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InvertedHammer:
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She said, “real men don’t beat their wives”

In other words, if you are not a real man, feel free to beat your wife.

What defines a real man? She needs to expatiate so that those who don’t fall into any of the categories can start doing the needful.

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and the way the world is now that people decide who they want to be, so for some persons, they don’t wanna be a real man. There is no award or prize money for being the realest man. Truth is many of these “advisers and motivational talkers” do more harm than good trying to make a point.

When it comes to women, we hear everyone talk. No one has advised Maryam sanda to accept her fate and die. She is moving from one court to the other. Violence is not peculiar to one gender. Another human is not rehabilitation for the other would pass the right message.

Beey:
Congratulations! Though I don’t understand why people say late Mr & Mrs invite you.....I mean they are dead & can’t really send an invitation. I think it’s better for the couple to just put down their own names as the people sending out the invitation.

they are not the ones sending an invitation, it is the families. That is why it is read and written “the families of late”

The only thing you ought to have achieved is to know that thoughts, words and actions are seeds, so you put considerations into these things and have a focus for your life whilst making God the centre point. Don’t use another man’s achievement as your bench mark. We have different purpose in life thus different times to each one. Time and chance happeneth to us all. Abraham was called at 75 whilst some persons became king at 15 some 22. Jesus didn’t start his Ministry until 30 and see what he did within 3 years. My advice is for you is to have mentors who are living well. People you think have wisdom that you need and hold to them.

sweetmelanin:
This is the MISTAKE that Peter made. Peter lost two brothers for his wife Lola. Well I hope he's truly happy

Paul definitely had more fun on their birthday and it seems more celebrities are on his side.

I wonder if these two will ever reconcile.

A man should and must always choose his wife over every other person. Happiness is a thing of the mind not what people see.

sweetmelanin:
I'm a woman and I disagree. No one should have to put up with anyone they don't like.
They left him alone with his wife since he made his choice.

nonsense post. Are you better than anyone that you have someone you don’t like till the point you can come online to show hate. We know who have problems. We know the persons who can’t respect a woman. I pity the women married to them. 4 years and you don’t want hate to go and coming to banter with another man’s wife online. It’s like someone who commits murder blaming the devil and people agree to blame the devil with him. No you blame the murderer for allowing the devil use him . Paul is senseless to have come blame lola. When a man marries, his wife comes first every other person is next including his mother and nuclear family.

ThatFairGuy:
Trump is just too undemocratic. He's too desirous of that position, he's very different from The Whites.
When I read his history, his high-handedness didn't just started today

whilst Goodluck Jonathan may have been applauded for accepting defeat, it is not really an acceptable behavior when you have proofs there was fraud in a process. Try fight small now, that’s what men do. Don’t just be cheated. Call it undemocratic, I call it being a tenacious fighter. When you don’t give up sometimes, people start coming to your side especially when you are a performer. Trump is a performer even though he may have a “bad character” as alleged.

grandiose4ever:
After thinking of the over 200 million worth of alcohol destroyed in Northern Nigeria. I began to think about the negative impact of imported religion in Northern Nigeria.

Whichever way you see it, the south is still benefiting from Religion. The religious centers in the south have no direct hold on the political structure of the south but still benefits the people both directly or indirectly through tourism, job creation, education and even healthcare services.

Imagine, over 30 private varsities in Nigeria were birthed by Churches. They are not free but generate jobs and lessen burden on govt universities.

UBA has 12000 staff. Imagine a church recruiting 10,200 Pastors who would be paid monthly irregardless of the income generated from these branches. That would touch at least an extended 50,000 people in their families. I have a friend who had no job for a while now and has been employed by the church as a pastor. Being paid for doing what he loves. Congrats to all of them.

may the Lord bless you.

Throwback:
This is the man religious fanatics want us to believe he is a demon and 1st son of Lucifer, while their white preachers from America whom they listen to spew all the garbage, are some of the most racist of humans in America.

The same bible belt region of America is the same racist and intolerant region of America.

The same ones who supported the KKK and vehemently resisted the desegregation of America. The same ones who believe it is their God given rights to own machine guns.

Till today, they hardly vote for the Presidency the same Democratic party that was once their own pride, for daring to pass racial equality laws by the Kennedy/Johnson administration that was a Democratic party government.

why is that a black man complains of racism more than looking for ways to gain his own freedom. I wonder if the Chinese complain about racism at all. If you think racism is what one man can end because he doesn’t say it, you must be joking.

IamPlato:
dont forget that the masses can be wrong

.Let me tell you something, if you have a parent who allows you do whatever you want, allows you make decisions without guiding you on right and wrong or a parent that does the opposite, who would you appreciate more?

