₦airaland Forum

Eddodoh:
I have problem keeping a serious and committed relationship.

I always found myself keeping multiple partners & still maintain contact with some of my exes which add to the pool of women in my circle. I find it difficult to detach from them.

This really drains me emotionally and financially as I could get several demands from these ladies at the same time and it really stressed me. Moreover, age is no longer on my side.

In the past, I have lost good girls who were really committed but because I wasn't committed, as I had to juggle all of those girls together.

How do I do away with this problem? I will appreciate any suggestions or advice.

How is this a problem?

Age is a woman's challenge..and never a man's headache.

Men are polygamous in nature, aren't they?

Please enjoy your women.

callmeDDD:
Trust me, she will file for part or share from that money sighting that she contributed to the lottery success. She won't give up without a fight even if she will lose.
Just wait and see. No be American women again?

Haba ! I thought it's African women,Nigerian ,to be precise that love money
White women don't like money

Rich4god:
Ladies too need to learn how to stand their ground. They shouldn't allow any man to pressure them.

If there are no sex before marriage, more 80% of single motherhood will be reduced.

Many ladies are having careless sex because of lack and greed.

If as a woman,you have money and you are a contended person,you will find it easy to say NO to sexual advances from men

Proudlyomonna:
Lie

My Brother marry one poor girl,He fly her go UK now the banny just dey on fresh,she don change her poor family back in Nija life

Guy this Your motivational post no enter well jarey.

I thought they say there is no money in UK
That Nigerians in UK are suffering.
Lol

Please don't compare terrible odours with snoring.

My husband snores loudly.

We sleep in different bedrooms,so it's not really much of a problem.

I can't imagine body or mouth odour.
Nooooooo

Private hospital MDs will pay their doctors 200K/month with hard labour while their jobless /teenage children spend 500K on one night clubbing.

Footballers sha.

In their prime,they will be wasting money on luxurious cars,houses and women without planning for their future.

Imagine Victor Osimhen complaining that govt abandoned him later in future.

When they are advised to invest for tomorrow,they will assume the money is too much and can't finish

Kajaard:
I am sure I'm the only person that doesn't use twitter (X). I just find that place extremely toxic and stay away for my sanity

Nairaland is more toxic than X.

Nairaland is completely faceless while X is semi-faceless.
Lol

Let me go to X and see hot male tears.

They are so used to beating women and getting away with it...
And the way they believe a woman will end up single if she is a divorcee..
How funny

Very young man.
The most popular footballer to have represented Benin Republic in their history.
What could have gone wrong?

May his soul find peace.

kenn4rill:
So how then should you be addressed as? Miss or Mrs who? Because you can't be a Mrs and still retain your father's name because you are not a second wife to him, neither can you be a Miss and claim you are married, unless you are married to Jesus

I'm still addressed as "Dr ABC" ..my father's name.
I haven't changed my name.

People hardly call me "Mrs"..
They use my professional title instead

I have not changed my name.

It hasn't just occurred to me.

One of my senior aunts who is over 50 now has still not changed her name in close to 25 years of marriage


Actress Joke Silva didn't change her name.

There is no fast or hard rule.

No be change or no change of name dey bring peace and longevity to marriage.

So this wayward girl has a father.
Tufiakwa!

Her father claims he doesn't have money but his daughter carries 2 expensive iPhones and showcases luxurious lifestyle on social media.

The gap between her life and her father's status very wide.

I won't be surprised her mother is a peasant farmer or one petty trader on the street.

That's great.

If I had my way,I would have had 3 daughters..no son

cococandy:
You had the choice to stay in a country where they don’t have rights.

You chose to migrate. Don’t complain now.

Who is complaining?
Are you sure you are normal?

This gay thing ehn...Used to be shocking for me but somehow,I started adapting to them

I can remember my confusion when I asked a man about his partner and Baba told me his partner was another man.

I almost screamed but had to compose.


