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Best thing that can happen to anyone is a sack. It may come hard and depressing especially if you work for a top notch firm with a good pay check and position. Overtime, you would figure it’s one of the best things that can happen to you. It’s a moment of self discovery, you would imagine and do things you would never have done and believe me, it’s not like if you did your job better, you would have had your job. Just like you are aware, the office politics are there. Come on, you did your best and if you didn’t, you didn’t just like the job. It means it was the right thing for you either ways.

jedisco:
They should let crypt0 be and fix the Naira which is in an abysmal state...if not, our reserves one day may be in bitc0in or the country may go borrowing in bitc0in from the likes of Tesla to fund projects.

Others have opposed it and later came around...

the world is confused..

Eventually, this greed is what will chase these banks out of business. They should wait till likes of flutterwave and paystack enable savings business models just like piggyvest.

RoyalBlu:
..."That is so sweet of you. My husband and I and our four children really appreciate your show of affection"


Why drag the children into this. The post reeks so much of immaturity. IMO.

she meant family. I believe that's her own way of calling family- each one. it sounds immature to you not everyone

Indeed a lawless nation. With the outrageous profits this banks declare. Can’t we just do business that will benefit us all. The time of this banks are limited. I hear the banks are planning to compete with fintechs. That will be the beginning of their end. This same banks have killed mobile money ideas like Mpesa.

you are bothered about what your husband is doing and have changed to instead of bothering about what you can do and can change- typical of most ladies anyways. unfortunately, you will fall into the hands of someone who is able to satisfy your wishes at this time and find out later that the man you married is way better than who you messed up with. You can only find happiness in any relationship if you bother more about yourself and how you can add value. Stop seeing and finding faults instead look for where to add value and encouragement.

Man wey give you belle before he meets your family is questionable. Beware single ladies. Not all the sweet words, gifts and all matter. Those things change with time. Pray to God for wisdom to choose wisely.

He that is in honour and knoweth it not is like a beast that perisheth

A case of trying to give sight to the blind but the blind doesn’t realize he is even blind as he was born blind. He has never experienced light. Unfortunately, there are more blind men in Nigeria.

This has been happening for more than 4 years... where are the climate change envagelist?

HolySpiritFire:
Alas! Dangote is not as smart as the public thought!
SMH.

it’s not about being smart. Sometimes you just want to be honest with people and enjoy time with them and they mess it up. 10 years is a long time. It means they have moments together and there is something beyond her body that attracted Dangote. Believe me there are a thousand and ones “classier” ladies Dangote have turned down. But just as it is, humans will always misbehave. JeffBezos didn’t care about how much he was going to loose to his wife, he was fully aware and was ready to own responsibility for the outcome of his affair with the other lady. I think the lady feels she is being dumped gradually , perhaps there is someone taking her space a reason for all these.

you just by all means want your mum to come, perhaps you are more concerned about pleasing your mum than your husband. please listen to your husband and do what he wants. He has told you he wants the relationship to work and that is what you should be bothered about. stop looking for someone's weakness. work on yours, he will become a better person when you work on yours.

sapphiere:
Great!

are you saying females aren’t existing now. Post like this already makes a girl child feel she isn’t existing

One is with Shell, the other one is in ministry, one is balling in Europe. It’s pays to be diligent. Hard work pays.

Ucheosefoh:
I see the positive side of it because I'm a digital marketer.

Adding a WhatsApp placement on the ad manager will be an added advantage to Facebook marketers.

You can't be afraid of data when you use Facebook and Instagram own by the parent company of WhatsApp na the same data you gave them just that Facebook decide to make use of over 1 billion people asset.

If you are Mark will you ignore making money from your assets?
If you feel comfortable seeing ads on gmail you have no reason to complain if you start seeing ads on WhatsApp.

they influence loads with those data. Like election, investment and loads. They are having more than what they should have.

Regulate social media before it takes your government. Now the government of every country should influence the terms and conditions available to their countries otherwise they won’t be allowed. Facebook isn’t popular in Russia. I am not sure they use it. Remember the Cambridge saga during the last election. If not regulated this social media will work with politicians to influence elections with the data they have. It’s clear, they will rule the world. For someone like Merkel to raise concerns means loads.

I wonder why any sane American will think what’s happening now started four years ago. I can’t wait for 2025. I ll look for this post. America is crashing. What you see now is a pointer to greater nonsense to happen- Trump or No Trump. The country is greatly divided.

What’s the essence of having a passport? Why can’t NIN be your passport number. Why can’t NIMC be under immigration? You just have leaders who can’t sit and think well... simple. Country of anyhowness

cococandy:
Whatever led to the stroke probably led to the cardiac arrest too. Hyperlipidemia is a silent culprit.

If he spoke with the kids just this past thanksgiving, that means he probably was still having a good relationship with the kids. How do people know she told him he wasn’t the father? Only her knows who the true father is.

People should stop saying that’s what killed him when that’s not an empirical measure of cause of death.

A good man can’t hate kids he had known to be his from their birth. Love is beyond blood and that is what that man got for the kids. He didn’t love them because he thought they were his seeds. Christ loved us even when we were sinners.

Mynd44:
Lets pause ooo. What did this guy do wrong?

There is no evidence that the company has a policy preventing sexual relationships among staff
He did not assault her
He did not use his office to threaten her into sex so what exactly did he do?

I won't be shocked if the bank sacks him as he has brought their name into the mud but if he did anything ethically wrong? Nope.

