See him.
After deceiving people that they can live forever, everlasting life by parting with their hard earned money

YourWriter:
In reference to the post which I made last two weeks https://www.nairaland.com/6834344/love-im-scared
Here is the update.

I let my feelings known to her telling her how much I love her but unfortunately, the love is unrequited. She told me she's not ready for a relationship due to some personal reasons.
I so much feel heartbroken right now.
We move!

See his mouth as heartbroken.. because opportunity to sleep with the girl under the disguise of relationship has been lost.

I thought your fellow men brag about women looking for new relationships to bill guys ahead of the festive period and advise against asking ladies out , for now.

Here, a lady rejected your advances.
Your feelings in the gutters

A responsible, decent and reasonable woman does not join the Nigerian Police Force.

Don't go to the hospital.
Continue to seek advice online.
Blindness dey hungry you

Inside poverty, you get mind born 6 children
No wonder ..
Their plan was to use their children for money rituals.
Cos I don't see any reason any right thinking couple can have 6 children less than 12 years in present day Nigeria

Mylordmygod1:
A beautiful afternoon to all nairalanders.

Firstly, my greatest fear when it comes to things of this world is 'women', That's why i don't want to break a womans heart in a way that i will be the one to recieve the blame.

I've been in a relationship with my girl for about 3years now, and each time my mum or friends ask me if i'm gonna marry her, my answer is always a capital letter NO.

Now, my mum is warning me to better let her go since i don't have the interest of marrying her. But the hard part is that i'v been promising this girl that i will marry her even when i'm 100% sure i won't marry her, and i don't no how to go about ending the friendship now.

Recently, i've been picking offences for minor isues, getting angry with her for no reasons, trying to give her signal, but none seems to be working, and its now like my anger is her source of happiness these days.

I really want to end the friendship now, but i want the blame to be on her side and not mine, how can i go about it?

ADVICE ME WELL

Thanks.

Just call her, sit her down and tell her it's over.
Let her go.. that you will not marry her.

She will cry, reign abuses and curses but she will be alright Las Las.
The curses will not work.

You have been giving her signals and signs but because she had no value for her body and has been sleeping with you, she refused to take note and move.


This is why I always advise ladies to close their legs and hold their body.
Stop having sex with a man who is not your husband.
Premarital sex reduces your value, lowers your self esteem, makes you appear used and worthless,messes up your sense of judgement.
You are the loser if the relationship ends..
But they will not listen.
Serves her right!

Chuky7:
My fellow what drove you to go into the union of two is one. many reasons I can guess. some pressure. most pregnancy fear of wedlock. or was it true love or love of money the need for a financial umbrella over your head.

So what was your motive or drive.

For relocation purpose.
I was planning to leave Nigeria and a fellow doctor as a spouse would make the process easier for me.
I needed someone who has same plans,not dragging me back or distracting me.

ENIGMATIC2023:
I just pity for Pastor Taiwo��,first wife died in a plane crash and now second wife died of cancer and the gospel must continue. It's not easy�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️�‍♂️

It's not a problem.

Candidates for 3rd wife are already hustling

Vision4God:
Lord help pastor taiwo and comfort him.

The man does not have any problem.
3rd wife loading.
Who knows?
He may the cankerworm eating the leaf.
The length these pulpit business men can go for fame, power and money

Bola146:
Sometimes I ask this question is there God at all? Does he read answers prayers because I wonder he would have prayed for his wife not to die or he wouldn't have prayed I don't understand. Maybe that is why He is call Unquestionable

Be not deceived.. there is no God that answers any prayers

NCAN... our food don set.

Oppression "Show off massive wealth to intimidate those doing legal businesses and jobs" in December don cast

shigishege:
This is a real tragedy. God save us all.

God cannot save anybody.
Know this and know peace

Anyahuruagu:
God save us from peril and woe. Amen.

God cannot save anybody.
There is no supernatural being capable of pretending peril and woe.

jaelz:
So yesterday wey be chilling day we all know as e dey be as joli fellows now, as a man wey no dey dull I went to this bar around Asokoro / AYA round about yesterday evening to chill and hang out with my cousin while watching football ⚽.

But something happened that damped my spirit yesterday, a private lower rank soldier that was wearing a track down and his army vest yesterday came into the bar with whom I supposed was his girlfriend and sat down next to us, he was very close to me in particular while the girl was sitted at the other end, what struck me was that he told the bar man to bring peppered chicken two plates but make his own to be just only pepper and onions and to cover the top properly with saviet paper so the girl doesn't notice, then he should bring one five alive and one table water for him because him no too hold money for pocket.