Trump is rude, arrogant, unapologetically blunt, smart, tough, stubborn, his approach to success is different from the methods of Obama and Co.

Trump loves and cherishes America, he boasts about his country and is quick to criticize countries that are failing.

Trump called Nigeria a shit hole, was he lying? He said “Nigeria the giant of Africa imports every thing including match stick, did he lie?

Trump would rather tell you straight in the face that “what you said is the most stupid thing I have ever heard” instead of saying “I’m sorry what you said is not the right thing to say”
He is blunt and it’s natural of him to be, if you can’t deal with truth then avoid trump

Trump Has Never Been A Perfect person And No Motherfvcker on Earth Is Perfect.

But Trump Is Far Better Than Biden... America Wants To Make The Same Foolish Mistake Nigerians Made By Voting In Buhari


Trump Is Better Than Obama...

Every person criticizing Trump will not do better if given a chance at the seat of power.

If the problems of a country are put before you as a leader you might lose your sanity.

Trump has done everything thing possible to make his country and the world a peace place but there are too many enemies against him. His method and bluntness of ruling is what people don’t like. Trump his bitterly honest, he doesn’t care if you like it or not, all he knows is that he has got to do that which is right.


Any Fvcking Nigerian Who Says Trump His Racist Should Have Their Tongue Cut Off, show Me A Nigerian Who Is Not Tribalistic, motherfvckin hypocrites



Trump Is A Straight Up Man compared To The Likes Of Obama who Has Other Motives.


Trump Rules Like A Father Or King, if Americans Want Something if He Sees Its Not Right for Them And Could Be Against God or Have Tough Consequences then He Wouldnt Give It. Its Like Refuse To Let You Teenage Child date A Guy, she Will Hate You For It Today But Love You for It Tomorrow


Trump stood against abortion and people attacked him, well Bleep you. Abortion is murder, deal with the truth

Everybody blaming trump for corona virus, you surely didn’t expect trump to magically stop millions from dying, nobody even knows for sure when the virus entered the country because anyone could have the virus and no machine can detect it quick enough. The virus entering the country was not trump’s fault. But the democrats want to eat his brains because of it



I Am Sure Americans That Still Have Brains In Their head Could See That. The Democrats Used That Virus Strongly Against Him To Make Him look Foolish.


At Least I Know The Foolish Ones now.


Whether Trump Wins Or Loses Trump Is Far more smarter.

Trump Loves America More Than The Democrats do

Trump successfully negotiated peace between two countries of different religions, he did it twice, would Obama do that?


If they want Biden then Good Luck to them

The Lord bless you.

Virginity is part of character!

A number of business experts advised that you don’t lockdown an economy or organization because of an outbreak. You manage it not lockdown. The result in an economy like ours can last for over a year. They insisted on lockdown because they wanted to hoard palliatives. Was there even an outbreak of Covid in Nigeria?

TheEnforcer:
Absolutely, she has peripheral understanding and she alluded to that herself. And the other candidate seems to have a direct understanding. We cant forget her role under Jonathan where billions and trillions were looted while presiding as co coordinating minister. Some incompetence there.

even in very standard organizations, there are cases of fraud and theft. Fraud is not usually a metric used in evaluating leadership skills because even a competent subordinate may be a thief. It won’t stop him from delivering value.

contigiency:
If US succeed with this rigging. Then I see no reason other countries should not withdraw their membership from WTO. This is an eye opener to those who thinks Trump is interested in anything good about Nigeria. They went rejoicing and hailing Trump, simply because he insulted buhari. I wonder what they will do now that he is insulting our revered Okonjo Iweala.

why should Trump care about Nigeria when your leaders don’t care about you. Fix your country and people will look to favor you.

Eriokanmi:
The staff is gone for life. It's a sign of a bad thing soon to be fall the king. Disappearance of the staff of office means, no king in the palace and for this to have happened, it means his choice as king had been compromised by the kingmakers. The right person was denied that throne, simple.

on top of that, he had to run away. He should have just gone exile. I thought they said where the words of a king are there is power and authority.

That was the plan. Monitize the food stuff. NYSC will be buying at a cheaper price. Win win for corruption.

maak400:
Ritual rites that couldn’t protect oba from hoodlums invasion and looting of the palace

I wonder oo. Bunch of jokers

The rich need to speak up and see to good governance in Nigeria. Many of them seem to be silent perhaps because they benefit from the government. The situation in Nigeria is an alarming one and if not taken care of, it might lead to a war. War no know rich man ooo. Investment will be gone in seconds.

Ustec:
A new special anti robbery squad unit will soon be established.
Every country's police in the world have a special anti robbery unit, ours can't be different, they will only reform and change the name to a new one.

reform doesn’t really work. Change will come when every citizen truly wants change including the police. Until then the cycle continues then there is a war and every body gets their senses.

