₦airaland Forum

dare cameroon and dare someone who will clean you up! If we had the likes of many of you in power, we would be put in trouble.

How comes we are not hearing anything from cameroon. There are always two sides to a story. I suggest our local media get in contact with cameroon to give us a better idea of the issue.

@konmight, where can i get journals on the nigerian military? In which library can i get it?

@henry120, that was a good question. @kon..., pls release pics of the nigerian military so as to build trust between the public and the military on their capacity to deliver.

dvee2: That is how you hate on your fellow countryman simply because he comes from a different ethnic group. I have seen more hate directed at our fellow citizen in nairaland simply because their religion is different or they come from a different region. why are we now surprise we get this from foreigners?

you find ethnocentrism every where including europe and do you see other nationalities hate them for that?

ujukala: May the good Lord give us good leaders to guide us out of this turmoil, Amen.

and also good followers wey go do small research and come to realise that we have more educated people than there were 52 years ago. That there are more road networks than there were prior independence. That there are more brands, nigerian multinationals than there were years back. There are more car owners today. More decent house owners today than there were years back. More air travelers today which means an increase in purchasing power. More media coverage and communication acces today. More freedom. We can insult our leaders on pages of newspaper and nobody gets jailed, killed or persecuted. Do your reseach before typing rubbish

taharqa: didn't 'our' votes counted last last time?...

why you dey answer the mumu pig. Nigerians with their mouth. I just hope say the mouth rotty authomatically, naturally and all of a sudden.

shema, shettima, suswam, yakowa and jang in that perfect order. you all are just ethnocentric schuvinists who believe you are better. no wonder you put only people from the south when non of the ones you mentioned can be compared to the last person i mentioned.

they are a burden to the rest of us. you keep acting like you did not see my post where i asked you to google Agbani Darego. why dont you do the lil assignment and stop fooling around. but no; you are not going to do it. becos intellectualism is not khurt, you hardly think of it.

hello. i do the 'confession' thaing your likes do. i.e confessing good things to yourself. i actually have issues with self worth and i have taken to the confession thaing to boost what i have to boost. but each time i say those things to myself, i feel they are just words. no matter how much i try to intensify the confession at the point i begin to feel they are just words, the magic just doesnt happen! my question is; how can i make the confession thaing work for me? when i make confessions, do i have to feel anything well up in me to know its working? any one who can help should also contribute. thainks y'all

pls give their forum sites here have noticed the same thing too. Pls give us more of their sites. The most widely visited.

@bigboyk,do you know the programme moments with mo? well, thats where john kufur said it. so you can see that i heard it from the horse's mouth. naija gave you oil. that is a gesture i guarantee you nobody will show you.

i cannot stop admiring your intellectual competence. the other time i saw a topic on the front page, i knew immediately it was you who posted that topic. and when i clicked on it, i wasnt disappointed! your intellectual competence is rear among women. all women care about is the next fashion in town, the latest pop song and the latest boyfriend in town. no wonder men are the ones at the helm of affairs in much of the world. but back to your post. its a difficult one. this is becos morality is seen in different light in different parts of the world.

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Jayboy124: I think he should try and be friends with other girls. He doesn't sound like he knows enough about females.

Then when you say first attempt, is it first attempt at collecting a girl's number or first attempt at 'wooing' a lady?

People like you are usually sweet honest guys. And being friends first works best for guys like you. Move on to other girls, starting off as friends first. And don't become friends and get stuck on the friends zone longer than you should.

its my first attempt at 'wooing' a woman

Crown Prince: op,that girl want to look into her books and not you.
My advice:look into your books and make a good grade rather than prying a lady to kill her future with your philandering nature.

by this, i just felt like i am a bad and unserious boy. btw my grade is far above hers

thanks to you all. in my best interest, i will have forget her. it will help me salvage the liltle respect i have for myself

Yield: Aww, don't be discouraged.

you do not understand it. i have kept myself to this moment thinking the one i love so much will deserve me new. i did this despite all the factors pushing me to break my vow. it wasnt so simple dealing with those factors. now i have found the one i feel for and she has shown me the "red flag" as a poster puts it. this will surely affect my confidence in 'if i ask, i will get'. the next time i face a woman, i will not be able to help thinking that she is also going to show me the "red flag".

