₦airaland Forum

coolluk:
people like u are the most tribalistic kind on earth and u think everybody else thinks like u

isn't he asking or stating d obvious? How man northerners did u see on that list? The slow islamization of dis country continues.

Adamsdelrio:
Everything you are about to read is absolutely true. I seriously need your advice on this issue before I do something I will regret

. I completed my academic recently and I traveled to my uncle's house, on his invitation to look for a job. My mother was against my journey to my uncle's house because she knew that his wife is going to cause me a lot of trouble. I didn't listen to her because I believe I'm a big boy and I can take care of myself in any unfavourable condition.


With great excitement, I arranged my things and headed straight for the longest journey of my life. We travelled for about 9-10hrs! I've never traveled that long. I got to my destination without any stress..


Don't let me bore you with a long story. Ever since I got here, it's been from one trouble to another with my uncle's wife. She complains about everything I do. If I touch anything in the house, she will surely has something bad to say about it. She's so over censorious about anything that concerns me in the house. Sometimes when I'm watching a programme on TV, she will just come and switch it off or change the channel. There are 3 functioning TV in the house but it's the one I'm watching that she likes tampering with.


There was a day she repeated the same thing and I became angry. I couldn't take it that day so I told her about what she's doing. She told me what I will never forget in a hurry that day. She said 'This is my house and I can do and undo'. I was angry that day and I talked back at her. She reported me to my uncle that day. I apologised to her without countering any of her lies because I don't want to disrespect my uncle by arguing with his wife at his presence.


She's been doing a lot of things to provoke me in the house but I always keep quiet. She's a very good liar and a troublemaker. She does all these things when her husband is not around and I don't want to report her to her husband because it's going to look as if I'm bringing trouble into the family. Please, I need your advice. How can I live peacefully with the woman?

chairman everything is ur fault. I passed through similar situation b4. I realised I was at fault. Solution: 5am bath, get dressed and leave the house. If ure in motion U'll get a job. If u get comfortable watching tv u won't get one. So thank ur stars she's not framing u up. Come back late and make sure u have eaten outside. If u must get friends that have flats u can hang out with then do that. Na job u come find not watch TV. If u enter ur room then lock urself in there until ure ready to leave d next morning. If there's food for u eat but don't expect any. Haggle ur uncle to grant u some pocket money or borrow u so just for u to be in motion.. Get a BB fone with Os 7.1 activate for 1500 or 1000, search for jobs and apply on jobsites like Jobberman, nairaland, olx etc. Just get something doing. Start buying some foodstuff when u come home. Don't spend much. Minimize ur expenditures.

olola4:
It started around February,this woman happens to be a colleague at work but is 3year old marriage broke(with 2 kids)and her husband who I know as a very aggressive man (on the day he came to visit his wife at the office, I think he came to give her something he almost slap the security officer who was asking him what he came to do) sent the wife out of the house.After the husband have sent the wife away the only option the wife(my colleague at work) have is to move to the residence of her elder sister who happened to be my own neighbour in the same flat.

At first the only thing I do is to drop her children at school and carry her along to the office, later since am still single and am the only one leaving in my flat except sometimes when my fiancee or my younger brother come spend some days/weeks in my place, she started coming to my flat to watch film,she said her sister didnt subscribe and she is missing her favourite T.V. programs and opera, later she started watching film over night and now she is now leaving in my flat with the excuse that her sister's husband send her packing.

The problem now is that my fiancee cant come over to my place, i have to always lie to her that am not at home, and the woman herself is seducing me by wearing tight inside the house, also am the one to buy everything including foodstuffs and provisions even toothpaste.

The day I sat her down and told her that am not comfortable with her staying with me she was crying and when her one year old daughter saw her crying she also started crying and also she brings visitors which I hate,this will make me be like a stranger in my house.

pls fellow nairalander i need your advice.

@op I have very strong words for. An accomplice to a crime is a criminal. That woman ure habouring is about to set ur life back by at least 10yrs. Delayed marriage, delayed favour etc etc. So if u like urself drive her to her husbands house ASAP. Don't just drive her away from ur flat but rather carry her things and she as well as her kid and drop them in front of her husband... Take dust from d ground dat uve never touched her. Tell d husband dat is his property and he should take care of her. Don't listen to any pleas or whatever.. Do it ASAP

offspec:
If the guy is not a breach to your peace, i'll advice you leave him. The nightmares you have are as a result of the ill feelings you have towards him. To that guy, you are his messiah and trust me, he will never forget you.

