₦airaland Forum

thesicilian:
Even if Tinubu gives your entire family juicy employment and contracts from now till 2031, you'll still have cause to hate him. Road that your governors could not repair for over 50yrs, he has helped you to do so under 1 year of office and yet you're still not satisfied.

You expect state government to fix federal roads? you are fuuulll

Franklyspeakin:
Just noise. Name them already

They go look for stories from Buhari's time and rebag it like rice to offer Nigerians.

SporaD8:
Africa be slitting on mineral/natural resources yet be complaining of poverty - not poverty of money but mental poverty!!!

Have you read "The Confession of an Economic Hitman"? You will understand why Africa is the way it is.

Artscollection:
Emeka offor,the motherfucker after frustrating prof he now wants to fomo [b]but i doubt he is the owner.
[/b]Emeka offor n Arthur eze na ozuo that we have in igbo land, they keep working against igbo while sharing peanuts to their ass lickers.

Your doubt is valid. Someone posted a few post before yours that he is not the owner.

immortalcrown:
Your response is not senseless. But it is totally useless as a reaction to my comment because I never said anything to warrant you directing your writeup to me. You should have simply dropped your comment without quoting me. I simply pointed out that people often leave their amdirers and try to force themselves on who don't admire them. The man is forcing himself on her while the men she admires probably do not admire her. No part of your comment counters this assertion. So, why did you quote me?

Again, people are free to choose whatever they want and go for what they want. If you don’t like it, hit your head on the wall and leave planet earth.

You read everything she wrote and all you could come up with is that she should accept a man she has no feelings for? Do you know what danger looks like in human form?

Let me tell you. danger is trying to force yourself on a woman that does not want you. One thing is certain if she succumbs to your pressure, you will regret it.

Many men are raising children that are not theirs and one of the reasons is because they force a lady to date and marry them.

It is easy for you type but did you care about what makes her happy?

Never ever tell someone to accept who they don’t want cos it never ends well.

You saw where she stated that she is not attracted to the dude, hence the reason why I explained that part using myself as an example but I get it, you felt uncomfortable.


You are free to date and marry a woman that does not want you, 25 years later you would have raised children who are not yours like many men found out much too late.

Oponu

immortalcrown:
Life is somehow.

You reject who wants you and go for who chooses other people over you.

Throw away emotions and look at things logically. Attraction is very important in a relationship. Can you date or marry someone that looks like a monkey? be sincere and answer that question.

IF your answer is NO, it is not because you hate the person it is just that you don't find them attractive.

Also, attraction is relative and it can be that the man here does not have a good fashion sense which makes him look unattractive to women. I used to be in this category, not that I am ugly or have unattractive features, I had those features (height, broad shoulders, nice hairline, well-shaped red lips, but I didn't give it much attention.

I paid dearly for that error for years. It was rejection upon rejection to the point that I thought less of myself when it came to women because it affected my self-esteem.

I was more interested in making money so much that I didn't give much thought to how I presented myself to the opposite gender. And like this OP here, I would give money to girls that I am trying to woo... BROTHER, IT NEVER WORKED and you can see the OP is already saying that despite the man giving her money, she didn't find him attractive. MONEY CAN NOT BUY A WOMAN.

Though, I wasn't giving money cos I wanted to use it to buy love (though the ladies back then thought I was doing it cos I wanted to buy them). It is just who I am cos I love to give. I had to stop doing it (giving money) to ladies I am interested in when I sensed how they perceived the gesture.

I will tell you what worked for me as you read along.

If you are struggling with ladies or constantly being rejected, you should read this to the end.

Then my cousin came from Benin and stayed with me for one year. He gave me a complete 360 orientation that changed EVERYTHING.

Before he came, I used to expend so much energy trying to win a lady, I talked too much, explained too much, and professed emotions that were counterproductive.

There was even a Nairaland lady too that I tried to woo then but it didn't pan out well, na fight end the matter sha. I am just stating this so that you know it is not some made-up shit.

Whenever I talk about my experience with Nigerian ladies, you will hardly hear anything good. It was that bad. lol.

