Because Nigerians only go to see a dentist when the situation is already very critical and the only solution at such extreme times will be extraction.
If we make it a habit to go for dental checks, we won't have to solve a problem when the only solution to it will be extraction

empire02:
Is she not a human being like other girls??
What if shix the girl God has destined you to marry ? Or are you trying to say that no white garment member will make heaven'

My advice, go ahead.

How can one who doesn't believe in heaven, make heaven?
They believe that their leader O. O. Obu is Christ who has come to reign on Earth.

vicky6:
wow!! so okra goes with uziza!! I will try that for Hubby this weekend

Very nice with uziza. Gives it a totally different lovely taste. I no longer use ugu with okro. Just uziza alone

TaminaliaCatapa:
Do you know the types of illness shameful to report? Those ones that has to do with your Gynae. OMG! When the doctor have to ask you the last time you had sex; or when the doctor have to ask you the nature of symptoms around your genitals.

This note goes to Nigerian doctors: Nurses and other paramedics have no business in the room when you’re interviewing your patient. Kindly respect the Hippocratic Oath. Thank you!

My experience:
It was a cool Sunday evening at my gf’s house, she had visitors in the inner room which made it quite impossible to have a rumple with her. It’s been a while I gave her the banana due to the fact that I’ve been out of town for a while.

She knows I go for what I want. I’ve been waiting for a moment to put her down to no avail. After a while left to use the restroom. I joined her immediately and carried her on the wash hand basin. Dropped her pants and panties and flung her legs on a 180 degrees.

***The Problem***
The following day I peed and the tip of my penis was very eeeeeeewwww. The pain was sharp and immediately remembered the thick wetness. Chai, temi bami! I don’t have multiple partners and though I can’t trust any woman, but I can say she knows I’m alpha and will never try rubbish with me.

Being a person who doesn’t play with sexual health, I have a son already but I still wanna have more. Hence any threat means I land in the gynae’s office immediately.

I reached the doctors and I already assumed I have gonorrhea. The doctor (a lady) asked when last I lamba’d, it was a really shameful one. I responded “yesterday”.

Here comes the banger, she told me to draw down my shorts and boxers. Haaaaaa. The doctor is a quadragenarian by my calculation, nice skin, nice teeth set and all that; so, if you’re not impotent, your dick must obey the clarion call of the beagle.

One fvçked up psychology about the male genital is that the more you resist, the more it gets mad. I drew my boxers and my thing was vibrating in synchronicity with my every heart beat. My third leg shamed me.

She checked the tip (saw some tiny blisters) and was like “NO, you’re fine, you probably had a rough one with your gf”. I was not convinced and asked her to proceed with the test.

Guess what?

The test came back NEGATIVE for all!

Nairalanders come share ur own

A gynea is a doctor that specializes in the female reproductive tract. So the doctor you saw wasn't a gynea. Since you aren't a female

Gundel001:
Hi good day my fellow Nairalander please I will really need your experience about this issue. Please help me read to the end as it is a little bit long.

My junior brother is 14 years old and to be sincere I haven’t seen anybody as dull as him. I don’t know if it is natural but I just can’t understand why someone at that age could still be struggling with very simple arithmetic. My brother can’t write 1 – 150 correctly at 14.

He seems too dull; note he attends one of the best private school around our area, though I know you might say maybe education is not his way but even if you want to drop out from school you should know some basic things like money, time, multiplication and so on but my brother doesn’t know anything I must say, even to write his name correctly is a problem. It is making everyone unhappy lot of money is being spent on lesson teachers and other things for him still no improvement.

I am a student of one of the top federal University in Nigeria same as my other siblings even at both secondary and undergraduate level we were always above average so I can’t say his problem is genetic. I really wants to know what is the problem with him nairalanders. After I finished secondary school I once taught some pupils in primary school though there were dull ones too there but with time I could see improvement unlike my brother i always try to teach him from time to time but it kind of frustrating as he doesn’t even seems like he will ever grab anything and he doesn’t behave like he wants to learn anything.

He makes it seems as if he is not interested book or arithmetic at all …we all tried talking to him endless time to always read any time he his less busy but he never does except he is being forced.

