₦airaland Forum

Slynation:
The cost of living now is so high...The market now is if you don't have money, just enter your house, E tire me when I realized 30K can only get me 2 pair of jeans and one top...!!

Jesus! Are you for real bro! 30k for 2 jean and a shirt

mbahdi:
Good.even d useless prof osibadjo there are trying to sample to d gullible nigerians.anything apc sud be rejected in all angle.even if my father come out under apc.am ain't voting him

including PDP guy. Those two parties are same forget what buhari had put us through o

If this country get sense eh, another party entirely with young viable candidate wey get track record should be considered not old men

Jim99:
If he doesn't drop money he's irresponsible, if he only drops money he's still irresponsible.

Confused beings.

Doing both or none completely doesn't stop the children from loving their beloved mother more than fathers

It's natural

Jim99:
There's nothing to ponder on. How about you let Men advise Men?

And focus that energy on advising women on how not to be manipulative moms, especially with the children.

If you are a responsible father or man who doesn't believe in just dropping money and you automatically assume you've done heaven and earth. If you follow up with your child upbringing no woman would manipulate such child against you

Morenikeji090:
That's why mother will keep remaining the favorite. It's natural... Women got more love than men to children.... For example check from animal.... You gonna see how female animal handle there child... Fact remain mother will always win...

That is what they don't know. They are attempting to fight nature.

Children will forever continue to love their mothers much more than fathers, take it or live it.

VULCAN:
One of the things you should stop this year is being a contrarian for the joy of it without engaging in critical thinking.

The OPs piece is brilliant.

He took time to give a complete background, identified the problem correctly and gave wonderful solutions that can be expanded upon then you came along and exposed your utter inability to understand the post.

The statement about military men that are father's is so pointless-you imply that they never go home. One wonders how you came to that conclusion.

What's fascinating about your lack of comprehension is that OPs solution is designed to work perfectly for father's who are away from home often. How did you manage to miss that

As I read your piece I was sure you were a teenage girl but thankfully you identified yourself at the end.

Have a change of heart this year and engage in rational thinking before responding to issues.

Any point that doesn't sooth Nairalanders the next is assumption

None of his comments denotes that the person is a lady talkmore of a teenage girl

He raised a brilliant point and you couldn't oppose it intelligently but resorts to mere assumption

Akuruoulo:
Men in ur family to be precised

No, any alpha and omega

omonla10:
Nigeria is too unpredictable.. U might be fully employed today and unemployed with zero income in 2 months.. Ur theories work in the Western world. Naija na d home of the unknown

Probably the reason behind the campaign of poor guys not to consider marriage yet until they can stand on their feet. Since Nigeria is a state of the unknown

Who knows the poverty level might increase after one might have gotten married

PrinceMajestic:
it will be nice but the surname is the issue. Only our surname can give u such leverage on this particular job your surname is not ours, it can't work and I'm sure my bro already sold the slot since nobody wanted the slot in the house. Lol, sorry man

Oh no!

When i thought i would finally have something doing as a responsible Nigeria youth. It is well.

PrinceMajestic:
Is this recruitment limited to only Deltans? Or I didn't understand what I read? This is same job my bro was called to come get high rank without training but he dodged it and shifted it to me, me sef dodge am. I can only leave the lucrative Arts and Agric bizness for legislative job or related

Give me the slot na, make we rubb mind together

ayusco85:
There are several ways to sire a male child according to some legends and folk lore.

1. Face your wife to the North when making love.

2. Make sure your wife doesnt take lemon, its baby girl fertilizer

3. Doggy style is proven to deliver male child, the position ensures closeness to the womb and the Y chromosome which is faster but dies quicker than the slower X chromosome will reach the eggs faster in that position.

4. Have long dick so u can touch ur wifes womb and that way the Y chromosome will hit the target on time before the slower X chromosome

5. Pray

If he no con get long dick nko?

ecomalchemist:
If you have clay and cement, you can mold a baby boy and put in your wife's womb.

Thank you.

okine4real:
Fathers and Mothers. Pls ohh. Myself and my wife, we trying to have a child this year, and we want a Male child. Male Child or nothing else. In fact i just Pray this time it works because trouble FIT dey.