Now, to change this, most of what people share here is secondary... First, get your attraction game UP and the rest will come.

Anyway, my cousin didn't share any of those red pills stuff. He just told me to upgrade my physical look and watch. His method was more effective than anything I have ever read and he also demonstrated it for me to see.

I rarely went out and he forced me to change that...Not going out more often is why I even used to focus on just one lady for months while repeatedly getting rejected like a plague. .

When my cousin forced me to go out more, he forced me to go to church more (Lukily, we have the biggest church in my local government close to my house), and one thing that did to me was seeing that there are unlimited supply of pretty ladies, more gorgeous than what you could be chasing previously.

If you find yourself spending months on one lady, or a year trying to win and still get rejected, my brother, it is because you narrowed your vision. Change that and attend any big church or even be at a busy place like Shoprite mall, events, weddings. I give you just 5 minutes and the number of pretty women you will see or meet will rewire your brain so much that you will curse yourself for spending unproductive time on just one when there is an unlimited supply of prettier ladies out there.

The only downside is that if you don't have discipline and control, it could destroy you by making you sleep with numerous women. This is the major reason some men sleep with many women out there. It is like stumbling on so much money and then losing control by spending it recklessly.

To tell you how potent attraction is, by the time my cousin had helped me rebrand and I started uploading my pictures on WhatsApp status,(previously I didn't), one lady who had never seen me more upload my picture more than 4 times in 5 years confessed... she said and I quite "Smartmen, is this you? Is this really you?"

Another lady whom I met on Twitter but that one also reacted to my picture for the FIRST time in about 3 years we have known... and she has been doing that since then till now, even on Sunday here, she reacted to the one I posted.

People tell you that women are moved by what they hear... That is false. WOMEN ARE MOVED BY WHAT THEY SEE. If they don't see it, they don't move.

Now, I have had to start rejecting them back as they lurk around me. Na me dey reject them now... I know one who rarely checked my status previously but now does so everyday, commenting on everything I post.

If you are getting rejected by women or struggling, just UPGRADE: Spend that money on new clothes, buy iPhone and hold... tusssh up your apartment, get a good barber for a nice haircut, take nice pictures, and upload... ATTRACT, don't chase. na you go tire.

You only speak too much English and long paragraphs when you don't know how to attract. I used to write long epistles to some of these girls like one expired substandard Wole Soyinka as if I am writing a novel... They will even subtly tell me I talk too much by saying "wow you can write o" and I will be smiling and raising shoulder like I have made it in life, not knowing I was fooling myself.

Now, I don't even know the last time I wrote a long epistle... even when my current babe did something silly, I fixed her up immediately WITHOUT SAYING A SINGLE word. Unlike before when I would be writing long letter like apostle paul to the church in Damascus.... foolish me.

Learner47:
This guy on X dey post my sales without giving due reference. The audacity! Why a lot of guyz no dey report sales again. Why some of our Boyz dey like cast update.

Bro just stop it, I know you dey this thread & he get why we no dey drop all Geo sales on X.

The guy is here and watching this thread. People like that spend more time being a nuisance and don't have sale to report because they waste time precious time away.

Solution: WATERMARK your pictures.

LegendHero:
I disagree.

Nnamdi Kanu should be tied to the back of a lorry and dragged all around Abuja before finally executing him on live TV.

Terrorists only deserve one thing and that is cruel death!

Igboho Oosa should not meddle into the affairs of terrorists.

come to Nigeria and say this offline and I will be the first to deal with you man to man. furrking idiot.

tobtap:
Lagos is simply the undisputed economic capital in naija... The size is massive... Other states need to upgrade.. Dem dey lag behind.. .. all economic statistics back Lagos as naija engine room

Just pray make other governors continue to sleep. That is the only reason Lagos feels that way--others are sleeping.

Ebi2233:
Sowore is Ijaw not claiming to be.

When did Itsekiri become Ijaw? Mind educating me?

Ewedegubbler:
It was always the plan. They always hijack every protect and then suspend it abruptly

This NLC is an appendage of this government

Of course...

