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Sports / Re: Every Country Wants A Player Like Him - Asamoah Gyan Hails Osimhen by SmartMen: 2:15pm On Jan 28
Princezibk:
Onyeka was fantastic ooo

But your comment on Chukwueze got me laughing so hard 🤣🤣… That nigga needs help
looks like his lifestyle has gotten to him. Heard he is banging one Twitter celeb babe sef.

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Sports / Re: Every Country Wants A Player Like Him - Asamoah Gyan Hails Osimhen by SmartMen: 2:14pm On Jan 28
SonofElElyonRet:


Fantastic performance by him... but he tired out at the end.. even during the match occasionally you see him squatting to take deep breaths and rest.. methinks he needs to look for a strategy that doesn't get him burned out before 90 minutes which happened yesterday... best way to avoid this though is for another player to also harass opponents so it won't be only him
true and I agree but that is his strategy, even while playing for clubs.
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Angola: AFCON 2023 Quarter Finals. (1 - 0) On 2nd February 2024 by SmartMen: 11:40pm On Jan 27
Iwobi is not a good 10 IMO.
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Angola: AFCON 2023 Quarter Finals. (1 - 0) On 2nd February 2024 by SmartMen: 11:39pm On Jan 27
wazzihu:
I want Osimehin to be scoring
He is doing just fine. Most players can't keep up with his kind of game and speed. Osimhen needs good feeders as a striker but since nobody can feed him, he has decided to feed others and that is also a good thing.

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Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by SmartMen: 11:19pm On Jan 27
This thread was worth it... dang!

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Romance / Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by SmartMen: 9:55pm On Jul 26, 2023
bepositive11:
Why give her this much power over you? It takes courage to love again.

I had a painful encounter with a narcissist, but I did not let them turn me into a bitter person. I cut them out of my life completely, but I have taken the lessons with me. I am still open to love, but I am more careful about who. I know what red flags to look for.

When you truly love yourself, no one can hurt you that deeply. The problem is a lot of people fall in love so much that they start loving the other person more than themselves. That is wrong. That is when the hurt and betrayal can be too much to bear.

Love yourself first and only love other people as much as you love yourself. Let go of people who don't reciprocate.

I understand but the energy is gone... my elder bro and his wife tried to link me up with a lady who was admiring me when I visited. almost a month later, I didn't even contact her after collecting her number... My bro asked me what's up.. I told him I don't have the energy anymore and I do not want to frustrate anyone cos she would likely get tired of me.

I just want to be in my space. Will get married for sure but no woman should expect much intimacy from me... I don't have the urge to call or message anyone.

One common trait about ladies who do these things that led me to this state is that they always know what they are doing. The lady I talked about earlier said "I don't want to be the reason a man is emotionally damaged" in her attempt to seek forgiveness. I wanted to tell her it has already happened but I held back. She has been apologizing though... however, I do not see that as a genuine apology.

She is just seeking a safe place because the other guy had no plans for her after furking her to his satisfaction for 1 year plus. How she thinks that I would take her back or continue from where we stopped is amusing to me. Women are daring to their own detriment most times cos I know what my younger self would do to her in this case... I never take back any lady, never did, especially when they insult my intelligence.

This babe gaslighted me as if there were no initial arrangements between us, and even blocked me twice when I tried to talk about it but now acting like she was wrong...cos the guy she went with has no plans for her. All she does now when I remind her of that phase is say "I am sorry"

I am too absolved in myself and my world now and don't really care about anyone caring about or loving me.

Let me stop here bro. I will be fine...

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Romance / Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by SmartMen: 2:59pm On Jul 26, 2023
ebubeson:
One of the killers of marriage is dating different wrong people before meeting the right partner. At this point, such a person may be so broken to the point that when the right partner comes, the feeling may be "adulterated" or "polluted" because of past hurts or frustrations.
You were so loving, caring and faithful to the wrong partners while dating, now you have the right partner and you are probably rude, watchful and careless..
Lessons: It is better to wait and marry the right person without dating, than dating several people before marrying.
I am in this category and I do not feel anything towards the female gender anymore. No excitement, no urge, no zeal, and no energy. I used to be the guy that will compose love SMS, I used to be the guy that love to call often...

and then in 2021, a girl I decided to trust her words cos of the way she came as if she was tired of what other guys did to her, chose to "love bomb" me. that completely broke me cos it scared me as I realized that I had been used to catching "cruises" all along. I realized the betrayal and how I exposed my vulnerabilities.