If I like and retweet something doesn’t mean I agree with it. I might just want my followers to see it. He didn’t have to say it was an error, it may complicate things.

Meliann:
Delta is not "Yoruba". Dey there. That's when you go know say Yoruba people get juju. Ask the dead Fulani cows.

why do they have to wait for it the stolen. How come it was army that saved the Oba? All these ones Na threat. They should do what they want to.

MickzyDonald:
They will never admit their faults

I wonder if the policemen who killed innocent citizens aren’t product of hate. This is the most irresponsible government ever. Imagine giving warning to international bodies.

Must he mention Ameachi

It’s clear ..... the days of oil is gone.

yemobrown:
Federal government discontinued business transactions with Intel possibly to weaken Atiku Abubakar's 2023 presidential bid.

Intel no longer has business to sustain the numerous employees they have on their books. Lack of business has rendered the employees redundant.

Intel did not render it's staffs redundant, their business partners did, through discontinuation of business transactions with Intel.

By tomorrow, you will see headline as Atiku sacks Nigerian worker's.

All this is about 2023

is Atiku loyal to the state government? Is he loyal to Rivers people?

VaselineCrew:
Then we as citizens should start recording, recording, recording and posting on social media.

The alternative would be to give up.

If you don't want to do it overtly, you can get spy glasses, spy pens, buttons, in fact, you can put a camera on almost anything these days.

The solution is with the police leadership themselves. https://www.analyticsinsight.net/can-police-brutality-reformed-using-artificial-intelligence/

This link explains how they can leverage technology to better performance

Chicastle:
The minimum requirements to join Nigerian police or Sars should be at least NCE .

While those with SSCE shouod be send back as guards

I quite agree. The intelligence of a SSCE holder back then cannot be compared to the ones now. I want to believe this is a reason for all these. Pointer to the fact that we need to revamp our educational system

Jafar1:
it's not gonna work that way...
There is no way u expect a citizen to stop armed men from searching him/her...
No go fight SARS becos IGP say make dem no search u oo.
Those people don't care whether it's ur right or not..
Life no get part 2..

The best thing is to just avoid them!

officers are only supposed to search for things which pose a threat to another man. Things like gun, bombs e.t.c not your personal laptops and phones. That’s privacy infringement. There should be a warrant before they do all of that. Meaning they should have enough intelligence that the person in question is a suspect for a crime. We should be the change we want by doing the right things. These are not to hard to obey. Has any of the SARS officers turned a millionaire by extortion. There needs to be more training to help their intelligence.

marsman:
Because he prefers one to one, doesn't mean Tribalism. Netflix is on a wider scale, even most Nigerians use Netflix

if you understand my post you will figure that I am against the bolded. ROK has the opportunity to become the Netflix for Africa. Netflix is on a wider scale, I agree but do you know how long it took for a Nigerian movie to come on there.. point is ,They didn’t see Value and haven’t seen the whole value. ROK has seen the value and this has opportunity to advance the nation, the entertainment and entertainers themselves. Part of my point he should have encouraged ROK by mentioning them and advocating their interest.

The reality is you don’t have to be in Switzerland to capitalize on this opportunity. Many employers will be looking towards this region as labor is cheaper and covid has made remote work new normal. The question is are you upskilling? You don’t have to curse Nigeria, that’s not what the thread is about.

ROK is doing exactly the same thing Netflix is doing but many Nigerian entertainers would prefer to be on Netflix than ROK. I didn’t read it to the end but he didn’t mention ROK when he mentioned Netflix- does this confirm the tribal allegation? I tell you the business model of ROk can be explored and it will benefit these actors more. How many states in Nigeria had cinema 7 years ago. Cinemas have been around, the idea was killed and now is luxury and big deal to many. What makes movies interesting is having to view it when I want, at my convenience not when cinema says, besides in weeks, movies are available for downloads. Platforms like Can increase competitiveness. If only the opportunities can be genuinely explored with no conflicting interests, there won’t be need for some laments.

SmartPolician:
Some of them who have sense must have had some savings. So, they are definitely big boys.

It's only those who don't understand the importance of saving that will go broke.

By and large, they should be able to set up a business or return to another oil company with their rich portfolio and connection

it sounds easy when it is spoken but not the reality. Are you forgetting that these guys have a standard of living. They drive select cars, live in select houses and have so many select services. The savings won’t last more than a year believe me. For many, they might fail at business as it’s the first time trying to run one. Most First time business owners fail at it. The oil industry is very unattractive, starting a company to service the industry now might be a wrong investment. The connection you mentioned are also looking for opportunities to stay relevant. I was in this situation 4 years ago, thank God I have come out stronger. I pray the affected workers find a way to pull through and weather this situation.