A teenage boy will come to clinic and be telling you how he is not happy because he can't express his feelings towards another boy.
Something that normally Oraimo cord on his neck would reset,you would be forced to speak with empathy,encourage and offer support.

The price of japa sha.
It's not easy tbh

luminouz:
Are you jealous you weren't mentioned in his speech?

If you are doing well, your hubby will also publicly say it.

Who cares?

After all the praises,MI will still divorce her and may even shame her.
I hope she has children,at least.
That's basically the only thing to gain from all these marriage entanglement

MI is lying.
He is trying to cover up.
Or he is just a simp.

Wives are evil.
Women are wicked.

Men have nothing to benefit from getting married.


This is how they continue bragging but eventually will spend their hard earned money to marry the same evil and wicked woman...
Lolz

Myrepublic:
Wetin really dey marriage these days? Since good moral are now going into extinction in the society, marriage is no longer what it used to be. If not for children,me sef for no bother at all. The heart of ladies these days is so wic ked

You can have children without getting marriage .

You are not telling yourself the truth that you get married because of children

24 years with all these wrinkles?

Hmmmmmm

Okay na

Even if it's surrogacy or adoption,have a child especially a daughter that calls you "mummy"

Hehehehehe..
Must be them.

People from this region...totally disrespectful towards their parents.

Once you hear news of a child physically abusing parents to the point of killing them,don't be surprised.
Na them.

[quote author=ShindaraOla post=136387775][/quote]What is the reason people are still using agents for visa application?

I can't understand it.

My husband takes his plate to the kitchen and even washes them...most times,when I'm not at home or close by when he is eating.
There is no big deal about that.

Ebenezer2021:
How are we sure she will survive at child birth after all the abortions wey she don do damaging her womb.
Las last na CS go settle am.
And there's a slim chance of surviving during childbirth at that age that's why we preach to these feminists, submit and get married to a man at early age but they won't hear.
Team single and independent boss lady my foot

Lol..
What is wrong with having a CS ,if it's indicated?
You people said women over 30 can't get pregnant.
Now,it's that they can't have vaginal delivery.
Very funny

Men don see bresss.
They dont have sense again.
Lol

bdon123:
As guy that that lived for years in d uk i can confidently tell u white guys rarely get attracted to black girls.

In recent times,that narrative is changing.

I know a lot of my classmates who relocated as single ladies,married to white men.

Fenrir:
You still dont understand, do you?
The majority of women in this country would leave you in the dust if they had that opportunity

And im not just say specifically for white men just anything better than a Nigerian man

And if im wrong I invite any Nigerian woman in here to set me right

100% True.

Limitations and lack of choices make a lot of women in Nigeria get stuck with Nigerian men.

Ni.g.e.ri.an men are very disrespectful,rude and wickeddd towards women.

I can tell my husband "No to sex" and he will keep his hands to himself , because we live in Europe.
If we were living in Nigeria,he would force me and claim it's his right.
Very barbaric set of human beings.

luminouz:
This is so sad to read. You have 3 kids with this husband of yours and this is how you talk about him online?

Saying you are stuck to him tells me you are saying you 'settled' for him. Hey dude will be home now, playing with his kids, working double shifts, thinking he has a family, not knowing his wife already has fantasies and diicktasies about white men and wished she wasn't with her black Nigerian husband.
Chai!!!

The redpill is golden.

Lol @working double shift.
You think this is Nigeria where men reign supreme for working and providing?
I also work very hard and provide.

Yes... I said what I said.
Even men have fantasies and even cheat with pride as a result.
This one knows he will be kicked out into the street if I catch him cheating, that's why he is trying hard to behave well.
Unlike if we were in Nigeria,by now ,he would have been rubbing his sexcapades on my face but in the abroad,let him try it and be homeless.

As a woman,once you are in a vulnerable position ,a man will want to knack you.
It's a way of subduing and rubbishing you