@Ishilove the nightmares are as a result of an evil spirit possessing ur friend or just around him to ensure no one helps him. So if u'll take my advice this is what u must do. Sit him down and let him know about ur nightmares. If ure a spiritual individual tell him ure willing to pray and fast with him so that he can be delivered. If he refuses then u tell him he has to leave ur house. If uren't spiritual then just tell him ure afraid of d spirit(s) around him and u want him to leave. He'll respect u more that way. Tell him to source for help. Watch his countenance and his reaction. If he acts surprised/bemused then implore on him to seek help.. If he doesn't then u have to raise d gear. He just might be d devil himself..

Born2eatPussy:
Thank God I'm a real man

. When na nnenemi be ur food why u no go behave like vegetable...

totorimi:
It foes not warrant abuse ke Hana
I only analyzed the story and picked a hole in it and I can safely conclude from your body language and reaction that you took the prostitute home and you paid dearly for it. this type Pf thing can only happen to people like you with loose morals.

A prostitute cannot just see you on the street and fight you and the next thing obtain 150k from you without knowing if you are capable of dolling out such amount.

I'll take a prostitute home and this happened then I'll come to nairaland to display my stupidity. Thank u O! Clap for urself. Ure d wisest man in Africa

mykel25:
This OP just want to create awareness that he's got money so babes in here ll be all over him....ode buruku

back to sender. No worry ur mumu go soon shine so bright for police to see.

totorimi:
A major part of this story is missing. You were on your own and a prostitute insulted you and you insulted her back and a brawl ensued and police was called in and you parted with 150k to avoid further expenses.
First we're you in the prostitute house or you were in a normal place because if you were not within her space how did you know she was a prostitue. Secondly where did she come and arrest you, in your house or on the street. It is obvious you took a stranger to your house and maybe she found out you are living a false life perhaps a married man you are so she capitalized on it together with her police cronies they flicked you of 150k. You might have deliberately parted with such money in view of the scandal and embarrassment it may cause you so to avoid it you paid.

Well big lesson for you never ever take a prostiyute to your home it is risky and dangerous. Sorry for your loss bro.

you think I patronise prostitutes like u. The story is better experienced than imagined. I only came to educate people. This one that's holier than thou I Pity u.

egopersonified:
Op, don't mind all these doubting thomas, same thing happened to a friend last year

400billionman:
Nah God save me o. Quarrel just broke out between me and one of these ladies. Luckily for her, police dey nearby and was even threatening her that she was in the wrong. Next thing, policeman say he wants to deal with the girl for refusing to listen to his advice, say make he carry us go station make I complain against the girl, I said. NO SIR.
I kukuma enter my car run. But guy, if I were you, I would have written a petition to the the state commissioner of police, I sabi use that trick turn case against any iddiiot who wants to defraud me..

egopersonified:
Op, don't mind all these doubting thomas, same thing happened to a friend last year

guy she was claiming almost a million at Maroko. I had to petition d CP lagos. it was they who were able to bring it to N150k. My lawyer told me since I didn't claim damages when I wrote my statement that I goofed there. So I have learnt d hard and expensive way.

EggovinMma:
Sweetheart, how that one wan take happen?I am a female.

just wait until ure framed up in a police wahala then u'll remember this moment and how smart u were.

entparrot:
I believe the op, our police have started this manipulation of collaborating with someone to act as a complainant to set people up, it's happening everyday in Pedro Police station bariga.

Preparing false charges against someone and charging them to court if they refuse to corporate is now business as usual.

You will only understand, if you become one of their victims.

thank u very much. I guess when they fall victim they'll realize I warned them.

EggovinMma:


Bros this ya tori get Q leg o
A prostitute attacked you for no reason?
Abi you fuccck finish, drink beer for her body you jo gree pay.




You get luck she no use teeth drag your wini wana comot!

I pray u get similar experience very soon. Amen

YerYer:
OP please go and marry, all these "smallies" or prostitutes will only get u into trouble. I find it funny that you are warning your fellow johnnies on NL to beware of this scam tactic.

u are very silly. What does being married have with getting duped especially by d 9ja police that's supposed to protect us?

delishpot:
Op, you carried an ashie or a random ashie just attacked you? I dont get it, nor vex biko try explain it to me.

no I didn't carry an ashy. She insulted me continuously and then my dad and then I had had enuf so I called her an ashy. She came slapped me and tore my shirt. I wanted to retaliate and tear hers too then bystanders waded in. I tot it was over only to be arrested by gun wielding cops. I was arrested a week after.

delishpot:
Op, you carried an ashie or a random ashie just attacked you? I dont get it, nor vex biko try explain it to me.

no I didn't carry an ashy. She insulted me continuously and then my dad and then I had had enuf so I called her an ashy. She came slapped me and tore my shirt. I wanted to retaliate and tear hers too then bystanders waded in. I tot it was over only to be arrested by gun wielding cops.

galaxy15:
Lol... That's weird ooo...

u say weird? Pray u don't fall for their techniques. There are professional troublemakers

Mod I'll like this on fp so that everyone can learn and draw from similar experiences. Thnx

Mayor21:
16

na ur type we dey call Egbe Roger.

