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[quote author=High_Chief link=topic=850187.msg10003977#msg10003977 date=1327014877]The duty of your heart is to pump blood and not falling in love.[/quote]tsk tsk~~

like i always say, love is a decision and a gamble.
The girl who wont cheat wont have it written on her forehead.
You have to tell yourself you are ready and mean it and then keep trying until you find the one.
Its achievable over time!

ronkebp:
I just wonder why and how people equate having fun with sex?, you can flenjore enoughly without sleeping around ke.

i wonder too dear.
Imagine coogar taking mingling to mean shag.ging.smh!
Thank you for explaining to him below.i hope he doesnt argue this any further

ronkebp:
^^^^^ I don't agree they go hand in hand, sleeping around is not flenjoring, partying and going out with friends are fun, having guys ask you out and you leave them with the mystery '' i wonder what that chic is going to feel like under my duvet?'' is fun, i don't see sex, especially on the field on Nysc camp ground as fun.

2buff:
OP Listen to slimyem. She, and her broke relatives who won't pay her ransom, know what is right

you dont bet!!

baryore:
Am done with my university, i guess this advise doesn't apply to me because i have read my books enough,

okay.
Heed 2buff's advise(be careful,he's a kidnapper) travel,meet people and bla bla.
Just leave your immediate environment ,dont tighen up and create an impressive air around you.all will be well.

25% percent is so low if you carefully look through it.
There's but one important pointer when it comes to murder and its 'motive'.
Your spouse might probably have more than anyone in the world does and that's why i think that siggy figures

^^break it down.
What you think of it?

coogar:
lol. . . .your nippl[i]e[/i]s indeed.
those minute bits.

you've been imagining my ni.pples too?haha!
So sorry your imaginations dont tally with my reality.so sorry!

you broached the subject of your youth time wasted because you had a romeo who had you under his spell back then.
if the hands of time could be turned, you admitted you woulda made yourself available for corp members to ravage.
forget your lips, i have seen better ones. stop having wetdreams/er[i]e[/i]ctions!

errm,wipe you face with a w
et towel and read again.
I admitted i'd have mingled or flirted a little more.that's all and its not such a big deal i cant do out here.

Besides,the only time i'd have wet d.reams or erections is the day you start to menstruate.

2buff:
^^ Nah I'm sure u have rich relatives who would have wanted u back!
All the people that love u can't be that broke 
They pay the ransom by wiring it to an offshore account, and then I release you, still nekid and tied up, on falomo bridge.
then I'll phone and tell them where I dropped you 

So aherm, will 6:30pm on Saturday work for you?

these are your intentions?
Ta!
Thank God for my quizzing skills.
I'd definitely figure you out after a few conversations so there'd be no date in the first place.
Goodluck finding a maga

op,first things first!
Do books now and forget about boys.
When their time comes,things would pan out on their own.

^buhahahahaha
early 50's my nippl.es.
Coogy bobo,if you must know,my life is just starting.
Forget about the youth time wasted.look ahead, the adult home will hold lots of fun and reflection time for you and um, you know those lips you have stuck in your head?
Stop salivating over them.they aint for real!

coogar:
mingled or shagg[i]e[/i]d?mingled and flirted.

30? married? who's giving you this yeye gist.

its a presumption.dont get all riled up over it.

you don't even know the nysc rules. . . .it states that anyone who graduated after the 30 yrs of age can be exempted.
if you graduate at 20 and you decide to serve at 50, you shall be allowed to serve.
slimyem = dumb blonde.

given this,i want to assume you gratuated before the age of 30 and planning to serve by 75 right?
Once more nysc is designed for YOUTHS.sink it in!
And btw,i aint no blonde so i take it that last part wasnt for me.
Coogar=scraggly old man

claremont:
Very subjective list based on your own impression of what you believe it is.

A man/woman has no primary role, the roles you stated there are all interchangeable between both sexes. The interchangeability of the roles is based on factors such as culture, religion, upbringing, e.t.c. As far as I know, there are no objectively defined roles for a man or a woman. By "objectively defined roles", I mean a role that can only be played by one party, and in whose absence, the role cannot be played by the other party. None whatsoever!

thread locked!!

coogar:
why not?
i am yet to do the nysc thingy. . . .i
if you can guarantee you would be in either lagos, abuja or portharcourt. . . .nysc, here i come.
by all means, avoid the northern states. i don't wanna die in the hands of boko haram.

i hope you know nysc can only be done once though peeps fraudulently go back for it more than once.
Thank you.that once is just fine for me although i wish i could have mingled with the guys a little more than i did.
Btw,aint you supposed to be above 30 and married?
Nysc is for youths you know??