Anyway, she went with another guy between 2021 and 2022 I did something she never believed I could... it is 2023, and she has been working to get into my life... In fact, she called me in January 2023 to say "Hi" according to her. Of course if you know how women work, you will understand what "hi" mean.

However, I do not feel anything for her or any woman out there, no matter what.

Will I get married? Yeah, I will be next year but not to her.

Will I love the woman I would marry? I would just say I would like her but definitely not love in the real sense like I used to feel or have.

I don't even want any woman to love me either... I am definitely not interested anymore, neither am I gonna chase it.

Good luck to everyone.

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Romance / Re: How People Waste Love In Dating Before Marriage by SmartMen: 2:44pm On Jul 26, 2023
Rhozabeth:
This is what has happened to most girls! You will just know from their attitude!
It happens to all, both men and women.

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Celebrities / Re: Court Dissolves Paul Okoye And Anita's Marriage by SmartMen: 7:44am On Dec 20, 2022
Victorclean1:



She got the popularity, connection and wealth she craved for through Psquare. No body would have know who she is without Psquare. Would have been another slay queen.
OGA SHUT UP... That woman was there from their school days when they HAD FURKING NOTHING... As matter of fact, it was LOLA who brought PSquare the political and money bags... she moved them to Lagos. Psquare accelerated growth that made them so big was made possible by Lola, Lola got them the globacom ambassador connection. Lola is from a wealthy home.

A lot of you don't even know jack about the celebrities you stan, sad.

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Celebrities / Re: Court Dissolves Paul Okoye And Anita's Marriage by SmartMen: 7:39am On Dec 20, 2022
baralatie:

With this judgement they can never remarry!
The divorce is absolute
oh well, they have made money, they have enjoyed life, they have traveled the world... and proved one thing, there are certain things MONEY CAN'T BUY...

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Celebrities / Re: Court Dissolves Paul Okoye And Anita's Marriage by SmartMen: 10:18pm On Dec 19, 2022
Worriedwife:
This has notin to do with Lola being d bad one. People shouldn’t make it a tribal argument. The fault is from Paul. The women are not the problem here. If Paul didn’t go sleeping with the maid, everytin would be fine.

His brother and Lola are still in good terms with Anita, that shows she is a good person.

It is d new girl I feel pity for. Not like Paul would do her anything bad as he seems to love her, but she would have a hard time penetrating the strong bond Anita has formed with Peter and Lola. It doesn’t help that she is very young. She would just be there with only Paul and it gets boring. Marriage in Nigeria includes d family.
The new girl will not be married to. She is just there to cure konji. Don't be surprised to see Paul and Anita back in 5 years time.

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Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by SmartMen: 5:31am On Dec 19, 2022
Heyzee5:
Glory to Jesus

Sold this few days ago
Hold Time: 390 days
Cost: Reg fee + 1 renewal
Venue: Afternic
Had to redact part of the name for buyer privacy, sorry guys. It's a 'keyword + pay'.
Congrats but you do not even know who bought it, so why blur out the domain and mask it with "buyers privacy" ?

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Celebrities / Re: World Cup: Chioma Dresses Davido At Lusail Stadium, Qatar (Photos) by SmartMen: 5:19am On Dec 19, 2022
God1000:
Good for them, are they legally married now?
yes, they are. You can see wedding ring on Davido and Chioma grin grin grin
Romance / Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by SmartMen: 5:06pm On Dec 03, 2022
damn grin grin grin
Politics / Re: FG Plans To Tax Cryptos, Other Digital Assets by SmartMen: 12:14pm On Dec 02, 2022
Onucs:
FG dey whine me?

U banned something and still want to task the same thing.

Who did we offend in this country that Jah have to punish us with such useless leaders
I was coming to say this but you have done the job for me already.

na ment...
Car Talk / Re: Lagos Begins Issuing International Driver’s Permit by SmartMen: 12:05pm On Dec 02, 2022
This thing has been in existence jare.... which one is Lagos begins issuing something that people have been getting? lol...

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Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by SmartMen: 8:31am On Dec 02, 2022
viktor88:


What you send about Mike Mann is incorrect, "he has other businesses that helps him to sustain his portfolio"

Then why he's he wasting time investing in domain names?
lol... You think he does only domaining?

Rick Schwartz is the movie industry... may have retired by now, I don't know. I have interacted with a few of these guys doing big numbers and they have other things going for them, not just domaining
Business / Re: What To Do To Make Money Online? by SmartMen: 2:19pm On Dec 01, 2022
Promxy94:



Let me tell you something, Nigerians and Indians majorly are the ones spoiling the domain business with their cheap prices.

