₦airaland Forum

GOOOGLE504:
Truly it's not easy. Try not to do wuru-wuru-to-the-answer because you earn by making others cry, do not be idle, find something doing in the meantime to keep you busy.

If you are a graduate, especially with second class upwards, push for international scholarships - people are getting it every day. Press hard enough on that and Japa from this shiithole because no matter your class of degree, the best solution is to japa. Dollar is increasing, even 150k salary earners need to start planning anew.

Learn new skills, meet new people, have fun because in life, Problem no dey finish o.

Also Because one person food don already done no mean say your own no dey ontop fire. quote me if you need mtn data (1-2gb) and remember, God is working on something for you.

God bless you bro. Please bro o need the data 08034374608. Thanks

VTJN:
it's not being easy bro. A graduate with strong 2.1 still unemployed. I barely eat once daily

As for data subscription, some friends do help me with #200 airtime once in a while just to search online and apply for any opening

I'm always on free mode on nairaland through opera mini. Life has not been fair with me that i know

To cap it all, I'm just stuck in the house. No money to move around (Transportation) in search of job

I wish God could change my story for good. I'm getting depressed seriously

This saddened my heart, how i wish i can help no matter how little it is. Be strong bro, God will send your helper to you

JesusDWay:
It's simple...report the matter to the police or find some of these organizations who help people for free with situations like this, they will get the man into problem at least, even if your sister doesn't want to leave him. When he faces trouble and law court issues, he will be the one to send your sister back

NPTJ This is another amazing suggestion, probably by a father or a matured man. Please do take note of it

Skyview01:
I know. I prefer we look at other means of solving conflicts instead of beating. Most of the time, beating the child does not yield the desired outcome.
Look at the lady in question, she became further alienated from the family after the beating.
I used to beat my kids in the past for offences but i stopped doing that. The message it passes to my kids is me not having my emotions under control and i am teaching them to use violence to resolve conflict
When you discipline a child, you are trying to correct them and still show them love in the process.
At the end, we all want a peaceful outcome.

Yes, you make a point though

Even though the man is a bad person, the lady really fvckup. Her father was so disappointed as the only girl child being foolish and brainwashed so easy. I'm not a father yet but i know how it feels losing your only daughter to such deciet

Skyview01:
The beating was wrong, you dont just beat an adult even your child. It doesn't solve any problem.

You preferred they applaud her right, for doing the right thing?

I don't even know the education and exposure we had that we always want to imitate the whites

She hasn't grown beyond corrections. Not even to the shame she brought upon her family

We are Africans and not whites

Neddyogu:
Oga stop making excuses for the op. Three grown ass men can't fund a trip to ph at least for one fellow? So u wanna tell me that if the op or his brother gets an interview invitation in Ph, he would decline for lack of tfare? Excuses can be made for just about anything until there's something of value, [b]then u will give it ur all Eve if it means borrowing. U want to tell me cos they are poor, they can't borrow too? [/b]The way we treat things depends on where they rank on our scale of preference. The said sister ranks not so high.

I truly love your concern

Please would you borrow the Op as you claimed that they should look for means to borrow money?

How much can you spare or borrow the Op ?

Waiting for your response

eaglez:
My dear she is not bitter about anything, I am typing this with all honesty that lady has been brainwashed to see her husband above everyone and whatsoever he says is the final, the truth is the Germany returnee is not a good man and he is enjoying every bit of the dissociation with her family members, he is lording himself over the young innocent girl, I have exactly same thing going on in my extended family and the worse thing is the man will be filler with pride and same has put on his wife, check them well they are poverty stricken, I pray that the lady will be liberated from the shackle of mental and emotional slavery the man has put her into.

You are right bro. That evil man brainwashed the girl. Moreso, he took advantage of her knowing she's from a poor home and she's a Yoruba girl. The girl was just his sacrificial lamb when he was deported with nothing, he felt let him just start a family. Trust me bro if that man wasn't deported and he's fully loaded he would never settle for the poor girl

She can't try this nonsense with an igbo girl, rich or poor

God will judge the man, but the family should work on her case. They shouldn't leave her to her fate because that was what the man want

emmyN:
Did you read where the man kept begging up to a year to have the daughter's hand in marriage but the Father refused?

