frankyskyboi: I started a relationship with a lady in March this year and it's been going on well though she works in Lagos while I'm in the eastern part of the country.
When we were at the introductory part of the relationship, I asked about her family and she told me they are separated. I asked what's the reason for the separation and she said its due to irreconcilable differences and they separated when she was a toddler that it's her dad that raised her up tho she keeps contact occasionally with her mum.
She stays with her aunts in Lagos. I asked if she asked both parents to know why and she said she only asked her dad and he said he doesn't want her mum to be working class and she insisted to be One that he wants her to be a stay at home wife. I asked if she heard from her mum and she said no. She also said her aunts said same thing her dad said.
The reason really didn't go down well with me as it's too flimsy and I've told her to ask her mum and she keeps procrastinating or giving one excuse or the other. It beats my imagination how a grown up adult can't know with conviction why her parents separated or I guess the truth is being hidden.
I'm bringing this up here because my brother married from a separated home and it was war before my parents gave consent. If she can't give me concrete reason why the parents broke up which I'll present before my parents, I really don't know how the relationship can move forward because we detest divorce in our family.
Please I need your advice if I should continue or quit.
You really love this gal in question or you just want to get married to her?
Kaybex007: Seriously speaking, I understand you, that is why I wrote that "I thank God that I am not a lady" cuz everything about ladies if fragile. A lady needs so much more than a man to maintain every part of her body, starting from menstruation to others. I hail all the ladies in the world.
Oga niceman. Are you this calm with your wife or Gf ?
Freemanbobble: You know nothing son You know nothing about terrorism son Our soldiers are trying Terrorists are like hydra. When their head is cut off then expect another head as an outgrowth from different parts of the body instantly Which means they are a movement You can't put an end to terrorism. You can only reduce their activities
Even if you combine all military branches and forces from different part of the world still you can defeat terrorist
Al Qaeda, al-shabhab, taliban, Hamas, Al nusra front, hizbul Mujahedeen, lakshar e-taiba, hayat tahir Al -al- sham are bigger boys Even America dey fear to engage these boys one on one Because those boys nor dey retreat and them nor dey surrender. Especially that Taliban
lilfreezy: . The fact that he mentioned hushpuppi means they know what's up. These foreign agencies already have a list of scammers and they probably waiting for one to enter some specific countries so they can nab them. If invictus didn't go to the USA, man would probably still be in Nigeria. Those yahoo Boys using a white man's internet thinking they ain't watching, them no know say their name don already enter vc's list
Nicely spoken, just to add to it, them forget say an White man do this Internet.
Brika: Activist Deji Adeyanju has described musician, Naira Marley, as a nuisance to himself and the society.
Naira Marley had shared a video on Twitter on Wednesday of a man hitting a lady’s bum as he sings the musician’s song ‘Opotoyi’.
Commenting on the video on Thursday, Mr Adeyanju said Naira Marley, who is facing charges of fraud, was a nuisance.
“You are a nuisance to yourself and the society at large,” he wrote.
Born Azeez Fashola, Naira Marley is being prosecuted by the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) on an 11-count charge of conspiracy, possession of counterfeit cards and fraud.
Naira Marley’s trial, however, was adjourned on Thursday at the Federal High Court in Lagos after counsels exchanged words over space to sit in the small courtroom.
Justice Nicholas Oweibo abruptly adjourned the trial till December 11 and 12, 2019.
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Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, on Saturday crowned Chief Kessington Adebunkunola Adebutu as the new Odole of Oodua at his palace in Ife, Osun State.
Chief Adebutu is the owner and founder of the Premier Lotto Limited popularly known as Baba Ijebu. His lotto company is the biggest in Nigeria.
The billionaire businessman arrived in style at the ceremony in his brand new 2020 Rolls-Royce Phantom VIII sedan. According to sources, the new Odole Oodua gifted himself the new luxury car to celebrate his new title.
The brand new luxury Rolls-Royce Phantom VIII cost over ₦300 million in Nigeria. It has a customized number plate “ODOLE”, denoting his new title. It joins other cars in his fleet, including a white Rolls-Royce Phantom he bought to mark his 80th birthday in 2016.
