EmperorCaesar:


Its actually easier to design and develop tiny spaces,na why to rule Ghana dey easy pass to rule Naija

That u guys aren't first in everything shows the lack of creativity in governance in that region

You should be ashamed of yourself for always using this to cover your regions obvious inadequacies.

China is large and huge, why are they governed well and dominating the world?

When issues of lack of wealth distribution come up, you shameless beings will use this excuse to cover your disgrace.

Blakjewelry:

Nope it's not about dollar rather it is just the Nigerian factor. When I was telling people the hike in price has nothing to do with dollar some fools were arguing silly like they understood what is at play, oya dollar dey trade about 1200 something oya make price come down na.

Do you run a business? Tell the entire forum the truth.

helinues:


So in short, you have already made up your mind not to see good thing to happen in Nigeria again? Is that what you meant?

furrk off with your useless gaslighting.

At your age, this is what you constitute online, being a political tool used to deceive masses who now wiser than you can imagine.

Continue

helinues:




Had it been it was bad news about Nigeria, there wouldn't have been questioning.

Una go all dey alive to witness the progress of Nigeria. Una go even tell una grand kids self that initially I was pessimistic

Na so you talk for Buhari time till he left.

helinues:
Kanu would likely lead the Apc campaign in SE in 2027.

Wetin the power of broom no fit do...

😂 you don’t know him but continue to dream

princemillla:



See how lowly your parent raised you. You just disgraced your entire generation on social media. You lack civility.

Well I just speak the truth. Take your frustration to your father who didn't raise you with manners

If the gradual process is good for Nigeria you would have loved it to be the same for your personal growth.

But a lot of you are evil minded. You love the less than snail pace things I moving in this country cos it favours you one way or the other.

You couldn’t summon the courage to embrace your so called “gradual process” in your personal life but you want it for Nigeria.


By God’s grace, all of you who love the killings of potentials in this country will be put to shame.

princemillla:




To build a house takes time but to destroy it is just some seconds.

It's a gradual process.

May that process keep being gradual in your life until your turn 80 years old.

CoronaVirusPro:
The future will educate you better. I don’t think anyone can educate you about that.

If you really want to have a glimpse of what it looks like, check all those class of people that said same in their youthful ages, reality humbled them in their old age and started having kids at the dying hour.

Reality will “Personally” dawn on you. How you accept it, will determine your mental state and response.

Just be patient. 20 years from now will tell a lot.

Thank you, Thank you. There is energy to waste jare. This is how I deal with people in my cycle. Once I know you are stubborn, I don't waste my time oo. Reality and life will do justice.

ubox:

Choi, this reminds me of when Godswill Akpabio commenced the transformation of Akwa ibom as the then Governor

that was when I fell in love with that man...

seunowa:

Find better thing to do with your life..... You are empty

says a clown. May Nigeria happen to you let see you maintain this stance 😂

seunowa:

Clueless idiot, when naira was exchanging for 1850 to a dollar, someone like you was rejoicing and calling the government all manner of unprintable names.
But now that the government set out policies framework are paying off. You are bringing out another negative narratives that naira will collapse in less three months.
If naira doesn't collapse In three month then that doom will fall on your head...
Negativity about our country should be erased. Everyone should support this government to achieve greatness and prosperity. If these are sustained,in no time, fuel prices will go down, so also prices of commodities and food.

Most you of you are bereft of anything integrity. Support a man who stole election, injured people, killed people to get to that seat.

As much as I appreciate what is happening, even though I don't earn in Naira, I don't have a single support to give a thief who does not know how to do any other thing than to steal from people.

Silentgroper:
hahaha .. just the same kind of situationship I'm finding myself in ... She does most of the calling. She has been visiting every weekend without me squeezing tfare in her palms and I don't even know the streets of where she lives ... Inshort she's the one practically pushing for something to happen while I don't really give a shiit ... I wouldn't say I don't like her but I'm not exactly attracted to her .. She knows this and she's still coming on to me with full force ...