The Op never said the man is begging to come do the marital rite and pay her bride price. The Op never said his sister ever for once told them that the man wants to come and do the needful till date

Did you read where the Op said the man was telling his dad that the exorbitant school fees he's paying for his children is taking a toll on him? Meaning the man has the money to buy his so called wife phone but purposely chose not to buy it

The man is a wicked man no two ways about it. People buy phone for their maids and other domestic staffs not to talk of someone you claimed to have loved

The man took advantage of the poor girl perfectly considering the wide age gap again

The man is nothing but a wicked man

Neddyogu:
So even if it's 100k, u can't source it to look for ur own blood? If so, stop whining on social media. What do u want us to do? Create a GoFundMe account so u can at least visit ur sister? The girl maybe stupid but I don't believe transportation should be a problem if they're seriously looking to reunite with their own flesh and blood. U want reunion but are scared of monetary sacrifice? What kinda donkey talk is this?

Did you read the Op post before putting all these? Are you here to proffer solution or add to their plight?

Didn't you read where he said his brother is earning 50k monthly while him on the other hand is still looking for job as a fresh graduate?

Until you know and realised our fingers are not equal, then you will understand that there are people out there who hasn't eaten today

Please stop all these your ITK of a thing abeg.

Nothing is absurd if one found his/herself in a poor family bro.. They never demand for where to be born to.

Op was just a serious and dedicated average Nigerians who's finding all legal means to break the yoke of poverty

I'm sure you saw where he said he saw himself through school

Yes you are right on one side. But i tell you bro people have lost their loved ones through health related issues that ordinary 5k can solve

Things are happening in this country that i know

Op is even better than most of our today youths who are into cyber fraud and the likes

Blackdisciple:
Hmmm..!

He has not paid anything...

If na me be her brother n'na mhennn I no go free that bro ooo to be honest ehhh Nigeria pass the level wey man go over look another man doing rubbish to ya family ooo....

I swear if I'm in Op shoe I'd make sure the man land in coma

I go pieces all him bones and joint together as a detriment to other useless men out there i swear

Neddyogu:
U guys disapproved of her choice, disrespected her, beat her and her boyfriend up and u expect her to come running with open arms? The girl moved from a region of low love concentration to a region of high love concentration. Osmotic baby.

Just show ur sister some love, saying u can't find tfare to Portharcout is absurd. Are u in kafanchan? Visit her, and in time, she'll warm to u guys again but it ain't gonn be automatic. Issa gradual process. People always respond to love. Win her over with love.

Which high region concentration please? A matured man at that the girl uncle was buying a common phone for and you called that high concentration of love

Besides, what is absurd in Op not having Tfair to and fro pourtharcourt? You talk as if you don't know what is happening in the country

Op needs nothing less than 20-25k for only him alone that will take him to pourtharcourt from Lagos (going and coming and miscellaneous)

Talkmore of 2 or 3 persons

Nothing is absurd there please

The man is a bad man and the girl is stupid

PeaceJoyLove:
First, I didnt mention you, but you mentioned me first with insults, and I lashed you. Now, you have responded again by calling your father and mother f.ools. Cos if you can use that for me, then, you have no home training. And definitely fo.ols raised you up. I didnt call them f.ools, but if you can pass that to me, I have sent it to them. I have no business with you cos you cannot even detect a matured mind posts. It's clear you have insulted elders who cooked your brain. I kept wondering why you couldn't reason and would support bride price hunters. Hmmmm. No wonder, the elders you insulted have cooked your brain in their coven. Chai! Who will help you ooooo. Chai.

T.B Joshua is dead .... he was the fast fixer with abrakatabra. Hmmm. No wahala. You have no choice. Olukoya is still there. Every Sundays, run go MFM, and always carry noodles or spaghetti along. Let the prayer warriors pray over them everytime. And keep eating them. It's a gradual process that will start fusing together the noodles and spaghetti in your head. At least, you will get sense small. Better than the state you are presently.