Someone needs to set that NLC chairman on fire and let him go and meet his ancestors.. The Useless animal is playing politics with people's lives.

That protest that they currently using NLC to prevent from happening by constantly repeating this nonsense when people start clamouring for protest will eventually happen. They should continue.

jmoore:
Cement: 10,000 naira

50kg rice: 70,000 naira


The mumu reform brought high inflation which keeps increasing.
The purchasing power of many Nigerians have reduced.
The reforms has created more poor people than previous government.

You should know these are paid hands. They think everybody is foolish and does not understand how true reform impact people's lives.

God1000:
Must he go in person? He should send his Vice or foreign affairs minister, this isn't the right time to be flying up and down from one country to another.

They rejected him... be like una never hear. They declined.

Natural2Heal:
Afternic has closed their marketplace. No more sales from Afternic. Interesting

SOURCE?

kenralph:
Can naira cards now make international payments? Anyone tried it recently?

try it and let us know.

James39:
I Don see shege for this domain business,

I outbound one of my domain priced at 4 figures. One enduser reply with serious laugh and emoji laughing hard.

I just confuse.

Few minutes later, I see SH sales email: the name sold at wholesale price of $15 (I forget say I list the name on SH wholesale market place)

I suspect the buyer to be that same person wey reply my email with laff.

Although the domain get just 3days before expiration, I just submit auth code and domain is off my account.

Now, another enduser agree to buy the name at my initial price. Lo and behold name is no more in my possession.


I just weak.



I tried reaching out to the $15buyer e no de respond again.

Sorry about your experience.


That tells you that you are dealing with super smart people. They are not some woods... These guys always search everywhere.

I sold domain names in the past, directing end users to Dan but the domain names were sold via Godaddy. Why? They search for the names elsewhere to see if they can get it cheaper.

Always have this at the back of your mind and make sure that when you are changing prices, follow through to all the venues where that domain name is listed.

What I mean is that if you change the price on Dan, make sure that the Afternic price is the same.

manutdrichie:
God punish that goat of NLC president

He will call it off the following day after receiving dollars from govt

Thunder fire him there

They are using that to reduce pressure. Notice that whenever tension is rising that is when they say they want to protest then they call it off after some days... It is a strategy used by APC. I wonder how long they will continue to use that strategy cos at some point, people will not wait for them before hitting the street.

Love800:
I can barbecue fish and meat. Is it a useful skill?

Yes it is but please try and learn a much valuable one that can give you good money over there.

We look down on some jobs here in Nigeria but in a place like US, cleaning companies and plumbing companies make so much money. Owners of this kind of skills as service can rake in as much as $100k-200k per year if you are smart and active but it also depend on your body, not all of us have strength for some kind of jobs. Just know where your strength lies
.

You can also learn coding and become a software engineer. It is not going to be easy but it is doable...

Zonefree:
Seems you're dating an oracle

Please add "Graphics" for headline.

Gemma52:
Hello everyone, with the current exchange rate, which country will be able to move to legally with 8 million naira?
Your suggestions will be highly appreciated.

Before you Japa, do you have a skill, useful skill that can help your survival over there?

Supremos:
Really?. Can you explain better please

Yes, he talks from both sides of the mouth.

symbuul:
Squadhelp-Wise-Grey don become another thing Still waiting for payout since 9am. I know they said it's 1-3 business days but this sucks omoh.
Used to be 10-35mins at most.

Chill na... Hian...

God1000:
Apart from Napoli, Brentford and other clubs supported Nigeria right from the beginning to the end, we appreciate their support.

Nigeria should start preparing for the next AFCON and world cup tournaments, we need new players, local players should be given the chance to showcase their talents.

On a lighter note, Have we created enemies for ourselves in Africa? because I don't understand why Ghanians and south Africans are seriously mocking us online, they've taken the banter to another level.

On emboldened, the rivalry didn't start recently. It has been on for years. You are not just aware of it... For Ghana, it does not go beyond football. For South Africa, it is a combination of many things. South Africa hate other black Africans, not just Nigerians.

