Family › Re: Help, My Child Is Already A GENIUS @ 3! by Solatium(m): 10:25am On Oct 12, 2021 |
ntrukpum: Hello friends, my daughter is very far ahead of her peers (class mates and outsiders) academically and otherwise. She started school when she was 2yrs. 3wks in school she had already knw how to write 1 to 10, A to F (I mean write not just to read).
Now she is 3yrs and she does things extraordinary. She can write 1 to 200, Aa to Zz without anybody assistance. She does her H/W alone, can read and spell two letter words. She sings a lot. I wanted her to play at least one musical instrument b4 she turns 5.
Two yrs ago, I had this vision of grooming "exceptionally intelligent" kids btw 9-12yrs to study outside their normal school curriculum. I mean a 9yr old kid in JS1 answering physics and advance maths question. Am still working on it. But my child is just 3yrs old and i am begining to be afraid. Married with two kids, an average of 30k monthly income as a private school teacher, I think, I lack the financial resources to push my daughter to where she deserves.
I need proper advice on how to guide her now. Dreamt of Pushing a 9yr old to Jss 1? Cognitive ability is far superior than academic performance,one major reason a child will not step into school abroad until such child is 5 i hope you don't push them to their death |
Politics › Re: Heavy Police Presence At Lekki Tollgate (Photos, Video) by Solatium(m): 9:56pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
DubaiLandLord2: Nah you and your papa go go jail foolish thing.
People have the right to protest. We are not in a military regime dumb ass Yes people have the right to protest and police also have right of arrest,if Dem born you well carry your jobless leg go there,if you no end up in kirikiri. Idiot |
Politics › Re: Heavy Police Presence At Lekki Tollgate (Photos, Video) by Solatium(m): 9:45pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
DubaiLandLord2: The NPF do not have the right to stop people from holding anniversary there. So far they do not block traffic and are peaceful Macaroni no suffer last year,na there una go pass go jail. |
Business › Re: Owoyemi Tajudeen, From Plumber To owner of 3 Radisson Hotels by Solatium(m): 9:42pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
hedonido: Some of you fools are impossible to save.
Easily verifiable that he became a billionaire from government contracts/connections in Nigeria of all places? Lol.
Better to become rich from drug dealing and yahoo than from government contracts or political connections. Verify how he got the contracts and the other unprintable underground things that went with it and then come back to continue with your stupidity. The fact any of your family does not have the connection to secure a government contracts or acumen to deliver does not mean you have to hate those who are in it.
Have you ever bidded for a contract and executive one before? if you have,you will surely know that it is not until when you cut corners before you can make it.
35% profit margin is the least profit allowed,tell me if why won't he be rich even if he go home with 10% after all legal and illegal payment.
Lastly you do not need to tell us who you are, Jibiti ni iran yin nṣe,awọn babanla yin ti ṣe dari,it won't come as a surprise if your generation continue.
Oponu Ayirada |
Celebrities › Re: Kalu Ikeagwu And Wife, Ijeoma's Marriage Crashes, Demands For Bride Price Refund by Solatium(m): 11:33am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Iyaebe: He should return all the sex he had with her too,after that then she will in turn return the bride price.Its that simple. i don't support the idiotic husbands call for refund of that paltry ₦14k but this your comment make me think the wife should also refund the feeding, housing and utilities cost while under his care |
Family › Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Solatium(m): 11:25am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Midas01: He's just being a man but if a woman tried it you will call her olosho. Your hypocrisy stinks to the high heavens. The girl that sleeps over at his place is a boy abi? i no blame you,your cognitive ability is zero that is why you can't infer from the passage that the girl is also been a girl.. pẹlẹ  |
Celebrities › Re: Yul Edochie's Daughter, Danielle On Her First Day At The University (Photos) by Solatium(m): 9:12am On Oct 11, 2021 |
How did this become a News? She need to build a name for herself not holding on to the apron of her father |
Family › Re: My Son's Girlfriend Comes To Our House To Sleep Everyday by Solatium(m): 9:09am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Sorry mama, i can sense your fear for your son safety and well-being,if you ask me i think he will cope,the young man he's just been a man,they will go their sperate ways when the time comes,when he's more engage with making money,just keep an eye on him so he doesn't take to Drugs.