The only part I've been helping her on cause I don't want to hurt her is me shagging the living daylight out of her ... That, I've holding back on cause she seems like a good girl..

We could end up being an item though .. I hope we do for the sake of her...

Not being attracted to her and she knowing it is how many women handle stuff but if you don’t feel attracted to her, you should let her go.


So that someone who is more attracted to her can have space in her life.

For the sake of her, you say? Please don’t marry her out of pity. Just let her go.

Sometimes, you have to maintain that human dignity and treat people with respect.

TimFisher2:






We need to hold a seminar


Our guys needs to be liberated.

I agree man. I really agree 😂

TimFisher2:


Let me tell you why she hasn't come out fully like the other ones. She is the youngest among them and she feels because she is still young, she can always get guys, she still has time. That seems to be where her pride is hindering her from doing it like others.


Wow you must have read a lot of book or must have had a hard teaching pill from women


You seem to know more about them as they thought they knew themselves.

I like the bolded words of yours.

You also see this one too...is really killing them . it is because they feel that acting that way and you trying to appease them means they are high babe, even when they are nothing. It is like cocaine that makes them high.


Thanks bro. You have done a lot. I wish alot of guys will learn from your indepth analysis and perfect their game and restore the confidence of their manliness rather than sucking around like a sheep.

All guys just need to do to pull themselves out of it is:

1. Have an abundant mindset: You should accept the fact that there are thousands of women who can replace one. Do not allow any lady to disrespect you for too long without replacing her.

It is a scarcity mindset that makes many men (myself included) tolerate badly behaved ladies for too long.

How did I cure mine? How did I overcome the scarcity mindset? My cousin, as I said before, helped me cure it by forcing me to go out more, something I rarely did previously.

We as humans are made to be SEEN. You must not deny yourself that purpose. BE SEEN and let the world around you see your light shine so brightly.

You know, as I said previously, I grew up in a family of men (Benin Men) who womanize very well. Benin boys are badass when it comes to this... But my Anambra blood had a strong influence on me. Igbo men just love to spoil women. It is an open secret that if an Igbo man likes a woman, he is hardly stingy. And this is why they call us simp

Anyway, my Benin cousin came and pushed me. He is in Canada now though. And because my uncles used to change women anyhow, IF YOU hear where they are discussing women back then, your jaws will drop.

However, even though I didn't pick the womanizing characteristics from them, I picked one valuable skill and that skill is the ability to spot a gorgeous lady in a split second. I kid you not. I could do this with 1-3 seconds while in a crowd. I learned this even before I was 12 just by listening to conversations of adults. Be careful what you say in front of kids

So whenever I was out, in a crowded environment (something I wasn't doing before) and started seeing at least 1-3 different really pretty ladies in every 10 that past 3-5 minutes, it dawned on me how much disservice I had done to myself. That was the turning point that helped me break off the scarcity mindset.

By then I had rebranded and when I strike up conversations with ladies, the kind of response I got showed I had something women wanted... That was it.

Now, some guys may be shy and find it hard to strike up conversations with women. See, women love to be approached. They expect it, they desire it, they want it and they are often excited when you walk up to them. When you approach them, it makes them feel desired and social currency wealthy.


If your head goes blank when you want to approach a girl, don't overthink it. Find anything around her to start the conversation. It could be her sunshade, it could be her hair, it could be her clothes, her shoes, her nail, or anything at all around her.

I was at a mall last week to get some stuff, on my out I saw 3 pretty but young girls and one of them had a baked cake, supposedly for a birthday. I and my guy had passed when I turned and said "Am I invited?" One of them turned and smiled at me. As simple as that, I could have proceeded to ask for the venue and when it is the occasion happening and then asked for her name and phone number but she is a teenager from my observation and there was no point. I just waved and walked away.

Also use this YouTube channel to help if you are having challenges approaching women or strangers: https://www.youtube.com/@socialanimal

2. I didn't read a lot of books on women. The shege I had received from the school of hard knocks was enough for me. My problem was that I wasn't really paying attention despite receiving so much free lecture from my close friend. Every time he advises, I act like I have heard and discard it when I am with the ladies.