This really shook me because i was surprised as to why he could not just ask the girl to take something cheaper so the both of them could enjoy or even tell her outrightly that he doesn't have enough money on him so she should support him or so?

You see we guys atimes are the architects of our misfortunes because we always try to please and form big boys at the front of our women, I always tell people that a woman that you can't tell you are down financially or can't occasionally assist you with the bills is a total no for me any day any time.

Guys go through alot from Uber for the girls, to paying bills at the chilling spot, to trying to make her happy throughout the whole period you are out with her, to protecting her and finally paying her Uber back home it's just too much for me to handle believe you me and I feel it's totally wrong.

They don't do all that for free.
The moment guys stop demanding sexual gratification form ladies in the name of relationship, they won't need to foot any bill for them

joshawesome:
Good morning happy people of nairaland.

I will try to be brief as possible. During the lock down my elder brother was seriously ill, we all thought it normal malaria and typhoid but getting to the hospital he was diagnosed of kidney diseases at it last stage (CKD). We all brace up and gave him all the support needed during the stage from one dialysis section to another something thrice a week.

It became worse and no improvement at sight, I literally do all thing for him, from bathing to feeding and carry him around the hospital but he faith he will come out of it. During the process he used all of his life saving to the extend of collecting and seeking financial assistance from people because the doctor advice to undergo kidney transplants.

On 2 April 2021 we went from dialysis, nurses were complaining that I allow him to drink a lot of water because at that stage he have a daily water intake and also needed blood. He did the blood transfusion and the dialysis but he had a breathing issue, the nurse place him on breathing machine the oxygen got exhausted and he was normal.

We went home by 12am, on getting home we ask for water, I told him to wait because I can even hear noise of water around his thoracic cavity. He was having difficult I had to call one of his friend so that we can take him back to the hospital but he gave up the ghost and we bury him that the same day because that was his wish. Due to his name, I was confused and angry at myself and everyone that we lost him due to 5 million needed for the transplant.

Months later I was able to get over his death a bit and went back to school, wrote the exam and graduated with first class even though the examination I didn't prepared much due to what happened. It was just God hand at work ( It only a fool that say there is no God).

Now the problem is that I can't sleep and remember my brother death that I should have done more. His death is like 5 months from now but it still fresh in my memory recently. My brother play a vital role in my education from paying my fee and monthly allowance and advice. I was thinking of using drugs so that I can sleep at time but talk me out of it. Pls how can I re again myself and also am an introvert I don't have people to talk to and I hardly go out.

God helped you pass exam.. but could not heal your brother.
You are That FOOL.
Continue deceiving yourself

snoopanddre:
How is a married woman ur babe. What was his intension? Let's keep deceiving ourselves, many hypocrites here.

This is the first truth here.
Why should a random man address me as Babe?
Even when I was single, I cannot accept that.

Toks2008:
No long story.

And when you come across the one who makes her money, you include she is arrogant and rude. And makes it via clitocurrency

But they boasted they had a happy one big family.

Mrkumareze:


Even if he's a 1 minute man

It doesn't matter.
I am not a "sex person"
I stayed celibate for at least 8 years after my first break up,then I got married.
I'm struggling to have sex with my husband.

If he can be done in one minute,I will be grateful.

The second pix..
Meme loadinf

virginprincess:
Who says Nigeria girls dislike fair guys, Me personally I love fair guys, hope on marrying a fair guy since I'm dark.

I am dark..
I made sure I married a fair guy.
I never saw any attractiveness in a dark guy.

Blamziefarmz:
iPhone 11 but she Dey enter bus at 6am go work . Misplaced priority

You took it out of my mouth.
They are the type that spend millions on a mobile phone but are not mobile.

Alexxxxadrewv:


https://loadedpulse.com/toke-makinwa-unveiled-as-anchor-of-gulder-ultimate-search-2021/

From one deal to the other..she keeps delivering.

Later, they will attribute her wealth to clitocurrency.

Well done, Toke.

You pass them.
Make Dem do am if e easy

ibrutex:
To start with , do your spouse know how much your salary is at the end of the month..

Would you tell her if their is an increment and how much is added??

Well! To me I wouldn't let her know if their is increment because I can't let someone finish the salary for me before I received , last last she will still be the one that take most share...

Maybe I acted wrongly , need your reasons.

My husband and I are professional colleagues and earn roughly same salary.
We both know how much each of us earn.
I wouldn't be comfortable in a union where I don't know what my spouse earns.
I don't know how people do it.
Transparency is key

shortgun:
Can I report Uber and Bolt Drivers?
They keep harassing my girlfriend whenever I book a ride for her to come to my place, meet up with me or go back to her house.