Secondly your husband is safe,she is not going to come close,not even when your son is smashing her. stay safe mama |
Business › Re: Owoyemi Tajudeen, From Plumber To owner of 3 Radisson Hotels by Solatium(m): 9:01am On Oct 11, 2021 |
Never heard anything about him,yet he conquered the business world and stamp his feat on the sand of time. His track records are easily verifiable. Not those who just appeared suddenly on the horizon spraying money at their mothers burial and showing off on social media |
Celebrities › Re: TeeBillz Reacts To Tiwa’s Sex Tape Saga, Calls Her A Great Mother by Solatium(m): 11:41am On Oct 10, 2021 |
ColdHeatt: TeeBills and Tiwa still rub bodies. One day they will marry again. Isn't it too glaring? T-bilisi or whatever is called is not fit to be call a Man,he has proved to be useless,he should move on,a real Man should move on after divorce not lurking around to have peep of what has left him. |
Celebrities › Re: TeeBillz Reacts To Tiwa’s Sex Tape Saga, Calls Her A Great Mother by Solatium(m): 11:38am On Oct 10, 2021 |
JaneYave: The maturity Teebillz shows lately is very impressive. Maturity? when he should have shut up forever on an issue that has no bearing on him? that singular act of that irresponsible mother call Tiwa savage is even enough for this idiots call T-bilisi to have custody of his child but he also proof to be another irresponsible lot.
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Fashion › Re: Women Who Wear Beads, Small Ones, On Their Waist. Who Are They? by Solatium(m): 6:18pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: [s][/s]Na so you go fvck your destiny out of existence You be gay wey you never see woman wey dey wear beads? 80% of today women wear them, including married women. obviously you no dey Bleep or you be gay The destiny wey you carry wey no dey useful for you. Mtcheew |
Family › Re: Why Did My Wife Lie To Me? by Solatium(m): 6:08pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
armstrongadeola: Good evenning house ,
I just want to ask this simple question !
What will you do if for the first week you get your salary paid into your son account and your wife withdrew #35,000 but lied she withdrew #30,000 ?
This is what happened .She gets the SMS notification from our son account and she also keep the ATM card but all I do is to get the mail notification.
Tonight ,she was indirectly complaining she doesn't have money and I asked her how much she withdrew in the last five days and she said #30,000 but the mail notification I got showed she withdrew #5,000,#15,000 and #15,000 on Monday and Tuesday (this week ).
The amount that dropped in the account was #150,000 and she was the one that even started doing transfer for those we needed to settle last sunday when my salary dropped .
We paid our son school fee ,sent little amount to my sister and little amount to her mum and her elder sister and I borrowed #13,000 from the money for transportation.We paid debt of #20,000 .
I stay and work on the island while I go home three times a week (mainland)
In all these,she was able to withdrew #35,000 and I was surprised she was telling me this night to get the money someone was owing me so that I can return the #13,000 I got because all what we have as balance in the account is #2,000 .
I was like is she trying to tell me she have finished the #35,000 with her and jokingly I said how much did you even withdraw from the salary and she said #30,000 !
I asked her if she was sure and she said that's what she withdrew .I now sent the notification I got to her and she was shocked and refused to reply me since 8pm .
My question is why did she lie ? Definitely ,she know she took #35,000 (#5,000 ,000 on Monday&another #15,000 on tuesday )but I am still shocked why she lied and why she is insisting on getting the #13,000 she transferred to me from my own sweat !!
Seriously ,I have lost my trust in her .This is someone who I have never benefitted anything from her rather than the fact that we have a son together after our wedding .
I love her so much and we have been together since 2013 .I have never seen any trace of infidelity in her but she locks her phone with heavy security just because I lock mine and that have never cause an issue but I still don't know why she had to lie this night !
Is there something I don't understand ?
She have definitely been a good wife since we settled down( with prayer and moral support )and she always stand by me in term of better and worse and she is not wayward despite how pretty she is .
But why did she lie ? Never trust a woman with money,no matter how faithful she is
Finances are different ball game entirely, change the way you operates your financial engagement with her,give her what you want and never disclose your balance. ire o |
Fashion › Re: Women Who Wear Beads, Small Ones, On Their Waist. Who Are They? by Solatium(m): 5:58pm On Oct 09, 2021 |
Ammishaddai: They belong to a group of seductresses that believe in luring men through ornaments. My advice is that you stay clear from such ungodly people Ọga park well joor,na better waist dey Carry beads,the thing dey even make toto sweet and sex enjoyable. before you come remind of been hypnotized,o don Bleep many wey no get any repercussions, it's all fashion and fad. |
Romance › Re: Uber And Bolt Drivers Are Harassing My Girlfriend by Solatium(m): 8:01pm On Oct 08, 2021 |
shortgun: Can I report Uber and Bolt Drivers? They keep harassing my girlfriend whenever I book a ride for her to come to my place, meet up with me or go back to her house.
I am busy most times and don't have the time to pick her up or drop her off.