Acidosis:
In Nigeria, tough times require tough measures ONLY against the common man.

Politicians will always have their way. If I may ask though, why are you against globalisation? The world is a global village now. You can't box people.

It is not hard to know APC handles. just ignore them. Give them like 3-4 months and they will start singing a new song.

venti:
u mean $1,000....

Cardoso should monitor you to explain what you mean when were discussing naira

gaby:
Nonsense skits

God bless you... u noticed it obviously.

Ployploy:
try Dey use your brain talk

lol.. he is right. if you want to do low key that is what he is saying ... but I know say you be Dangote nephew... so just jeje spend 5M, nothing do you.

advanceDNA:
how can he chose one?? Most pple do the two because they want a formal certificate and cannot avoid the trado because families want it.....so what's ur point?

This thread is about saving costs from the other poster and that is why I said the post you responded to, do both on the same day. People do it... but if you have 5million to waste, I am available to help you o. I go chop rice and chop meat and go my house after, nothing concern me and what happens in the marriage... and this how invited people see marriage, They will eat your food and go home.

BitterTruth01:
Lol look at them

This is why you 9-5 job workers should stick to civil service and farming and let capitalists run the economy .

You people from that side are naturally not entrepreneurs . You have no idea how to run a business , how will you run a country ?

Stick to your salary Jobs, you say no
Stick to farming , you say no
Stick to your carpentry and artisanal businesses. , you no gree .

You say you must run the country. Say you dey sophisticated. But you think a country can grow under a socialist system of welfare benefits , and government patronage and control . A palliative economy while free enterprise suffers .

Instead of turning the country into a production. base , na to dey shook eye for other people money. Is that the best you can do ? I dont blame you tho. You cannot give what you don’t have .

But go and do your research, those countries that went the way of Karl Max and Lenin , where dem dey now ?

God bless yoi. I just said the same thing minutes ago before seeing your comment. You highlighted what is generally wrong with many of these Agbadorians... They don't understand business or basic economics, which is the fundamentals upon which the complex economic systems are built... yet, they are the most opinionated on a subject they do not understand..

No reasonable business savvy person will talk the way they do.

furking clowns they are.

Ttalk:
Good for the economy.

A government that is bold enough to remove subsidies should not be afraid of any backslash that may arise from any measure to save the naira.

Let all remittances be converted to the naira equivalent so the government can have enough dollars for people doing genuine business in need of dollars.

All domiciliary accounts with idle dollars should be taxed.

You are criminal because you are looking for where to steal from people's sweat. Dom Accounts is not the reason for why exchange rates keep shooting up.

I don't know why a lot of you just speak English and don't understand basic economics...

In all said and done, tell the entire forum one policy that has encouraged the influx of dollars into the Nigeria economy... instead what do we have? businesses are shutting down and exiting Nigeria since 2015 till date, got even worse under Tinubu because he has no international tentacles to execute anything.

But dunces pick up their phones and type English without substance.

As long as there is no consistent inflow of dollars into the Nigerian economy whereby supply is more than demand of the dollar, you ALL are wasting your time... if you like freeze domiciliary accounts, tax domiciliary accounts... NOTHING WILL IMPROVE.

advanceDNA:
When giving this advice...did u give it to the op so he consider it..?? Or u just gave it for nairaland comment sake....??

because How do u think u sound giving advice to someone yet mocking his religious beliefs at the same time....??

imperialism has eaten deep into Africans and they are yet to escape from the slavery of centuries ago...

I was going to just read and pass but I had to comment here.

Traditional Wedding or Marriage is the real thing. Before the White man came with his religion to Africa, were your ancestors not getting married? You go school, open books and read history.

What you regard as white wedding is the traditional marriage of the WHITE man. So how can you be doing two Traditional Marriage for one purpose? CHOOSE ONE.

But for the sake of economic reality, you can do BOTH on the same day to save money because I know a lot of you suffer from inferiority complex and if you don't do that white wedding, your body no go rest...