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Romance / Re: Avoid Nigerian Married Women With Your Life! by SmartMen: 5:53pm On Feb 17, 2022 |
AlphaMale666: It is called "Rapport"... NOT RAPOUR always google before typing some words that you can't spell well. |
Business / Re: I Just Got My Inheritance; I Need Your Advice by SmartMen: 10:14am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Unibenfucker:Lmaooo... Even dollar crash is better than Naira any day anytime. Besides, dollar is not crashing anytime soon. |
Politics / Re: 2023: I Wish You Well, But I Want The Best For Nigerians - Makinde To Tinubu by SmartMen: 7:22am On Jan 16, 2022 |
LegendHero:when he becomes president, you should come back to Nigeria and live among us through out his tenure. |
Politics / Re: 'Goodluck Jonathan Coming Back’ 2023 Poster Surfaces Online (Photo) by SmartMen: 12:41am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Laggafin: Dude I said 80% of Igbos worldwide... Those of you that care about about are in minority. The Igbo man is not liked in the North and I wonder how you are going to change the Northerners to accept you. They would rather embrace Bokoharam that has killed them than allow an Igbo man who hasn't Gumi goes on talk about bandits is walking free but an Igbo man did same explaining that they didn't carry a certain attack and the TV station almost lost his license. Goodluck dreaming! |
Politics / Re: 'Goodluck Jonathan Coming Back’ 2023 Poster Surfaces Online (Photo) by SmartMen: 9:54am On Jan 09, 2022 |
Finquas:Sadly, 80% of Igbos in the whole world are not politically interested in things like this. The Igboman just wants a good economy to live in while doing his business. Statistically, having a president from your region has not better the lives of the average man from any of those regions. So what are most of you always bragging about? The Igboman is not really interested. Buhari is currently the president and we can all see how that has made the North paradise, safe, booming with economic growth... Your attempted sarcastic jab at Igbos has been thrown into the BIN where it belongs... NEXT? 5 Likes |
Family / Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by SmartMen: 9:55pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
oladiddy: Did you not see these signs before you married her? How are you just finding out? See, for those who may have your kind of personality, I would advice that they top it up with an extra layer of madness. Be gentle and at the same time be fierce... You wife knows you are too gentle and that is why she is behaving that way. She won't dare such if she knew you have some form madness to match her insanity. This is why I don't advice guys who are too gentle not to date women who are more exposed than them. Your personality does not need a woman like that in your life. If you dont man up and start curing her madness, she will never change. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Portable Fights With Area Boys In Ota, Ogun State (Photos) by SmartMen: 3:40pm On Jan 08, 2022 |
eddynaira125: Bros, so none of you could noticed that it was staged? lmaooooo.... |
Travel / Re: 3,500 Years Ago, Stone Pillar Was Abandoned During Construction In Egypt(Pics) by SmartMen: 9:10am On Jan 08, 2022 |
chariisGRACE:Egypt was technologically ahead of many at that time. A lot of scientific research were based off past works from Eygpt and some other European countries like Greece and Roman Empire. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by SmartMen: 9:06am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: I am sorry about your situation and I only want to talk about the emboldened. Do not overthink it. See this as a way to grow more and accomplish more. I know it is not going to be easy and I know it will be hard with aches. What I will suggest is that you should not let this situation cage you. You grow, you can become better. You can acquire new skills that will open new doors of opportunity for you and your kids. If you are confused about that, please when you have the time, enroll for courses on Udemy.com or use YouTube to learn more so that you can have better finances to take care of your kids and live a happier life. I just want you to know that you have a better future. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Bride Pushes Away Bridesmaid For Twerking On The Groom (Photos, Video) by SmartMen: 8:56am On Jan 08, 2022 |
angelEmade: Who told you he loves her? Love comes with respect... Someone who disrespect you does not love you. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 5:04pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: What Does It Really Take To Fall In Love? by SmartMen: 4:34pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Pilopher:I have just replied you. |
Education / Re: Madu Stephanie Gets Straight A's In Her WAEC Result (Photos) by SmartMen: 4:27pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
tuzle:We are not talking about one A or two B... we are talking about straight As.. like 7As Expo can't give you that... |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 2:49pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Truvelisback:true talk bro. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 10:53am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Truvelisback:I don't know why we don't have a thump up emoji here. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 10:44am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Mercychen: Yes but at least, shouldn't one reach out once a while to check up on the other to know what's up? Okay a guy sees that you don't even buzz if he does not do it. He comes to you and says since this is how you want things to be, if it will lead to everything dying, so be it... And you go ahead saying..." we can still be friends" and added, "we can still be gisting" to which I responded, "no problem if you bring the gist" she didn't reply to that because she knows that I understood what she is trying to do. where is the sense in that? Anyway, I have deleted her number a minutes ago. 1 Like 1 Share |
