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Benee1000:
The definition of Prostitution is not limited by the number of clients or the form in which she gets her payment from her clients (cash or kind).
As long as there's exchange of sex for resources, she's a prostitute.
Prostitution is also a mindset.
And as a man thinketh in his heart, so he is.
If your woman, girlfriend or wife believes she deserves your resources because you both have sex, or she believes sex is something that a woman gives to someone and should be rewarded for it, she's a prostitute at heart.
You're just the only customer she has in mind.
Stop spending on your wife or girlfriend for sometime, and observe her. if she starts resisting sex?
Let me stop here...

You just defined Nigerian girls.
Kudos

Martinez39s:
How can this one be delivered now?

He needs to be taken to sambisa forest for deliverance

I was having a discussion with an elderly earlier today.

I said i don't see myself getting married in the next decade or so , their reaction was just epic.

My guess was that they still see certain things the old way hence the reaction.

They were like let's save this discussion for another day hahaha.

This is a typical example of the pressure we talk about from society. People just expect things to be done a certain way even if there's no guarantee of success.

Men, hold strong your belief... don't let society shake you.

We move in one accord into 2022, better days ahead.

Happy new year in advance.

Calibrator:
How will I learn about their nature on a first hand basis if I don't get close to them?

Their nature has been proven time and time again, it's nothing new.

Simply don't expect anything Angelic from them and you'll be fine .

You can always learn about their nature when you converse with them in person.

Using chats gives them too much attention which is an asset you should be save guarding.

Calibrator:
Your serious girlfriend has a price.

If I were to be interested, I had her in the first three lines of the chatting session but rather, I steered the conversation to a direction where she was be under the illusion she is the one doing the rejection whereas I am the one dragging feet over sealing the deal of visitation.



Learn to beat this people at their own games!

Bro, you need to stop being chatty with these girls.

A simple phone call should suffice.

Herbsworks:
Who still remember my coursemate I wrote about that I chased for more than 4 years without agreeing? Well, I chatted her up and asked her to hangout with me. So she came to wait for me at my junction and before then while we were talking on the phone, I kept telling her that I like pounded yam and it must be pounded with mortar and not machine.

When you approach them, they feel like they're gods.
Good thing you deflated her nonsense ego

Thumbs up bro

tayewomi:
for me and my family we are on overdose,these girls don't have anything upstairs,if you fail to swallow this pill you on your own..
though some simps will oblige to her request..

Delete her from your contact and change the calibre of girls you relate with.

These broke ass bitches don't have shame and they're hypocritical asf.

Nyascobar1414:
nigga... Not to everyone on this thread...
Redpill is my nature...
That how am wired..

Maybe my relatives lifestyle (females) made this became a reality..
Never had a girlfriend...
will nevere have

He has no idea some people are naturally born redpilled.


Some are born redpilled while others are made redpilled

If after going through 1063 pages of this premium thread you still place women as one of your top 3 priority then you need to go see a therapist

illumined999333:
Just like Christianity, the redpill is a way of life. I said something in one of my earlier posts about having a deep respect for guys who have loved wholeheartedly and got played by the one(s) they loved. I talked about these kind of guys being the hardest redpillers, after overcoming the hurt. Guys like these kinds are transformed for life, they can't be the same humans they once were. Many won't say it, but MOST of the guys here talking redpill aren't redpilled. If you are going to live the redpill in its purest form, you must start from stage one - you must firstly, fall in love wholeheartedly with a woman. Because many here didn't go through this first step before finding out about the redpill, it is conceivable for them to think a redpiller can deviate from the redpill. Anyone who goes through this first step, understands that the redpill is a drug that saves them. Why should they deviate from something that saves them from pain? When we say the redpill is a drug, we mean that literally, not figuratively. The redpill is a drug to guys who experienced the first stage. These are the real ones, not the fakes.

I do not completely agree with your statement.

There are two ways to learn in life, either from experience or wisdom.

For instance,if you're told "don't put your hands in the fire" but you go ahead and do it anyways,result being you getting hurt.

On the other hand, if you adhere to wisdom, you save yourself the burns.
Now, the interesting part is this, why didn't you put your hands in the fire?