Now my question is, as anybody in the house every tried the method of making love to you wife on the day of her Ovulation and the sex happens to be a Male child?

I have read to much article and the one that got my attention the most was, IF YOU WANT A MALE CHILD, MAKE LOVE TO YOUR WIFE A DAY TO HER OVULATION DAY OR ON HER EXACT OVULATION DAY. Please whom have tired this method and what is the success rate? I nor get money for IVF, so dont tell me say make i go do am ohh, because i heard its not cheap.

Regards

Abeg help save this marriage.

avoid sex with her completely and study her ovulation period for some months. Having gotten it then you can have sex with her the very first day of her ovulation.

Whichever sex the child's turn out to be, just know that you are responsible for that and not your wife. Men spermatozoa is the sole determinant of child sex and not woman's egg

Equity15:
you're wrong about men moving on easily. The reason women do not re-marry is majorly because only few men are ready to house widows. Especially widow, with more than 1 kid

Is it not same men who can't hold themselves for just a year right? Take it from me Men move on so easily than women when it comes to death. Reason why women referred to Men as dog. Men moves easily because they'd easily outsource their responsibility to someone else in his or the wife family and believe all he needs is to provide money which makes them free to wander about
Besides, men aren't emotionally attached to their kids just few of them

Also, there are men who would marry widow or single mother with lots of children. Yes! She doesn't neccesarily had to move into the man's house with all the children. They can be with her parents and probably go with just 1. But most of them are emotionally attached with their children and they consider then first in any decision taken. Reason why they rather singlehandedly raised them than getting remarried and move into the man's house. Mind you women can cope and survive without sex unlike we men who can't even hold ourselves just for a year

omonla10:
I did all these when I was broke over ten years ago.. But now, I have most things I ever dreamt of..

My dear, there's nothing like the grace of God.. I know some people that were comfortable 10 years ago and can barely feed themselves now..

Sir! You can't risk marriage and be hoping on God's grace. Today, Nigeria is the capital of poverty which resulted from breeding incessant kids. Sir, are you telling me God doesn't have grace upon Nigerians to be the capital of poverty? Are you telling me that God doesn't have grace upon my parents who's married for over 30 years and we barely eat 3 square meal, done with school no job and many more?

OlawaleBammie:
i understand u but do u know women are manipulative?? Most of dem but not all.

Am currently with my gf as we speak, my atm is with her, she's withdrawing money from my account to run the house as usual and a no mind as i am not the tym.

Yesterday one of her customer gave her money but she kept it in her handbag , this morning we she was goin out she told me she would love to eat vegetable soup, out of the 2600 that was in the ous, (the change remaining from yesterday) she took 1100 and left 1500 for me, i ask why she said 1k should be enough as its only vegetable and fish she want to buy. But as a caring man, i told her to take another 1k from the 1500 she left behind and bring the change without minding that she has her own money which she can contribute.

Let now assume we hav a kid or two, out of the 2100 i gave her she buys things if 500 for the kids, dat is when u will see her telling the kids that its her money she's spending on dem and how she suffers to make those monies. instead of apportioning my credit to me, noo dey would want to claim all

Yeah you are right. Some mothers are manipulative no doubt. I think it's naturally in women's nature to manipulate except those who chose not to utilise it.

But come to think of it, is it still possible for mothers to manipulate their grown children? Like children who is way above 18 and possibly in the university or done with school? I felt it's almost impossible to achieve that because those children are grown, wiser and smarter to fall for their mother manipulative tactics.

Also you know as Africans. They assume even if your mother abandoned you for another man and you became a successful young man. It's expected of you to look after your mother. They'd start preaching how she carried you for 9 months, gave birth to you, such her breast and many more. That alone will wash off her sins you get

Qatar2022:
I still maintain my stand that you're not married because if you do, you won't be saying this

My father isn't married yet for him to know that children tend to love their mothers more than the fathers right?

