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thundafire:
They have started again,why not the complete studies b4 shouting about deep seaport,he relocated it to his senatorial district for political gains. Why his short counterpart in Crossriver seaport has gone haywire

Exactly what I noticed. All those reasons for relocation are just rubbish...

tobechi74:
I love this .
Alpha male are dominant in other aspect. Of their lives.
Here, redpill teaches them to treat ladies ins particular way . They remain like nerds in other areas of life. You cannot hide it too long.

Ladies can tell the difference between a real Alpha male and an Alpha male in bed matters. She will see how you react amidst your fellow guy. That is the real you.

What will you like to have for lunch bro? any eatery around you there? Drop your AZA!

ElasmoBranchii:
As nairaland feminists, evening newspapers and SIMPs have discovered, shaming tactics can never work on a redpiller and probably you know this.

This your post was made to discourage bluepill simp from escaping the matrix. And that is good because the redpill doesn't need weak men who will feel bad because some bluepill cuck said he is not a man. Only strong people can handle the truth.

Also that redpill thread you are attacking never graced front page but has gleaned over 200k views and 152 comments and counting.
After today this your thread will fade into oblivion. Nobody will remember what they read here. So I will advice you op to be productive with your time.

Oga, if you cannot face your fellow man when they fork u up, just get out of here, you can't be counted as an Alpha Male if your sole aim is on women. Men take no bullshit from anyone, either women and men.

The way most of you talk about this thing shows you actually lack balls to face a man like yourself OFFLINE. Alpha Male mantra is not designed to be focused on women only. It goes way way way beyond that.

However, It is becoming glaring that many of you don't know what it means to be a man and you lack balls to tackle real-world challenges like a man.

Alpha Males doesn't call themselves Alpha Male... A lion does not announce his kingship. Never! The way he handles specific tasks shows that he is the king of the jungle.

You are only Alpha Male or "red piller" online and with women but a cold spineless sissy when a man fork u up cos u can't fight. That is not a trait of a MAN...

Shortyy:
Y'all really believe that a woman who demands for respect, equal right, and opportunity, is hating on you.
No one hates any of you. You are just losing your control and grip on some enlightened few, you conclude it's hate. No honey, it's not hate. Y'all aren't that important to be hated on.

Madam, point of correction: Say Nigerian woman and not Woman. I say so because 99% of Nigerian brand of feminism is rubbish emanating from heartbreaks, which precipitate hate and disgust towards men. The worse is that many of you lead lots of girls astray as if you don't need a man while cuddling veiny black mamba. We saw Linda Ikeji do this, we saw it a few weeks ago on Twitter too.

TheLionofLasigi:
I reread it, if am right man's was talking about money not being a requirement for being an "Alpha Male"

haba... How can this be the sole theme of everything I wrote?

Good morning, I will address it so that you can. Give me an hour.

TheLionofLasigi:
You were making sense until you started talking about money and confidence

There is absolutely no noblity in poverty, a poor man can only mask confidence and he'd probably date a woman poorer than him and less achieved than him to get the respect he deserves; probably end up with a woman with saggy tits and after her first pregnancy she's looking like a sack of shit and piss running around the house with a wrapper and few years down the line you'd probably cheat on her....

With money and confidence combined you could get an accomplished woman with perfect ass, bispoke tits and a waxed pussy, call me a simp, but I'd spend on pussy if I can afford it; it's more effective and you can cut through the bullshit of toasting and pre-intimacy straight to fvckin. Plus unlike you would like to put it; infidelity isn't limited to rich people only, shit just happens. My two cents.

Peter Okoye didn't have money to bag Lola... and Lola is one of the most gorgeous women that you will ever come across, even at an age close to 50 (according to Paul).

I get your point but it seems you didn't understand me either. Take your time to read how Peter, as narrated by Lola herself, won Lola and you will understand.

So let me ask you, why will someone like Lola, richer than Peter at that time, choose him above men richer and more loaded than him? Please find time to read the interview that Lola had some years back. She talked about what attracted her to Peter.

Another point is that you can't win a woman's love or loyalty with money... NEVER. You can only deceive yourself if you think otherwise. The highest you will get is willing pussy and I say this because I have seen someone burn through 50Million naira but the bitch still bleeped a broked guy. Know this and stop using money to entice women. It never ends well.

