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PissInside:
80 percent of nigerian men are addicted to prostitutes.....I'm not lying.

Go to Cynergy hotel at Festac or Jolly friends hotel at Ikeja on a Friday night and see rich, matured married men looking for hoes to fvck.

The situation of things in this country is not helping at all.... For me,I fvck prostitutes at least four times a week and I know how much I do spend.

Going into a relationship too is crazy because the woman you dating might have up to 20 boyfriends not to talk of toasters.

It's a crazy world out here.

No no no. The type of women you desire to toast might have up to 20 boyfriends. There are ladies with maximum of one, two or no boyfriends and may be beautiful. But you don't like such people you come across perhaps because they don't go out to places you go , not sociable or may not be ready to mix with you. Change your ways and attract good, reasonable people

Nice2023:
U don't have a problem...every choice is a good choice as far u the doer,i don't see any problem in what u are doing.

Enjoy your life...after 50yrs birthday just take a proper assessment of ur life and ask yourself if u have progressed or regressed.

He has obviously regressed. It's not money that makes one progress. It's stability, spouse, kids, family, accountability. This man is not accountable even to his mother. That's why he's saying his mother is pressuring him to have kids. In reality the mother may or may not have other grand kids, but can obviously see that her child life is useless even with money.

ecolime:
47 years and you still dey patronize Prostitutes?

Are you kidding?

Baba, na only you fit stop am oo. This one don pass psychologist power.

The addiction is madness already. And with the price on his chat, he may end up later selling all he has and going broke looking for new girls.

xin5:
Pressure from mother to carry her grandchildren

If you think it's pressure that wants to make you have a baby, please don't have a baby. Because you are obviously not ready for a family. A lot of marriages stay strong because of love of the kids starting with genuine love of your spouse. If these things are missing, don't father a child.

Cruise777:
I said a career.... That's a job he would love and would take atleast 9 hours of his daily time, and he would be very happy to return the next day

From my own personal experience... When you are so enmase in career work that you enjoy and you are making good money, hardly will you have time for addictive behavior like oloshoing around

This man has money and except he is a politician at 47, he is not likely stealing or doing something wrong to make money. Someone pricing 25k to sleep with a lady short time has money. He is not disciplined. I don't even see the benefit he would bring to a relationship. He is the problem. And whether he likes it or not, age is not on his side and due to the fact that he has been having sex with multiple partners, he may find it difficult to be a father.

Acidosis:
How did you transition from buying your wife a car and a wristwatch worth 75k to giving her 3k to cook for you and your two kids?

If your story is true (which I 100% doubt), then you have a bigger problem on your hands - the problem of financial stup*dity.

In 2023, a married man who afford to buy a car and expensive wrist watch for his wife is giving her 3k to cook for a family of four. How much do you spend in the market for beef alone, fish alone, tomatoes, egusi etc alone. He seems not ready. I do spend at least 30 to 40k to cook 3 to 4 soup at once, knowing it's cheaper to buy in bulk and not one one. Even fried rice or jollof rice alone would consume over 10k, unless it's not standard. And the fact is that the money is accounted for.

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

I use above 10k for a decent pot of soup only me and my spouse. So 3k is small. Besides why buy a wrist watch of 85k when you have no money. Don't compete with people that have money. It's not surprising that she didn't appreciate it. Please manage her.

marvellous2222:
My wife calls her family for everything, once I'm broke she calls her mother to send her food items, I have begged her to stop, I have gotten angry yet she said she can't be hungry in a man's house when there's excess in her parents house, my wife can't manage 3k to cook for me, a family with just 2 kids, she'll call her elder brothers and tell them I gave her 3k to cook immediately they will send money for her.

Can't a woman water down her taste to keep her marriage? They don't insult me but I feel not man enough, I feel less of myself, my wife is from a rich home and the house we are living is a wedding gift from her brothers, she's an only daughter and they over pamper her, they don't allow her ask twice.

I remember I bought a car for her when she delivered our first child my brother in-law knew about it before the car arrived cause I ordered through his company, he changed the car to something twice the one I could afford without my knowledge, when they brought a car to the house I said this isn't what I ordered my brother in-law said their Ada can't be seen driving such after marriage.

They are planning to open a business for her and they didn't involve me in the plan, my marriage is not what I wanted cause I feel like I'm not man enough.

My wife doesn't appreciate gifts from me like when it's from her family, I got her a 75k watch she said thank you and for months she didn't use it, I had to remind her that there's a watch I gave her, but when one of her brother sent her a watch worth 260k she danced and used it always.

How do I handle this?

If she's not complaining, don't complain. Just allow it. We sometimes allow such with ours. I once had a girlfriend that was taking care of me. No big deal if they can afford it. If you feel uncomfortable, work harder and earn more than they have and spend your money.