The coronation ceremony had several dignitaries in attendance, including the Vice President of Nigeria, Professor Yemi Osinbajo. Former Nigerian president Olusegun Obasanjo and former Military Vice President, Oladipo Diya, also attended the event.
Delivering the speech of President Muhammadu Buhari, Minister of Interior, Rauf Aregbesola described “Yoruba as a great race that would always promote and reward excellence in people.”
He also said Chief Adebutu is worthy of the title, saying his humanitarian gesture is second to none.
BMaretraitors: Congratulations Toyin! This is not a racist post, i need advice pls.
It is no secret. Anyone that knows me know i'm totally against the idea of dating or mating with any man of African descent. I'm not attracted to them in anyway. I try to avoid any space that has a lot of black men because the sight of them repulses me especially the Nigerian ones. They are mentally lazy, weak and shortsighted. Whenever the look at me, i cringe because even though they would never have me the nurture the idea that they can. I see how their eyes burn in desire for me, ughh. How can they ever think that i would consider them a choice when they are just ugly copies of the real men in this world. They are no match. I know it. They know it. The whole world knows!
Today, i was shocked when my elder folks insisted i must marry my tribesman, which according to some means i should stop befriending non black men since that might spoil the whole plan of marrying within. I have not been my usual self since i heard this because i know my folks. They are tribal to a core and I would have been too but i lost my loyalty not just to my kinfolks but to my skin folks as well, after i learnt that we are all a lost cause because of the indiscipline and lack of loyalty of black men as a whole.
Dear Nairalanders, how do i convince my folks that i cannot end up with their choice for me. I can't tell them that i have self respect and a high taste in men because these seem selfish. What concrete reason can i give?
Chinekepikin: "Your bottom is big and your don't have a boyfriend' - Uriel's mom tells her in hilarious video.
Nigerian entrepreneur and businesswoman Uriel Ngozi Oputa received the most savage comment by her mum.
The 2017 former Big Brother Naija star in a hilarious video she shared online was the moment her mum teased her bum bum.
Big Brother Naija star, Uriel's mum is surprised that she is still single. Uriel shared a hilarious video of her mom mocking her for still being single despite having massive backside.
According Uriel herself wrote
In the hilarious video Uriel's mom tells her "Your bottom is big and your don't have a boyfriend'.
This got the attention of some celebrities reacting to her mom's comment.
newsynews: Hushpuppi has reacted to the arrest of his fellow Dubai based big boy, Mompha, who got picked up by Interpol.
Hushpuppi and Mompha, both men who are known to flaunt extravagant lifestyle on social media, have been whispered to be involved in fraudulent activities.
Reacting to Mompha's arrested, Hushpuppi shared a picture of his luxury cars with the caption: ''I Never Fold... Never #Ijaya1''
Pressure on you can change your current pace in achieving most of your goals.
You want to buy a penthouse in New York but all the people influencing you breathe in poverty and breathe out extreme poverty. Baba, migrate.
Goto Instagram and set your life on fire, you docile thing! Follow those who show off the most even if they are world renowned criminals.
Take the message and leave the messenger alone. Take what you need (the drive) and leave what you don't need (their means of getting the money). All you need is the drive. Imagine how you run when the adrenaline is high.
The pressure is the drive, the drive is the adrenaline of success. You won't even believe how you came up with that million dollar move
Careful please, you’re already trying to live on the fast lane, there’s nothing as shortcut to wealth.
Slawormir: You are a real niggarrr. Infact i owe you some bottles, a parcel of weed and two to three paid bitches for you to bang. When ever you are in Benin city. Just halla at me. Even when am not around i will tell my other real niggarrrz to position you
They don't know what it takes to hypnotize, brain wash and use reverse psychology on a soul
They don't know what it means to acquire tools and format They don't know what it means for your picker(aza man) to come up with stories that your money is not available
Shut up your mouth, you’re just talking anyhow forming big Boy. Why all this details? Who asked you?