He rarely talks, he loves to keep to himself always, he doesn’t have interest in anything unlike we the others that are die hard football fans, most times my mom will tell him to even go out to play and mingle he will not still want to go, he prefer to stay at home seating all day without reading or doing anything, even if it is to draw or play football he wont.

This matter is not making everyone happy at home we don’t even know the solution to his problem again, as in imagine having a child that is 14 years old that doesn’t know the difference between 17 and 71 it is just so bad…..

We don’t know if his case is mental or spiritual. please nairalanders I know there are child experts in the house or anybody who have experienced something like this before what do you think is the problem and possible solutions to the problem your contributions are welcome.

Please help me push this pleaseeeeee

Your brother is Autistic. Simple. You guys should take him to a hospital for proper diagnosis.

missimelda01:
Her mother is a Christian but not a practicing one, what does that mean?

I thought I was the only one thinking what that meant

eddieguru:
Hello nairalanders,


Although, I'm not good at writing

I had sex with a girl I met on Facebook, and now my urine hurts.

I'm currently taking injections and drugs, but I don't really know what I've been infected with...

While I'm taking treatment i've been having coloured urine ( yellow, brown and orange)

Guys I'm simply confused right now...advise a brother

You should have gone for a test first before commencing treatment... Now that you have started treatment, your test results will be masked.

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As in ehnnnnn..... Na only useless mouth dem get!!! Talk is indeed cheap, my dear.[/quote

can you just imagine a sane human being asking Someone's father or mother or relative to attend to a suspected or confirmed covid-19 case without PPE because you are a doctor or health worker?.... Or to use your own salary, (which by the way the government is dragging feet about paying you) to provide yourself PPE? And you tell me they are normal? They cannot even advice their blood relations to do same yet they can open their mouths or hide behind their keypads to type nonsense. My dad is a doctor and once attended to a suspected lassa fever patient that time and they ended up quarantining all of them and giving them drugs until the patients test result came back negative... I don't pray for a repeat of that case in this covid-19 time because we know what we went through during that period. I really feel for this guy who lost his wife, but he shouldn't blame the healthcare workers... The earlier we Nigerians start to hold our government accountable for the taxes we pay and the offices they hold, the better for us.... Instead of channeling the energy to the healthcare workers who are equally being trying their best. No PPE = no work. Simple. Jesus has died for us before... We don't need human beings to die for us again

TheGoodJoe:


You did not read the part resign and let those who can deal with the hazard takeover. If those people had gone to the hospital and they said no health workers available, they would have taken the woman somewhere else.

You do not swear an oath, wear lab coat, hang stethoscope, collect salary for years and run when the battle is on.

We cried this for decades and people did not listen. Treat medicine like military and take devoted people who are ready to deal with it. Now people are running and letting a woman slowly die for hours.

Talk is cheap.... Go and sack them na and take over.... Nigerians and only mouth

lapazi:


This is absolute BS

Don’t compare Nigeria with countries that are extremely overwhelmed with this pandemic. It is not out of place to hear that PPE getting depleted. It is not.

This is a case of a state owned medical facility.
There is no freaking way in hell that there are no PPE. Let’s call this what it is...

It is simple inhumane, the doctors are scared and completely unprofessional. That’s what’s breaks my heart.

My this angry because this is the second case of such I’m reading in a week.

Go and take over from them you that isn't scared and can work without PPE.... It's easier said than done....

TheGoodJoe:


Not true at all. Many are working with inadequate supply of PPEs. Many across the World.

And you did not read the part where working without PPE made most of them sick and die of the virus?... My dear, wisdom is profitable to direct. No PPE, no work... Focus this energy on holding the failed government accountable instead of directing it to health care workers who have to also prevent not just themselves but their families back home from getting infected and dying.

TheGoodJoe:


He should resign and let those who can find a way to deal with the challenges of the job handle it. Doctor is not by force. The Doctors around the World risking their lives know what they signed for and swore an oath too.

These Doctors are paid salaries too. They can sacrifice for personal PPEs to protect their lives too. Than standing as a health worker and watching a woman die helplessly for 3 hours.

The doctors risking their lives around the world have PPE sir...
How much are the doctors paid Oga?.... Until it's your relative that's at the front line then you'll understand. It's always easier said than done....

TheGoodJoe:


What stopped the hospital management from securing PPEs even though is small scale for highly suspected cases? They are working and there is a possibility of asymptomatic carriers. Depending on government alone is not the solution when the government have decided to remain docile.