Could it be that you saw how the other person got burned putting his hands in or you knew that putting your hands in the fire won't do you any good.

Same can be said about guys who have been hurt and those who avoid getting hurt.

CHOICES,Yes it's all about choice.

The fact that Mr abstainee chose to avoid engaging in such act and the resultant effect is him seeing others getting hurt proves that he's just as equipped to handle such state.
If anything, Mr abstainee is even in a better position to make better future choices.

"Experience is the best teacher" ----> this is a lame man's way of thinking, to give excuse for his falsities.
Do you know that most people that use this statement still go on making the same mistake over and over again

Train your mind ....let it make good choices whether it stems from experience or wisdom.
You don't have to be hurt to know how it feels to be hurt, you can always learn from other people's experience to make better choices (wisdom).

It is when one fails to learn from other people's mistakes that they themselves create experiences of their own.

I'll will always advocate that we learn from wisdom (other people's experience) instead of our own experience because there's no guarantee we will learn from such experience
Talkless of the damage that comes with learning from experience eg time wasting.

Redpill is wisdom, I don't see why Mr abstainee won't be able to understand what it means to be redpilled since he's already operating under the modus operandi of wisdom.

If anything, it's Mr experience that might find his thoughts conflicting since wisdom was never his strong suit.

So No, you don't have to fall in love to be redpilled

heartofcity12:
Deep. Better still do both, choose wisely and prepare for the end.

We don't really choose,we just get lucky

Even putting a ring on her finger does not guarantee you that she's your woman,in the eyes of God and in the eyes of the law.

I won't advise you to choose wisely cuz certainly you cannot choose wisely, you can only get lucky but instead, I'll advise you to prepare for the end cuz she can defect at any time.

I notice you lots keep popping up question like how do I make money, truth be told the tricky part is not the knowledge but the discipline to follow up such hustle.

Don't be a quick to make it, I want fast cash.

Greed has hindered and still hinders so many people's destiny, when you finally decide to unplug from this construct, you'll finally find yourself in a good position to take charge of yourself.

Do a little introspection, you already have a passion, a way to make it,it doesn't matter how many businesses you stick your head in.
If there's no passion, it's as good as you pussy worshipping cuz it'll just be a waste of time.

You don't have to do what others are doing before you have a sense of purpose.
identify what you're good at and work with that

Reaccess yourself
plan
Be patient

And most importantly
have a merry Christmas

Hotspotbro:
Ehen nah and he has kids with her..

Lol, some can indeed be super crazy.

Then again, if you push any woman to the extreme, her crazy side is sure to come out

luminouz:
Lemme give you possible scenarios

1. The man became weak and predictable and women hate that.

2. She saw her ex who she rejected to marry her husband and the ex is now a millionaire, very happy and she regrets ever leaving him. Maybe he is pressuring her to come back too

3. She met a new flame who has been whispering some sweet nonsense in her ears.

4. She had new friends/met new friends who influenced her decisions and made her feel like she needed a new start

5. She took the kids. Red flag. She wasn't about her career or else the kids would be a major hindrance and she would have left them with the husband. So her husband was the issue,not her kids.

NOTE: Two or more of the points above can be in motion. But the major issue is she now hates the husband, her career talk is premium horseshiit.

A woman will never misbehave unless they have "options".

They can fit perfectly well into any situation as long as it suits them or they think it's their best option.

Emmynator:
See ba, marriage is a very big risk, even if you vet more than anything, what's to say she won't change over time? If you have a solid frame to help mitigate some of her excesses, what's to say your frame wont shift?
Many times we laugh at married men who bring their problems to nairaland, we call them simps or whatever, but most of them only crime was getting married, nothing more, nothing less.
I'll share a story of what happened to my church member, he has been married for over 12 years, had 5 kids, marriage was going on fairly well, until last year, his wife changed totally.
She stopped giving him sex, stopped cooking, started being disrespectful, he tried solving it by himself, but he failed woefully and it kept getting worse, when she started dressing up every morning, without telling her husband where she was going, he had his fill and started calling for external intervention.
This woman rubbished every single person who came to intervene, she respected no one, elderly men and women, pastors, family members, respected neighbors, none was effective. The only reason she gave for her behavior was that she regrets getting married and she should have pursued her career. After 12 years, really?
Mid July, this year, the man went to work, came back to find an empty house, his wife and children gone. All efforts to get her to come back proved abortive.
The man has become slim with all the stress, interacting with him, i feel that sad energy, a broken spirit.
What did he do wrong? He got married, that's it.
He got married to a woman who 12 years back was more than happy to become a mrs. But 12 years down the line, she feels she should have pursued her career instead. That was his crime.