Ask those outbounding for me, they would have noticed that most of my domains are priced high, and I do that for a reason personally know to me.

I have surveyed the geo market and see how Americans sell their geos.

But over here, an $100 box sale, is hustled for.
lol bros, I am a realist... if you have a job that pays you as much as 500k naira per month, by all means do whatever you like. But don't come here and tell some person who do not have that leverage how to survive.


Most domain sell through rate per portfolio is very LOW...

you have 5000 names and sell just 2% of that per year...

Mikemann who sells 5 figures has other businesses to help sustain his portfolio size... His company owns SEO.com, a digital agency.

know your shoe size and grow...from there.

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Politics / Re: Those Who Earn N37m A Month Are Telling Those Who Earn N18k A Month That... by SmartMen: 1:54pm On Dec 01, 2022
Dsalvo:


You can never talk sensibly because of your negative and malevolent fixation with Yorubas and Tinubu.

Yes Tinubu is Lagos "Landlord" according to you and your IPOB compatriots.

Yet, has he supervised a situation where indigenous Lagos kids, barely two years old, are groomed to go and be begging for alms on streets across West Africa as is the case with the North?

Have you ever commented about the wickedness and sheer callousness of Northern leaders and elite, or even your own Igbo leaders, alongside your constant obsession with maligning Asiwaju?

What has Tinubu delivered, since our current democracy began in 1999, and what has Northern/Igbo leaders delivered in comparison?

Misplaced priority is the case with you Igbos. You have some of the most worthless leaders and States in Nigeria yet you retain malevolence focus on Tinubu who, regardless of what anyone says, has made Lagosians the premier citizens of Nigeria by far.

Joke is on you and your hateful mind

How did you know he is Igbo?
Family / Re: A Real Sample Of Yoruba Marriage List (Pictures) by SmartMen: 1:45pm On Dec 01, 2022
Billgatessecond:



See why I say we yorubas are the best . If it's an Igbo guy who created this thread I am sure he created it to bash yorubas .. an average man can afford all this things besides it will be given back .. see Igbo man list o boy u go run
Igbos are not the only tribe in Nigeria. You could have just commented on the list and moved the furk on.

I am an Igbo guy but the problem I usually have with many of you is that YOU ARE SO LIMITED to your environment... TRAVEL THE FURK OUT for heaven's sake. Akwa Ibom list will shock you to your marrows....

What are all these we vs them attitudes every time? I hate it to my stomach. If you have traveled wide enough you would have known there are other cultures with a high list...

If YOU have traveled wide, you would have also known, like it was stated in this thread, all these are negotiable in other places..

Lastly, if you cannot afford stuff, please find the one your power carry and let everyone live in peace.

A female friend told me how her Yoruba ex left her by bringing some useless tribalism into their affair just to end the relationship. The only thing I could deduce is that the guys folks saw her as an Igbo person even when she is an Edo lady.


Go and sleep abeg..

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Business / Re: Help! Strange Monetary Alerts In My Access Bank Account by SmartMen: 11:06am On Nov 30, 2022
Skodrran:
Omo see what I'm looking for here grin
That is how you will look for trouble that you will not be able to get out of from... na so police go just come pick you up jejely.
Education / Re: List Of States With Lowest Number Of Out Of School Children by SmartMen: 12:28am On Nov 28, 2022
MufasaLion:


I know what you're trying to do but all what you wrote is none of my business. I'm only about the reason for the thread.

Take your political loyalty or whatever out of my mention. I don't care who did what.
whether politics or not, he told you the truth. You are the one who is political bias because you do not like the name Peter Obi.
Romance / Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by SmartMen: 11:38pm On Nov 27, 2022
DMerciful:
Imagine saying I caught my gf cheating on me, what should I do?

Imagine such foolish question! You replace her immediately.

Some will say I spend millions on my gf but when I was broke I asked for 10k from her, she refused. They will now ask if they should marry this lady. Imagine pure nonsense! Guys dey fall my hand!
Those are men with scarce mentality. If a woman knows you have the abundance mentality, she will behave.

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Romance / Re: Increasing Lamentations Of Guys by SmartMen: 11:37pm On Nov 27, 2022
DMerciful:
Lately, there has been an increasing number of threads dedicated to lamentations by guys with regards to their relationships with ladies whom they are dating, friending, marrying etc.

This trend is becoming worrying because it is clear we are having an increasing number of effeminate men! Men are supposed to be tough, they are meant to suck up tough situations and move on, they ought to know when to call it quit and stop taking nonsense however they come here to ask silly questions of what to do when in unhealthy relationships.