Feel free to reply me again. Based on your response, I will recommend another drug.

Goodluck..

Lol.

You think everyone is like your mother who elope with different men without marital rite

Misery want company that i know.. you fool looking for free wife up and down after wasting all your years with nothing to show for it

Mr. Go and make money. I see that you be dangote2

Efufulefu

PeaceJoyLove:
Lol. Bribe price collectors. Lol. Dont go and hustle and be depending on the bride price of your sister too. Shameless goat. Lol.

Please don't mention me again there's no point engaging with an empty skull

Comparing the strength of that old corgo to that of the Op and other brothers.. you're a pathetic failure that i know

Telling the Op to go and make mone.. idiot which money have you made biko?

Someone who was from a poor home but was able to see himself through school amidst sll odds. Isn't that enough reason to tell your empty skull how focus and responsible he is

I'm pretty sure you're just a small boy in his 20s, that's why you put up senseless contribution

Please don't mention me again fool

PeaceJoyLove:
That you wrote that crap means you arent thinking right. Did I even write you were going to beat him? You cannot cos the guy will brush you. Trust me. I know. But it's what it is in you cos you mentioned it stylishly. B
Also, you wrote your papa beat the man up. Listen, she is just your sister, and not responsible for you. Get it into your head. Go and hustle. When you make it, she will be the one who will come look for you. You are shameless for even talking about bribe price. Are you OK at all? What's your business? Let her leave her life. If she makes mistake, she will learn from it and feal with. You still get hand to type rubbish. Right? You better give yourself brain.

Listen, she ran away from your papa, from your mama, from you, and from your siblings cos you all used her roughly. I pity your mama as she is the one who is suffering it. Can you cook? Wetin you dey do for house? Oga, go hustle. Stop ranting here. When she realises you have made it, she will reconnect with you. If you love her genuinely, give her space to breath and let her live her life.

If you are worried she disgraced your parents you are guys. Make it big and go pay millions for your bribes. Paint the whole city with your pictures. Show your sister say she don arrive. She will return and apologize. So, go hustle. This is the solution to your rants. Make money. If you like go do rituals, oga, you go meet am there..

You are a shameless he GOAT for putting up these rubbish. I wonder why Op is even replying you with this your empty skull

Funny enough, you will think you have said something but it's quite unfortunate you are a failure

Naso una go busy write rubbish for exam hall with the hope of coming out in flying colour

The Op, siblings and family had the right to deal with the man ruthlessly

You see how dumb you are, you claimed the man will mend a young chap full of energy with his other brothers. You be mad man that i know

TheGoodJoe:
Your sister is a grown-up woman. Let her live her life the way she wants. Move on.

Are you normal at all. With what Op put up there this was the rubbish you got to say. No let me swear for you o

That man is nothing but a wicked man. You illegally married someone only daughter without paying her bride price. He wasn't responsible to his inlaw. The worst of it all, he couldn't buy a phone for his so called wife to avoid being in touched with her family and friends

I wish you guys have the means to go in there and treat his goddam fvckup. What nonesense in this 21st century. She lost her brother and grandparents and she and her stupid husband didn't come. Things dey happen sha

I feel for you guys seriously

DICO111:
Yesterday I went to the bank to get money that my uncle who is staying in the United states sent to me for use in paying for a Hisense deep freezer which I already told him the market price. He sent the money through western union and it was $400 in total.
I was robbed at gun point in a cab on my way to beurue de change to change it to naira.... I have been crying since yesterday, dont even know how to start explaining everything to him. I'm so confused.
Even going to the police is not a viable option because I dont have any reasonable information to give. Please someone should advise me on what to do because my mind is blank at this moment.

You got robbed at gun point and you never deem it fit to rush down to the nearest police station to report the case?

I wouldn't want to say you're responsible for diverting your uncle's money. If truly you got robbed at gun point and you never bothered to report the case immediately at the nearest police station then you got a skeleton right in your cupboard

Not neccesarily about the money in question

anorexicmuster:
Which leads me to another point...our leaders are as good as we want them to be.

Like now, we have a lot of Buhari and GEJ type leaders abroad...yet things work abroad because people are willing and ready to do the job of acting as a check and balance.