Qatar2022:
Kids talking trash , soon you will got married

Even fathers know that children loves their mother much more than them. They understand the bond from womb mother shares with the children and after birth. They understand the pain and risk she took in having the children. They understand the sleepless night, the tears when the children aren't in good condition and they have come to terms with that

We love both parents no doubt. Nonetheless, the mothers love will always outweigh that of the fathers to some extent

OlawaleBammie:
ahh no na

As una dey talk like say father no get responsibilities at all.

I remember wen my mum left my dad

I remember how mu dad would lock me and my younger sister indoor by night and went to farm amidst insecurity in the town just to get us food to eat before its dawn, if not we would go to school empty stomached

I remember wen my dad would leave wateva he's doing in the evening just to cook for us

I remember how my father was running helter-skelter just to pay for my waec and neco

I remember how he sold property to pay my bills

And one oponu will be telling me that mother cares is more than the father care, dont get me wrong, my mother had her on impact, she did well for me wen i was in higher institution but i cant compare it with the suffering and the shame my father borne cus of us.


Make i gat money first, my parent go enjoy wella but my papa go know say he born pikin[b], i pray God keep both alive for me[/b]

Amen!

Akuruoulo:
Simp
Are some mother's not useless ?

Alpha most men are useless compare to women

Kaybae:
That's my reason, you married like Two wives on top my mama and you want me to love you equally, No way. I will give my mother 90% because she is packed to one corner because of new wife.

I'm from a nuclear family and i love my mother more than my father

This isn't about choice of family. It's almost natural for children to love their mothers more than their fathers except otherwise

ogwuche4u:
That's because the dad is always hustling and bustling to put food on the table for the man. The mom most time doesn't do anything but provide emotional support to the children and that's why children are drawn to their mother. Honestly, the sacrifices of father for their children outweighs that of the mother.

You all think money, money and money is everything. Raising a responsible children goes beyond just money

See eh, if that father died those children will still live and survived with the love of their mother

But if a woman died in the house. Likelihood that those children will be maltreat and abused. A woman who had 4-5kids may chose to remain single and look after her kids

But Men hardly do that sir. The few ones who does that would definitely have side chicks taking his attention

It's easier for men to move on so easy and quickly after the death of his wife unlike the women

The children sees all these sir

You can't compare the love of someone who carried you for months and risk her life during child birth. Nurtured you with countless sleepless night. And you expect the children to love their fathers more than mothers because of money right?

OlawaleBammie:
u no say a no quote u ooh

Goan take care of ur mother and leave ur father in penury cus he deserves it

Mr who told you we would leave our fathers in penury? Fathers who lives under the same roof with the mother?

Biko say something else

CondemnBattery:
If you are a Christian, please read your Bible very well. The blessing or a father is
next to God's blessing. Don't catch cruise with everything for the sake of likes

I only know islam emphasise on mothers. I know biblically both parents were emphasised in proverb

I'm yet to see where fathers was singlehandedly mentioned in bible unlike quoran that emphasised solely on mothers

TheManOfTheYear:
Ode, I don't hate my mum, I love both equally.

And that's how it should be, except one has been irresponsible

And who told you we don't love both equally Mr?

OlawaleBammie:
relax bro, give it some decades u will understand, karma is real

please What is the karma there please? Showing love for both parents but the mothers love was way higher and you are here saying karma

It's natural most children love their mothers more than their fathers and there's nothing you can do about that

Harshirama:
Please what about Batch A Stream 2(2021)?

No official date yet

HenryDion:
You're a simp. It's as simpLE as that ... No argument!

Then you are alpha and omega right? Congratulations

TheManOfTheYear:
Lol, I've been reading your posts, and to be very honest, you aren't making sense with this mentality.
Just kuku tell us that your dad wasn't so responsible, cuz all these points you're making is not valid.

It's your choice to love and possibly hate your mother

It's also your choice to love both either

HenryDion:
YES... You don't deserve a dicck for undermining the hard work of your father.

And who told you i undermined the work of my father biko? It's natural for children to love their mothers more than their fathers

I mean mothers who stood with their fathers through thin and thick

HenryDion:
You're just a hardened simp

For loving my beloved mother more than my father ba?

So apt