98:
slowpoke! Omugo! You still dey on this "gej started it" chorus... You need to report to your village for immediate attention cos your case is getting out of hand and only your family members have answer to it

GEJ conceived and completed that mini port. Kaduna, Lokoja, Onitsha inland waterways ports are all the brainchild of NOI & GEJ.

GEJ conceived and brought these ports to life. Buhari came in and abandoned them all these while. Thank God its now operational. Thanks to NOI & GEJ.

Chicastle:
But why did they fixed the election in rainy season, did they expect those with "Umbrella to loose?

This question carry weight O! � � � �

NettyNelly:
But I heard Microsoft is moving to acquire tiktok. Won't that be bad news for Bill Gates.
I offer professional branding for your Business. Check my portfolio on my signature

Bill Gates owns less than 10% of Microsoft. He has long divested into other endeavours especially charity & philanthropy.

LordNicvuitton:
Hi Romancelanders, don't know if it's right to share this topic here, but I'll do for now.

I'm Victory, from the East and currently a resident of Edo state. I came to this state, as an intern and thereafter, still served here and in the course of all these, I thought out and established a laundry business, which is just about 8 months old. This was to keep life going and to better bond well with the lady in my life currently.

While in Edo state, having rounded my internship & kickstarting service sometime around 2017, I met this Kiki Osemudiamen (Name changed), and it was nothing serious at 1st, cos I never really thought I'd date someone here, fact is that I never thought I'd stay beyond my service year. I met her while she was in 200l. We encouraged each other, she saw potentials and had faith in me just like I have so much faith in her. She is simplistic, encourages me to save and I in turn, encouraged her and guided her through some of her studies. She passed her 2nd MB.BS. and is currently awaiting lifting of the lockdown on schools, so she can start her clinicals.

Problem is that she came from a not buoyant family financially, and although both parents are alive, she struggles to survive/feed daily. Her dad supplies about 1000litres/trip water to households, while her mum sells at the local market. I on the other hand, came from a middle class family but my Dad is late since 2012, and I've been a sponsor of my education and that of my younger ones through the lil I inherited (which mum manages for now) plus my various endeavours. She depends on me for daily meals and other basic essentials, in fact I had to place her on salary in my laundry shop during this lockdown, so she plays the role of secretary in my shop too.

The latest challenge came about, yesterday. While she slept in the shop, I was out on errand, someone sneaked into the shop and stole her android phone with all of her e-medics textbooks (she reads mostly e-copies because she can't afford hardcopies), she has been crying all through and I really don't know what to do. Since I knew her, She'd been an appendage and an extra financial burden to me, I can't begin to list what I've done for her, although I kept reminding her never to not have entitlement mentality and she does appreciate. Out of desperation to ease her pain, I promised to sponsor her in getting a new phone. I have burdens, huge ones, I'm yet to acquire a diesel engine for my laundry (I use ponytail industrial iron which has higher voltage/current than normal ones), plus other related merchandise that I need to set up and I feel like she slows down my financial pace.

Honestly, I don't do all these for her, hoping for any personal gains, in the words of my daddy in the Lord, Prophet T.B. Joshua, He said and I quote: "We make a living by what we get and we make a life by what we give" but I am almost fed up and tired, especially when I remember that both her parents are still alive.. I am scared that that for the 1st time, I may fail her in that financial obligation because I honestly need money now, with the whole pandemic issue plus, I feel like she slows me down in life financially and a huge burden to me. Right now, she's so attached to me, more so that when I initially wanted to hault our relationship, it almost nearly affected her academics negatively. Please I need matured minds to help me think this through and garnish me with advice(s) because I almost feel so choked up and a rising urge to relocate from here, so i can breathe again.

NB: Advice from married couples and those in serious relationships, will be highly appreciated.

Modified: She went to her bank (First bank) this morning, only to be informed that about 20k (Her mum's business money) has been used to purchase recharge voucher. Her mum sends/receives money from distant customers through her account. Yesterday's scenario, all over again. Please folks, lock your SIM cards just as much as you lock your phones. Learn from this painful experience please.

Oga you need to be smart. First off, do you love her? If you do then find out if she loves you too. If she does then get married. You don't need plenty money to marry. Marry that beautiful ass uve got and protect your investment. Pop up the question and watch her reaction as you do. Love should be the basis of all you do. Marriage and her bearing your kids will surely protect your interests. When she commits then you too are required to commit unreservedly. You aren't one hence your fear. If you were one in spirit then you would not entertain such fears. If you had the money then you could take a gamble or perhaps just sow unreservedly into someones life.

skimena:
Last month made it 4 years since my neighbor travelled to Italy via the Mediterranean Sea. Thank God for him, he arrived safely irrespective of the hurdles on the way.

