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HealthRe: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by soonest(f): 2:32pm On Aug 18, 2015
Let me register here before it becomes too late
HealthRe: Houseboy Injures Spinal Cord Peeping At Madam Bathing by soonest(f): 6:23am On Aug 17, 2015
Na so rape dey happen! May God save us from familiar and unfamiliar evils
FamilyRe: Real Reasons Women Add Weight After Wedding by soonest(f): 5:54am On Aug 17, 2015
kingk:
Akuko ifo...........just wait,watch and see when you've finally rest your mind.
Iya!! Wot makes u feel u hv more rest of mind married than single
FamilyRe: Real Reasons Women Add Weight After Wedding by soonest(f): 5:50am On Aug 17, 2015
redgem:
That's what i love....people tell me to forget the fact that I'm slim now, that when i put to bed i will become fat. I tell them its a matter of choice, no one should say they didn't choose to get fat cos everyone has a choice. Some will say the medicine they took contributed to it but i don't believe that trash. I'm so obsessed about fat
Time will tell
HealthRe: 4D Ultrasound & Doppler Scan: For Pregnant Mothers by soonest(f): 2:32pm On Aug 15, 2015
soonest:
Hello Dr, please what's the chance of a low lying posterior sited placenta seen at 20 week anomaly scan moving up.
HealthRe: 4D Ultrasound & Doppler Scan: For Pregnant Mothers by soonest(f): 9:19pm On Aug 13, 2015
Hello Dr, please what's the chance of a low lying posterior sited placenta seen at 20 week anomaly scan moving up.
FamilyRe: 20 Costly Mistakes That Married Men Make. by soonest(f): 7:43am On Aug 13, 2015
Imdachick:
I think what he is trying to say is.. we shouldn't wait for our husbands to provide even the littlest things that we can afford.
I get him perfectly. Just as women are being advised not to depend on their husbands financially, men should be advised to take up more house chore roles. I know a man that didn't do his dishes for 3days that the wife travelled.
FamilyRe: 20 Costly Mistakes That Married Men Make. by soonest(f): 7:39am On Aug 13, 2015
passionate88:
There's a thread in which I said that when it's exam period in my school, there is this girl that I ALWAYS visit to put me through some things. There are some girls that are way brighter than I academically.. All what I'm trying to say is, don't depend on your man for every little thing you need when you have a source of income. Men hate that, the only men that will love that are those types that later use it to punish you, those men that will like to alienate you from your friends and families. About washing cloths and cooking, I don't know about other guys, but for me, I know how to cook and I am more capable of washing my cloths myself... And there are some women that one can pay to cook for them and laundry's are everywhere now.
Don't worry i get you. I only wanted to point out there are 2 sides of a coin. Women don't equally like guys that expect them to do all the house chores, care for the kids and also work and contribute to the family coffers. They ain't slaves you know. cool
FamilyRe: 20 Costly Mistakes That Married Men Make. by soonest(f): 10:18pm On Aug 12, 2015
passionate88:
NO. 5 Are you serious?.. That's just f*+kd up!. While at it, can I still pay for pants, her tissues, her paloma, her pad too?. What ever happened to the 'financial independent' that you girls all shout about?. Did you girls attend a different school from us?
As we didn't attend a different school from yours, why should we do your laundry and cook for you. Were you even brighter in school?
RomanceRe: Trick I Use In Catching Potential Rapist by soonest(f): 10:11pm On Aug 12, 2015
deadZONE:
Its shocking when i see Nigerian girls talk
about rape when they be forking 5
different boyfriends....... menh
get over it. whats d difference?
open ur goddamn leg and
pretend is one of ur bf fam!
You desperately need the hand of God in your life with this your mentality. Gosh!!!
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 3:10pm On Aug 10, 2015
emsheddy:
lolz! My apologies My lady for 'making you type a long epistle'. Serves the dude right and the news of the beating will serve as a warning to other intending rapists! Chivalry still exists dear. There are a lot of good guys out there. and there are also a lot of bad guys out there. same thing applies to you female folks. But placing a ban on ladies visiting male friends is on the extreme side oooo!
Lol! Na so una like visit?
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 7:22pm On Aug 09, 2015
emsheddy:
Sweet heart, that doesn't mean you go ahead and label all guys as MOLESTERS! Abi are u trying to tell me that I am correct to assume all ladies are the same? I stand on my point! The signs were there but u threw all cautions to the wind
Lol. Definitely not all guys are rapists, it's just that it's not written on the face.
Let me tell u a true life story that happened to my cousin. There was this guy in her faculty that once stopped her n asked her out and she declined. One day she was coming back from night class in company of her fellow girls,all but her stopped at their logde and hers was some houses away. Do you know that guy waylaid her and almost raped her in the bush but for her shout that attracted people. Trust guys now, they ran after him and caught him. They beat shege out of him and he confessed that my cousin has been doing shakara for him since and that the guy he sees with her is not better than him so he wanted to subdue her. Imagine! Well after beating him they handed him over to the police.
You have made me type long epistle o!
Christianity EtcRe: Post Your Favourite Christian Hymns by soonest(f): 5:09pm On Aug 09, 2015
You must be an Anglican
Armaggedon:
All are my favourite