She keep telling me of the harrasments and how she will prefer I pick her than book a ride. I always overlook her complaints until yesterday a bolt driver who told her he's married came back to her house to look for her after a ride yesterday!!
The randy man picked her from my house, I spoke with him on the phone and she told him she's in a relationship but he still carry his poverty stricken blokkos to my girls house?
I tot guys that do uber are trying to make ends meet? I always tip them cos I tot they need help but this have shown me that they are just a bunch of unserious people. For every cab driver to be harassing her,Has not occur to you that your girlfriend is the problem? |
Politics › Re: DJ Switch: We Will Be Standing Up To Our Oppressors Starting From Lai Mohammed by Solatium(m): 8:59am On Oct 08, 2021 |
Speaktruth88: I thought she was in Canada? No be only Canada na America. Person wey dey seek relevance up and down  |
Politics › Re: DJ Switch: We Will Be Standing Up To Our Oppressors Starting From Lai Mohammed by Solatium(m): 8:51am On Oct 08, 2021 |
This is what usually happens when you are living in isolation like a leper,this usually happens when you are going through mental torture.
Let her continue her folly,her situation is understandable,she wants attention after being ignored for so long and about to go to oblivion  |
Autos › Re: Car Dealers, What Is Your Worst Experience Selling Cars? by Solatium(m): 8:31am On Oct 06, 2021 |
symbianDON: to the first, I think he can be forgiven! It was a bitter experience and I'm sure he learnt the hard way. To the second, don't undermine criminals! Have you heard of VIN swap? They do it to make the vehicle untraceable! If you ever have to buy a car at berger...hmmmmm!! Your both eyes must be wide open! I am fully aware of those,but even with the VIN been swaped if he involved the services of a professional they will still be nab. Each brand and model comes with its own unique VIN there is no way you will put a VIN of Corrola on Camry or a VIN of Honda on Toyota,even the VIN of two Corrola's can't be swapped without been detected |
Autos › Re: Car Dealers, What Is Your Worst Experience Selling Cars? by Solatium(m): 8:01am On Oct 06, 2021 |
meekparagon: My own happens last week, there was this particular dealer who posted his car here in nairaland for sale, so it happened that I have a buyer for the vehicle, I call him and we agreed that he would settle me from the 100k that he tops on the deal.
Not knowing that the owner of the vehicle gave him the vehicle to sale for 1.2m, this guy told me that the owner needs 1.6 +100k for sellers that's 1.7M.
I have to contact my buyer all the way from oyo to buy the vehicle.
After seeing the vehicle, he later paid 1.710m to the guy acc.
This guy gave the owner of the car 1m. Claiming that his pastor brother that paid for the vehicle, since the owner is also a pastor. He accepted the money 1m.
This guy took 710k to his pocket.
Few hours later, he call me that my buyer has paid for the vehicle ooo that I s forward him my account number. Immediately I forward this guy my account details. This guy blocked all my contacts including in whatsapp where we negotiate every.
I was like going mad.
I have to call him with another number, this was asking me, (guy are you the one that sold the car, what was your efforts, you only help me in br buyer and nothing else. So please stop bothering me) I was shock seeing such write up from human being.
Please how can I track this guy, he just posted another vehicle for sale on his page. If you can help me out. Contact me with 08170505328 What sort of questions is this,get someone to pretend as a buyer for the new car posted,arrange meeting and hold him |
Autos › Re: Car Dealers, What Is Your Worst Experience Selling Cars? by Solatium(m): 7:58am On Oct 06, 2021 |
symbianDON: he can hardly be tracked Sir. Such criminals don't use their true identities for transactions and I can bet you; he must have sold the car to recoup the CASH payment he made plus extra profits. Such a sad experience @TPound To start with,you don't sound like a real business man to me to more of a car dealer,you sold a vehicle whose value you haven't been paid fully and you issued a receipt,gave the original documents and even released the vehicle.
secondly If you are ready to spend a little cash you would have retrieve that car,the VIN nbere is all you needed to track the registration details and with the help of police you would have picked whoever is the owner up and if he had sold it,he would have been picked. |
Travel › Re: My Experience Traveling By Air For The First Time (update) by Solatium(m): 8:50pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Sirheny007: You boarded a flight from Abuja to Lagos and you want to bring down Nairaland.
What should people like us - who have accumulated up to 700hrs on air to and fro Europe - do then?