He left behind a beautiful young woman not up to 29 years of age and with a little daughter of 6 years old.

Prio to this time I wasn't close to the wife but as time goes by this woman started greeting me frequently, exchanging cd plates with me even joining me to watch movies sometimes. I started noticing she's hot with her sexy hairy body. One night she opened up to me that she needs the touch of a man if we could be doing it secretly because her husband still promise to come for her hence what she needs is someone to be touching her once in a while and it must be a secret.

I truely like the offer but I'm scared of betraying my neighbor by banging his wife. I'm still thinking about it.

Mumu na im u be. Person wen get mind pass désert, cross the Mediterranean reach Italy na im u dey consider to sleep with im wife? You no think am say with all that liver wen im get, wetin e go do you. I'm sure he's a Bini man. Try am and your life will never be the same again. A trial will convince you. Otu!

Championxxx:
Thanks ma I agree with you, I think the reason why his wife carry his sisters to the house is because she wanted me out that is why they had been treating me bad so I can leave the house for them

Madam wants to run her side runs. Your brother doesn't completely trust his wife either that's why he wants you in that house. Your brother knows e don enter one chance and you are his security while he's away. Most married men are like that.
My guy swallow insult and slap O! E dey pain but na motivation to get ur own. Double ya hustle. No thief O! That woman can set you up big time so get prepared for that. That woman is very capable of running outside runs. She knows with you in the picture her bubble can burst. Never hit a woman. I repeat, never hit a woman. The more you can resist hitting her & ignoring her big time makes you a real man. Women don't like to be ignored. I guess you have been ignoring her that's why she pushed that button. It would have hurt her more if you were non-chalant about it. Na school u dey so O! So learn very well.

franugo:
Did u bloody well have to quote the entire opsee as u carry person go drop for page 2

I tire O! ����

khalhokage:
So he didn't actually invent anything, I mean turbines at centuries old technology.

Abeg no mind the OP jare. Invent ni, copy ko. This is clearly Axial magnet generator. Something that's clearly all over YouTube. I can bet my left balls that what I can see in that pic will burn up after 4hrs of constant peak current. You need between a 7 and 14 gauge pure copper coil to build this sort of turbine.
Secondly, there's no gear that I can see in place.

myboy2111:
Where are the projects? You are only posting renovations . Predecessors built those projects you ascribing to Obaseki in the name of renovations

my friend shut the hell up. Which predecessor? All the projects highlighted were initiated and completed by him with the exception of Ogbemudia stadium which is a world class renovation.

that's not an antelope, that's a deer.

This title is so so wrong. He's not been found guilty yet until then he's a suspect.

Elzak:
But some people who don't know how admission works in ABU were shouting religion up and down.

They will still come to comment without reading the post.

Modified

Some idiots have been on my mention. I won't reply them and the ones to come.

So you believe that cock and bull story from Jamb? From Jamb scores alone, it's clear she was the best from Niger state. They were clearly caught out over their islamisation agenda that hat been in the works for years. Is ABU trying to tell us that it's only 37 x 2(74) students they accepted to study medicine? We want them to declare the admissions list and the criteria for admittance.

etrange:
Police will not get your items back and they'll even charge you for the statement.... Sad but it's always good and advisable to report such things to the police cause it doesn't take time before you start hearing stuff like "... but did you report?"

Police work according to your pocket. If u want results pay well.

Mike4S:
No, I just packed in there

Report to the police and pay them to investigate the agent and owner of the house. Also, you probably dropped your key/s where it could easily be duplicated. I know some thieves move around with a set of master keys.
Another very important advice for you. Always change your locks when you change apartment or break up with an ex. Especially an ex u don't trust.

I'll advice that your dad buys a half plot or quater plot if possible. Build 2 nos mini flats. Call for a meeting with the ummuna, have a written agreement and hand them the keys and documents after they've moved out. Give them a week to move their things out. If they don't agree then bring out the guns. It's all out war. Approach the state high court with a lawyer and have no mercy whatsoever. Even when they later turn around to beg, no mercy. Cut them off. They are devil's.

Fmr governor Lucky Igbinedion should be on that list. Plea bargain counts as conviction.

Na MUMU you be. I sure say you neva marry. Na people like you dey spoil another man food wen dey taste okay with plenty salt. Mtchew. Abeg carry your worwor go one corner jare.

MamaFryo:
I need to arrest your husband right away. That guy needs to be locked in the cell for his head to be correct. Tell him to kukuma kill you na!


Let me book space here to hear from other people...