Magnoliaa:
Ki lo kan e? Are you an adherent of either? Abi na you dey fight and hate the other gender??

Be taking panadol ontop other people's ish.

see this one is hiding under female gender and he is preaching alpha male or red pill... how do I take a low budget bob risky serious?

khingTony:
The Redpill is a knowledge, if you are willing, you obtain it, accept it, act it and disperse it.

All the talks about the redpill on nairaland and other online forums is a method of dispersing it, not acting it, you can only act it in your offline life, when a man refuses to take the baggage of another man all in the name of "marrying a single mother" he's "acting" the redpill. when a man refuses to be leeched by a woman, not because he doesn't have the money but because he knows that the hoes are not loyal, he's "acting" the redpill. There are tons of actions that depict the acceptance of the redpill but I can't mention all here


The knowledge of the redpill teaches you the various subtle manipulations of the female gender and how to be immune to it.


Nigerian Feminism teaches hatred for men while the redpill teaches men how to handle and dominate women, or go their own way if they want no undeserved female problems.



The redpill is the truth, the truth is always bitter that's why SIMPs and their likes are not ready to accept it.


Peace

Summary is , you are either a man or you are not... yes, women are manipulative but why is all the talks about redpill or alpha male centered around women these days?

Like a so-called friend that messed me up, if I am learning defense against women only in this wicked world, I sure as hell will be forked 7 times over but God help him the day I will set my eyes on him...

emperorshaokahn:
i guess i'm a woman then.dude go get a life and stop being a simp.

What is a SIMP?

Stephenmoka4:
Understand that most of them are fake. Redpill or MGTOW and they are still running after women deceiving themselves. (Same with feminist).

Learn some truth in it but, don't shove it in everyone's face.


So OP, know that many fakee here don't like truth and can't help it. You'll be called a simp soon, it's just part of their motto.

You understand their modus operandi lol

emperorshaokahn:
such a trashy writeup.

It is trashy because you are not a man...

But since this whole thing is based on defense against Nigerian women, I will point out a few things you can correct based on my personal experience as it relates to Nigeria (I have not been elsewhere).

1. There is nothing wrong with loving a woman or showering her with so much love but there is something wrong with being cheap. Humans are not designed to value something when it is cheap and easily available. Make it hard for Nigerian ladies to gain access to you. Remember the idea is to give no room for anyone to disrespect you.

2. A lot of Nigerian girls are from LOVELESS homes and they carry this into relationships, frustrating the men that show them love. A blind man can NEVER appreciate the beautiful colours of a garment, no matter how much you describe it. You know why? It is because he CAN'T see. He can't relate with what you term green, white, or red. The problem isn't you but the kind of home they came from. I am sure you must have read some Nigerian women say they love men who beat them. What do you think is the cause? Why do you think they don't voluntarily call you or reply to your SMS? THEIR HOME and there is no love there. My brother, it is not your fault. Understand this and know peace.

3. Don't chase but attract. Do what Nigerian women do... Spend money on yourself to look good. You see, most times when you give them money, they use it to buy clothes, nice shoes, make their hair, snap good pictures to upload, and look "rich" in order to attract higher-class men. Did you see what happened with William Ochemba the Nollywood actor recently? He attracted that lady that he wedded just a few weeks ago because he didn't chase. The good thing about this method is that it is less stressful and it also gives you full time to yourself and control over what happens.

4. If a Nigerian girl that you are interested in uses one syllabic word like "ok", "yeah", "k", "no" after you have written a paragraph or most times does not reply to your messages even after reading them, please for your own sake, dignity and sanity... ABORT mission and leave her alone. Thinking things will change if you pressure her is a fool's paradise. Remember the goal is to give no room for anyone to disrespect you. Last month, I told a girl that I will never message her again. After that, I deleted her number from my phone and move the fork on.

5. Do not be too eager to impress any woman, especially if you want a relationship with them. On Nairaland, I see guys say make money and you can have any woman you want. We can translate this to mean that you can impress any woman with money but you will soon find out how this notion can be destructive.

