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Advice is what we seek for when we know what to do but wish we didn't.

MetaPhysical:
For $3m ....i expect to see land in multiple hectares. The property is crowded by other developments, not good.

No built-in library, no multi-media workspace, it has only one kitchen.

The focus is all about entertainment and party.

Even if i had $500m I wont buy this property for more than $500k.

I agee, the land would probably cost 500 million Naira,

From all you have said, it's obvious that you are not emotionally ready for a real relationship. I will advise you keep playing house with the 20 year old gal as you guys are still both getting to know what you really want.

2Women:
Please pardon any typo's or errors in this.

I am a 23 year old guy, and I have been in a relationship with this very beautiful 20 year old multiracial girl for a year plus now. She loves me dearly and never fails to show it. She has consistently discarded suitors off just for my sake, she never lacks them, she is very preety and light skinned, so she doesn't fail to turn heads wherever she goes. She loves God, but not the overly holy person, she is still a virgin and for that, I have refused to have any intimacy with her.

She just go admitted to one of the universities in the south west. We are in the same state so I go to visit her twice monthly, since she went to school, her attitude has not changed 1 bit, in fact, she is even more disturbing and demanding for my attention now than before. She sends me chats of random guys that try to ask her out, and sometimes even records the conversations and send to me, I trust her fully and don't believe she will cheat, at least not now, but i have this constant fear that I will loose her cos a similar scenario occurred to me 2 times before and the ladies lost focus and broke off the relationship, but I'm just hoping this can work.

Now, the problem, I met this lady who will be 28 soon, she is my junior in an organization, we got real close as she shared her story with me, and I wanted to sincerely advise her as a superior and someone with more experience in our field, but one thing led to another and she fell deeply in love with me, I knew, but feigned ignorance at first cos I didn't want any distractions to my 1 year old relationship, until she came out straight, deep down I felt something for her too, but I tried discarding it due to the age difference, but i couldn't keep it for long. I didn't tell her but we found ourselves kissing on various occasions. This lady is a virgin and has never been in any serious relationship cos she asks God if the suitors comes and she most times feels God is saying no, but this time, she is convinced that God approves of me.

Yesterday, I officially told her I love her and she has told everyone who cares to hear, her pastors, her family, every body, she has asked them to pray for her and all, this lady is a wife material, so is my girlfriend, this lady is beautiful but not half as pretty as my girlfriend, she is a bit more curvy and endowed than my girlfriend tho, attitude wise, both of them are just perfect (at least for now), supportive and understanding.

I am not very rich, but I'm not very poor either, I hold a job that requires me to work 26 hours monthly and it pays me just above 50k, I also am a freelancer on freelancing sites and i earn more than my salary in some months, with the potential for even more In future.

In spite of this, I don't think it is enough to start a family, secondly, I have never envisage myself getting married this early, in fact, I always say I have at least 4-5 years to go, but this lady has imagined our wedding and even picked a date for next year, I feel she is going too fast, and I told her but she says she doesn't do things when double minded, I love these 2 ladies, but I am just not ready to settle down. I am still too young for that, plus, she is older than me with 5 good years, and considering the fact that ladies age quickly, I don't think i want that as it will force me to cheat, which I don't ever want to do in marriage.

Please is it advisable to marry this lady? She is a graduate with a masters in an Asian university, or take things slow and try to plan with my girlfriend who is as well supportive and doesn't mind starting small.

Please advise me house.

Awww... You are such a sweet lady, and I don't have an idea why you think this your relationship will end well.. From all you have said, lemme read for you what I saw on the wall... "It will end in tears" You had better run.

lol...Corona Village

topboss:
The best way to stop the spread is curfew.


Everybody these days have mobile phone.



If you get sick use your phone to call for help.


The help should come from quarantine section, that will take you to test site.


If you dont have it, u go home, if you do, u move to corona village and stay there for treatment.

shit has hit the fan

If you were really able to make 20Mill legit, you don't need anyone' s advise on the next step. Selah

You mean answers??

kingmeme:
Like razor blade marks on my face or body

Pls I need answer

Only a fool will say there's no God.

48 hours of blackout... Detty December indeed.

Never to trust anyone!

This is so sad.

Which Category do you fit into??

partnerbizn5:
I think it's only online that men form macho, red pill, mgtow, alpha male, players and PUA.

Only online that women don't chop guys mugu.

Only online that guys don't tolerate rubbish from girls. Only online that all guys treat women like trash.

Only online that girls beg guys endlessly.

BUT OUT THERE DAILY, I see the opposite happen. Go to shoprites, Crunchies etc on weekends and see what guys are doing. Yet will come online to form macho so as to belong or stay woke.

We all know how some men beg and pet their spouses out there especially in the sack during coitus.

Some of them cook, wash, take kids to school, etc.

I know a guy that has been begging a girl for 3 years to marry him, he even sent friends. He may be on Nairaland too forming red pill.

Many will come online to form macho, deceiving others.

Same way some feminists wanna be collect prricck upandan, some even fall pregnant like Linda ikeji.

Guys be not deceived.

So he will ruin Christmas for Ant Josh...

No be una open Dam?.?

Seefaire pains...

INTROVERT:
Wonderful foolery... I'm in pains

chiiraq802:
9ja na scam... Mk dem kuku sell dis country naaaa... nid my own share Asap!!!

who tell you say you get share?

Why not invest in Brighter Grammer.

Sigh, these little ones would definitely not get past St. Peter's gate.

This is Lagbus, not BRT

SageTravels:
You are making that amount of money and you cannot buy ads space on Nairaland. Not only that, you still want to collect from other people

I was thinking out loud too. .. Don't mind the scammer.

Very wack music.. Blackface needs our help. Let us open a "gofundme" account for him.

Reading this piece broke my heart for real... My nigga, start making plan B as the lady you call your wife isn't a wife but a hoe. As she has refused to see reason, make her see it, start calling your exes too and watch her reaction. I don't know what this world is turning into. Marriage isn't a do or die affair btw.

Of course, we are not that sophisticated to buy new planes....

so he has woken up? nonsense!

It's your opinion...just because you have got an opinion, does that make you a politician??.

Who told you Buhari would be attending?

Shaba!

And you pay rent?

pyyxxaro:
Brb



Make I go sweep compound b4 my landlord go increase my rent again

@Op I feel you... Be thankful for what you have right..? We don't have Earthquake, Tsunami, Typhoon, landslides and forest fire here, do we?

Be thankful, that's the point.

Chai... He who finds a wife has found a good thing... Not in Aunty Tonto's case.... This one na big trouble