@op,i dont envy you right now.i've still got a little more time out here.
Do well to enjoy the different stages of marriage and mother hood while it lasts.
The diversity in the stages is the beauty of life.

dasparrow:
Hmmmmmm, easier said than done.

@Post

In my family, it is my eldest sister that is my mom's favourite and then my younger brother. I hate favouritsm and now I feel that I do not owe my mom anything. When she is old and gray, she should go to my sister her favourite child. I just think many Nigerians lack parenting skills and I regret being born by a set of Nigerian parents.

hey!
Do not live by this bitterness.its poisonous.
And try remember that even if your mum missed it somewhere,m sure she must have made a few sacrifices for you when you couldnt help yourself.
Get over it already!

2buff:
^^ DAMMIT stop overthinking! 
How the heck am I gonna find a mugu to kidnap & ransom if y'all keep over-analysing things? 
My rent is due mehn.

lol.you call that overthinking?
C'mon.those are just basic precautions.
And if you are looking for a mugu,there are coogars all around who would jump at your offer.
And btw,I can only pay my own rent and no one else's right now.
Sorry!!

i cant only because It might send a wrong message to prospective suitors and peeps i look up to wont probably sign on it.
I can always help from a distance though.

^^as far as i'm concerned,you are a faceless friend.there's no trust and i take serious cautions when it comes to online peeps.
You'd also have to give me a good reason why you chose me as your date.

[quote author=Mynd_44 link=topic=849824.msg10001834#msg10001834 date=1326995394]If a girl loves you, she will give you punny always[/quote]mumu
@op, there are no clear-cut rules to these things.
Love is a gamble.
You have a choice to believe whatever.

yes,i do read all my messages and if i get an annoying one,from the same person more than once,i'd simply block him/her.
I only reply sense and ignore the nonsense

coogar:
it's not too late, slimyem.
just go for another round of nysc. . . .tell me the state you'd be serving and i would meet you there and do the honours.

l'm afraid that's impossible and then you wouldnt be there as a serving corper.
Would you?

had a serious relationship which was very obvious to every of my roomates while in camp as as such they formed protective over me.they'd worry if i wasnt in the room after parade and would threaten to report me to him cuz he came around every sunday
He also followed me around with calls and the only time i had alone was on the parade ground or when hanging out with 3 girlfriends whom i formed a clique with.
Now,that we are history,i regret not having all the fun i wanted to back then.

Parisgoodman:
@Op, Heartbreak? mine's once and since then, i never had a heart(5years ago)

self-denial but i understand your reasons.
You sure do have a heart.its hidden somewhere but m sure you'd find it someday.

more than once.
Forget the rest.
Still havent found the one.
Not sure he even exists.

someone shld please explain the video.
Cant play right now.

would never date no one 5mins younger.
2-10 years older is the deal.

maybe i havent been quite discerning enough as regards this issue in my own family.i have tried to look into it and i still havent found anything that has given any of my sibling or me away as a favourite both with dad and mum.
They treat everyone of us the same way,mete out punishments as at when deserved the same way and care a lot if an ant as much as bite any of us.
We all get whatever reasonable thing we want as at when due too.
Every child seems to be a specially loved child in his/her own way in my family.
Maybe i'm just not seeing what y'all are seeing.

i dont see anything getting out of hand here.
She has a life and so do her exes,bosom friend and sister do.
Why should what they choose to do with their adult lives bother her?
I dont gerrit!

Scash:
Told a guy that didn"t love me that I LOVED HIM.
The worst was that I was crying wen i told him.

I can imagine!

[quote author=Mr, Cork link=topic=848557.msg9990957#msg9990957 date=1326882069]Slimyem. sweeery please SLAP my Nyansh twice! [/quote]gimme a minute, lemme get a baseball bat.
You are so gon like its feel on your a, ss!