₦airaland Forum

We have not had light for over 1week in my area in PH for over a week now & even wen it comes in it's usually once in a while; @midnyt when ppl r asleep for about 2/3hrs .D Bill's keep coming in and skyrocketing.After this protest;NEPA suddenly brings light.This is to show u that some vagabonds intentionally seize power so that masses suffer and when dem don cast for internet;they do d needful..Opposition is good.

Grace001:
It’s always the wish of western to see African countries be a high receiver of any deadly diseases or virus... Can you imagine they are debating and concerns why Africa has few cases

As in ehhh.. They feel epidemics and strife should more in Africa.Imagine debate ontop Africa head.And that Mr.Yao or whatever talking very sure of himself that Africa is at high risk and it must spread in Africa;like say them get
evil plans.God pass them.

Mr Yao just being jealous that Somehow Africa and Africans are least affected na why him dey talk rubbish.Wont be surprised these peeps will intentionally export the virus to Africa.But e no go work by Gods grace.We already have things worse than Corona virus we are fighting such as poverty and corrupt leaders.

A bu m Onye Igbo..A na m asu Igbo ofuma mana asusu Igbo atoka..I'm PROUDLY Igbotic Igbo.

I just lost respect for this babe. .After using jazz to break the home of that Anambra big boy ;and making him pursue the mother of his triplets;she was finally dumped..
From a Reliable source.

papaejima20199:
This is my first time posting NL , although I've been reading a lot in the last few months . I'll try to be as detailed as possible. I don't even know if I'm asking a question, or advice, or what. I just have to get some things out of my brain.

I’m 36 and my wife is 32. we've been married for 12 years and have two children, twins age 1. I would say happily married. As in, we don't fight, , never any abuse of any kind, no major life disagreements. I love my wife. She is a great mother, a great provider for the family, and we make a great team when it comes to raising our kids. However, she leaves me feeling undesired. Sexually, just intimacy in general, not feeling wanted or desired, missing that flirtatious quality that we all enjoy in a relationship. Our sex life has been on a steady decline, honestly since we got married. Less and less and less every year, and yes, kids make that even more difficult (and provide very easy excuses)

About 2 years ago, I was close to cheating. There was a girl at work that I flirted with often. We started hanging out , and we always seemed to end up talking, touching innocently, flirting, but nothing ever happened between us. The feeling this girl gave me inspired me to tell my wife how I was feeling, what I was missing, etc. I told her how important sex was to me, asked her what I could change, or if she needed to change something. Her response was that she "just didn't really think about it like you do" and that she would try to work on it. Well she didn't work on it, at all.

The flirty girl didn't work with me any more, and I lost that "flame" with her and let it go, and went about life as usual. I've been working a lot of hours over the last six months. I fell into this flirty relationship with one of my coworkers 22 and we just would have a lot of fun with one another. Mad sexual tension. A few months back things happen and she blows me. Its great. Best sex of my life. We set up plans to meet up off work hours and we do.

My coworker is in perfect shape. Its like my perfect woman. I love the way she loves me. She appreciates me, she satisfies me, she matches my sexual drive, and even exceeds it. She is everything I was missing in life, and I'm as happy as I've been in a long time. She is also crazy about me which feels unbelievable. Its been a while since someone has just wanted me to be happy and wanted to please me. I now consider her my girlfriend.

I don't wish to hurt my wife. But I do wish to be happy.

I do not wish for my children to grow up in a home with divorce. I want them to grow up with myself and my wife still being the team we've been so far, doing equal parts to take care of them, and always be there for them.

I realize a lot of what I'm saying are things that can't go together. I want to be with my girlfriend, I don't want to hurt my wife, and I don't want my kids to suffer . I can't have it all. Now I feel stuck

I need help because I can't seem to go through with this alone, and I have no one close enough with the time and level of trust that I can confide in, so I would really appreciate it if you'd offer me some advice.