and now o father mindful of thy love
just as i am without one plea
breathe on me breath of God
halleluia sing to JESUS
ALL creatures of our God and King
hark the herald angel sing
o little town of bettlehem
o come all ye faithful
once in royal David's city
the great physician is here
all hail the power of Jesus name
stand up stand up Jesus
onward christain soldier
to God be the glory great thing..
Praise to the lord the almighty the king of creation
spirit divine attend our prayers
holy spirit faithful guide
immortal invisible God only wise
My God my father while i stray
thou whose almighty word
christian seek not yet repose
God is working his purpose out
For all the saints who from their...
Abide with me fast falls...
We have heard the joyful sound
Jesus live thy terrors now...
Fading away like the stars of...
Rock of ages
guide me oh the great Jehovah

In Igbo

the love that jesus had for me
far far away in heathen land dwelling
we have heard the joyful sound
there is a land that is fairer than day
we plough the field and scatter
when peace like a river
what a friend we have in Jesus
i am but a stranger here
redemption oh wonderful story
i laid my life fo thee
come holy ghost decend from high

uncountable!
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 5:02pm On Aug 09, 2015
dfrost:
Forget about the coherence. Message passed, message received. I'm not above mistakes either owing to typo.

classicB
soonest
yetseyi

Don't be afraid of all men. Don't loose guard either. Shalom.
Lol. Good advice anyway
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 5:01pm On Aug 09, 2015
chigoizie7:
Just like I ve met a lot of female whores, does that in anyway mean that all gals are whores? (U can as well speak for yourself if ur ans is NO) @least a lot of guys can relate to some girls being whores.


My point is.


*all guys are not the same, (there are bad ones, but u don't ve to generalize it.


*i can not support rapists, I can not be a party to people who speak for them or who blame ladies for being vulnerable to rape victims. But ONE thing I know for sure is that prevention is better than cure. I want ladies to do their part and leave the rest to God.



I will stop here. Otherwise. Would throw more light on what I meant.
We are not doing the blame game here. We are talking about rape and i'm happy we agree on prevention being better than cure and that's what the Op is preaching. So it beats me why many guys here will insult the Op and discard the message turning it into a gender fight.
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 3:24pm On Aug 09, 2015
kaeforum:
Just becos a few reckless gals were raped doesnt mean all the guys are dangerous, stop spreading hate on this forum, dont vent your frustrations on the guys , just because they didnt marry u. grin
Listen to yourself please! A few reckless girls. So when a girl is raped she was reckless? Yes not all guys are rapists but with this mindset, what do want people to think
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 3:21pm On Aug 09, 2015
emsheddy:
classicB, Some of my brothers have said it already. If these are the kind of guys u always find yourself with, I advice u go for deliverance my dear. no offence meant. I have had too many female friends, even slept in same room alone with lots of them, without even touching their trouser or skirt, let alone trying to force myself on them. someone needs to drill it into ur head that ALL GUYS are not THE SAME. So whatever made u think of admonishing female folks to never visit male folks is rubbish. If u have a male friend who is always looking at u seductively, or is a womaniser, and u throw all cautions to the wind n chose to visit him alone, that doesn't give u the right to label the entire male folks as MOLESTERS. The signs were there. but u chose not to see them. You have heard what ur male colleagues discuss about ladies, atleast that's an insight to the kind of guys they are. My female friends visit me a lot and prefer to even visit me alone because dat way I give them all d attention they enjoy n want when they visit me. there has never been any attempt to molest, neither will there ever be. You haven't befriend all guys, and so not until u do that, plz do not label all of us as MOLESTERS!
My dear speak for yourself. You don't know the heart of many guys out there. Alot of ladies can relate to the op's post
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 10:41am On Aug 09, 2015
From the comments i see here and the way some persons carry this matter for head, it's obvious many of them are rapists on the prowl. They know themselves
RomanceRe: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by soonest(f): 8:46am On Aug 09, 2015
Girls una don hear am o! Go visiting alone at your risk except you are prepared for what happens next.
Enter lift from strangers at your risk too
Keep late night and walk lonely roads too at your risk.
Please it's better to err on the part of caution.
Above all commit everyday into God's hands.
FamilyRe: Pregnant Again! Advice Please. by soonest(f): 1:23pm On Aug 07, 2015
K9blunt:
Ok let me understand this.... What exactly do you want?

