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MJBOLT:

Calibrator is right,your peace of mind in Marriage is dependent on if your wife wants it or not,get married to a bad woman and you will probably die early.
A lot of women wield more power than their husbands in Marriages today.

How many times are we gonna keep saying it, marriage is an institution that's beneficial to women alone .

A man can achieve all he wants in life without getting married, can't say the same for those leeches

Zabiboy:
_{continuation from my previous post}
Which brings me to another question
How willing are you to stretch a genuine helping hand to someone you dont know/wont see again/ cant return the help?

Lol bro, you've stretched it too far.

Even close family and relatives don't wanna help each other talkless of outsiders

Funny enough, most times they tend to help outsiders than their family members.

Zabiboy:
The best way to know a person's true personality is how he/she treats those who nothing is expected of in return [/b]

This is the undiluted truth.

Stay in your parents house till you're like 35 and see how you'd be treated compared to when you're sending money for them .

I think they get the idea now

yunqdady:
I will not marry until I'm 100% sure of who I'm dealing with.

At bolded, you can never be 100% sure.
Count yourself lucky if you're even 40% sure .

Jacuzzi55:
Check this out

Rehabilitation center .
Now that's funny asf

hebenz:
#Real Estate.
We will be talking about this Extensively.
How to invest in Real Estate,How to buy landed Properties,How build and design your own home.
We will Dive into it in due time

Bro,why not start with the lil stuff then move up from there.

Not everyone has money for real estate
But carry on,we are with you

hebenz:
If you like hire Mossad let them work together with CIA,Vet from now till tomorrow.
The female nature is Inevitable.
She is the only that can decide to be Loyal
Why disturb yourself?

That's why I'll keep saying there's no such thing as vetting, it's just you getting lucky

hebenz:
Premium Tears

Definition of a horse-band

Zabiboy:
Considering the fact that people do change, personally, all this relationship/dating/vetting/marriage stuff is just a waste of time and effort (didn't want to use the word "waste" as it might sound harsh)
I mean, someone can something he/she isn't for a period of time just to fit into somewhere or get something else..

It is indeed a waste of time my brother

Calibrator:
Don't forget to add that she is also a mother of two

What's her name

Calibrator:
Only a mentally retarded person will privatise a public toilet then turn around to wonder why people from far and near are violating the privacy of his home to take a dump.






I will not explain!

Translation
Everyone dey fvck olosho,we reach your turn , you colonize am put for house

Vetting is for marriage inclined individuals.
Imagine the headache y'all go through just to pick a manageable one.

potland:
they say marriage is an achievement

LMAO, once upon a time slavery was also an achievement to some people

notoriuz:
since all women are like that(hoe)... there's no need ,, searching her phone,going to her village ,this that to know her wassup...


na the criteria when she go possess be the Koko.

Lol,I feel your sarcasm

Some people just like confusing themselves.

You already know AWALT and you still decide to check her faithfulness Level,is that not simply simping.

You already know AWALT but because she's a Virgin, you decide to give a A1 for faithfulness, SMH.....is that not simply simping

You already know AWALT but because she's acts all feminine, you decide to give her a free pass

Women are dynamic, they'll fit perfectly well into any situation they find themselves as long as it suits their purpose at that moment.

If you truly understand that women are the greatest pretenders.... you'll think twice before mentioning vetting because when it comes to women expect anything.


Virginity, femininity.....these are more like safe guards without any guarantee, how you navigate(relate not mould) with women with such qualities is what determines your success ratio
Because at the end all women still operate under the same umbrella (AWALT).

Because she's not hoeing around it's merely because of circumstance not because of choice

Meedon:
You are not lying ooo some men are really passing through emotional pain because of football. Imagine someone said that he cannot eat or do his work properly because they win Arsenal FC. Some people even commit suicide self.

Before you see a man down because of something , just know he invested heavily in it

ubunja:
True no one is an angel. So our list need to be realistic Someone who realistically fits your requirements. Remember a man's vetting list can change as he grows older or becomes richer or poorer. It also makes an allowance for disappointments.

Here's a rough example:

A man's vetting list can be as simple as:
No over 25 lady, slim, university educated, has a career, comes from a stable family, Christian, no kids.

Then the man can make space for compromises because no one is perfect:
If she has a lucrative business then a kid can be accepted, If she's a virgin then she doesn't need to be varsity educated. Etc.

This is a very rough take....