Hemeenworth:
What are we even hiding in this world again

All my siblings know my atm password

You don't have money that's why. You can be assassinated for as little as 1m by your family member and not strangers.

obembet:
That's the bad decision and I wil advise u never to try that.

Your wife must know your password, in fact you must not hide anything concerning your phone or Bank details to your wife... Your wife must be your beneficiary

It's not a must. Keep quiet. It's for reasons like this that family members keep on assassinating their spouse and continue using his phone many years after he is dead to continue to gain access to his pensions. I have seen this happening in the bank several times especially on accounts they say either to sign. They continue to operate the accounts over ten years after.

Akwamkpuruamu:
It's hard for a guy to escape womanising, gambling, drinking, smoking, masturbation....


One must hold you down

It's possible
But you must be a godly person. Doing everything for God.

Newdawn30:
You guys have said it all.

2 years ago after me and my ex broke up, the cheat. I was still healing from heartbreak. I took up a lifestyle of drinking almost every evening at a particular hotel and bar. I slept with 4 of the ladies that worked there. Their rates were cheap too. I normally buy them drinks sha on a daily. I could have made it 5 just that, the last lady no fine at all. Even my highness still see say the girl no follow. I wasn't sexually attracted to her. it got to a point she told me to take a room for the night, that we will split the bill.Just for us to sleep together. The others told her they had slept with me so she wanted me to Mark her register

Thank God for my life. Man don play some rough play before o

Girls that work in such establishment are easily enticed to sleeping with customers, because the salary they pay this girls is nothing to write home about.

That's the major thing. Imagine a guest offering 50k for a night for a girl with 30k salary. She obviously won't say no. This type of girls, it's a No No.

Christistruth00:
May God Almighty give her the Grace to bear his abundance of Blessings

The Camera man should put down the Camera and help her carry 2 of them

At this stage, don't spoil them by carrying them. Let them rest. Otherwise, the mother and others won't ever sleep.

englishmart:
My nephew exhausts one tin of milk every week. Imagine having 5 of that foodlum at home. That's 13500×5= 67500 weekly.
270k monthly.
For children wey fit end up as mannabbbbbbbbbbqgrillls.
Make i save my brainless dickk for now.

13,500 for a tin of milk is too expensive. They should look for more affordable ones that go for a quarter of that price or less. Also, the emphasis should not be on milk only. There are other natural food they can consume. One tin of milk should last two weeks or thereabouts.

Justkatty:
Omoh it's not easy atall.
Motherhood requires a lot.
God bless all mothers and responsible fathers.

God bless all responsible mothers and responsible fathers. There are irresponsible people for both gender.

emmasoft:
Your signature specimen will get to the registrar from your stockbroker through CSCS Plc. You will need to contact your stockbroker to start the process.

Kindly check through my earlier posts on how to go about this.

Okay, thanks

Deadlytruth:
Yes. I am an example. For the first time, I filled and submitted my e-mandate form last year with the intention to experiment it, and in less than two days later my Sterling Bank account which I entered as my preferred receiving account was flooded with multiple years dividends from companies NEM, AFRIPRUD, HONYWELL, ACCESS, COURTVILLE, and even others like CCNN and UNION DIAGNOSTICS which had even been delisted.

If Africa Prudential Registrar happens to be the registrar to most of the stocks from which you are expecting dividends, then your stress will be minimal as you don't need to go to their office at all but fill the form right on their website and submit it without having to print out at any point, and in less than 48 hours credit alerts will flood your phone.

Wow! I just submitted my own on their site, I pray 🙏 to get all my outstanding alerts which are much, although maybe not significant in value.

emmasoft:
Yes, everything and if they do a thorough job even other companies they handle where you have holdings will be credited if they are all under same CHN. For Africa Prudential you can fill the mandate online.
However, before completing the mandate be sure your signature specimen is with them.

What happens if the signature specimen is not with them for example when one doesn't buy public offer or right issue but buys on the floor of the stock exchange via stock broking firm?

emmasoft:
Yes, everything and if they do a thorough job even other companies they handle where you have holdings will be credited if they are all under same CHN. For Africa Prudential you can fill the mandate online.
However, before completing the mandate be sure your signature specimen is with them.

Thanks for this information.

Opanka44:
I'm looking forward to a day your comment can ever make a complete sense on this platform. What do u mean by "Na my type go kill people Business" Did u read where I said I won Best Teacher of the year for last session?

Being best teacher of the year doesn't mean you can run a business well. Please customers are always right and although we love our colleagues, customers pay our bills. So we avoid winning arguments with customers even when we are right.

Opanka44:
Good day my beautiful people here. Nairaland is my Family because I don't have a physical/Blood-related family and I believe I'll get the appropriate counsel here.