I am busy most times and don't have the time to pick her up or drop her off.

She keep telling me of the harrasments and how she will prefer I pick her than book a ride.
I always overlook her complaints until yesterday a bolt driver who told her he's married came back to her house to look for her after a ride yesterday!!

The randy man picked her from my house, I spoke with him on the phone and she told him she's in a relationship but he still carry his poverty stricken blokkos to my girls house?

I tot guys that do uber are trying to make ends meet? I always tip them cos I tot they need help but this have shown me that they are just a bunch of unserious people.

I am a woman ... And I know that men, especially, those who are perceived to be under the social class of a woman , do not disturb her except she gives them reasons to.
Your girlfriend is not telling you the whole truth.

I'm just imagining me as a single girl in Nigeria. No bolt or taxi driver living or dead can harrass me.

jodeci:


Truth. Some guys are so rotten within..so much that every move is judged from their thwarted narrative.

The reason a man cannot assist a follow man.

What does a man gain assisting a fellow man?
If he assists a woman, she is already owing him sex.

house10s:
soo niyi is d black guy right.
obviously queen is d girl
and white money is d yellow gay looking dude.


i rest my case if u can read inbtw

It's crystal clear WM doesn't like women.
Dude is giving off gay vibes.
Niyi sef .. looks somehow
Being married no mean oh.

MyOleSolksjaer:
Dear All,

I need your candid advise on these matters that touch the heart. I got married last year to the mother of my beautiful daughter sometime in August last year during the COVID lock down. The marriage was against my wishes and due to parental pressure. Prior to marrying my wife, I was doing a good job by making sure I take good care of my daughter and the mom. My daughter just turned 2 in July and has already started going to school. My wife and I met online and started dating immediately after our first sexual encounter. Along the line she got pregnant and we started having misunderstandings. We both decided we will keep the baby because I made a vow with God not to abort any child with any woman I impregnate.

However, to cut the story short we both agreed we won't get married and her parents were cool with it as long as I take care of their daughter and my child. Then came COVID and during the events of the lockdown, I entered into a relationship with a Chemical Engineer that earns a 7 figure monthly salary. The relationship lasted for months but my mom never supported the relationship and did everything to make sure I break up with this lovely lady in a bid to marry my baby mama. I was against it knowing fully well that she is very quarrelsome and dramatic. I had inner peace with my lockdown girlfriend. Till now I still miss her and want to be with her despite being married to my wife who is always looking for ways to suspect me for one thing or the other. She has even threatened that if she catch me cheating, she will cheat back.

My marriage for the past 1 year has been full of problems, drama, and even attempted violence. My wife just graduated from Uni and is about to go in for her NYSC. I am even praying she gets posted out of Lagos preferably the North. This marriage has drained me of all my resources and has taken away a lot from me. My wife doesn't appreciate the good I do for her and my daughter. She is always quick to judge me and criticize for every small mistake I make. She nags all the time and always want to pick a fight for bullshit reasons. I don't find my wife attractive anymore and I have lost every desire to have sex with her from the first day we married in August last year.

She gets upset when female colleagues at work call me. I had considered resigning because we had an issue over my boss at work who always calls me for work related stuff. I am not on good terms with my mom because she engineered this marriage against my own wishes. My wife and I don't have a good relationship. It has gotten so bad that we don't sleep in the same room anymore. I had to leave the house for some time to stay in an accommodation provided by my work place so I can have inner peace and regain my sanity.

I am so pained because of my relationship that ended abruptly. I tried getting back with my Ex whom I still love but now she doesn't want to have anything to do with me despite how much I still love her. My question is, should I still try to win my ex over or find another woman? As for my marriage, I consider it dead and over. I don't care what my parents particularly my mom will do. I don't bleeping care anymore. All I want is my love to come back to my life and end this toxic marriage.

Lol.... End result of premarital sex, especially when rushed
You meet someone online.. next thing, you are having sex, unprotected for that matter.
The woman can even pin another man's pregnancy on you.


As for the chemical engr, she better uses her head.. and never have anything to do with you.
You are a married man.. and you sound as though her money is your catch.

Justbehave:
The only woman that can love you unconditionally is your mum.No job,no love.Fellas stop deceiving yourselves.

Even your mother may get fed up at some point and prefer that your younger brother who brings bread to visit her.

Oh.. I thought it was the Nasco Plant in Plateau state that he burnt.


You bought something with your money.. and decided to burn it.

How smart!
Kontunu!!

Yoloba De. Mon

Chop and clean mouth