So blame the government and not the practitioners.... In saner countries the government makes this provisions. I have a dad who's a doctor and I'd rather have him not treat a suspected case than have him exposed to a potential carrier.... And then he has to treat himself with his own funds?... No way....

Everyone castigating the medical practitioners forgetting that they are human also and have families that also love them.... No PPE no work!!! The government has failed the masses.. Blame them and not the medical practitioners.... How much are they being paid that we expect them to act as sacrificial goats everytime?...

ibkayee:
Helpful, positive information

Not to be a debbie downer however, but how accessible are these treatments for the average person in Nigeria? It isn't a death sentence when you have access to a certain quality of healthcare

The drugs are given for free at any general hospital, teaching hospital etc... Unless people who don't want others to know they have it, then they can buy the drugs at pharmacies.

laydoh:
I have been wanting to ask this question for a long time.

Personally, from my parents to the last kid of my family who is only 8 yrs old have a good handwriting.

So I always wonder if it is anywhere related to genetics.

I am very sure it is because 2 of my siblings and I have exactly the same handwriting as my dad... To the extent that if one person writes something, you'll find it very difficult to know who exactly wrote it.

suremanpatriot:
Infact why cant Lagos stat gov release their treeatment regimen to the nigeria ppl to use to stop the spread instead of lockin ppl inside for hunger to ravage them?
We keep hearin tht lagos gov hav treated and discharged one or two ppp,wht are they givin those ppl na? Share it mr sanwo ,is not jst washin hands,giv ppl ya formula.EKO O NI BA JE O!

There is no treatment regimen... What they are doing is symptomatic treatment... Just like when you have cattarh and cold or cough and they give you antihistamines or some other drugs to relieve your symptoms, cough syrup for the cough, paracetamol for the fever etc.... The patients immune system and the presence or absence of any underlying medical condition has a big role to play in it... That's why some recover and some do not.

iaamxavier:


One amazing thing about being a pharmacist
Awoof money
How much did you lease it for?

Can we chat outside NL

500k...new premises

iaamxavier:


You leased your license right??

Yes

iaamxavier:


Okay you just opened your own pharmacy store?

No, not yet, just registered for someone else

iaamxavier:


So how much are you then paid?

I just registered a premises.

iaamxavier:


How much are the pharmacist being paid

Currently studying pharmacy

It's not fixed.... In private enterprises, it's more about your bargaining power...

SolomonGrundy:
As men of honour...

We join hands!!!

Studied Pharmacy.... Working as a Community Pharmacist.

englishmart:
If you were to share 100k between your parents, how much will each get? And why?

Me, I will give mom 70k and 30k to dad. Reason is, Mom needs a little more love for her enormous sacrifices. Woman has starved and done a lot of strenuous jobs to keep us going

My parents.... 100k....no sharing... They both put heads and money together to make I and my siblings who we are today... Theyv always had this united front that you don't know who is bringing what or who is doing the most.... They make it seem like they are both equally doing everything to make us better... So I'd call a meeting and present the money to the head of the home... My dad... But at the end... They both have it.

henryobinna:
nobody has it all.

What's considered the best thing is not much valued by others, different people have different priorities.

And sorry on the loss of your babies, may God help you and grant you your heart desires. Amen

Yes some have it all.... But that ungrateful spirit in humans won't allow you know that you have it all.... Because we always want more..... A barren woman would be satisfied with having children even if God tells her all she will have will be girls.... Meanwhile someone has all those girls and still thinks she has nothing....

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

I lost my baby girl on the 13th of October last year..that was my second pregnancy... I lost the first to miscarriage and the second died during delivery ... I would give anything to have a daughter right now.... Or 3 daughters.... My point is, people are out there crying to have even one kid... And here you are, blessed with 5 healthy daughters and you are asking God if you have offended Him in anyway for giving you guys another girl?.... You sound really ungrateful to God right now... You and your husband.... Please don't allow God to turn His wrath on you... Do you know how special daughters are?.... This life sha.... Some have it all and yet cannot say thank you Lord!!!!!... It is well o.

bluefilm:


Nonsense.