Here in Nigeria, we vote, go home, and wait patiently for our daily dole from Aso Rock bakery every morning. So long as it comes, bad roads don't matter...

You're right sir. But would you blame the masses for doing that sir?

Nigerians are poor and suffering including myself. Besides, an average Nigerian is selfish and greedy. Lot's of us commenting here are likely to do same if given the chance

An average Nigerians believes in amazing wealth for her 100th generation. If as an average Nigerians you ain't honest with the #1 in your pocession for now then you ain't different from these politicians

There's high level of illiteracy in Nigeria. Those literate lives from hand to mouth as a result of unemployment and underemployment

All these politicians are merely running after themselves. They had no masses interest at heart

I wish we youths can put ethnicity aside and get it right this time around

RodgersAkpafu:
This Lagos or another one ?
Maybe you are not old enough to remember the draconian days of BAT 2 terms as governor

Some semblance of Sanity Lagos had was more due to Oga Fash than this one

Nigerians indeed love to suffer
Thats their lot in life

Lagos is not only the best state in Nigeria sir.. but one of the best in Africa. We may not want any old man to rule over us again but let's learn to speak the truth no matter how difficult it seems to be

Btw, people move down to Lagos on a daily basis from across the federation and neighbouring countries

rickyrex:
If you suffer in the hands of this administration and you no learn.... Just take it that you re part of the problem we are facing today. Get your PVC and let get it right 2023 say no to old layers. Lets grab our future now. If you vote in tinubu or atiku... Let it be known that you have voted for another generation old thief who will pass the power to another thief and it will continue like that. We the youth are the engine room or oxygen of democracy... Don't let them use the state of hardship to loot us more.

Who would you recommend sir?

anorexicmuster:
If we all get serious we can stop grandpa from taking over.

But the thing is, we younglings don't know what we want...and we are so divided.

Nigeria politics isn't about age sir. Yahaya Bello a young man was a disaster in kogi state

franchasng:
An eminent Yoruba man, a honest and just Yoruba man who also happens to be an APC top chieftain and Buhari's campaign manager told the entire Yorubas the absolute truth on Arise TV morning show interview yesterday.


The man said, and I quote:

I am a Yoruba man with core Yoruba interest at heart, I am a Yoruba man before becoming a Nigeria so I cannot sabotage the interest of Yoruba people. If we want to zone APC Presidential ticket, it should be zoned to the South, and when we are talking about the South, it should be Southeast and no other because my father and uncle Obasanjo a full blooded Yoruba man ruled this country from 1999 to 2006, after him it returned back to the North in the person of Yaradua, and then swung to Southsouth in the person of Goodluck Jonathan.


If you take a look at it, the only major tribe who have a major stake in Nigeria that is yet to touch that Presidential seat is Igbo, so I believe 2023 should be handed over to them for equity, fairness and unity of this country.


Igbos deserve to lead this country. Nobody should tell me that in the whole Southeast, there is no capable hand that all Nigerians can trust to become the President in 2023, there are so many of them, we should give them the chance. This is my personal opinion and the right thing to do.


If I am Bola Ahmed Tinubu, he is my mentor, my boss, but I will advice him not to run for Presidency in 2023 but throw his full weight behind an Igbo Presidential candidate. This is what I expect from Bola Tinubu my mentor.




But Yoruba youth urchins on Nairaland think it's by gragra

Hope you know becoming Nigeria president requires strategies?

Secondly, they just don't dish out who to run for presidency like food. There are processes. They'd have to conduct a primary election within the party or convention then the winner become the flag bearer. Stop being emotional bro and be sincere with yourself. Which political party would want to take the risk of just hand picking an igbo man as the flag bearer of her party with little popularity? Who would want to take such risk to hand pink an igbo man who doesn't have the power to contest and win within the 2 major party? In politics, especially Nigeria you have to be realistic with yourself. APC can't afford losing the presidency likewise PDP wanna come in back at all cost. What they need is someone sophisticated, an indomitable person that can flaw other candidates accross the federation. Not just picking a person to represent the party in the name of peace or whataview. What next after peace? Can such person flaw other candidates just like Buhari did consecutively?