Thanks for reading

What makes u think that a young girl will have an affair with u;knowing that u are married with kids;will not do d same thing to u when u foolishly abandon ur home to follow her.Shes obviously a young ;wild and free girl who having fun at d expense of the peace and sanity of ur home..Flee before it destroys u.
U have been married for 12 years and have a 1yr old babies..Was there issues with conception? I personally know that sometimes when people are waiting for the fruit of the womb after so many years of trying;it can affect the sex drive..Talk to ur wife and Express ur concerns..and u guys should work or ur marriage.And please stop having sex with that girl;Trust me it NEVER ends well.

Lesbians suing CAC . Nothing person no go hear for Naija.Na by force to register d association?..I hope they will physically be present in court

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

Please and Please..Mycoten is an antifungal cream for treatment of common fungal infections like yeast and even vaginal itching.Its most likely gotten through dirty toilet or undies tha didn't dry well and not infidelity..Virgins use mycoten;secondary school children use mycoten,even nuns can use mycoten;cos candidiasis is not gotten through sex.Pls settle ur trust issues with ur wife.Thi is proof of Nothing..

When all we see on Instagram and the internet are different ads on sex enhancers;so what do u expect? Nigga overloaded his system with that shit in order to give her a "gold medal" performance and ended his life..Cest la vie.

Yet they want to frustrate the few remaining with poor pay.My brother has to work in 3 different hospitals with peanut pay just to make ends meet and is already on his way out of this country..The entire health sector is in shambles.Buhari is just a curse.Woe into those that put him in power again;for ur judgment is even worse.

Mtschewwww!

Very Very Shameless fool..

It ok..I'm done..Fvcked up keeper.

Chaii.It's all over..Even if we manage to remain goalless till extra time & penalty;our keeper will be our downfall..this goal keeper na real fvck up.

Defenders better play well..this keeper na minus one.

Na so!

The same people that Buhari expects us to welcome with open arms and give our fathers lands for free to settle;do business and still sell cows for us;ryt? So they will come and murder us in our sleep. Chukwu ajuu.Instead let dem divide this scam of a country.

Of course they know better ....we r waiting for the 30days let dis country be divided already.

Umahi Umahi Umahi...Always in the Frontline on issues concerning Fulani APC and nonsense..Hmmm..we are watching u in 4D.

ROTFL....Hahaha..Rantings of pained people.They were not expecting such response from Nigerians.They will still go ahead and repackage with another cattle policy...Ndi ala.

For me 10k is ok...for ashebi with good material one can wear again..1200-1500 per yard of good sample lace..4yards;then average gele 3500-4500..If the 4yards ain't enuf for the person;one can always combine the material with net;bridal satin or even poly material and still look chic if u sew a good style..So 10k is very affordable for all and sundry.

[quote author=Hotfreezers post=79683318]You're a fool from a long lineage of pigs. That monkey you quoted is your fellow wawa slave and is not Yoruba.

You're too daft to notice. [/quot

���..E pain am??Insulting u will be of no gain to me cos we are not the "well known" ; loud & obnoxious cowards like ur kinsmen.. Slave boy Just drink water and relax.

goodnessme1:
If southeast reject it then bring it here in west,
it will boost ous IGR, why they keep running always from their dry land.

Just Wow!...good for u guys.Words of a true Slave.Any topic that even remotely concerns South East always gives u guys hot orgasms..And how many south-'waste' states have grazing colonies again??

Yeah Yeah..we all know about that..Buh this one she's posting rainbow decorated snakes..She and Mr.Bob don tear paper? Until Bobirisky snatch her bobo from her nah when she go know say dem no dey keep yam and goat for d same place..

Dirkcoyt:
The problem is Nigerians are not yet ready for movies online cost of data is not proportional to the income ratio of the people.

Most Nigerians earn from 50,000naira and below this set of people make up the bulk of the citizens in the south where they might give nollywood a chance to watch.

For you to watch movies on the Internet you need bulk data’s check the rate of bulk data’s from service producers then you see 12-17k as price!

How do someone with a pay of 50,000 below take out 12-17k to buy data to watch movies?you haven’t factor other family expenses.its not about paying 3k for subscription but about paying data to watch the subscription!