Am I surprised? ...na dem!!! .....

sylvestersamuel:
Good morning my fellow Nairalanders, I will try to make my story brief and precise.... I have a fiancée whom I am already engaged to. As a matter of fact I have already done all our traditional marriage and rites the only thing left is our white wedding which will be coming up in the next 3 weeks.

Yesterday, my fiancée came to visit me in my house so as to discuss our wedding plans. But before she left, we had a slight misunderstanding and the reason for our misunderstanding was because I allocated 50% of our wedding expenses to her i.e (she would be the one to sew her wedding gown, pay for the catering service amongst others) while I take care of other expenses...

On hearing this, she didn't even utter a word but left with annoyance, since then I have been trying to call her but she hasn't been picking my calls neither have she replied any of my messages....

Please I need your advice, did I do or say anything wrong, because I know how much I spent during our traditional marriage rite and mind you, she earns close to 200k per month.... Insult in form of advice is allowed all I need is just your advice.

If she decides to contribute.. .its fine.. But you are in no position to allocate anything for her to do.. .unless you are no longer a man.. .how can you be sharing wedding expenses with your lady?. ....if as a lady she decides to contribute.. .all well and good.. ..otherwise... As a man, it's in your place to do it.. .because she isn't marrying herself.. .please grow up

SifonAbasi:
Good morning friends.

Please how can I politely stop my ex from visiting my home?

Yesterday was the third time my husband returns from work to meet my ex in our house.

After the incident that happened between us, my ex started coming closer to my husband and they became distance friends.
My husband invited him to our child's naming ceremony and that was how he got to know our house.

Eversince then he has been visiting and I am not comfortable with it.
I told if he must come he should come when my husband is around.

Please what should I do?

Next time do not open the door for him.. .let him wait for ur husband outside

uncastableodd:
Good morning everyone.

In the middle of the night today, I tried to look for duvet to cover up my son on bed. I decided to check my wife wardrobe.

I saw a pack of mycoten in the wardrobe. She already slept this time. So I had to chill till this morning to ask her questions.

So, this morning when I asked her, she said it was her mum that gave her bla bla bla..
I saw a piece of paper prescribing that cream for her in that same bag I found the cream.

I googled the uses of mycoten and I found out it was nothing serious because it is use for yeast infection and vagina odour. My wife dont have vagina odour and I understand yeast infection can be gotten from toilet or could be infection of body skin that spread or so.

I actually know she lied about her mummy giving her. But what baffles me is that I got a whatsapp message from her when she was coming from my son school..

She wrote that I nag a lot. That I should give her space. That u think she can't cope without me. She said she will look for work to take care of our son.She said we have been together for six years and I don't even trust her a bit. She said I think she can't leave without her. She didn't even address the issue of allegation of infidelity I threw against her(i deliberately did that #.I replied her I can't give her space in my own house and if she is fed up, she can pack her bags and go to her parent house. I told her if my son is infected or if I am infected , I am going to kill her and hand over myself to police. Immediately she blocked me on whatsapp and I did same. After an hour, she unblocked me.

Could she have been sleeping around her? Or are there any other uses of mycoten I don't know?

In my mind though, the cream I find is not really something to worry about but the message I got and her reaction is what I don't understand.

You need to grow up.. .intellectually too... Yeast infections are usually not caused by sleeping around.. .most times they are caused by an imbalance in the PH of the vagina which can be caused by excessive use of antibiotics, douches amongst other things.. ...you saw mycoten vaginal cream in her wardrobe and instead of finding out what exactly she is suffering from you are nagging like an uneducated person.. .."if she infects you or your son? "....are you for real?. .....i really pity your wife for putting up with a baby like you.. .please grow up.. ..take her to a hospital for proper tests and examinations and appropriate treatment and follow up.
Maybe you yourself are a cheat and that's why you imagine she is doing same.. ..grow up please.. .im sure you can't even kill a chicken and you are threatening to kill a human.. ..you could go to jail for just saying that!! !

I think your mum needs to give your marriage a breathing space... she is chocking your marriage and her Daughter in law... your wife can do better.... She needs to work on her attitude and create an enabling environment that will work for her and your mum.
But I think in this, your mum is wrong.... Third party interference in marriage is very wrong...did her own mother in law force herself on her marriage to your dad?.... She should please give your wife and your marriage some breathing space.