At bolded, I love how you used that statement.
We need to be realistic,the vibe I'm getting from guys on here about the vetting stuff is very funny.
There are things we can maybe control and some we just can't control

Joker09:
Yeah it’s why there is no limit to vetting, even if it involves tracking her phone or checking it up as to know who she truly is.. you can’t take chances. Redpilled men could simply just go their own way and shun marriage.

Lol, it depends on how you see it.
It's all about choices and owning up to whatever choice we decide to make.

We know marriage isn't all kisses and hugs like the blue pilled society would have us think.

I mentioned something sometime around new year day about speaking with some elderly about this marriage thingy.

There was a woman amongst, she couldn't give me any tangible reason why I should get married. She was like no nah it's not good, your dad and your mum did it, you should too .

The bluepilled society conditioned us in a way to think it's all or nothing when it comes to marriage but that's total bullshit.

The difference now is that are you willing to engage in this act called marriage just for you and not because society says so cuz if you listen to society you'll likely regret it.

Joker09:
If vetting a woman means nothing. Then no one should encourage marriage anymore on this thread. Marriage institution should be considered bluepill, and let us be real with ourselves that you can’t be a married man and be redpilled Alpha at that, because married men often make moves that seem beta.. You’ll make such moves if you choose to marry, like it or not.

You must show concerns for who you choose to take to the altar, because their decisions in life will affect you.. To avoid contradictions, redpill should rather focus more on men going their own way and have nothing to do with women except for fun and fu.cks, if vetting doesn’t work, It’s simply safe not to commit to anyone. Just my humble opinion.

Vetting is more like 40 positive - 60 negative tbh.
There's absolutely no guarantee you'll get an angel

And yes in marriage one is very likely to lose frame especially in this age we find ourselves in.

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JESHAL:
Trash
Be aware of AWALT and Female nature
When vetting aim for virginity and feminity
Mould your woman in your image

[/s]
Who says she wouldn't wanna explore her hoe phase after you deflower her.

All what you just said are things we've discussed in the past.

My point is you can't really vet a person,if you like continue believing the illusion you can mould a woman into what you want, that's your cup of tea.

You know woman nature nature yet you want to bend it to your will,oh well

Let's close the topic with you can't really vet a woman, she'll cheat on your ass if she so wishes.

So I understand why ubunja made that statement earlier,like why give yourself headache over something you can't control.


There's no such thing thing as vetting l,it's just you getting lucky

Remember guys,she might be a reverend sister today and a who.re tommorow,their emotions are always in constant change.

You saying you can vet a woman can be equated to saying Nawalt when deep down we all know woman nature can turn the tide at any moment.

The belief of this vetting process is as a result of "I must get married no matter what".....such thinking creates that vetting process that'd seem rather uncompromising and not bluepilled but in truth we are just deceiving ourselves

So simply pick your poison and move on, there's enough delusion to go around already.
Stop adding more to the pile.

There's no such thing as vetting

ezeonline:
Comrades please what do you think about this statement

Nothing goes for nothing bro.

There's a high chance she'd be masculine asf and her hypergamy game would be off the roof.

Unless you're a beta simpazee, you won't last.


You're just her next toy

fattprince:
Omo things dey happen oh,
I enter Keke this evening when this Keke driver started to gist me wetin he babe do ham.
I mean this guy told about how he spend on this girl and how this girl kisses him in public to make it seem like he's the only one for her. He said he still bought 30k cloth for this girl on 31st and how his account went from 115k in November to 31k and how the hoe asked him for transport to go to her sister's place but ended up in the other guy's house. He like technically funded his girlfriend tfare to go get some fvck. The girl still hasn't know this guy knows because the guy hacked his babes WhatsApp. I wanted to tell the guy about redpill but he was bursting with talk so I just allowed him hoping to tell him to google redpill before I drop but I decided against it when he told me he was going to show her evidence then talk to her to cut off things with the guy but if she doesn't then he will break up with her. Men, she's getting a second chance. SMH our guy is still going to get fvcked up at least once more. Thank God I wouldn't be there then

Bro, that dude is in for a long ride
He's heavily invested.
Man's greatest attachment to a woman and also his weakness

siofra:
Is that Nigerian guys don't know anything like self-respect or dignity

No wonder the redpill easily deceives them into hating women

Why are you always on about TRP

siofra:
Is that Nigerian guys don't know anything like self-respect or dignity

No wonder the redpill easily deceives them into hating women

Why are you always on about TRP

When you chase after women whether for fun or commitment, you automatically make them a priority



Don't be a simp!!

