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discman2k2:
I want to say that people start giving themselves High BP when dey start minding & imagining & investigating their spouses affairs. Me i dnt watch or try to knw if my wife is doing anythng, meanwhile me I'm not a saint. D logic is : weda u imvestigte or not if som1 wants to do, deyll do, & ull nt fimd out atallllll! Also, d consequences of knwing is painful & disappointment & heartbreak. So, save urself all pains BY CONSCIOUSLY NOT TRY TO KNOW OR SEE.

#What u dnt knw wont kill u

you may be right here though but even the bible says my people suffer for lack of knowledge .. meaning it's better to know and take action than not know and probably suffer the fate of being infected with hic aids...

juman:
That particular story nah concocted story.

sorryto disappoint you bro.. it happened... Did you serve then? Only people that served during that period have the right to say if it's true or not... But it's true by the way... Thanks...

Hahahah I understand.... At least her husband will make her pregnant and there will be no need for pad for over six months... Hahhaha nice one

Lastking147:
I think this study can be filed under mucho-depressing.gov/sadness. A woman's sex life is her own business and she has the right to pursue pleasure wherever she wants, from a sex dungeon in Berlin to a Player's party in Palm Springs. My life philosophy can be summarized simply as, "Get that dick, girl!" Just kidding, kind of.

However I have to admit that I kind of understand why girls would be wary of getting very close to a promiscuous woman. I know it sounds super judgy but let me explain. I had a best friend in high-school who slept with a ton of dudes. Married guys? Check. Drug dealers? Check. Somebody's dad? Check. She did it for attention, she did it for validation, she did it to escape her awful family life. But the point is she did it...a lot. The worst part was that she did it with guys I was in love with. She kissed the high school love-of-my-life at my birthday party. That friendship totally destroyed me but it also taught me a valuable lesson: You can't be close to a girl who is desperate for male attention. You will get hurt.

The lead author of the Cornell study Zhana Vrangalova validates my point. She proposes that "evolutionary concerns may be leading men and women to disapprove of their bed-hopping peers as friends. They may actually be seeking to guard their mates from a threat to their relationship." If someone has a voracious sexual appetite it's easy to feel threatend. What if she tries to charm my husband? What if she flirts with my boyfriend? It's not crazy to be worried about that. However, I realize that there is a difference between someone who sleeps around a lot and a disloyal person.

The Cornell study which is called, "Birds of a Feather? Not When it Comes to Sexual Permissiveness," finds that "such social isolation may place promiscuous women at greater risk for poor psychological and physical health outcomes." It makes me think of the tragic suicide of Felicia Garcia, a 15-year-old girl who was literally slut-shamed to death. After allegedly sleeping with four football players on the same night at a party, she was aggressively bullied at school. According to an article on Jezebel, "two days before she killed herself, Garcia tweeted, "I can't, I'm done, I give up."

Slut-shaming is a very real problem and as women we have got to support each other through this battle. Women like Sandra Fluke, who spoke in Congress in defense of birth control, and Katelyn Campbell, a high school student who fought against abstience-only education, were both called "sluts" and "prostitutes" by media figures. I think what these people meant to call them was "inspirational heroes." Oh, semantics.

On a more practical note, I would advise ladies who like to sleep with a large variety of partners and don't have a lot of female friends: If you're trying to make new amigas, make sure to prove to them that your sex life is not a threat to them. Show them you are trust-worthy and have excellent boundaries.
Cc SmellingAnus
Culled from Cosmopolitan

I actually read everything and I must say that it's quite educating/informative... Infact it brought about several dimensions/factors I didn't even consider while writing on this topic... Much thanks, I actually learnt a whole lot in this article but the lady in question broke camp rules... It's possible that her husband was her next of kin so maybe they felt it was appropriate to notify her next of kin...