If anyone did wrong, it is the cheating wife. She was the one who swore an oath to her husband and cheated (yes, I will say the same thing about side chicks and married men)

customers might have to come first this time. If the customers says he should go, then he will go. We can be guided even if there are no laws

hellohgy:
One advice I will give anybody planning to invest this year is to try as much as possible to invest in CRYTOCURRENCY.


Bitcoin is currently at 33k dollars, and it is still pumping.

In fact financial specialist predict BTC hitting 100k dollars this year.

imagine if you had bought BTC at 20k dollars.....


There is never a late time to enter the crypto market.


Crypto currency is the way...

Bad advice. Money market is about the hardest and riskiest to invest. This is because it is subject to control of some group of persons. Just like Forex. I bet you, bitcoin can fall to one dollar by June. Money market requires experience, understanding and knowledge and not just people should rush at because it’s all time high. Ask the bureau de change people, they will advice you more.

pocohantas:
Safe journey sweetie.

Tell your gender to stop cheating. For every paternity fraud- there is a cheating man.

for every? You sound like you are working with data. Are you? Share link you got the data?

ANDREW91:
It is the responsibility of the couple to respect their union. The outsider has no stake and doesn't care. Na to chop clean mouth

the woman doesn’t really care you know. Men Should just pray to meet good women. I know someone who ransacked her supposed husband house , carted with dollars and relocated to US. The Moyo girl is just misguided. She may think the children will have some entitlement to the man’s wealth. It doesn’t really work that way. The destinies of those children are in God’s hand. For me obsessions with possessions and material things are strong signs ... I don’t go near.

The wickedness that goes on in this world hen, if you don’t have Christ, one may run mad. Some even claim to be part time pastors and they sleep with their sub ordinates. It’s a crazy world. Never trust anyone. Especially women. Even the great Solomon who had 300 wives and 700 concubines talks about a virtuous woman. Meaning a virtuous woman is scarce as gold. If you get one, no loose guard.

Toks2008:
Continue to rant.

Pray life doesn't happen to you then you will be forced to embrace reality.

Cheers.

argue with points. What gives you the assurance that a polygamous man won’t be a cheating dog. It’s simple, The issue is not about polygamy but about the individuals in the relationship which the thread is all about.

Toks2008:
You have no idea...

Polygamy is the answer to the marital prayers of many ladies so there is nothing bad in the idea if a man decides to tow the path... Far better than adultery and philandering...

And for the Yoruba adage I guess you are very wrong... It is when you put two ladies under same roof that you are brewing trouble so if any man must marry two or more wives it is best he puts them far far away from each other.

Any woman who leaves her husband cos he takes a second wife is a compound fool cos sooner than latter she will realize that it is better to know that your hubby is with another lady than to fool yourself with one guy who claims to be married to only you but sleeps around like a mad dog with many ladies.

An strangely enough, it is in the genes of ladies to share a man but they try to live a lie but when faced with a crucial preference to choose what is more beneficial to them, they would rather be a third wife of a man that has lots to offer rather than be the número uno of a guy who has nothing to offer so who is fooling who?

you always sound so confident of what you are saying and I sincerely I don’t know where this confidence comes from. You are always confident of your half/ false knowledge. Polygamy is worst than adultery and infidelity in this present day. Haven’t you heard some women who says just don’t bring her home or get her pregnant. It is even better this days to put two women under same roof. My experience coming from a polygamous home with the wives living in different states is not something I would want to even share. It’s daunting and it’s been God’s mercy coping with the emotional trauma. How about a man coping with a woman who sleeps around? Haven’t you heard of men who commit suicide because they found the children who calls them daddy aren’t theirs? Is there any polygamous story in the Bible that was perfect? The best advice is to remain faithful. One man one wife.

Naija hard oo. To do business is harder than getting a job in Nigeria. It takes average 5 to 10 years to break even as a business man in Nigeria. I mean without cutting corners and not doing the start up Mantra around. Forget all those stuffs you read on media about one company raising thousands of dollars. Naija no be Canada. Many of those don’t have the right foundation.

Nigeria is cheap, to make money is harder. If you make money, you can give yourself healthcare, electricity and the basic necessities. Canada is expensive but easier to make money and have the basic necessities in place. Once rich in Nigeria, it is easier to remain rich and get richer. It is easier to make money in Canada but quite difficult to be rich. It’s about knowing what you want.

Everyone has one issue they are battling with. Is not about money. When you are in the circle of the rich, you will know that money can’t give happiness. Even the wealthy Solomon called wealth vanity and called life itself vanity. This is how God designed the earth for man after the fall. To be limited and not find satisfaction in the earth, it was said dust shall he return. Until man returns to dust, there will be that want, vacuum and space that only God can fill. That is why you find that even the poorest persons on earth who have God at the Centre of their lives, live happier and longer most times. Cast your burdens on God, he won’t fail you. Give your heart wholly to him and you will find peace here on earth.

Data should be free. Where the money is really is what people do with data. Imagine paying money to go to the market, you will agree with me that the traders in the market will make lesser money. The real value is in what people do with the data, you make money from people with what they need and do with their lives. AT$T in America rented out phones until they started selling the phones, they didn’t break out. There was innovation as they customers had the phones in their hands.

Make the truth bare and face the consequence. Otherwise, you won’t like the end of this. Was your husband faithful for the 11 years he was alone, I doubt. Lie and cheating never helped anyone in a relationship. So tell the truth.

Claudiusdeux:
And Sanda just had her appeal rejected recently

She is going to face the music. The evidence was just too much.

she says she is going to Supreme Court, yes she will face the music. It’s her right to go to court but does this show remorse of any kind. You no wan die but you fit kill. Violence is not particular to any gender. Woman this, man that does more harm in the end