If you need money to have a woman, then you are not a man. So what happens when you have no money? You lose your confidence and when you are not confident with a woman without money, trust me, you are not really a man. It might also be that some of our "Alpha male" proponents are "Alpha males" with money and sissies without money. You are no different from a man who builds confidence under the influence of alcohol but loses it as soon as the intoxication of alcohol wears off.

Like I said above, you will soon find out how the "have money and you can have any woman" ideology can be destructive. Apparently, many Nigerian guys who hold this view do so from the point of ignorance. You can't buy any woman's love or loyalty with money. Know this today and know peace. The best you can get is her pussy. Now, just because a lady allows you to fork her does not mean she loves you. Duncan Mighty, the Portharcourt musician, with all his money found out recently that his 4th child is not his... Emmanuel Adebayor with his money was cheated on... WHY? Trying to impress women with money is wrong.

You may not accept this from a nobody like me until you lose over 100M like one guy I know. I mean, I have been privy to two guys whose supposed "girlfriends" were forking guys financially less than them, and Duncan Mighty's case might just be one of such.

Peter Okoye of Psquare is the real MVP under this context. 1, He was broke when he met his wife, Lola. 2, Lola is older than him by more than 10 years. 3, The woman is goregeous and she chose him among the plethora of men drooling over her.

Do you know what it means to have that kind of woman ?

In addition to 5, do not be afraid to tell a woman that you are broke instead of going all out to proof what you don't have. An uncouth lady I knew from past, asked me why I am single and I told her point blank that I am broke so she can leave me alone because I am I sensed she was searching. Told me she was a changed person now sha (as per our fall out 2 years ago due to exchange we had on facebook) but truth is, she is still uncouth from what I later read on her whatsapp statuses.

6. Do Not Be Afraid to put any woman who tries to disrespect you where they belong and do it as fast as possible. It is okay to treat a lady right but if she is trying to take it for granted and abuse you for doing what is humanly right, waste no time to place her where she belongs. I do know that most of these Nigerian girls are idiots. It can be so bad that even someone whom you cater for can call you broke (even when she does not have 100k in the bank) simply because you tried to bring her to some levels. They are that senseless but then, this is what giving room for someone to disrespect you can bring. They can be so egoistic to the point of not accepting that they are wrong but don't let them feel they are right. During their quiet times alone, they will reflect on it and tell themselves that thet messed up.

7. Nigerian girls from poor homes can be problematic when it comes to relationships. In fact, when you analyze the complaints that most Nigerian guys have in relationships or dating experiences, it is because of this reason. Most are not so affectionate, they rarely reciprocate and their "love" is directly proportional to the size of your bank account. I don't know what you can do with this information but use it to your own advantage.

Remember that I said in No 2. Above that most of the complaint from Nigerian guys about girls is because of the kind of home these girls come from. So to reduce your complaints, always consider this fact and stay away. Most times, the problem is not you even when they make it seems like you are the problem. There is nothing wrong with you.

8. If a girl you are dating does not call you, or text or initiate chat, my brother abort the mission and stay away. Remember the goal is to not give room for anybody to disrespect you because while they are feeling important, you are more important in the real scheme of things. Besides, there are a lot of ladies out there. So, try your hands on them.

9. Make money and buy stuff for your self. Take yourself out and have fun. Eat what you feel hungry for.

So, while you instill defense against women, what happens when a fellow man tries to fork you up? what defense mechanism do you have for that kind of scenario? What you do under this kind of situation will really determine if you are a real man like you want everyone to believe when you chant "red pill", "alpha male" on Nairaland.

Merry Christmas and prosperous new year in advance

RedPill, Alpha Male... Is the new song that a bunch of sissies now embrace as a clout to hide their weakness.

Initially, I love the idea, I read up on them a long time ago in one of those threads championed by "experts " on the subject and as much I appreciate the motive behind it, I can't hide my disgust by the nauseating trend that is now engulfing the idea.

In every thread that makes the front page, you will see guys (who I presume to be weak) chanting "red pill", "blue pill", "Alpha male". When you probe them further to know what they understand about these terms, all you see or hear are from minds that are fascinated by the idea of manipulating another human and in some context, to dislike or hate women, which I will like to call the male version of Nigerian feminism.