Young03:
I will only resort to fate

same thing I will do bro

IamJix:
I have never trusted myself in the case of konji nahim I go trust another person??

hahahhahahah sharp guy... Good to be true to yourself... Nice one

IamJix:
I have never trusted myself in the case of konji nahim I go trust another person??

hahahhahahah sharp guy... Good to be true to yourself... Nice one

Young03:
them won use the only opportunity they get

but its bad

hahahah yes o... But if your madam wan go for her NYSC hope say you go trust her say she no go cheat on you

IamJix:
yes they can but.
it varies from person to person.
high libido.
There are some men who can't go a day without sex.
same issue/thing applicable to some women.

true... Let's assume your girlfriend is going for her NYSC, will you be scared or what? Or you will trust her that she can't mess up

IamJix:
yes they can but.
it varies from person to person.
high libido.
There are some men who can't go a day without sex.
same issue thing applicable to some women.

true... Let's assume your girlfriend is going for her NYSC, will you be scared or what? Or you will trust her that she can't mess up

delishpot:
Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband? Do they also include family morality duties in the NYSC programme? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.

exactly my thoughts and the the thoughts of some other corps members during that period... A home was broken... However, maybe it was just Nemesis catching up with the woman...

delishpot:
Wrong assumption. Society just demands and enforces the lifestyle.



@TOPIC, why would NYSC call her husband? Do they also include family morality duties in the NYSC programme? Would they have called the wife/wives if the husband was caught sleeping with a woman he was not married to?
They handled this thing badly in my opinion.

exactly my thoughts and the the thoughts of some other corps members during that period... A home was broken... However, maybe it was just Nemesis catching up with the woman...

Young03:
Them won enjoy what the unmarried ones are enjoying in camp


They heard that life in camp is sweet

Lol... I guess it's a matter of the new found freedom to mingle without possibly being caught especially by their husbands

IamJix:
sex starved I guess.

hahaha that's serious o... But I use to believe that the females can stay longer than their male counterparts without sex

What Are The Reasons For Sexual Promiscuity By Married Women During Nysc Camp
https://www.ngscholars.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/Abuja-NYSC-Camp-5.png

While on camp at Umuna Bende Nysc Orientation camp in Abia state I noticed the way some married women flirt with male corps members... The kind of flirting I saw with my eyes was worse than what some singles would have done there... Infact on camp, the married once behaved as if they are unmarried while the unmarried ones behaved even more responsible...

There was this incident that happened on camp about a married woman that was caught with another guy having sex at the big field there at night.. The husband of the woman was sent for to see his disgraceful wife.. The man simply removed his ring and gave it to the boy that slept with his wife and left the camp...

Sad indeed but such cases of sexual promiscuity seems to be the order of the day when ever there is a functional NYSC Orientation camp...

So I ask a question for discussion and contributions... Those married women caught on different occassions for sex related offenses during NYSC Orientation camp... Were they sex starved or are they sex addicts that can't endure for just three weeks without sex?

Please also share other sex related offenses committed during NYSC Orientation Camp...

(Shout out to all Jesus Corpers... I love this family of God...) The above write up was experienced in July 2010 NYSC Batch B Orientation Camp in Umuna Bende in Abia State...

I want Wike to succeed in Governance however I don't have sympathy for him because he also oppressed former Governor Ameachi with Federal might... Infact Wike hasn't received half of what they did to Ameachi... Ameachi was even prevented from entering Government house at some point, 6 lawmakers made a strong attempt to impeach the speaker of the house of assembly so that it could lead the way for the impeachment of the former Governor... Wike boasted that once Jonathan wins His election, they will make sure Ameachi doesn't excape because they will make sure he spends his years in prison...
http://www.punchng.com/news/fgll-arrest-amaechi-after-jonathans-victory-wike/

Aniker:
Yes,

we could be friends off nairaland and also exchange bb pins and later numbers but take your time dear... Since you are new, you still need to know more about folks here .. I am ready when you are ready even if you will be ready next year

Aniker:
Hey nice to know you live in ph, I couldn't post where you mentioned me

oh okay. Yea I stay around abuloma axis.. You stay in PH also?