And the reason I did that was that was because I had one fundamental assumption, a fatal one: I had erroneously ASSUMED that women are harmless creatures and this caused me to always let down my guard every time without defense but now.

It was an experience with one Akwa Ibom babe that was the last straw. It was the encounter with her, after revealing what happened to my friend, that I found out there is something called "love bomb" or "love bombing" Damn... Google "Love bombing"

I turned YouTube channels upside down for 3-4 months, I was there. After that, I rebranded and changed everything about me...same Akwa Ibom babe started coming to look for me after seeing new pictures of me from different places, including seeing me with other girls lol.

She eventually begged sha but like all others, I don't forgive them, i DON'T take them back, I don't do second chance.

Richtaiwo:
Obviously, it is gradually inching towards the official rate. Isn't it high time CBN reduced it to, let's say, N900/$ or 1k/$. And same thing be repeated when it starts converging again. With more effort, we might see the rate getting as low as 200/$ before the end of the year.

Olodo, that is not what makes dollar come down. What you are seeing is just governments effort to bring it down which isn't organic or natural.

The only way it will come down to your dreamed 200/$ is WHEN Nigeria exports so much to attract a lot of dollars into the country. That is the natural and organic way...

IS NIGERIA EXPORTING ANYTHING TO BRING DOLLAR INFLOW? You all can continue to dream... when they are done exhausting their manipulation game, we will see the real value lol

Newswriter:
Hope it crashes further than experts predicted

You go hope tire lol

TimFisher2:




Hmm. I don't know why all these charlatans don't know what they have. You even have the courage to spend all these.


Someone like me, I will smell your hypocrisy within one or two days. I will just place you where you belong, because definitely i kjow you will come back. That's when I will do the finally placing


What I hate in life is those that are not appreciative, for her mind she is just an angel, you will keep worshiping all the time.


I keep telling guys, don't force yourself on any girl that doesn't rate you. Don't think you will win over her. That's pure lie, but even if you do that because of your money power, maybe you did what no guy has even done. Mark me, you won't enjoy that union. At any giving time you will just be collecting insult here and there, because one thing was lacking. ..which was love. She was never in love with you.


So why will I spend my hard earned money on Idiots! God forbid I should do that. I might decide to tempt you in one or two sittings, let me know the kind of person you are.


It won't pass two testing, your entitlement spirit will just pop out. I will now do you the final placing.

Next time, stop spending like this. You are the one giving them this maximum leverage to ride over you.


Imagine the boldness to write to me to ask for business plan, I will just read and not respond. Well she has been looking for means to connect back that to you. That business plan was just a hoax. Person wey no dey serious with her life dey look for what is not there


Na now she wake up to do business.


All these werey girls sef

Like you said in the emboldened: "Well she has been looking for means to connect back that to you. That business plan was just a hoax."

I am glad you saw this and also mentioned it. I didn't want to explicitly say it. It means you can read between the lines.

Let me tell you why she hasn't come out fully like the other ones. She is the youngest among them and she feels because she is still young, she can always get guys, she still has time. That seems to be where her pride is hindering her from doing it like others.

They employ different kinds of tactics when they want to reconnect back to you... like DIFFERENT KINDS. I can smell it from afar, even the most subtle one. I have seen that movie and moves too many times not to be able to smell it.

Why do they always try to come back to me?

The reason is all those times they were rubbishing me, THEY KNEW I WAS A GREAT DUDE. They always knew.

So if you are a nice guy and being reasonable while they are being unreasonable... DO NOT EXPEND more energy trying to make them change. They will never change and it will get worse. In all that madness of disrespect that they are displaying to you, THEY KNOW YOU ARE A GREAT GUY. And that means, they are very much aware of what they are doing. It is all intentional. The best thing to do is PULL OUT of it all.

I always set a limit for every one of them. Once they exhaust it, I am out and never looking back.

Why do they choose to behave that way, even with all your effort of trying to iron out things for peace to reign (I did this with the business proposal babe), it is because they feel that acting that way and you trying to appease them means they are high babe, even when they are nothing. It is like cocaine that makes them high.