Business / Re: Abdulsamad Rabiu Becomes Nigeria’s Second Richest Man, Now Worth $7.2 Billion by SmartMen: 10:28am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Senomi: Don't let hate drive you. When IBETO ish happened, this man hadn't even become as big as he is today. It was Dangote that was having a full monopoly 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 10:26am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Truvelisback: You are funny. If you are even talking about body language, a girl can still mess you up if she wants to and if you give room for it... there are no rules for them when it comes to these girls... their emotion is their brain... What If I told you this same girl was worried at one time that I was withdrawn or wanted to withdraw? I asked her why and she because I don't reply to her chats on time. What does that tell you? Listen, there are girls who just want you to feed their attention tank... they want you to just be there giving them attention and as someone stated above, she happens to be one of such. And when they do that, they make it look like you are the one needing them... Even her last words were that we can still be friends (there is nothing wrong about that, is there?)... same friendship she does not even do anything to nurture? If I don't reach out I don't hear anything. If I don't make it known by being direct as I have been with her, stating my reasons and her attitude, she is going to pick up her phone one day and call, acting like she didn't know what happened. It happens, it has happened and it will happen. In fact, it was about to happen with this one based on her reply. I don't want such cos we are not kids. Would you still want to be around such person, like your self-esteem is so low that you can't move on to someone else? You don't understand what I am talking about but your own conclusion is that because she turned me down? Okay, she turned me down according to you... and I made it known that I don't want to be the one nurturing (by reaching out) a friendship/relationship that she had quietly exited from and if that means nobody hears from the other and things die, so be it... and she comes offering friendship? Do you see what she is doing there? To give you an example, she said we can still gist... again, she wants me to still be feeding her attention tank. And my response when she said this was, no problem as long as she brings the gist and she never replied after that cos she knew I understood what she meant. It is a subtle manipulation that makes her feel very important. She even tried to make me feel miserable by saying good luck in your quest for a relationship. I quickly reminded her that I am in one already and in that instant, she requested I let it all slide cos it shook her. She didn't like how that reply made her feel. A woman will not insult you directly... and as you said, pay attention to her body language. They do it subtly and they get mad when you find out their games. What she means is that, you should be reaching out since your life depends on it lol, I will respond but don't expect me to reach out to you. I left out one statement and if I mention it, it will give you a clear picture of what she thinks of me. You will see someone that overestimates her worth. Dude, understand what is going on between the lines. This is a case of someone wanting to use a guy to while away time... NOTHING ELSE. A lot of girls do this and you should know it by now. I don't want her coming to look for me months or years later and acting like she didn't know what made things die. That would be rubbish! This reply is for others that might be reading to learn a thing or two. That is why it is this long. 3 Likes |
Business / Re: Abdulsamad Rabiu Becomes Nigeria’s Second Richest Man, Now Worth $7.2 Billion by SmartMen: 8:31am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Senomi:That is Dangote... not this man. Dangote even wanted to chase him out of business too cos that is his style. This man is even more accommodating than Dangote, very welcoming. Has more philantropic projects in the South. Donated heavily to the South East a few months back... October or a month before that. I like him more than Dangote. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 7:15am On Jan 07, 2022 |
ConqueredWest:I don't know what your aim is with this question but I will advice you read the thread again. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 3:52pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
Karleb:Gbam..reason why she was not happy I don't want to be around her anymore and I had to add that I would rather go with someone else. I know my worth baba. I do and I have decided to only allow a woman that values me into my life. She too is with someone but making it look like she is not yet dating someone else and chose to keep me on the "friend zone" lol. This is 2022 and I have decided to focus on those who value me for real. The new babe values me. I am not willing to throw that away. Every morning she sends me a prayer link. I was in the East in my village for burial and she kept asking for updates to know what's happening there, she wants to know, she wants to be carried along. She is interested and she is willing. When a woman wants you, you will know. There will be no need for headaches and mind games. We should allow people stay 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 3:24pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