So, I work as a teacher of Mathematics in a Private School. The school is almost 3years since it's establishment while I'm over 2years working there.

My Employers(Husband & wife) are the Best you can ever have as far as the teaching job is concerned. They pay on time and are easygoing people. However, almost all the staff(42 staff) aren't happy with the fact that they give parents and students more concern at the detriment of the staff. As in, you can't get into a conflict with a learner or parent & ever expect to win the case even when it is obvious you're Right.

They allow the parents to decide what goes on in the school. And this isn't going down well with many of the staff. Parents moan a lot when u give them such chance. At a point I had to tell my boss that I was resigning, but he pleaded with me to stay and I stayed. But I'm really getting fed up.

The other thing is his incessant and unsolicited calls. I've worked in Eight schools in four different states of this country & I hate to be friends with my employers cos I have learnt a lot based on my previous experiences.

Such relationship doesn't end well cos I'm always at the receiving end. Truth is, I love the sch so much. The pay is not even up to 40k but I bless God. Aside doing my job, I also advise him on way forward as regards the sch. I even won the Best teacher's award last session.

I feel really uncomfortable with the way he calls me everyday even on weekends and odd hours. I no longer have my Privacy. He calls for very trivial reasons and it's about what I should do, how parents are complaining about some particular issues.

You hardly get applause for been dedicated to work. He is so quick to criticize, but never gives credit when he should. No matter how perfect you are at your job, once there's one little stain on it, it has dented every other good deeds. It's really so demoralizing and we the staff are not happy. There's no staff there that isn't hardworking, so why not overlook a few mistakes? I understand it's Business but his staff are also humans.

At times, I will have to either put off my two phones or put the phones on DND so as to avoid his calls. He has all my three lines. I had to stylishly ask some other close colleagues of mine if they also received such numerous calls form our Boss, but they said No.

So why is mine different?

You can resign and go elsewhere if you are tired of his calls or go start your own school. But for now, from your write-up above, your boss(I don't know him) is a nice person and values you a lot. If I where you, I would keep doing my best and leave once I get a better offer.

dammybrite:
I'm suspecting that the payment was in batches.
I just got my shinkini dividend this afternoon - UBA.

Check the transaction date, it was done on 29-09-2023. There is a delay for SMS alert and email alerts. But no issues, you were credited on above date not today.

jmoore:
Rain can limit our movement, hinder some projects.

Do you check weather forecast to plan for your day?




https://mandimitchell.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/04/honda_forecast_week.jpg

Yes, I do.

Wujio:
Women and freedom sha

If you wont perforn, you would have let the man be. If things turn sour tomorrow, these are the people you'd return to.

Won't the person marry in future or have kids? Then she would realize need for parents. Truth is the BBN house is a devilish house and that's why even a married woman that goes to the house would likely lead to a divorce. So many evil things happen there. That's why it's advisable not to marry any star, man or woman. They're all reckless and think about self alone. Their marriage is a selfish one with one partner likely suffering and sooner or later it would crash. If it doesn't, it's still a fake relationship.

Jewessgratitud3:
Is there any man who's not adulterous in nature? E dey all of una body. Forget!

Not all men or women behave the same way. Don't judge. You are not God, and Almighty God doesn't judge people.

Jewessgratitud3:
Everyone is just beating about the bush even though the reason is obvious.

Once a woman starts having kids, she loses her attractiveness as a result of all the body changes that come with child birth. This puts the man off or gradually makes him lose interest in her especially when he still sees young girls with perky breasts, plumper and firmer bodies out there. This is the whole truth.

A married man used to disturb me some time ago and I'll always shun him. One day he saw one small fine girl that came around and told me to him talk to the girl and I asked him what of your wife and he said " that one na condemn property now" .. chai!!! Laugh wan finish me that day. This is a man with 5 kids o.

Not true. Your example only applies to adulterous fathers. The love becomes divided once there are kids.

theInfinity:
Why actually are the reasons why men change towards their wives after having kids. Could it be that the unwritten contract between them and their wives has come to an end after she has put to birth or what exactly. At that moment, no more sweet name calling, no more petting. They now see their wives as rivals at home. What is the cause?

It's both spouse and not a country issue. The love is now shared somewhat with the kids. And so the love seems divided because the kids have taken their own share. But both spouse should still work on their love life.

5iine:
Take DANACID to balance your stomach

No need taking more chemicals into the body that all have side effects. Op should avoid milk for he is lactose intolerant. I have same issues. I buy milk in the house for others to consume. I eat and avoid milk.

kennyz247:
Go look for better agbo ijedi,ur problem is solved

Lies. Op is lactose intolerant. Simple. This is not a sugar problem. It's milk problem. And most of the world population have it.