So she thought I would continue to feed her that "highness" and it came as a shock that I switched off without a word.

TimFisher2:


Now you have the money and the swag

Why aren't you paying back?

lol, my brother, I don't have the energy, time, or money to waste on such people. At best, na furrk we go furrkkk and move on but ABSOLUTELY nothing to gain from it all.

And sex is not something I rate that much, and neither do I get attached to it.

I am a focused dude, I have always been serious about my life. When I calculate the time, money, and energy that could go into such an escapade, dude, I would rather give that money, especially, to people around me. I have never regretted doing that since I chose that path.

What I mean is that in the past, if you read the first post, you will see where I said I used to gift them but stopped after seeing how they perceived it. I wasn't doing it because I wanted to win them over. It is just who I am. So I started using my money wisely on myself and also helping the few around me.

In all of these, I learned that with women, less means more. You gain better results by spending your money on yourself than giving them.

Again less means more. Let me explain:

You will gain more respect in their eyes when you chat and do less, especially when they have chosen to be unreasonable. For instance, there is one I met in 2022 in my area and made move to date her, everything was going well until I wanted to kiss her.

I don't know when that turned into a crime, my brother. She started being unreasonable, disrespectful, and downright condescending. I didn't bulge. I kept doing things I should. She complained about her power bank, I took a mental note and bought a new one, on valentines day, I got her two solid female bags, on her birthday last year, when she wasn't around, I celebrated with her and got a cake delivered to her at her sister's place along with drinks...

The package got to her before 10am... by 5pm she never messaged me to even acknowledge it or anything until I reached out to her sister and asked if they hadn't received it and the elder sister confirmed that they had received it. I told the elder sister that the birthday babe didn't even reach out to acknowledge it. She promised that she would speak to her.

The birthday babe message me later but if you understand human psychology, you know a forced message when you see one.

Anyway, I knew it will be the last she would get from me after that day. I already earmarked that day as the last day because that is just how I operate. So after that day, I stopped everything, no more messages, no more calls. I just switched off

It is 2024 and her birthday happened a week ago. I saw it through her sister's whatsapp status and so I sent her a whatsapp message like this: "Happy Birthday". She responded with: "Thank you". I read it and didn't engage her further. No gift, no energy and no chat from me.

It is Sunday morning on 24/3/2024 and guess who just message me, trying to be all friendly and chatty? SAME GIRL.

Earlier this year, she messaged me to seek business information I shared with her in 2023. She said she lost it. I said okay, grabbed my phone and sent her Voice note to explain everything. She then said, can I ask something? I said go ahead. She said if I need some assistance on this (the information I gave her), can I reach out to you anytime? In my mind, I laughed and replied "sure"

I asked her how are her parents, and she said they were fine and added "I am around" cos she wanted me she was in our area cos she is doing her NYSC. In my mind, I laughed and said see this one. I didn't ask if you were around, I only asked about your parents. Sure, she had hoped I would say ah, let's meet and hang out but I just read her message and never replied that.

There was a time I asked her why did she block me on whatsapp, she explained that she didn't block me on whatsapp but unsaved my number blaha blah... I asked again why did you block me on tiktok and she said she does not know but just felt like.

Do you know what I what I replied after she said the above? JUST "OK"

Upon seeing my response, she proceeded to give a lengthy explanation for doing that. (I hope you understand what happened there as you read this line lol I can't explain it but it is just psychology at play).

She was expecting me to dwell on that, I just switched and changed the topic to "How are your parents" and that was when she said they were fine and mentioned that she was around but I didn't bother to engage her further bro...

LESS IS MORE!

Why am I not playing them back? As I explained above, it is not worth it and I have had fun shutting the door on them... I love it that way.

LESS IS MORE!

Happy Sunday bro.

TimFisher2:



I am not a lady, I can't imagine the stress the women will be passing through. If they see your message, they will just sigh and say this one Don carry assignment textbook come.