MaxNaija:
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Here are 5 reasons why the Blackberry 10 smartphone is seen as a better option over the android smartphone.

1. Multitasking: On Blackberry 10, any app can be instantly minimized with the swipe up gesture and is then accessible as a small file on a separate screen.

2. BlackBerry Hub: The Blackberry 10 has a dedicated hub that unites all your text messages, IMs, emails, social network feeds, call records, etc., in one centralized place, thereby making it easy to get all your notifications in order, read, and respond how you want.

3. Search: In BB 10 OS, you don’t have to open up a dedicated search apps, just start typing your desired term from the home screen and the search window opens up automatically.

4. Notifications: On BB OS 10, all new incoming messages and notifications are shown momentarily. This works with all apps including games. Android provides the same functionality, but they don’t work well with all apps. The blackberry 10 has a better notification access than its android counterpart.

5. Security: With Android phones, if you forgot your password all you need do is to get the phone flashed to bypass the security lockscreen. The same can’t be done on BB OS 10. The blackberry 10 OS is more secured than the android OS. Since the android OS is an open source, it can be easily tweaked or customised, making prone to virus and easy to hack.

If you know other things BB OS 10 does better than Android, please let us know in the comment section below.

Source: http://www.maxnaija.com/2015/07/5-reasons-why-you-should-choose.html

this is ignorance at its peak. Bb10 and android are both linux platforms. U can run android apps on BB10. They both are on level 4 security and are both based on open source linux. Bb10 is based on QT while android is a tweak of debian and suse linux. As long as ur Fone has a camera and GPS then its less secure.

tpiadotcom:
Update?

11 miles? Are u kidding me? Benin moat is d biggest and longest man made moat in d world.

Perhaps u should Savour this. Google is ur friend.

The Walls of Benin City was the world's largest
man-made earth structure.[2] Fred Pearce wrote in
New Scientist:
"They extend for some 16,000 kilometres
in all, in a mosaic of more than 500
interconnected settlement boundaries.
They cover 6,500 square kilometres and
were all dug by the Edo people. In all, they
are four times longer than the Great Wall
of China, and consumed a hundred times
more material than the Great Pyramid of
Cheops. They took an estimated 150 million
hours of digging to construct, and are
perhaps the largest single archaeological
phenomenon on the planet.[3]
World Heritage Status
This site was added, along with Sungbo's Eredo, to
the UNESCO World Heritage Tentative List on
November 1, 1995 in the Cultural category.[4

tpiadotcom:
Update?

11 miles? Are u kidding me? Benin moat is d biggest and longest man made moat in d world.

What goes around comes around. Karma at work

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are they ur direct?

All these Tinubu boy boys without work. How many uncompleted projects are there? Akpabios' was d best govt in d last 8yrs. Quality, quantity, time-value, innovation, speed, importance of his works sets him miles apart. Only BRF comes a distant second.

mfm04622:
Am in Kaduna. Is there anyway you can send some to me please? Thank you

mail me aihotrading@gmail.com or call 08088886996

mfm04622:
Do you still have some in your backyard? Can I get some? I really need it.

Thanks

are u in lagos? I can direct u to where to get it 4 free. The thing grows very fast. More like it quadruples four times over.

Jorussia:
How is the president taking a selfie in an airplane a security risk?Are you saying that the flash light and sound of the camera can be converted to a bomb inside the plane?If taking a selfie by the president is considered by you as a security risk, then what will you consider filming of of Obama riding a bike on holidays to be?

can u show me a pic of Obama taking a pic in air force 1? D SSS know that u cannot take a pic in d presidential plane. Can u take a pic in Shoprite?

Taking a pic/selfie in d presidential jet is a security risk. What kind of stupid security team do we have around d president? This is just amazing

U wan use style advertise that fine babe Abi? Ok na wetin be her name?

uduokirika1:
JJC like u which day u begin come sport section for Nairaland sef?

can't trade words with a blasphemousm, faithless mongrel like u.

taiocol:
wolves even Jesus nor fit do nothing

You are an Idio.t. A complete one.