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Mystoree:
So I had some issues with my girlfriend and we were kind of not talking for 2 weeks, during that time, a lot happened in her life.

We settled and while we were telling each other about what happened during our time apart, she began to cry and opened up to me that she was raped. I will ordinarily not believe that lie if she was a virgin but she wasn't, I met her as one and I was her first, so there will be no point in her even revealing it to me if she wasn't as it was a one time thing and I will hardly notice. At that point, i felt like my world just stopped for some seconds, o felt dizzy and found somewhere to sit trying to process what I just heard. Funny thing was that on the night of that incident, I was feeling weird about her and called her to find out how she was, it was around 9:30 pm and she was a student of a higher institution on the mainland while I stay on the island. After I called her, she picked up and told me she was going to call me back as she was trying to get a bike to take her to where she was going to, and immediately she ended the call, a man put a knife behind her and threatened to kill her if she doesn't give him what he wants, she offered her phone and all but this man was just after sex, according to her, the area was quiet and there was almost nobody on the streets, he pulled her to a shop corner and forced his way. I was devastated and confused, this is the only lady I have ever seen myself marrying amongst all the ladies I have met, she checks all the boxes, she said it didn't last up to 5 minutes and she cried all through but the man didn't care. He was a fat elderly man with a pot belly, wearing a nose mask in the night so she could not even see his face.

I was so angry at her because first of all, I warned her several times not to move in the night in that area as it is very dangerous, we were once robbed on the same street around 8pm, so I wonder what went into her mind moving by almost 10pm. She said she was on night shift where she works and then her friend called her to join them for a party, so she took permission and wanted leaving and that was when it happened. Now the thing is, those friends of hers are very bad influence on her and I told her a long time ago, she said she doesn't follow them but just hangs around with them in school, little did I know that she went to the bar alongside them and their boyfriends a number of time without my knowledge. She showed me pictures of their outings and a stab on the hand from the rapist. I'm so angry, she has been crying and begging, I asked her to stop the job and she agreed,i have thought of getting a girl and some guys to disguise and go to the same area late night to see if the devil will push the bastard to try his lick again cos I swear, I will make sure I put a stick through his anus through to his mouth,revenge is all that is on my mind cos I love this girl so much


I have read rape stories but I never thought it would come so close to me, I have been put in countless situations where a girl changes her mind on letting me into her and I respected that, I wonder why this would happen to me, I don't know what to do, any advice is welcome.

Modified - for those claiming she lied, she came along with the doctors report and tests receipt.

hisexcellency34:
If i am Buhari, i will listen to this wise counsel. The video of the shooting i saw in Anambra yesterday was shocking. The once peaceful Igboland is now a war theatre

RisenJoe:
Let me put it this way,

A young man had a qurrel with his old man and out of anoyance he beats his Dad and now the Father laid a curse on him that his kids will beat him(the young man) the same way he dealt with his Dad.

Now the young man grew old and one day he had an issue with his son and his son beat him up the same way he did his own Dad due to the curse laid on him by his Dad. And he in turn might have forgotten about the curse his father laid on him, now my question is what happens if he in turn lays a curse on his own son?

Will the curse come to pass knowing very well that his own son dealt with him the same way he dealt with his own Dad?

Pls I need contributions and opinions on this.

Old boy no best yah papa again óò if you no wan yah pikin beat you

HIGHESTPOPORI:
And power will not go back to a Muslim again in tinubu,it's either a Christain succeed Buhari or North continues with SE or SS VP.

Jflex07:
Fool! Any one who criticises you afonja is either ipob or igbo...I am from port Harcourt you dunce... Yoruba's are the most mischief and tribal humans I have ever come across. Na una full ph dey sell agbo plus tailoring work every where.. After betraying Jonathan from the south south, you think we have forgotten so soon? Nonsense.

Jflex07:
Yoruba Muslims like tinubu and you are pathetic beings... Keep deceiving yourself

Administration1:
Playing politics with Development as usual. I pity some Stupids fellows who will chose to elect Tinubu over a a more youthful person. I still say it any youth that will stand either in front of me or someone I know and talk about Tinubu becoming President come 2023 will be stoned by stone garri I have been making since last week

PrinceOfLagos:
The Igbos are unarguably the most successful tribe in Nigeria

dasparrow:
Tinubu thinks that the Fulani oligarchs currently ruling Nigeria will allow him become president in 2023 but he is dreaming. Buhari and his goons trust no Southerner and have no intention of allowing a Southerner become president of Nigeria in 2023. You just watch and see.

Bantu10:
I saw the fool at the airport this evening.

Elonmuzk:
You know you can actually make your arguments without insulting. And I am not in Nigeria! Bye

Who asked where you domicile?
Typical of every empty braggart on Nairaland.

Elonmuzk:
Who buys a studio room anyways? . Bro, mortgage calculation doesn't work that way you are thinking. So many factors play into it, like the interest rate, your down payment etc. Mortgage payment doesn't have a stamped fix rate. Having said that, the guy could have found something cheaper to rent.

Welcomme:
Sir, Nigeria is cheaper, pls come back. One room self con in Mushin is still around 300k.

Elonmuzk:
Which part in Canada is rent and mortgage at par? You can get a comfortable studio apartment for $1200 in Toronto and even cheaper in suburban areas.

Elonmuzk:
$2300 for a rent or mortgage? Is he living on top of CN tower or what? Stupid liar.

authority2006:
Pathetic! On top this journey of an average of 70 years na u dey reduce your worth to nothing because of Canada?

Buksaylor:
That's because he's lazy....my younger one in Canada live good in Canada with two jobs that pays well and he is doing well both there and at Nigeria.Canada is not cut for his kind of job...he better gets a job to do..

Penguin2:
Zombies are going to be biggest fans of Osita Chidoka since he just pressed their mumu button.

I know Tinubu urchins want Igbos to demand PDP ticket so that if Igbo man gets the PDP ticket and Yoruba man gets APC ticket, they will go on overdrive with their propaganda and campaign of calumny on why no Igbo man should be trusted with power.

But fools don’t know we are always light years ahead of every of their schemings.

Ndi ala!

The5DME:
....being

PureNigerian:
Thank you.

Tell them, they run their mouth like they know more than the guy.

Fcwilly:
You are living too large, you can get 1000$ or less accommodation, in fact all those things you listed shows you are living large life, unlike true Nigerian who want to hustle and bring money home and invest / flex.
Come back home and get sense

Hezzyluv:
If you are a Nigerian trying to live a flamboyant life in Canada and you don't have too much money, be ready to become bankrupt.

2,300$ for rent, na your choice.
100$ for car park, na your choice.
80$ for wifi, na your choice.
75$ for call na still your choice.

U can leave in Canada, then cut your gown according to your size.

Bachelorette:
More sense be added to you jor.

The op did not know that the people commenting and advising him here on Nairaland are roadside mechanic. He doesn't know that they will confuse him the more.

Road side mechanic ?

loveth360:
So why did Afonja mumuluabis fled to benin republic instead of camping there?

loveth360:
Is time for us to take over southwest.

Yeah,we have REFUGEE CAMP in oru ogún state where Liberian refugees were housed in the 90's,we will gladly reopen it for you.

Ayolzi:
I got C's and B's in other subjects but my Maths was D7.
Will Babcock, Covenant or Lead city accept this.
And which other Universities will accept this result for mass communication.

oyatz:
They want Niger-Delta style of Amnesty Program for IPOB members...That each IPOBian should be getting monthly salary of #300K so that they don't continue killing their people