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heartofcity12:
Lol . That’s how they are. She didnt want him yet she doesn’t want him to be with another (most especially the fact that it’s her friend). She now finds him desirable when her friend picks an interest in him. Women want a man other women want(pre-selection). Her likeness for the guy isn’t genuine tho, he should rather focus on the girl’s friend that genuinely likes him.

Lidocaine:
Women dont know what they want...



One of my friends met a girl and he approach her,collected her number and called her around the evening time.

They later got talking and the girl was acting cold and uninterested in him,so he requested they meet and talk around her hostel.


When the guy went to meet the girl in the hostel her friend saw my friend and told the girl he liked my friend.

When the original girl and my friend were talking at night the same day she told the guy her friend said she liked him and that should she give him her no.

My friend being a player said yes and collected her friend number and messaged her.

The 2nd day her friend came to the guy hostel and declared her love him..

The matter now is that the original girl my friend went to meet has begin to give him greenlight telling him she liked him and asking why he messaged his friend..


Right Now Both the girls are trying to get his attention...

CAPSLOCKED:
ONLY ONE QUESTION: HOW ARE SUCH PEOPLE ON YOUR CONTACTS, SIRS?

CaveAdullam:
DAY 36, REDPILL 2022

Men ought to mimick women in not settling for less.

Authority: Be sharp.

heartofcity12:
Redpill

heartofcity12:
I doubt he’ll do that, he’s busy loving his olosho wifey. His eyes will still be cleared soon

heartofcity12:
Smh...

ubunja:
I didn't think of it the way you have put it,,, but it also works. Yes,, people with money do take care of themselves and actually live longer on average. What you're saying fits, It's just that I was looking at natural beauty as in good genes and all.

ubunja:
in the animal kingdom the male ability to provide is not as important as in the human kingdom, females generally provide for themselves and their young. The male is an asset when predators and rival groups are concerned. Also in animals Beauty is paramount when selecting for a mate because good-looks are an indicator of good health,, something that has been proven even among humans - beautiful people are the healthiest.

Winnerly:
It’s like this really. The girl sits down in a corner and hypergamistically draws up a list/criteria for a partner. She then uses her hypergamy lense to assess potential males that fit the bill. She then starts with the fake smiles and all what not so her victim can come to her. If this isn’t the height of manipulation then I don’t know what is.

The curve ball here is, if the chosen signal is based on genuine desire, then it’s great. If the chosen signal is sent because she sees you but you don’t know her and you would have chosen her if she were within your line of sight, then it’s great.

If the chosen signal is sent because of lifestyle reasons, then woe betide the chosen.

As a man, where is your own criteria? Do you even have a list of attributes you want in a partner? It’s all about you, Bleep what she wants.

Many guys may settle for less if they wait to be chosen.

A man shouldn’t be taken. He should be doing the taking.

While doing the choosing, donot flash wealth, come as you are and save all rewards for the one who recognizes you in plain outfit.

Even Jesus rewarded the disciple who recognized him to be the son of God when all others called him different names. Jesus could have appeared in his full glory but he came plain

Note : I’m an advocate of MGTOW or atleast, a very high degree of sexual discipline. It will pay you but if you find yourself playing the field, do so in moderation and do it red pilled and do so as a successful man but show up plain.

luminouz:
There are still normal girls there na!!!

Winnerly:
When chosen, you become the prey and you’re playing into her hands.

When you choose, you’re the hunter and she’s falling into your own hands.

heartofcity12:
Not all girls that choose you have genuine desire in you, speaking from experience. Some are fake, that’s why I always say women are the master gamers/redpillers, they’re miles ahead in this games. I’ve had an experience from a girl that kept giving me green light and later on sent her friend to tell me that she likes me and wouldn’t mind being my girl, my worst regret was letting her in. This girl claimed to be an independent girl doing a government job but I had the shock of my life when I realized this girl only wanted me for material gains, she was gauging my net worth all through and I realized she only wanted me to fund her lifestyle within the space of 2 days after knowing her. She went cold on me immediately when she realized I’m not the type she could use or I probably didn’t possess the luxuries she desired then, we ended up ghosting each other. That was a tough lesson to learn, I question every little move a girl make towards me now, I must know her true intentions before letting her in even if she chooses me, the rabbit hole is really deep and we are all here to learn. However I still prefer to be chosen than cold approaching, I have nothing against both.