I can't give or allow my blood brother to vye for a position when i know he's going no where. When i already know the end from the beginning (as per naija politics) I'd rather give it to an outsider whose victory is certain for me.

Naija politics is 101 percent different from the way you guys view it.

Why would i hand pick someone that can't even win at the primary level? Please how is that possible selling such a person?


Let me even take it to another direction, lets assume Tinubu and Atiku doesn't want to run for presidency and they both agreed to handpick someone in their various party. Would other candidates accept? Ofcourse not, because they also wanna contest and win. Let's also assume they find a way to manipulate it at their various party to hand pick a candidate. How is such candidate sellable to Nigerians considering the kinda politics here?

APC ain't hand picking Tinubu o.. they're most likely gonna conduct a primary election at the convention. People just assumed Tinubu is much likely to win and get the ticket for APC due to his level of influence

Benmob:
If u are a youth and u still clamoring for pple like tinubu,atiku and orji uzor kalu to be president, u need ur brain check

Osinbajo the intellect man is better

Idrisk19:
what's the processing??

get in touch with me on WhatsApp if you're interested. 08097040690

Idrisk19:
as how??

You pay inorder to reduce your age below 30 then you are eligible afterwards

sagaxity:
Good afternoon, can one who is over age still go for NYSC if interested? Please it's urgent.

Yes you can, but you have to influence it

Greenback:
Since you knew he was innocent,why didn't you support him initially nah?!

There are many innocent people. Maybe he's considering Osinbajo an intellect man

eldoradoxx:
Tinubu is sick and going senile just like Buhari. These young politicians are just trying to package another Buhari to sell to Nigerians come 2023 and Nigerians for the sake of their future should reject Tinubu after the nasty experience with Buhari. We cannot afford another 8 years to waste on a sick President. If Tinubu loves Nigeria, he can endorse Osibanjo or Fashola or any other younger and smarter Yoruba, not himself to come waste our time. He is currently in UK on medical tourism

Do you mind Osibanjo an intellect man?

tempest01:
Minimum wage that has not even been implemented is now worth nothing.

You hand over government to selfish, dumb, naive, tribal and corrupt people, you destroy the whole country. People that think that building an economy is by sharing money and cornering resources to their tribal affiliates.

When Buhari, his cabal and the forty thieves are done with the country, it will take about 20 years to have a semblance of recovery. Then other African countries will have overtaken us as giants of Africa. And then will we be subjected to ridicule. Hopefully we are ready to go back into the books, track down these thieves and their generation into the future and seize all their assets and wealth even if they have been passed down to kin and are in foreign lands.

Even in the face of all these, there is no will power to fight corruption. Watch as the reps and politicians will increase their already bloated salaries soon due to inflation while the common man goes hungry. Watch as more loans will be taken and they become more expensive due to weak currency, stagnant GDP and all. And Watch as the same Nigerians will queue up to vote for the same people putting them in hardship and sabotaging their future.

Why won't we queue up to vote for them when we are ungry

I swear e no go better for all these politicians

tnerro1:
Normal loaf of bread is now#700, gas #7,500 and somethings will come and say the economy is improving.

We need a southern president in this country or else we are heading for serious problems

Enough of cow presidency

God forbid any Hausa/fulani man become the president in 2023

The suffering is just too much seriously.

daviesmania:
Good evening people!
There's this babe I've been seeing in the last eight months. She's so pretty, romantic and above all she's so silly satisfying on bed. But the only problem is that she throws up immediately after sex and this is so annoying. We've tried every strategy to stop it but is not working.
We're thinking of visiting the hospital but I believe I can also get some help here.
The unfortunate thing is that if this doesn't stop, then I might have to walk. Please help us if u can.... But my real question here is, Is this like an illness?

Just see your life at the bolded

Viktorinox2:
Guys my opera mini has been redirecting me to Facebook of recent once I click a page to open it'll load a little then redirect to what you'll see below

I'm also experiencing same. This was after the Mark zukaberg social media platforms saga. Don't know What's happening