₦airaland Forum

They brag on social media that they don't need wives

They claim that marriage doesn't benefit them.

They brag that women are rushing after them.

They brag how being turned down by women doesn't pain them.
They brag they can never go on knee to propose marriage to a woman.

They brag and brag but in real life, the situation is different.

Lol.

Let them keep deceiving themselves.

Weak man.
He can't dump her in real life but on social media , he would have dropped her immediately.

They make a lot of noise about how they don't tolerate rubbish from women , how women are useless, how they are even doing women a favour but in reality, women are dealing with a lot of them and they are dying slowly.

Hairy chest beaters!

Riversides2003:
One of the best president Nigeria never had.

Someone that was a dummy as a VP?

SpencerForbes:
For real 😳 I never knew people could actually go to that kind of length. I used to think all those things only happened in Africa Magic or Nollywood movies! Real life is deeper than film.

I learnt a lot from my parents' marriage so all these vile that men spew on social media especially this platform and X , concerning women and even the evil they do offline is not new to me.

When your partner no longer likes you , they can go to any length to get rid of you.
Romantic love is a scam.

SpencerForbes:
Fake story😏 How does it even make sense for a man to take his own wife’s underwear to a herbalist just to shut down her business? It’s not even like he’s doing it to get rich or improve his own life; it’s just pure "bad belle."

Either the guy has completely lost his mind, or this whole story is just fabricated for clout. It’s hard to wrap my head around that kind of logic.

You don't know the extent men can go to bring down a woman so she doesn't earn more than them.
She is lucky he didn't even kill her.
My dad arranged hired assassins to eliminate my mum on her way to work simply because she was earning more than him.
He had persistently told her to quit the job but she refused
Unfortunately for him, the assassins failed twice and somehow , opened up to my mum about it.
That was far back late 90s not to talk of these new generation men who plainly hate their wives

You want to gbensh the girl and she is not giving you the chance to.
E dey pain you.
Lol

wallrichy:
That's exactly what happened. Movement after snake bites enhances the movement of the venom to move to all the sensitive parts of the body. The venom destroys every cells it encountered inside the body including the heart, lungs and kidney. The best thing to Sit or lie down so that the bite is in a neutral, comfortable position. Clean the bite with soap and water. Cover or wrap it loosely with a clean, dry bandage.dont drink anything and don't talk much unless to medical personnel and make calls to a medical personnel to come quickly..the less you engage in movement the better for you......always have a doctor's number on your phone, atleast a reliable doctor....if possible have many doctors as friends and have their telephone numbers........so sad.....

The same doctors that you people disrespect and despise? How funny!

AJSfan:
And people were blaming the hospital for removing the torniquet.. illiteratez are the most vocal online

Tourniquet on poisonous snake bite will kill the person faster but nIgerians too sabi pass doctors

Omo.


People will still vote for Tinubu.

Hmmmm.

Thank God I don't live in Nigeria.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

Weak man!

As usual...

Stayingalive:
you and who agreed what? Be listening to teenagers online

Old man suddenly sees the value of marriage.
I thought age was only a woman's problem

Stayingalive:
you and who agreed what? Be listening to teenagers online

Old man suddenly sees the value of marriage.
I thought age was only a woman's problem.

nnamdi640:
I need a guide too bros, I will be 41 this December, no wife

What are you doing with a wife?
It has been agreed on this platform that men should not marry because they stand to benefit nothing from marriage.

zenburster:
If this uncle is age-shaming Angela Okorie, who was born in 1985 (41 years ago),

How old is he?

Two silly people.

P.S: I know her public age may be reduced, but let's give her benefit of doubt.

In Nigeria, a 50 year old man(bachelor) can age shame a 30 year old woman especially if she is not married.
Once a woman is 30+ and not married, she is regarded as an old woman and that's where the so called ex boyfriend is driving to.

For me, nothing like ex.
Once we are done, I never knew you.
As long as we are not co-parenting,if you see me for road, don't greet, don't stop.. keep moving.

folake4u:
Yen yen yen.

I thought you people said white women are the best thing after sliced bread. See how y'all are changing mouth. Na múmú dey believe una truly.

I hope justice is served and Mr. Odubanjo cools his brains in prison.