Where are these sissy men coming from?
Inspite of all the miseducations by Ubunja and co!

1. There is an increasing number of men who lack education about what a man should be in society.

2. As above, these men do not know who they are.

3. The media is used as a weapon to weaken men.

4. Lack of education on how a man should handle his relationship with women.


I used to be one of those men but I have a friend who spent several months trying to teach me after he escaped and educated himself. He read a ton of books. While he was doing his best to educate me, I wasn't really paying attention until last year and this year experience that complelet awakened me.

This year alone, I have discarded 5 girls for reasons that could lead to sad experiences and disrespect on my person.

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Politics / Re: 2023 Presidency: Who Do You Think The Organized Private Sector Will Support? by SmartMen: 11:36pm On Nov 16, 2022
Mynd44:

No points to argue,
No counter argument

Just emotions, anger and bleh.

Okay, you are noticed
My own joy is that you guys have been restricted to Nairaland... stay here and die here but don't bring this trash to Twitter or Facebook... u will dealt with lol

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Health / Re: NAFDAC Nabs Businessman, Obinna Igbo, Over Importation Of Fake Anti-Malaria Drug by SmartMen: 1:00pm On May 31, 2022
Buckeyemedia1:
Let The Labor Party not waste their time with that pdp stalwart runaway political Clown.

Just imagine the last running mate to the Presidential aspirant of a party, deserted the party 3 days to the election?

Same way he ran away from Apga, to pdp after been Governor of Anambra State for 8 years under the party? Now he has fled to The Labor Party.
That is your business. It is not by force to vote for him. But if you complain of anything after another bad leader enters, may the soil you walk on deny your destiny earthly riches. Cos some of you are so idiotic that you will rather pick a worse demon like Buhari than vote one that will protect your future.

Peter Obi is the only one that has been going round on TV to tell people about his plans, not Atiku, not Tinubu, not any other aspirants...
Politics / Re: Wike To Back Tinubu For 2023 Presidency After Loss At PDP Primaries by SmartMen: 12:50pm On May 31, 2022
PrinceOfLagos:
They will lose together

Wike that couldn't win Atiku even with his dollar big chest , I laugh

Who knows Wike in the north ?

Wike is already hated in south east and not in good relationship with south south leaders

Does Wike even have friends talkless of cult like followers undecided

Wike and Tinubu will see mehmeh
I will support any Southerner, you fool. Anybody supporting a Northerner to rule after Buhari is a bastard!
Properties / Re: How Much Was In Your Account When You Started Your Building Project? by SmartMen: 3:38pm On Apr 14, 2022
Godisgreatest1:
Dont believe every post you see up there, some of them haven't started anything, but they are always in a hurry to comment.
stop projecting your reality on other people...

What they said is true.

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Nairaland / General / Re: How Can I Stop Being Soft Hearted As A Guy by SmartMen: 3:24pm On Apr 14, 2022
posty56:
if like no man up ,come they ask, na so wan of my guy ,wey they very soft ,them they use am any how still they make jest for in back ,na. until I sit down am talk sense ,in learn by force , if is one thing I learn , Nigerians don't respect soft treatment , that's why soldiers are unfortunately hard on citizens ,they no if they act soft naija. go take them for granted
You have said it all.

I used to be soft, like very soft... until I understand that Nigerians don't respect soft people.. I learned to master the art of switching personality... so much that when I switch to madness, people are stunned... I still give the soft side sha until person cross line.

Last time, one man was owing me 1M for a deal we did in 2020... baba just dey post person... I dey use softness follow am, dey follow am... I then use police send first message, he didn't buldge... I vex find army, pay am small thing, army man got into action immediately...

The bastard started begging. By December 2021, he paid the money...

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Politics / Re: Peter Obi Reacts To Plateau, Benue Massacre, Killings by SmartMen: 8:49am On Apr 14, 2022
IamWonderful:
Peter Obi have found his voice, is it today that the killing of people start in Benue and plateau even in your south east where prominent people were killed but he was silent like a graveyard, he doesn't want to be in bad record
You don't have to lie or speak out of ignorance, you know? He spoke against the killings in the East. Check his twitter handle around the time that Akunyili was killed and for the records, Akunyili is a relative of his.

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TV/Movies / Re: I Have Gotten My TSTV by SmartMen: 1:03pm On Apr 03, 2022
saaron:
Congrats OP. Be sure to update the house about your experience.
There's nothing more soothing and satisfying like buying a brand new gadget and bringing it out of the box.
I swear. I tell people that buying thing brand new is cheaper... In the long run.

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