qtguru:yeah... absolutely. However, he won't be available for any of those as he has now found a woman who values him and have decided to give the new girl all those attention or favour or whatnot... |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 3:22pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
gift0123:lol... not that I am weak bro. I am okay with the current babe, we are working on developing ourselves. It is all about self-development for us. I am at peace. We will be working to build a career in tech industry... and I will pay for a course for both of us the week. The current babe is actually much prettier, taller, shaper. I am not exaggerating. I only asked hope I didn't do anything wrong because sometimes, they would say eh... he couldn't be patient or all those manipulative words, you get? I honestly hate the idea of her coming to look for me cos I know it will happen, which is why I chose not to silently move on. She telling me to still be friends is manipulative and we all know that. She had hoped I would stay around and continue doing all those things I used to do without getting another girl. So letting her know I had moved on with another girl would at least erase that from her brain. And yes, I did things nice guys do which earned me this result. However, we are now both clear on the state of things between us. Sadly, she is from my state but the other lady who is from Akwa Ibom values me more even though I have not spent ONE NAIRA on her as I did to the other one. I actually made a decision not to. She appreciates little things I have done and also proved that it is not until a man spends money that he would be appreciated. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 1:58pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
akinade28: Thanks... even the friendship, she was not doing anything about it.... I am not so stupid to be making efforts where the other does not want to. Yes, she changed but had time to go out with others and even party. I don't want to be around her anymore to nurture her attention desires. How do you keep being friends with someone that does not even buzz you for more than 5 months and you are the one doing the buzzing, the calls, the texting? Am I that useless that I can't get another girl? Funny, quite funny! If I mentioned what she said here, a lot of guys will laugh at me but in there you will see someone that has become too pompous because she thinks I am desperate. Abeg make she carry her friendship out of my sight. I too I am important. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 1:03pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
Ajmoziz:See, with this kind of girls, they will come back months later looking for you... The signs are there. I don't want that and I don't like that. if i decide to wait for her to reach out after some months, with the way I feel about it all, my most immediate action would be to block her. It is annoying and childish. Bros, I told her I would rather process things with another lady going forward. She thought she was the only one with options... |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:49pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
gift0123:Obviously. BUT hope I didn't do anything wrong by letting her know am already seeing someone else? I dont want her to come looking for me and that is why I did that. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:42pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:I don't want to be around her anymore. We are not quarreling... but I know what she is doing which why I ended up telling her that I am with someone else already. So that she does not think I will be doing all those things... I told her clearly that I am no long cut out for such things... She just wants the attention... 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:40pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
Sonnobax15:he is actually right... but I am not a simp. I made that clear to her. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:38pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: Bros, it is why I prefer to do make it known that I am off her radar instead of just going silent. It is to avoid the nonsense you describe above and I initially want to block her if she does that but what is the point? Make I kuku tell her straight. I don't like such mind and manipulative nonsense. So, I just told her I am seeing someone else already. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:32pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
CreepyBlackpool:Lol you just reminded me of an ex that asked me this... lmaoo. that one is still hoping till date. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:31pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
helinues:She is not my type lol... |
Romance / Re: Why Do Girls Insist On Being Friends When A Guy Does Not? by SmartMen: 12:30pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
Fiscus105:Exactly. I don't want to be that kind of guy cos I know THAT THEY ALWAYS COME BACK, ALWAYS. and so I just kuku let her know that I am off her list abeg and make she no carry that nonsense come to my side. I told her I would prefer to be with another lady... she has not responded since then but read my message. Initially, I thought of just keeping my distance but I also know that she will buzz me one day and try to do what you explained above. I actually thought of blocking her if that happens but what's the point? It is best to just tell her I am off so that she does not even try it. The whole thing is annoying. I just had to find another lady who is willing and has been effective as well since. Make everybody rest. 1 Like |
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