Amya: I believe she thinks you're a small boy. I think so too. ( No offense)

its ok. i asked for your honest opinion so its ok if you say yours. i just turned 24 i dont know if you still see that as a small boy? well she is my first attempt

thanks. its heart breakingand difficult to accept. but thanks for the responses. with this, i doubt it if i would want to get close to a woman any more

there is this lady i really want. i asked her if we could find time to talk and she told me she has got no time at that point. i forgot to collect her contact. the next time we met i asked if we could talk and she said she was going to sign her course form. i said ok but she has to give me her number. she said no she will take mine instead that she would call me. i gave my number to her, i waited and she did not call. that evening, she came around the class where i was studying looking for a place to sit. when she looked my way (and i believe she saw me) she immediately wore a kind of look in her face which i interpreted as 'oh this boy again!' do you think she already knows what i am trying to get? becos i have not told her i love her. i only asked if we could be friends which she agreed. she is about 1.5 feet taller than me (i get embarrassed by that too to be honest) do you think she is a bit disappointed that i am not quite the boy she wants hence she acts this way? help me understand her. as ladies, put yourselves in her shoes and explain her psychology to me. whats your advice to me?

i want you all to help me. when ever i get into a lil arguement with some one, i feel guilty even if he is the one who offended me. i find this disturbing becos i see many people get into a fight with others and they are perfectly ok. they do this even when they are at fault. so i am asking, is it normal for people to feel the way i feel? is it a sign of weakness and fear on my own part? am i alone in this or there are other people in this with me? your help pls. ***kisses and hugs

abraham was polygamous yet he is "our father in faith" David was polygamous and he was called "the man after gods own heart" jesus knew about polygamy for it was done before he came, during his life time on earth and after his life on earth, yet he did not condemn it. Had it been it is as bad as pastors paint it today, jesus would have said something about it. Open the gospels and i guarantee you will never find where it was written or where we can infere that polygamy is sin. Finally, the bible says: "god is the same yesterday, today and forever" if he allowed it then i wonder why he would not alow it now!

frosbel: I told you, the Harlot catholic church was way into the business of scamming and fraud before any other prosperity addicted church

are you still in this that is not adding to you GDP? Get a job

frosbel: I told you, the Harlot catholic church was way into the business of scamming and fraud before any other prosperity addicted church

are you still in this bussiness? Quite and get another one . This isnt paying lol

my dear, polygammy is not a sin not even by bible standard. I am a christian and i have not seen any where in the bible where it was stated that it is a sin. All the apostles where born in to polygamous home. And even some christians (catholics) believe that jesus was probably born into polygamous home. That joseph took the wife of his late brother and made children for his brother according to the jewish law

pls tell me how the boy did it and is such a thing possible in naija? I would appreciate insightful replies. ***Kisses and hugs

kool J: are yu really dat undiscernin? A hymen is PHYSICAL proof of a gurl's virginity<except in cases wer its absent frm birth>.its equivalent shld be somthing equally physical in d males-evidence of virginity. U noe,d ideal thing is read>>mull over>>wen understandin dawns,u reply.

you too don join that guy to be olodo. Who says hymen is a prove of what!
Hymen reconstructs itself and can also be reconstructed surgically. So you can see that hymen is completely irrelevant.
But you dont know this no wonder you said what you said.
The guy wey support you no even deserve my comment

i have not been out of the shores of nigeria before so i wonder if white people yab each other like black people do . For eg british yab germans becos they are germans and vice vesa, amricans agianst british or canadians etc. We see hausa against igbos or yoruba, tiv against idoma etc. We also have intra africa yabing like all of africa especially sa and ghana against nigeria. Do we have forums where white people yab each other too. Pls link me up if there is any.

tell me just how comon it is in europe to see people diplay affection in public. I have never been to the uk or outside of nigeria so you can understand why i am asking.

in me: fast and pray

RUBBISH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

poster your list of mid beltans isnt complete without the political maradona himself David Mark. He also is no diff from other northerners. He looks so much like them. Dont mind the southerners who want to divide north by saying north central and indeed Benue isnt north. These people are only angry and jealous of the northern power. Incase you are wondering, i am from benue and idoma