Name: PP DOMENICO CLERECUZZIO

Age: ask Kashybaby...

Occupation : Peace Maker

Are you single, dating or married : currently Single...

Those u like on Romance Section: Kashybaby, Trapqueen77 and Queensuccubus

Those u dislike on Romance section: not important

Those u find annoying: not important

Those u can't help but read their posts(u look forward to what they have to say): Kashybaby, Trapqueen77 and Queensuccubus


Those you follow and wish follows you back: it's an abomination for me to follow anyone (only true love can make me commit such abomination)

Why do you follow the people you follow: I follow none:

NLer that has sent u the most PMs:not important

How many PMs do you get on average in a day. : not important

Romancelander(s) that u ignore or try hard to avoid quoting: too busy for this...

Which Romancelander is fake. : this question should be removed

Romancelander(s) you would have a one night stand with if given the chance but won't date: none.. It's either I want something serious or nothing

Romancelander you can date or have a crush on: I don't have any crush on anyone... Having a crush is giving someone the right to crush your heart

why did u choose him/her above?? (what attracted you to him/her) I don't have any crush...

Your favorite Romancelander(s) :
Kashybaby, Trapqueen77 and Queensuccubus

Your favorite mod: all MODs because smellinganus has never been banned before...

Funniest Romancelander(s) Mr. Cork

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Romancelander(s) you used to get along with, but don't anymore. Reason(s) why? : I have trapqueen so I don't care about who I dont get along with...

Which Nairalander(s) has a personality that suits/ quite similar to yours. : None... We are all uniquely made....

NLer(s) u would love to give a dirty slap to in real life: the Peace Maker is more interested in Peace because wisdom is better than weapons of war...

NLer(s) you would go second and first base with(one whom you can move from just talking to maybe a kiss, sex or date). : none

NLer(S) you keep as a friend offline or you've met in real life: Met AngelAnhie offline... She is like a sister to me... God bless you dear

NLer(S) you consider smart: Muva/Sinz

NL member that tries too hard.: not important

NLer(s) you find intriguing : Mr. Cork..

What phrases, insults, styles have you learnt from another NLer : Hian

Which NLer(s) did u learn the above from: Lady L

Who do u often disagree with on Romance Section: none because i spend more time with like minds and optimistic persons...

Romancelander that you secretly wish you can both get to know each other.: none

Who do u often agree with:
Kashybaby, Trapqueen77 and Queensuccubus

Who do u consider sexy (opposite sex): Lady L

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Who is Romance section Mr/Ms. nice guy : Traphedges

Who is Romance section Mr/Ms Mean guy/girl(one who takes things too serious). : none of my business

Who is Romance section Mr/Ms. douchebag
[/color][/quote]none of my business

QueenSuccubus:


[size=28pt]Can YOU be my P0RN STAR?[/size]



Ahahahaha... I can't stop laughing..

hahahhaha naughty you...

QueenSuccubus:
Hahaahahah... Boo, it says they offered a massage.. Maybe they do tantra and they sell special cream too which I think it can help u enhance something..

hahahahha it's already perfect as it is, I am not planning to be a p**n star boo...

QueenSuccubus:




Now Im thinking to send something to SmellingAnus

hahhahaha just send a hand written note

Keep it going babe

Piercedclit:
i searched for sexy white mom and black mom and saw no images

it has been removed then

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Piercedclit:
I didn't see anything. guess it has been removed

maybe it has been removed but sexxy black mom only showed nudes of black women... Good a thing it has been removed though...

Booboo7 nice write up... Following this story... Thumbs up dear..

Ok

zaralady:
Dat should make it impossible for us to be the same person, because one person cant operate two account @ the same time

ok dear...

Keep it up dear... I am tempted to say you already have my vote...