I say "Nigerian feminism" because the Nigerian Idea of feminism among Nigerian women is tailored and propagated to hate on men, which isn't the true ideology of what feminism stands for.

Now, if your idea about RedPill, Alpha Male is "women-centric" as a mechanical defense against women, what will be your mechanical defense against fellow men? Or do you think men can't do to you what you ideally perceived as propagated by women? I know that you are blinded by this fact because, for the records, you ain't gay nor do you date men. So, it may not seem obvious to you until you take a bird's eye view of the whole situation that make up your existence and human interactions.

Unlike what you are made to believe in Nairaland or other fora, you are either a man or you are not. I don't know what you guys derive from all these "Red Pill", "Blue Pill", "Alpha Male" chant that is almost blocking one's ears and eyes.

Real Men don't even go by those tags. It is all made up by the MEDIA... yeah, it is all someone's IDEA.

You either act like a man or you don't. You either allow people, men or women, to disrespect you or you don't.

Have you also noticed that you find it hard to follow ALL the "Red Pills" or "Alpha Male" tutorials to a T? WHY?

You don't need to be manipulative or downright hating on the opposite sex just because you want to guard your heart against heartbreaks.

We all have had those horrible moments with women, INCLUDING our EXPERTS who champion this narrative on Nairaland... If some of them are sincere enough to tell you their experience with Nigerian women, you might just discover that you are actually not as bad (mugu-wise) as they want you to believe. As in, it might be a case of them being a worse mugu than yourself. I say so because I have experienced this before with a member on here. He laughed at me but the day I heard his story, I was nowhere close to his "mugulosisies". I mean, I didn't sponsor any girl to school for 5 years

Do you get the point?

All you have to do is SET STANDARDS... and these STANDARDS must not be focused on women only, but also for men. The idea is to NEVER give room for anyone to disrespect you under any guise.. This is what a MAN is supposed to do. Don't take bullshitz from anybody.

DEMZEE:
Our forefathers were practicing hardcore polygamy and the society then wasn't feministic.

I love ur point but I want to also say, since our forefathers then didn't attend school or any academic institutions and they were FORKING MEN that means u that u attended school U are Wat..... A FOOLISH MAN AHBI

BROS, DONT B PROUD TOWARDS LEARNING

EDUCATION WORKS BEST WITH HUMILITY

REDPILL IS NECESSARY KNOWLEDGE FOR TODAY'S FEMCENTRIC SOCIETY!!!!

You see the stupidity in your comment?

so the sole aim of this redpill is centered around defense against women, right? so what about defense against fellow men?

It is a stupid and ignorant approach.

Go be a man and stop allow anyone, either male or female, to mess with your head. That is how to be a man.

A Nigga forked with me and he hiding ever since. If I am not a man, I won't challenge him but GOD knows the day I set my eyes on him, blood will flow, either mine or his but at the end of everything he will know I am a man.

DEMZEE:
Redpill is not rubbish

It teaches u women's nature, personal development and marital intelligence

it is all bullcrap... our forefathers didn't have to learn any of that nonsense... they were A FORKING MEN.. IF YOU HAVE TO LEARN IT, you are not a man.

LibertyRep:
About time we learn how not to cry more than the bereaved.

Some people have cashed out for the Christmas.

It is money from the South that they are using to do this nonsense. It is Southern economy as collateral that they are using to collect loans... so yes, we need to it to stop, we need it to end and yes, we need to cry. they should divide the country and lets see how they will fund this nonsense.

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If you know a processing plant where we can get it, please mention me.

Thanks.

StagethemTVee:
And when the White walkers are done with the North, where do you think they will head Deji?

if you think they will have the kind of mercy they enjoy in the North when they come down south, you are dreaming...

same bokoharam that Chad almost wiped few months ago but the Nigerian government allowed them to run into Nigeria and reposition so that the war can continue. Bokoharam is only enjoying pampering from Northern Elites. South will not let that happen.

Ordinary thief for here, we dey burn dem alive... let them come down south na.. e go shock u.

Boko haram is being sponsored by Northerners. it is very obvious to everyone.