It is very unfortunate that our present generation don't care about beautiful wordings. Instead of writing epistle from your heart, just send mulla from your pocket.


It is well bro.


I thank God you have learned.

I swear. I would write from the heart and them go Dey use me do ye ye.

When I rebrand , all of them begin use style find me but I have moved on, not considering any of them at all.

Man, I suffered chai! But we thank God for everything.

TimFisher2:



Welcome man!


I recommend you start writing articles.


I like your long epistle, I thought I do write long epistle, but I have seen someone better than me.

HAHAHA... Na so those babe wey show me shege promax dey whyne me that that say I sabi write o.. lmaoo.

Well, I write when I feel the energy to do that.

Righteousness2:


ISRAEL will do what is necessary to be done.
The apple of God's eyes does not need the Help of any nation or person.
The Owner of ISRAEL , the ANCIENT OF THE DAYS, THE LION OF THE TRIBE OF JUDAH, THE COVENANT KEEPING GOD is more than Capable and Dependable to Defend HIS land and People against the Whole Earth.

We are entering into Live Fufillment of the bible prophecies written thousands of years ago.

Dust your seats, check your life. Make peace with JESUS CHRIST.
The Rapture of the CHURCH can happen anymoment.

You have been making this Israel thing religious for too long and NOBODY has told you that you making a fool of yourself.

FIRSTLY, ISRAEL DON'T BELIEVE IN JESUS.

THEY ARE NOT CHRISTIANS

THEY DON'T GO TO CHURCH

THEY WILL SPIT ON YOU IF THEY SEE A CHRISTIAN.

NOW THAT YOU KNOW THIS, CAN YOU STOP THIS NUISANCE YOU ALWAYS DO HERE IN THE NAME OF ISRAEL?

DakulBilly001:

Be calming down because only good news and appreciation of Naira against dolar you would be hearing in that said 6 months.
Nigeria is in the rise again so I pray 🙏🙏

Amen... we are watching.

TimFisher2:


I totally agree with you. We still have good girls that still love a man who has nothing. But the percentage is very minimal.


And which you know if we are taking statistics, they won't be considered, because their number can not influence the truth on what women are truly.


Well, I am happy that you got who you understand and you are happy too.

What you passed through all these years would have made you a monster, but you did not.


I wish you a blissful union all together.

Thanks, man. It was nice having this chat with you as well. I enjoyed it.

Omoboricash:

Now that the Naira is appreciating, the price of goods still remain the same when rate was 1900.
We are our problem to ourself.

Why hasn’t the price of fuel come down as well? Una dey fool una self.

We will be here. Give it 6 months.

TimFisher2:

But it very hurtful that those who don't have will not experience true love, that's the situation we found ourselves.

I would disagree with you here. It depends on how you go about it and the kind of girl. While I was going through the roller coaster with those girls and experiencing heartbreaks, I know a guy who dated his babe.

In all their dating years, I can tell you the babe didn't get up to 100k in total from him, while me on the other hand was losing money (not a lot of money though) to all the girls making a fool of me lol. He wasn't financially buoyant like that either. And this his babe is pretty o, so much that a guy with car can easily snatch her from the dude. But despite the guy not having much, they stayed together and they are married now.

It depends on how you handle the girls too. This very guy does not call the babe often, he does not pet her, they could go weeks without seeing each other, despite living in the same LGA.

He is someone close to me and so I know.

TimFisher2:




Bro, don't think you are more tougher than her


Do you know why she always codedly obey your instructions even though it is always hard and painful for her to endure?


It is because of the dough, and you are calling the shot.


Imagine if you don't have backup, she would have reduce and fling you out to where you belong(not us) but them


Well, in everything, Dough is a prerequisite for every man. It get why.


But it is very hurtful that those who don't have will not experience true love, that's the situation we found ourselves.

I am aware of this... and it is not further from the truth. But here is another thing, even if I spend millions on her, I have the mind to walk away IF shit happens, sometimes she wakes up to alert (I do that intentionally) but I am not attached to anything I do for her...