Even dstv have a dip in there Dstv subscribers cause you can’t expect people to pay 7k and above when power to watch that isn’t stable so people will rather go for Gotv and pay less than 2000naira!

Some can’t even maintain paying Gotv wvrymotnh this amount cause they’re hardly at home they rather buy 150# disc to watch latest nollywood or season film!

Yes if you have a dstv subscription you can watch on your mobile phone through dstv mobile app but the question is how many people are watching dstv through their mobile phone?practically little cause an average Nigeria can’t spend money to watch a full dstv with his data!

I know you will say but people watch YouTube and Instagram ! It’s a psychological thing people would rather watch Instagram of 1mins video and watch several different 1min content with data than watch 1hour plus of same content with data! Or watch their favorite YouTube music video of 4mins!

This problem is from the fact that an average Nigerian earn way too little to spend money so large on data to access internet tv.heck Nigerians will rather download a Hollywood movie and share offline than stream online l.so it’s not a case of Nollywood is bad content.

The purchasing power of Nigerians is low! An average Nigeria will rather buy petrol if 500naira inside I better pass my neighbor generator and put it on for 5hours and watch dvds/Gotv with lesser money spent

The way out is still the normal traditional way of absorbing content! Large chunk from DVDs and Gotv/startimes we just have to solve the piracy problem then the industry players will make money! Cause Netflix works in America doesn’t mean iroko will work in Nigeria !

U get plenty sense..Its not the cost of subscription but the data cost.I had subscribed for Netflix in Naija; just to try;and mehn I ended up spending wayyy more than I planned;even more than d subscription money;all on Data.Even if one tries downloading the movies to "watch later";the movies still need huge data to be downloaded..Not to talk about many Nigerians that don't give a fu*k about Nollywood movies;e go hard to spend such money.I think if they want their business to grow;dey gotta do some sort of alliance with these telecom companies; maybe get an Iroko data package that is cheaper.

OfficialAPCNig:
Stupid Governors.

If Yorubas insult their Governors, there might not be those 1,123 fulani terrorist cells currently scattered in Osun forests.

Ndi ara.

Na so oh...Rapu Ndi ara..Ha echefugo na "Igbo enweghi Eze";that they are in charge today doesn't mean they can't be called to order..Igbos that have even rebelled against gods of the old.. We will keep telling them as it is.If they like they should call it insult. Concern dem..

Mr.VP;if it were by hard work all the labourers and truck pushers should be the richest in the world...We don't need these motivational speech Bull sh*t;Thanks to u and ur useless boss;Nigeria is back to the stone ages while other nations have gone past the jet age.Foolish APC and Nonsense.

Teni Teni Teni....this "rainbow" table ya shaking make e no scatter u oo..
Abeg she needs to get a new stylist and lose the durag ;there are a lot of plus-size tomboyish entertainers that dress better..

He even get mouth to talk say " enemies exposed him" Y Dem no go expose u.Are u a Dr or even educated in the Medical Sciences?..After playing with people's lives with trial and error.

Inukwa?Fulani Vigilante in South East?? What effontery? I no blame them Sha;na because their useless patron is president that's y they av guts to even yarn such rubbish. Imagine Aboki go dey do vigilante for my community ? When North East is still boiling and them never solve their own problems..Anyway Igbos are wiser than that okay..Boko Haram aka Herdsmen we are not interested in ur vigilante and will resist every Fulani Agenda in our region..Wetin person no go hear for this zoo..Chukwu aju.Tufiakwa.

Abeg the important thing about sports is if u can deliver.Whether u make long hair ooo & wear makeup or u cut ur short hair and carry plain face;I don't freaking care;just be a good player and do what u were sent for.. Personally I even prefer female players that haven't lost their feminity..and Ordega is one of them..So that's a plus on her part; to be able to combine a male-dominated sports and still look and behave like a woman.

OKorowanta:
The only man who took Bobrisky to the cleaners.
My love for him grew after he lambasted that alleged gay youth and those trying to bring him to nollywood.

I'm telling u.No b all those a**-licking actresses that follow him up and down all for crumbs and sugar daddy/runs links..They will never tell him as e be..