If at all you decide to get married, be ready for the worst.

I won't be surprised if the kids are not his

Hotspotbro:
My family legend says one of my dad's brother is one-eyed...them say the woman impaled one eye with knife during argument..

The woman is white?

DieRich5:
hahahaha, welcome to the movie wrld in movie anything can happen

I just love seeing Hardin face ND his fashion

Movies nowadays are just too bluepilled .

Hintona:
A woman in her right senses will not go for a redpiller if she wants a long term thing and I think redpillers are fine with just being the one night stand guy or the summer fling.

you forgot siring the kids

Jessepaid:
Hehehe....

See wetin person dey follow me talk...

Make I be gentleman...

No go fall mugu o

Broke girls,I avoid them like a plague.

They literally got nothing to offer

MJBOLT:

seeing how Nigerian ladies punish SIMPle men here in this country despite the fact that we are not gynocentric like America says a lot.
If Nigeria dey gynocentric like America,we for suffer like mad.

That guy is just being sentimental,he clearly doesn't know what's up.

It is possible to date a white lady and she won't double date but you see Nigerians girls eh

DEMZEE:
LMAO!!!

WESTERN MEN THAT COMPLAIN ABOUT THE FLAKINESS AND TIME WASTEFULNESS OF WESTERN WOMEN OR ARE WE LIVING IN ANOTHER PLANET NI......

NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE FEMININE, SUBMISSIVE AND FUN TO HANGOUT WITH THAN WESTERN WOMEN.

NIGERIAN SLUTS ARE FAR BETTER THAN WESTERN SOCIETIES SLUTS

You missed the part where I said for fun

That "fun to hang out with", might have to disagree with you on that bro

They're only submissive cuz they want your money or want to fool you into marrying them,marry them and see 1st class masculine trait .

DEMZEE:
I prefer my traditional conservative cultural Nigerian girls than those sluts in western societies tuehhhhhhhh

Bro, just like the dinosaurs,@ bolded has gone into extinction , we ain't in 1960 no more.
Are you sure you're in the dating market lol.

Nigerian girls are worse than their western counterpart.

White Ladies,they're straight forward,if they don't like you,they won't show any interest unlike Nigerian girls. You won't know what you're signing up for until it's too late plus they're so stuck up, cheap and boring as hell.

BTW,I like them whites for fun, not for wifing up

sajmark:
I wish I can go deeper into this because a lot of us here are still firmly plugged into the Society Matrix, inputs from knowledgeable brothers are welcome .

Please do expantiate

JESHAL:
ODE
AWALT
Who told you British/ overseas gals are better than their Nigerian counterpart

I'll take a western lady any day

Women are AWALT but you see those whites, they're sensitive asf unlike Nigerian girls

Iamzealousman:
Yes I am not yet over her. Cause because this I have once gotten this kind of response from another girl. That was 2018, this said girl actually wanted to given a feedback from what she has prayed about. She call me repeatedly, texted me I didn't respond I ghosted her thoroughly even till today I haven't spoken to her. Because the time which was just 3days she took in thinking/praying about what I told her was enough for me to think that she wasn't right for me. I moved on.
Till date I haven't looked back.


But this one is different!

If it's different, how come you guys haven't spoken for a Month.

Believe me bro,if a girl wants you, you'll know.

She'll be restless asf, looking for every possible excuse to be around you.

I don't have to tell you that you're the one chasing the relationship and you know what that means ----> if you two eventually get together, she'll be the one calling all the shots, you'd have to compromise just to keep her, making you violate the redpill tenets that are there to guide and protect you as a man.