Duru9:
No be to migrate to this state now before e go late

I beg is uber working there make I come de run bolt there

I go like make friend with someone who stays there

they have good roads there.. u go make ur money in transportation business there. I love that state... if only they have enough industries and big companies, i swear, Lagos will lose relevance within 5 years but the governors from that state are not yet ready.

i don't yet know their plan

DEMZEE:
Wats ur definition of a man tho

the fact that u buy into that rubbish redpill, bluepill nonsense..

just stop tolerating bullshits or allowing anyone, either male or female, to disrespect you... simple.

DEMZEE:
Really u never jam!

u are not a man... gerrout...

Fahdiga:
Terrorism would have been a thing of the past if only we have a lively president but since we have a lifeless president who believes that an attack against Boko Haram is an attack against the north, tell me how terrorists will not be running amok

see all of una wey dey post this ignorant talk dey annoying me. Bokoharam is not any yeye terrorism but a crime organization supported by Northern elites ib power... cos everything is politics to them.

ValCon888:
Social media marriages and social media parenting. In another thread I read about a woman penning an emotional message to her 10yr old son and posting it on Instagram. What happened to a private conversation with the little boy?
So many people living fake lives for the gram.

Well, good for them

DEMZEE:
Western society is femcentric I pity guys who dont have redpill knowledge and decide to marry overseas...

All these una rubbish Red Pill, Blue Pill is just nonsense... BE a man if you want to be a man not because of concocted ideology that you come across online.

Arrewa:
Yes...

Foreign herdsmen are not under the leadership of miyetti Allah...

Miyetti Allah only have the capacity to control Nigerian herders.

Foreign herdsmen operate under an African Empire.

The crisis in southern kaduna is between foreign bororo herdsmen and southern kaduna people.

When Elrufai said that he paid some foreign herdsmen to stop killings in south Kaduna...some bunch of brainless animals were busy abusing him.

Instead of to critically think and ask questions.

They claim that hundreds of their cows were killed on their way passing through Southern kaduna axis that the people must pay either with cash or their blood.


Elrufai had to negotiate with them and pay them for their cows to stop them from launching the offensive attack on Southern kaduna.

The foreign herdsmen have central leadership and are united all over Africa.


Miyetti Allah have no power over them... Miyetti Allah can only approach the central leadership.

Same foreign herdsmen are the ones killing in Benue and Plateau.

But I think they've been settled...

The Government paid for all their cows that were killed.

The problem is that when foreign herdsmen strike... The locals attack local herdsmen.

And when they attack local Herdsman another circle of attack continues.

BLAH BLAH BLAH... You talk like this because of the failed system of Nigeria... Can you as a Nigerian walk with your COWS into US or Canada unvited ?

Who the fork are they are what are they doing in Nigeria in the first place? Are they Nigerians? Anyway, in case you Northerners are not yet getting the memo, Southern Youths are tired of your nonsense and gradually we will demand for you go your way and let us go our way cos down here, all the rubbish u typed does not make sense.

Bitcoin at $20k today

Balkan:
keep deceiving yourselves.
Watch very well soon all these will be a thing of the past in the east very soon. All kidnappers, no matter your tribe will be fished out. You can no longer hide in our bushes again.

what happened to Bakassi boys?

Benito25:
Now some children of hate will come and say "Quota system"...

Before Nko? what is it?

Authority1o1:
Okay...

Your tone is an epitome of arrogance.
Try again.

a sign that he is not who he claims to be.

Itzstarboi:
Who gat some few cash to spare and would like to give me out of it.
I won't lie.
I am a student currently in SS1.
I need a smartphone because the one I was using got spoilt.
If you gat the spare cash, kindly send some bucks to my UBA teenager's account.
No: 2158305916
I am currently using a feature phone.

what audacity.. you didn't ask for phone but cash... you think you are smart, don't you? go and work! nobody gives a fork if you are in primary 6.

OneKinGuy:
Costa is an animal. The guys body is rock solid. I just hope Adesanya wins this as not only will he lose his belt if he loses, He's also gonna be inflicted with heavy damages that might cost him his fighting career.

Israel Adesanya fight strategically...

He will focus on injuring that dude somewhere and capitalize on that for the rest of the game.

Sheuns:
Everyone go prefer Jonathan to Buhari at these times. Buhari na big time disappointment to many that thought he was a savior.

don't fall for it.

We need to learn how to put this Northerners where they belong in political affair