LegendVibes:
Former President Goodluck Jonathan has accused Nigerian politicians of undermining the electoral system in Nigeria.

Jonathan who spoke in Port Harcourt during the presentation of a book by Gabriel Toby, a former deputy governor of Rivers on Thursday November 14, called for the adoption of electronic system of voting to curb electoral malpractices as he stated that the country would not have deteriorated to this point if people’s votes mattered.

He admitted that there is an assumption that every politician is useless but averred that people don't change when elected into public office. The Bayelsa-born politician insisted that what happens is we vote for people we do not know.

He said: “The assumption is that every politician is useless, but the question of whether people change when they are elected into public office is something political analysts, researchers should unravel.

“However, I believe that people do not change when they get into political office, rather we voted for people we do not know.

“It is difficult to know people until you give the person political office and public funds to spend, that’s when you know the true character of such fellow.

"Another key issue is that we do not vote people into leadership offices, they use different means to get into office.

“When we develop as a nation to a point where our votes count, when people vote who they believe in, the behaviour of politicians will change.”

http://igberetvnews.com/1138483/difficult-know-people-given-political-office-ex-president-jonathan/

I agree with you and that's why we need to incorporate blockchain into the e-voting process. This way no single or multiple individuals can manipulate the results.

horlahsunbo225:
This one pass me make i wait for the elders

Oga you don chop menses. Short and simple.

Abeg go sikodo go one corner. Which one you discover? Yeye thing

indoorlove:
He tried as a 12 years old boy. However there are many of such things on the internet. Rules of divisibility is the first thing you learn in number theory. I.e divisibility by 2,3.......11

My guy just apply and join the Air force. I swear all that rubbish go stop.

eddy1234:
OK friends ...I have a lot in my hands and I need matured advice not to make mistakes please... I lost my rich aunt last year ....she handed over her properties and two kids to me to take care ...(adopted.the girl is 20yrs .just finished jamb .the boy is 12yrs .just going into js1)

now I'm 39. not married.and lost my job 2months ago....no liquid cash left but I have in my custody 4 units of 3bedroom flats ....also a 6 bedroom duplex not yet finished so no tenant yet... since my aunt was so secretive I had to start looking for other houses she didn't say...I have found two in an estate .....somewhere...nobody knows about it but me.I'm yet to find out more properties about 4. I have a new kia sport age jeep too in my possession ....


now d demand for upkeep and school fees from these two kids is really eating me up...have to borrow pending wen tenants pay .late payment most times....

now I'm turn in between selling one of the houses I found out on code. 10million.just a small apartment....I know I can start life wit it.love most of the problems,look for more properties and complete the 6 bedroom duplex.... my question and fear is that should I sell it and start life or keep managing with tenant fee and late payment ..?

So I'm about to give you a million-dollar advice so I will expect some form of appreciation later. Just kidding.
Do not sell any of those properties. Time and circumstances changes people. Focus on your own game and use the proceeds of the rent to cater for your niece and nephew. Proceeds should be able to cater for their schooling and upkeep. If you can do a long lease on some other properties then do. If a tenant is owing more than year's rent then write the tenant a 6-months eviction notice and make sure the said tenant gets the letter in person.
If the uncompleted properties are in choice locations then get a developer to brake up that property into flats, and do a Redevelop, operate and transfer. How this works is this. The developer will agree the number of years he'll require to recoup his investment with some profit. Meanwhile after developing the property, he'll leave you one or two units of the flat as a form of lease for the number of years he's controlling the property. This leasehold might range from 7-12years depending on your bargaining power and the quality of materials that will be used during construction.
I find it hard to believe that your aunt has that number of properties and no money in her account. You better get in touch with a lawyer who will compel banks to disclose to you monies in those accounts although this is subject to who the beneficiaries of those accounts are of which I'm suspecting should be her kids.

What happens to wearing skirts with shorts inside? What happened to wearing skirts with leggings? Na wa for those foolish officials. S these girls mean they prefer to show the colour of their pant and map of their abunani all in the name of sticking to their religion? Foolishness is unquantifiable.

Dem no buy perfume and body deodorant for am too? Hehehehehehehehehe...

Abeg that slap needs to go lower.

danny56:
Sharrap.

All of you blaming the guy are all very stupid. If it was the babes apartment then that's understandable but not inside his own apartment. Common guys, many of you would have done worse. Rubbish! The guy no mark im body? Yeye.

Another man on my matrimonial bed? The man is very nice Lord knows I would have done worse. Na here lawyers dey fit claim temporal insanity. She's extremely lucky. Hian!

mii4u:
Wat do u think?

Maybe where she's mirroring