CaveAdullam:
I'm not satisfied with your response as you didn't dealt with each line but one.

This is Rollo Tomassi saying "let girls come to you". What is your take on it?

And what's also your take on genuine desire from women? And is genuine desire based on trial and error---numbers method?

Thanks.

Martinez39s:
This is very true. Such misandric notion even became apparent during the #KillAllMen trend. These feminists said all sorts of despicable things under the pretext of just joking, but those that know radical feminists know better. Those that have studied feminism around the globe and radical feminists know better. I addressed this issue in one of my meme threads. There was even an outspoken feminist (Dañde55) on nairaland who was a proponent of this idea.

Check the link. The first post of mine on page 11 of this thread was a reply to a guy who posted a picture of Princess Kate and real tweets of feminists bemoaning the fact that she had a son in line to the throne instead of a daughter. That's how the discussion started. The guy has removed the picture. Read from that page till page 12 to follow all discussions and memes pertaining to the issue.

https://www.nairaland.com/6218053/red-pill-memes-entertainment/10

luminouz:
I could, if I search my Google history long enough but the effort is not worth it.

You can make some research on your own though. Their feminism is worse than mainstream Americans or British.

luminouz:
I'd also stay far away from Scandinavian countries like Sweden, Norway and Denmark. Their females hate their men so much some are actually aborting their unborn babies if the sex is confirmed to be male

ubunja:
So talking to a girl and getting her to bed is not really convincing her to do something she didn't initially want, but more about her doing what she decided on the first place. Hence a girl who likes you will let you hit without so much as a pick up line.
Blessed is that man who can work out which category a woman has placed him in.

Tonnyray:
That was the exact post targeted and if you cared to closely observe it was intentionally labelled "redpillers" not redpillers. That in itself should make you understand the intent. It's interesting the erring post is never addressed though. I did not bring cold approaching into the Greenwood saga, Smartb0y did. Have you quoted him to address that Sir?

Martinez39s:
All discussions on Greenwood so far (before Smartb0y's post) had nothing to do with cold approach, "cold approachers," or being chosen, neither did anyone say Greenwood cold approached her or he wasn't chosen. The first discussion on Greenwood happened when the allegations surfaced and it was about giving Greenwood the benefit of doubt, nothing about cold approach; the second discussion on Greenwood was simply about d!ck control (which is invaluable and applicable to all men) and it only involved two people: victòr88 (who started the discussion) and Skeptiçus before Smartb0y joined, and both Viktòr88 and Skeptiçus never mentioned cold approach. The second discussion obviously stands on its own and isn't related to the recent fray on the issue of cold approach.

By using the plural "redpillers", you make it seem like Smartb0y's post is reflective of the thoughts of many redpillers here on this Greenwood matter. Except this is a typo, then I would say you should properly dissect discussions right from their origins. Smartb0y might have spoken amiss (except if there is a clarification I know not), but it shouldn't be taken that far. Let the argument or logical lapse of one person not be seen as a reflective of others in the group; doing the opposite is a logical lapse in itself. This pattern of misrepresenting redpillers in their thread should stop. Instead of misrepresenting redpillers, why not follow the origin of a discussion and point out when some is digressing or talking off point? Better still, you can refuse participating in the discussion like I did. Anyway, I want to believe you actually meant "a redpiller".

_{NB: see my post as a honest take. Don't misconstrue things or make any assumptions about my intentions. I would have said the same to anyone, even a redpiller. Finally, I have nothing against people who cold approach.}

Skepticus:
U

When you tell men to have sexual discipline by not bonking every woman that comes their way, whether they chose you or not, whether the environment/time is right or not, using your head, intuition over your foolish dick, they'll give you mocking replies that reveal their foolishness like: "You are not getting pusssy" "You are an incel" "I am a womanizer, (simping plates), so I understand women" "MGTOW guys are just scared of women" etc.