 . There is always a first time for everyone,you also had your first time |
Phones › Re: How Is The Global Facebook, Whatsapp And Instagram Outage Affecting You? by Solatium(m): 6:18pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
The whole cyber space is even becoming boring,no one seems to have a new idea. Make the thing shutdown jare may be we will all go back to reset |
Politics › Re: Independence Day Celebration On Nekede-Ihiagwa Road In Imo (Pictures) by Solatium(m): 1:57pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Techguy96: Which one be mid west? Besides what's u are referring to as mid west is what I'm calling SS. You see,some of you don't know anything,you only get into an argument without full knowledge of such
Go back to history of Nigeria under the regional government,that is your assignment for the Day,go and educate yourself,then come back and pour out the little you have learned |
Politics › Re: Independence Day Celebration On Nekede-Ihiagwa Road In Imo (Pictures) by Solatium(m): 1:55pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Techguy96: Lol, na illiteracy dey worry you, look at the things u are boosting with. I was even talking of current day infrastructure, u are till me ancient history n lie.
Even u SW had a tv station before France, which is actually a lie, u can't compare France to SW today.
First university in Nigeria that's not amoung the top 200 university in the world, not even the top 20 in Africa. History is what makes people,the modern infrastructure of today will at a time become a relic. Why do you think Dubai is the toast of everyone.
Even if na past Glory your region,your people and you no even get past Glory talk more of current glory.  |
Crime › Re: Businessman, Obinna Echianu, Commits Suicide By Hanging Inside Kuje Prison by Solatium(m): 1:51pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Renowned Developers.
World Acclaimed Business Men.
The most industrious people.
Armed Robbery o, kidnaping ooo, Drugs ooo,Human trafficking ooo, Baby factory all na business  |
Politics › Re: Independence Day Celebration On Nekede-Ihiagwa Road In Imo (Pictures) by Solatium(m): 1:29pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Techguy96: Oga which SW are u talking about? The same South west that possess the First Highrise in Nigeria which still holds the Record for most Highrise buildings and the tallest in Nigeria.
The same South West with the First television station in Africa,even before European country of France.
The same South west with the first university in Nigeria Show us some respect |
Politics › Re: Independence Day Celebration On Nekede-Ihiagwa Road In Imo (Pictures) by Solatium(m): 1:27pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Techguy96: SS Were the major producers of palm, not SW as u claim. South West bro with the inclusion of the then Midwest state know as Bendel,check your fact's bro |
Romance › Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Solatium(m): 1:25pm On Oct 04, 2021 |
Disclaimer12: Maybe u dey mistake an Ndebele speaking zim to a Zulu girl! If u are talking about Lesotho, Xhosa or ZuluI for say u know wetin u dey talk but Tshona and Ndebele from Zimbabwe Get waist ? Baba na u no no wetin u dey talk ! Me dey with many African tribes for many years , no be say we go dey bongo just dey assume things You be veteran,i doff my hat for you |
Crime › Re: How Do I Recover My Stolen Certificates Found With A Smuggler In Lagos? by Solatium(m): 11:53am On Oct 04, 2021 |
7victor: I receive information that someone has been caught with my certificates which were stolen.
It could be recalled that I made headline in Nairaland when I wrote that all my certificates were stolen.
https://www.nairaland.com/5041665/all-certificates-primary-school-masters
Today, my friend called me that someone has been caught with my certificates trying to smuggle something at Lagos airport.
Please help me Nairaland.
Please mod, move this to the front page. Go to the airport and ask of Tango City (Aviation security) base and Lodge your complain |
Romance › Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Solatium(m): 11:49am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Disclaimer12: Oga na u small pikin dey worry ! Na me u wan dey tell about Zim? Abeg make I no open mouth jor! I don born again ! We don flex dem tire that year for Mzansi! Those ones wey the Cl*t dey cover the hole  [ b]So wetin you come mean by Dem no get anything to offer? that axle alone na him Kardashian dey take thousands of dollars do . those axle worth more than Gold : ;[/b]D |
Romance › Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Solatium(m): 11:32am On Oct 04, 2021 |
camri: where you put Ghana babes with their big hips and bumbum You never see Simba and Southi Yansh na him dey make you talk this one,Ghana for where?  |
Romance › Re: My Experience Dating A Lady From Zimbabwe by Solatium(m): 11:31am On Oct 04, 2021 |
Danjikanbauchi: bro forget it, I can swear to you that Nigeria ladies are the best in times of marriage. Most African ladies don't have good character and can't even cook good food. I speaking from experience. Kenyan, SA, Cameroon and Ghanaian. The worst are SA. Another country that you can find good ladies after Nigeria is Somalian. They are cool headed. Somali no dey cross Bleep oo,though they love to date men from other Nationalities but na their men dey always scare Dem, besides they move in unit's of 4 to 6 girls at a time,how you want talk dem? |