. Though I know her to be a dedicated and focused hard-working person who is career driven too. But with women, anything can happen. Always expect that. It is also why I have made up my mind that I don't care if a woman loves me or not.

Conventionally, women don't love a man without conditions which is a summation of what you said here.

One woman on my contact, a married woman actually, said "Women don't love, they submit. It is men that love" Think about that for a minute and never forget it.

Only your mother or siblings can love you unconditionally, not your girlfriend or wife.

okoroemeka:
why not make a move and marry to guy,he will obviously take care of you,you are getting older and it will not be a bad idea

She has no feeling for him boss. Let her go for who she wants...

happney65:
Just watched on CNN about two minutes ago. And was like what is the meaning of this nonesense suit.

Wife was even surprised and asking why should Apple be sued for just doing business like all other Capitalists do

Rubbish!

What does that tell you? It means the U.S. government frowns on monopolizing a market. In Nigeria, they walk around unchecked and freely declaring profits at the expense of dying competitors.

TimFisher2:


We have same similarities

Everything you mention was just me, but they only thing I didn't share with you was been a sisi. I learnt on time not lower my self on women maybe because of the area I was brought up. I learnt the art of O.T when I was young

Lol... Man, if I told you I came from a family of chronic womanizers, you wouldn't believe it. I mean I saw my uncles changing women like clothes.

My immediate elder brother and his friends once caused a serious fight with some guys in our street years back in Benin. The reason? They had almost successfully furrrked all the pretty girls in our street and these girls who had brothers became angry. In fact my brother's friend banged the sister of one of those guys.

Despite seeing all these, I would tell myself that that is rubbish way of life and not a good way to live life with women.... I always wanted to do things the right way and i was a bookworm too, who stumbled on some kind of books that deceived me lol...

, not until I entered school, I said No. That child of man has a lot of love. I started looking out for love.i was very sincere and open. It cost me a lot. I couldn't even get one. Before I now realise myself and changed tactics . No be today our girls learnt that there is nothing like love.

It never works... I don't know which person it has ever worked for lol.

Guys should not be deceive by the rubbish love movies they watch,nothing come out, they are just passing away their time and trying to confuse the gullible ones that their love. No woman on earth believe in love,except your pocket is preaching love.

Gbam... You see the love movies along with some books? They contributed to my mumuni years... LMAO.

But I am in a serious dilemma because it has hardened and toughened my heart, I see women on a different perspective other than the beautiful lovely souls I thought they were.

Yes, it is normal to feel that way. I once hated women for 3 years plus because of what one did to me more than 8 years ago... funnily enough, the same girl came back trying to minder her way back into my life. I just told her to FURCK OFF and buried whatever past image of me she has because that person no longer exists. He is dead and buried. She has been trying to get back to me for more than 8 years now but me no want her at all...

You don't need to hate or dislike them. You just have to learn how to discipline them like a stern father would. You deal with them with love but with some level of strictness as well. You can actually deeply love a woman like you used to and at the same time not have your emotions spilled all over the place. It is possible.

Some people can love you, like really, but hardly show it to you. The only way you will know that they love you is through their actions. If you are waiting for words of affirmation, it may never come. You can be like that. It is possible.

Previously I used to talk too much like I said but now, I express it all by actions. That is how I deal with my current babe. I don't say it but I act it.

Like the silly things she did twice, I never had a word of confrontation with her. The second one sef, she was seriously worried. I just dealt with it with no words from me to her but my actions. She has never repeated it till today.

Remember I said my babe is a tough person. She belongs to the category of women who act like men. For me to do something that shook her twice means I am operating at a higher level and at that level, you are a no-bullshit man.

In one of those cases, I made her see that I would do what a man should, I would say and act like a responsible man should and I don't care whether 100 guys are tickling her fancy. If she blows things up, it's all on her, which means I would walk away if it comes to that. And women fear you when they know you can easily replace them if they mess up.

I recently showed her a message from the lady I talked about above who is trying to get back to me. I did it intentionally. Just know how to deal with them and you will be at peace.