Priotise your self growth, women will follow

CAPSLOCKED:
THERE'S NOTHING THAT ANYBODY CAN DO TO KEEP A WOMAN IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO STAY. NOTHING. [/color]

And most times, they don't wanna stay

The only thing more dangerous and worse than a woman is a SIMP

CaveAdullam:
In addendum: Such kind of men behave like women because they feel entitled to get whatever they need regardless of the fact that they are unable to get it. They lack the temerity to go back to knock on heaven's door because they know they wouldn't be answered. They can't bear the pains of hell this time around because hell now is more rougher and tougher; their energy is too minuscule to tackle it.

Their narcissism plummets because they now want everyone to come to their rescue as they now see themselves as victims of circumstances. Any decision not centered around their wellbeing calls for chaos as their ego is now in charge, and anything that will ensconced that ego must be consumed even if by force and acting like a tornado. Because they now feel some sense of shame, seeing that they are no longer worshipped and in control, they will do whatever thing to showcase themselves.
This is also true for people starting from the bottom. The bottom is dark and they are unrecognizable until they shoot out above the ground. However, the ones able to bear the shame of starting from the bottom, be courageous and full of strength will always climb to the top.

Thanks.

PS: smartb0y, see what you've done to my fingers, a parrot at that!

You're simply on fire

The moment you mentioned narcissism I just smiled.

You're spot on!!!

Osas187:
I'm not a stranger to her,we both live same street,she knows me very well but we don't talk,maybe she thinks I've to talk to her first as other guys do to her.

Bros, you're overthinking the matter.

It's not compulsory someone greets you.

CaveAdullam:
A lady I visited yesterday narrated a story that almost follow same line as yours. Though the said man was into cybercrime, he made mad loads of money and spent it recklessly. He is now back to square 1, hits his wife almost on a daily basis and depends on neighbors for food some times.

On the issue of excuse, it is a feature in the human psyche: it serves as a media to escape shame, the feeling of guilt, being ostracized, and to maintain status and reputation. Excuse is an escape route, a useful one at that for the human species.

That young man is doomed! With a quiet retrospection, he will know that he fvcked up his life by himself rather than apportioning blame to both existing and non existing entities. But he wouldn't like to take blame for his recklessness, poor choice and decisions, hence, will quickly allocate cheap excuses to counter anyhow that tries to hold him accountable for his deeds and how competent he his.
It will be more difficult for him to even lift a spoon now because he has tasted the sweetness of life and ego wouldn't allow him bring himself low and start from the bottom to the top. People like this hardly change, most times, it's good you relegate them to the bottom or deal with them from afar because no matter the help you try to render, they either see it an attack on their ego or a mockery of their current state.

Thanks.

You've said it all.
Your words are golden.
Ima put it on a plaque

fattprince:
Agreed. But I didn't say him not helping the girl is bad. No it's not but I'm just saying how I will react if it were me. She asked for help and I helped her because if it were to be a guy I would do. I like helping people.

When I went for some program early last year, we had one lady that feels she is the Queen and like to behave like she's the head. We (everyone in the program) were chatting one day when she called a food hawker. When she came she happened to land beside me, when this lady asked me to help the hawker in putting her wares down. I did as if she wasn't even there. I didn't even flinch. She had to stand up to do it herself. Everyone there was surprised but they all laughed about it. I refused her because she didn't need the help she was only trying to check if her charm will work by asking for help.

Personally,if you're a stranger or not, I don't give a hoot if you greet me or not.

I don't greet people when I'm going out, I actually hate it when everyone around knows me .

So if a stranger ,be it a guy or girl ask for my assistance, I might render such help depending on my mood.

But if the said individual sees me another time and repeats the same scenario....I won't even do as if you're talking to me.

Basically,I see the worst in people but always give them the benefit of a doubt although they often prove that they're peice of shit

I want to share a typical story many will find similar.

There's this guy,he made a way out for himself couple of years back only to waste most of the millions on booze and women.

Fast forward, for almost a decade he found himself struggling due to lack of planning.
The funny part is that he blames the spiritual for his circumstances and not himself hahaha.

As if that's not enough,he got himself a baby mama for a gf.
She's been with him for over 4years if not more.

He had to pack out of his apartment cuz he could no longer manage with the house rent.

He now lives with the parent and the baby mama still comes around to stay,is that not madness

How can someone think this way guys

Some people are just doomed tbh, no matter the help you render them.

They'll always give in to their compromising nature hence they'll never grow.

For me it's the lack of shame of the said individual and inability to accept he's his own fault and enemy.(imagine blaming your faults on something that doesn't exist hahaha)

The ability of some individual to live in such redundancy is alarming really.