Do you want some abortion advise or just plain old "God is in control" advise cause to me from what you've listed abortion is the answer if I were in your shoes. But first how far off in pregnancy are you before you consider that option.

And biko why is it that inspite of all the education we got on biology in secondary school and then healthcare adverts on Tv most of us women still prefer the ancient method of contraception kwanu?
Someone just listed the options
Condom
Iud
Pills
Injection.
Aren't you educated?
Am so tired of people addicted to putting burdens on their head so they can feel pitied.
Is it that you don't know that these contraceptive methods you mentioned can fail? Mistakes happen that's why it's a mistake. She never mentioned abortion, all she needs is words of encouragement.
Op, it has happened so just try and look at the brighter side of life, may be your greatest child, have heard testimonies like that. Pls 6 weeks after you birth this child, go for a more reliable contraceptive and still follow safe n unsafe period o! All the best
CultureRe: SHOCKING PHOTO! See How King Mswati From Swaziland Select A V!rgin To Marry by soonest(f): 10:34am On Aug 06, 2015
May God save women, such dehumanisation!!! And it's even women that are carrying out the gruesome act. Tuah!
FamilyRe: AT The Age Of 12 Her DAD Still Baths Her In The Bathroom. "Right Or Wrong? by soonest(f): 7:52am On Aug 05, 2015
Truckpusher:
Abusive fathers don't show any form of doting or love to their kids - they start with both physical and sexual abuse.
Though I got your drift. wink
Dats not true. Most are usually very doting and the little girl won't see the abuse coming. A father still bathing his 12year old daughter isn't doting but a suspect.
CultureRe: Why Are Nigerians Naturally Angry? by soonest(f): 2:33pm On Aug 04, 2015
Especially in Benin
FamilyRe: Ladies, Would You Like To Get Married To More Than One Man? by soonest(f): 1:07pm On Aug 04, 2015
No! One wahala is enough i swear
HealthRe: Resident Doctors Ask President Buhari To Probe Teaching Hospitals’ Accounts by soonest(f): 1:02pm On Aug 04, 2015
Na still una. Nigerian health care system shall be great no matter what the devil does.
FamilyRe: What Is This "Hian!"?? by soonest(f): 12:26pm On Jul 31, 2015
Antoinne:
Then it should stay where it belongs: right in the horrible shanties east of the Niger. It has no place in cultured city communication; even much less place on the lips of a sophisticated city girl.
For saying this you must be sick in the head. Hian!! Go ahead and piss on your pant
FoodRe: Please How Can 'ofe Akwu' Be Prepared? What Are The Ingredients? by soonest(f): 10:48am On Jul 31, 2015
Yvete:
Quick question!

How do I make ofe akwu/banga with this concentrated kernel in a jar? Lately, my appetite has been flying through the roof so my cravings are wild. (Can I do without ogiri, dawadawa & okpe? Because my sense of smell is crazy too).

I also need recipes for Ji mmiri oku (yam pepper soup). Thanks.
For Ji mmiri oku, u will need okporoko, dry fish, meat if u wish, crayfish, pepper, pepper soup spice, uda n hiohio(dont know the english names), maggi,salt, utazi and nchanwu and of course yam
Wash your okporoko and steam then add meat and with onion,pepper n salt to taste. Later add your dry fish.
Add ur peeled yam( i use old yam dat takes time to cook so that it can absorb the flavour and i also cut them fat)
Add ur uda(if u r preg don't use) and hiohio (urhobo women sell it, it's a long spice, don't know what they call it)
Add your pepper soup spice and crayfish
When your yam is done add ur shredded nchanwu and utazi and your Ji mmiri oku is done
Note: easy with the pepper as you don't use oil in the preparation. Also it's little utazi that is used because it's a bitter vegetable
EducationRe: BSU Medical Student Commits Suicide Over Expulsion After 10 Years In School by soonest(f): 8:38pm On Jul 26, 2015
Barselonia:
I don't know Why if woman are in power,they feel like God.....

That was one of my prayer point when I was in school that I don't want a woman to be my project supervisor and my prayer was answered. ...

Just imagine.. .. a woman v.c.... people do say a lady Have a soft mind.....Na lie oo
Medical student spend 10years and after everything make he withdrawal from school.....

Suo.... kilode.... what can fa undecided
Your misogynistic outlook on life stinks. Did the woman make the law? Can she single handedly change the law? What's the Senate for? FYI, if you fail resit twice you fail out even if you have spent 20years. It's unfortunate the poor guy took his life so never you blame the VC or let alone make it a woman thing. Hope i have made my self clear

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