TimFisher2:


You must have seen Shege

Anyway i like how you remodelled yourself


Money plays a major role in men's life. Look attractive, don't talk too much..all those ones that were doing you shege will bounce back. But the only disadvantage you will have is * Lovehatred* I mean you won't love again. Any lady that comes with love will just be repulsing you

My brother,

I saw Shege Banza and Shege Pro Max.

It was so bad that it affected my selfesteem. May God bless one of my friends who stood and tele-guiding me all through it all until my cousin came to fix it properly. The irony is that this friend of mine would give me counsel, I would listen and discard it after but only to come back to him with my broken heart lol. Why? I didn't realize how dangerous it was to assume that women are harmless creatures and I was constantly letting my guards down.

Because I was more about chasing money, I learned everything I could about business and making money and had zero for learning how to handle women.

I paid DEARLY for that error. It is good to make money but at the same time, learn how to handle girls and ladies.

Some years back, one of those girls told me something profound. She said: "you don't understand women and if you don't learn you will continue to have problems with ladies."

I actually brushed those words aside and thought that she was talking nonsense. I thought that just being a nice guy was enough. I thought being a good guy was enough, I thought that being the romantic dude was enough and boy, I was wrong.

Don't get me wrong, I am an upright, focus and responsible dude, the kind that would make an awesome husband to my wife and great dad to my kids but to succeed relationship with women, you need to be much more than that.

The mystery about women is that they expect you to be a man, not a boy but they never accept that responsibility as theirs to teach how to be a man, hence when you act like a crybaby, a sissy, a boy instead of being a man, nature designed women to break hearts of such men until they grow into being a man. When you begin to act like a man around women, your heartbreaks are reduced drastically.

There may be a few heartbreaks here and there, but it would be nowhere near or compared to guys that behave like a boy or sissy. This is where the acclaimed "Bad Boys" or "Alpha Male" takes the lead and one common denominator about them is that they are less emotional about women and when you are less emotional, you have TOTAL control over your relationship with any woman.

When you are less emotional, you can see a guy banging your baby right in your presence. You will feel hurt about it but you will move on without a word and women fear you when you are in control of your emotions. They respect you more that way.

One of the things that ruined me and my chances back then was that I had emotions spilled all over the ground for these women to walk on.

You said something about not loving... Well, I still love but not the way I did in the past. It is possible to love a woman and not have your emotions spilled all over the place. Currently, I don't care if a woman loves me or not. I have a babe now and we are moving towards tying the knot but guess what? I don't care if she loves me or not. I don't worry my head with that anymore. It makes the job easy and I can move on if she messes up.

Do I care about her? I do

Do I want the best for her? I do

Do I value her? I do.

But in all of these, if she messes up right now, I will walk away without looking back. This is why I said in the post you quoted that I fixed her up without saying a word when she did something silly and she has never repeated it till today but if it was my older self, I would be writing epistle, calling, and all that nonsense.

That is the power of not being emotional about women. My babe is a tough person to deal with and I know that the older version of me couldn't or wouldn't be able to handle someone like her. You need to be at a higher level to deal with someone like that.

Since I found myself, I have walked out of 5 or more ladies. Unlike before when I would be "trying to make it work, begging, sending long messages, calling and talking for hours and days". Now if you mess up, I will just observe for a while and walk away without saying anything to you.

NEUDUDE:


idiot dey there and be doing i love my baby, whereas she hates you codedly. she just they use your money fund the baby father and herself life.

God wan use the mother in law help but you are still very foolish. No go do DNA, dey there dey mumu

you dey work dey hustle for them, she and the real pikin papa they enjoy themselves.

foolish men everywhere

Love isnt one-sided fool as you take love am, make sure shey she love you x2

I love how men handle people like the OP sha... I used to be mad by such words but not anymore. It is necessary.

thesicilian:

Even if Tinubu gives your entire family juicy employment and contracts from now till 2031, you'll still have cause to hate him. Road that your governors could not repair for over 50yrs, he has helped you to do so under 1 year of office and yet you're still not satisfied.

You expect state government to fix federal roads? you are fuuulll