What these foolish dudes don't understand is that the generally accepted meme of "women are wonderful/men are evil", halo effect, women's neoteny/coyness already put men at great disadvantage in both patriarchal and gynocentric societies. So, as you build value, you are prone to being a bigger target in a society that already adjudged you as evil for just being a man and won't mind treating you with disdain as the disposable gender.

I'm on par with Zabiboy's vibe on: what is so special about a woman's pussssy that men put their lives at a great risk? Or what would they do for me that I can't do for myself, outside their smelly hole?

Well, Greenwood's case and the issues that surrounded it reveals all that has been said here. Attraction to women is natural for a man and there is nothing bad about it, but if you don't use your head over your dick on how to operate with women, you'll land, where other foolish men before you, did.

You guys have been forewarned.

chukshobayo:
Very hard sha very hard but we will continue to make efforts to attain perfection

Nyascobar1414:
Definitely bro... Greenlight is all worthless to me... If you really need me... You approach me directly

Osas187:
With all I read here yesterday about cold and hot approach,and what happened between me and the girl I cold approach last (last week)I've promised myself not to cold approach any girls again. So help me GOD.

heniford2:
Mason greenwood ex girlfriend done come out openly saying this from her Instagram page Fear woman guys after destroying this guy reputation

heartofcity12:
Redpill

Kellzzyy:
When I was still in school, I used to attend parties quite regularly. From night clubs, pool parties, departmental parties, dinner nights etc.

During these times, I hardly used the cold approach in getting girls to follow me home for the night.
Simply having that aura around me did the job.
By aura here I mean the following: being really good looking, nice (mostly designer) clothes, nice necklace and other accessories, expensive wrist watch and a very powerful perfume.

All I do is sit by myself in a conspicuous place, making sure I'm easily noticeable. I then order my drinks and observe the events.
As expected, you'll start seeing them girls coming close to sit with you, from there interact with you and then you can play your game right.
By game here I don't mean the bluepilled method of toasting or anything.. Just being myself, cocky, a little bit narcissistic, mysterious, naughty and teasing.
At this point I still resist to urge to pedestalise her, or gratuitously spend my resources on her (or them).

Most times than not, this approach works well for me and will work for any guy who does it well.


Mind you, it is even in parties that girls have the highest, most nauseating entitlement issues.
Why? Because every other guy at the party is using the cold approach.
It is no secret that in most parties, you'll see more guys than girls. And in most parties almost every guy there is looking for a girl to take home for the night. The girl you're trying to approach might have been approached by 5 other guys that same night. And you still want to make yourself an extra source of validation for her?

In a situation like this, why not be the difference? Why not make yourself stand out from the guys by not chasing? If you do so, you'll find out that the girls will notice you. They'll want to find out which guy this is, that doesn't seem to give a Bleep. From there you can play your game.

Admittedly, this method doesn't guarantee success every time, but it greatly raises your chances while at the same time preventing you from fooling yourself around these girls or being a source of validation for some stupid bitch.

I strongly insist that cold approach is an outdated and silly thing to do in the present times. It remains the genesis of simping.

ubunja:
you're out of your league on this one. Maybe you need to sit this one out and take notes.

First of all: Greenlights by a girl = a girl cold approaching you.

It's one and the same thing.

I've given you a starting point. Connect the rest of the dots yourself.

Junnior:
Over 90% of women don't even have the balls to cold approach guys. So, I see nothing wrong in guys doing it, provided they don't kiss ass while at it. I believe it's mostly for fun though.

Do you know that if most guys quit cold approach, their body count would drastically reduce? They would be greatly limiting themselves to opportunities.
So, it's important that we find a way to balance doing both cold and hot approach concurrently and within the available time.

ubunja:
leave cold approaching to women.