I know what you're going through bro,i really do..... connecting with someone that makes you feel like nothing else matters, it's a really good feeling i know

Cut your losses and move on bro.... there's nothing like having peace of mind.

I really can't stress it any further than this.

DaniWhizbang:
There's this sense of pride and ego that married men exude that makes it difficult to reason with them about female manipulations, especially the newly married ones.

A friend of mine who attended our club annual general meeting yesterday recently got married and while we were talking, he was telling me about how his marriage is limiting him in so many ways and draining him both financially and otherwise. Saying he knows where he ought to be by now if he didn't get married. Guy is still below 30 and was doing well while we were in school and still does.

Actually, I didn't think he meant to put it that way because he later fought back looking for a way to justify the marriage after I made some comments that didn't go well with his ideology of marriage. Telling me he gets sex whenever he wants but funnily, he opted to pay an olosho to get laid while his wife was just 30 minutes drive away from our location.

Telling me it's the best thing that can happen to a man. But looking at him, I don't see anything that shows he's really enjoying the marriage. He got himself drunk and was misbehaving throughout last night that people started noticing.

Right there, I realised that no man wants to reveal the true sufferings of his marriage because it will send the wrong signal, make him weak and destroy his ego. And trying to bring these men to TRP will always backfire. I didn't bother myself trying, it's better he finds it by himself.

You can't save who doesn't want to be saved, that's just the way it is

Iamzealousman:
I really appreciate the advice gotten here.

And now, I think I know what she want and what she trying to use me for.

I have once made a decision to let her be. Of which I stood sternly by but broke it when she call to say she misses me and with the fact that she has been very very supportive.

I see her a whole lot in pictures she post on her status trying to make her finger obvious etc. Which implies she probably searching or otherwise.

And it's a month now since we last spoke or even chat.

I have now know that all she was trying to do was to give me the impression that I could go for her. Though she trying to keep me as an option or back up plan. Or probably a boredom killer.

That's why she gave me answer that can still keep me around when I spoke to her about been in a relationship. She'll pray about it







A girl actually once used that line on me and I have ghosted her for years now.


Will be a good idea to do same with this new lady?
She is a very good girl and very supportive. Was actually there for me financially too.

It's quite obvious you're not over her

Say no to being a people pleaser(male and female included). Doesn't mean you have to be rude though but you might sometimes appear rude.

Part of taking the redpill allows you to navigate past these emotions even if it is someone you'd find it hard saying no to, especially a male friend.

Actually, practicing the redpill might just be the hardest thing you'll ever do cuz you'll make more enemies than friends.
But one thing is certain, life will be way much simpler and you'll get your shit together.

Redpill enables you to see how your current actions (decisions) can and will influence what happens in the future.

it's better people accept you for who you are and not who they want you to be,if anyone tries to reform you at your detriment, STAND YOUR GROUND.
You and your choices should always come first, don't give two fvcks about what the next person thinks.

Don't be a pussy!!!

Practice the redpill!!!!

And most importantly, stay fvcking redpilled!!!!

luminouz:
Lmaooooo.

I wonder what makes a girl high class? Her looks, skin tone? Big ass? Expensive wears or Iphones?
All those things are packaging bro and I guess opportunities. I have never considered any girl high class because of all these things. The so called high class girls your friends paid 100k for, are being fvcked by men with lesser Kobo but stronger frames. Putting a premium price on pussy is as bad as kissing a goat: you will never be appreciated for it.

When a young nigga hustled so hard to make it,only to start burning his cash on the same girls who won't even look at him when he was broke,is nothing short of modern juju or voodoo.

Which girl would reject such free meals?

I really hope these premium words sink into some mugus head, you've said it all bro

BigBashiru:
I will make it clear to future wife that my promise is to take care of her but can't promise it will be only her.... I still need my freedom

Trust me, it won't change a thing

If anything, you're only creating room for her to up her game

CaveAdullam:
DAY 352, REDPILL 2021

Female nature is unforgiving, it will neither consider your current state nor bend to your demands except when she declines in her sexual market value.

When it gets to your turn act same and curb your sacrificial tendency, that tendency to always squander your resources even when it is uncalled for.

Authority: Be wise!

My new year resolution, I'll be stingy asf towards women