My sister, don't mind them.
I'm in the UK. This is my 7th year.
White women are not rushing Nigerian men.
Even Nigerian women tend to avoid them .
Konji is dealing with a lot of Nigerian men here.
Some of them got dumped by their wives as soon as they relocated here.
I know a guy who has not gotten any action since Sept 2023. His wife divorced him and moved on with a guy from another African country.
He is so frustrated, he is considering visiting Nigeria during the summer just so he can cum.

All of a sudden, they are shifting posts.
I thought you guys say foreign women are better.
What changed?

You guys are still getting married and this one even sounds excited about it.
Lol
Men will say one thing online while doing another offline.
Marriage doesn't benefit them , women are evil, bla bla bla yet they can't stop getting married.

Why Oyibo contractors?
No Nigerians that can handle the project?

QuinQQ:
I was sincerely agreeing with you. I value FREEDOM sooo much. And I know the only way to have my freedom is to allow other's their's too, though within certain parameters. I don't want clingy or someone who can't live without me!

Clingy partners( especially men) are people with low self esteem and usually extremely dangerous.
It's not love, It's danger loading.
A clingy man is not attractive.

QuinQQ:
There u go! My kind of lady. Do your thing, I do my thing. Just make sure I don't hear about any "thing" you did

And so?
Highest , it's divorce... Life goes on.

Nothing.
Never given my husband valentine gift.. and he doesn't give me too.
We are good like that.

Denalarian:
Didn't know this guy is born into a Nigerian home

My husband and his friends jokingly call him "Chinazaekpere"

Team "It doesn't matter, my children will look for me when they grow up".

I guess none of the 4 boys are grown ups yet.

Oga, wait. let them grow.
They will look for you.
Time still dey.

He wants to reconnect with them esp Calvin because he is a professional footballer doing well in his career.

Anambra man that should have married Anambra woman, have new children and move on with his life , is busy looking for the children he had with a Calabar woman

How shameful!

Ojuntana:
UI sabi throw people into funny funny courses sha
But it's good to see she made good of hers
Kudos

There's one dude here on NL who's always busy hating on doctors simply because he couldn't meet the cut to study the course. Dude is also a political urchin here... free something can't really remember

I was offered Zoology in UI
I wrote UME again and got into medicine and surgery in UNIPORT.

advanceDNA:
Churchill and rose are still married.....

Tonto dikeh and Churchill are not getting back together....the reconcile context is that she has stopped being bitter towards him and allowed him access to his son after 10years

Dey play.. until Tonto is expecting baby number 2

Is Churchill not a Nigerian man?

He will not just sleep with Tonto, he will impregnate her, rub it on Rosy's face.
It's just a matter of time.

P. R. E. E. K no get sense

By the time she is 18 and her mother buys her an SUV, they will say it's clitocurrency.

Gerrard59:
Except to Asian countries, the earnings from European countries is abysmal.
https://www.economist.com/britain/2023/06/14/how-much-is-a-human-head


Young men too as ladies wouldn't trust or find it hard to trust innocent men no matter how innocent and harmless they might be.

Organ trafficking is very lucrative in Asia.
It has always been.
I do not think Europe is a destination for such business compared to what's happening in Asia.

Young men are not the ones getting killed, having their organs harvested and sold. Instead, they have the "upper hand" because they are the culprits behind this. They are in the place of advantage.

Sexyrosey:
The Loneliness No One Talks About

It’s a different kind of pain to feel lonely while lying next to someone who is supposed to love you.
To be married, yet feel emotionally single.
To wake up every day craving affection, attention, and connection… and still go to bed empty.

People think loneliness only comes from being alone.
But sometimes it comes from being with someone who no longer sees you, hears you, or desires you.

I miss being wanted.
I miss being touched with intention, spoken to with softness, loved with effort.
I miss feeling like I matter.

I’m tired of pretending I’m okay.
Tired of acting strong when inside I feel invisible.
Tired of pouring love into a space that feels cold and silent.

This is not about perfection.
It’s about presence.
About romance.
About feeling chosen, not just tolerated.

The hardest part is knowing that I’m still capable of love, passion, and deep connection — but I’m living in a place where none of it is returned.

And that kind of loneliness… hurts more than being alone ever could.

This one doesn't concern me.
I have children.. I am not lonely.
I don't like a clingy partner.
As long as he is giving me peace and space, I'm okay.