₦airaland Forum

OredoPikin2:
Because marriage only favour women.

So why are men getting married and feeling bad if a woman rejects their marriage proposal?

Britishcoins:
Chai, I did not blame that innocent woman, I blamed ojukwu who out of greediness married young lady like her, now ojukwu died too early and her engine room is still steaming and looking for original rubricant..

I am so sure that one self acclaimed city boy is sleeping with her, with a promise of office

But they say younger women are better. A 70 year old man can marry a 20 year old woman or has anything changed?

ajalawole:
Na her husband kpai no be she kpai am, so make una all her to enjoy her life... Dear men take care of yourself oo, if you kpai someone will take you wife go UK dey knack am

Was Bianca supposed to Kpai before Ojukwu?
How would Ojukwu had taken care of himself so that he won't Kpai(before Bianca)?

Rep9jaCom:
A Nigerian lady has gone viral after expressing emotional pain over her dating experiences as a single mother, Rep9ja reports.

In a video shared online, the lady was seen in tears as she lamented how potential partners often turn her down once they learn about her situation.

According to her, the phrase “I can’t date a single mother” has become a recurring response she faces.

Despite the emotional moment, she tried to maintain composure, adding that life must go on.



𝙑𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤 𝙀𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚 𝘽𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙬 👇👇

Lady Breaks Down Over Repeated Rejection As A Single Mother https://t.co/hAR6kJw7I5 pic.twitter.com/Lxy1mYX536

— PlayLoaded.Com (@playloadites) March 21, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-breaks-down-over-repeated/

Serves her right.
When some of us advise them to close their legs and stop having sex outside the confines of matrimony, they will say we are old school.

Women decide when and who to have sex with.
Sex cannot happen if a woman says NO.
Even if she was raped, pregnancy can be prevented.
But because of greed for material things,ladies cannot stay celibate.
Many of them are having sex not because they enjoy it but because of what they stand to gain.
Women will continue to be the losers and bear the consequences of premarital sex.

She never start to cry.

Mariangeles:
Naso!

So, you can put your baggage on others, but can handle other's baggage, abi?

Men are very smart people.
Even single fathers demonize single mothers but you will see a lady who has never given birth before accepting to marry a man with baggages.
Women are so foo. Lish.

When I was single, the moment I find out you already have a child, I just ghost.
I ghosted one guy who had a 10 year old son.
He couldn't believe it.

Their mates in Nigeria are proudly participating in a raping festival where they molest ladies and celebrate it

Bendeco02:
Your husband is a weak man. You can't try that with all men.

Or maybe he is even running his package with younger attractive ladies outside and you thought you're starving him sex

If not, he can still send you out and marry younger pretty lady. Which man will go for you if your man send you out? When there are alot of single young ladies everywhere.

Una no dey like use una head. Later you start crying and cursing all men as bad people while you bleeped yourself up.

Send me out of where? My house? Lol.

I don't stop him from sleeping aroud as long as he doesn't do it under my roof.

Them use sex curse men?
Everytime sex.

Even if their wives give them sex everyday,they will still go outside.
Better for me if he is running his package outside because I don't like when he disturbs me for sex.
Sex is not food.

Leilanjleeane:
many single, young chicks are outside, ready to give him for free

Lol.
Who cares?
Only him will deal with his infections

Keepamsafe:
A blind husband is a good husband. Enjoy your beta

Thank you!

Keepamsafe:
When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

Weak man= Peace of Mind.
I'm really lucky, you are right.
It's not easy to be married to a Nigerian man for years and be happy.
Keep shaking your head while I'm enjoying my weak husband whose weakness gives me peace.
We have 3 children.. I have fulfilled my obligation.
Sex is not food

marlow1962:
Let that man go, he doesn't deserve the suffering he's in all in the name of marriage.
You don't want to give it to him, when he's feed up and goes out, you begin to cry.

I'm not holding him, Oga.
He chose to marry me.
If he is suffering, he should be the one to let me go.
A woman cannot keep a man who doesn't want to be stay.

As long as he is going out to get it and not in my house, that's fine.
Good luck to him.

essentialone:
So long as you have no issues if he sleeps with your maid, your neighbour, his workplace colleague, etc. etc, then you are good to go.

Na him Sabi.
I have gotten the most important thing I ever wanted from marriage.

We don't live in Nigeria, between.
Here, sex is not easy to get like in Nigeria because people are not hungry like back home where a man can sleep with a girl because he bought her food.

essentialone:
Ladies choose who to sleep with, but it is men who choose who to marry. Wisdom!

And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

Nnakatsan:
I was talking to a friend recently and she opened up about something that shocked me.

She said her husband had changed… less attention, less affection, always on his phone.

At first, she thought it was just stress. But over time, the distance became obvious.

What struck me was this — nothing “big” had happened.
No fight. No major issue.
Just slow emotional and physical disconnection.

It made me realize something…
Most marriages don’t break suddenly — they fade quietly.

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately, especially how attraction and effort change after marriage.

For those who are married — what do you think causes this?

Over familiarity and over availability cause it.
Along the line, people become too used to each other and the spark just fizzles out.Its natural.
The partner that doesn't realise this on time and begins to detach suffers it .

If the woman had started paying more attention to herself and children, the husband will be the one to suffer it.

In marriage, there must be a victim.
In everything you do, don't be the victim.

KnowledgePower7:
Abortion is perfectly normal and okay

The problem is that women wait till the baby is 2,3,4 months to abort the baby.
That is too late to abort a baby
Very risky

The best time to abort a baby is as early as 6 weeks to 1 month.
That period the baby is still a tiny fetus
Which can be flushed out easily after taking abortion drugs.

Those that wait till the baby has developed to 3 months then they abort it is very risky.

Do abortion early
Don't wait till it's late to abort a fetus
Go and do ultrasound scan
If baby is from 6 week to 1 month
Then you abort it easily without complication

That is how a girl came to our clinic
We did scan and found out she is 12 weeks pregnant and she was crying asking me where she can abort the baby.

I told her madam, you should have done this scan early at least 1 month after not seeing your period.

But noooooo

They will wait till baby is 3 months and come and be asking stupid question if they should abort? Putting pressure on the doctor and if the doctor do any abortion procedure and it cast. His hospital will be closed down.

So I will say this for all young girls

DO ABORTION IN VERY EARLY STAGES OF PREGNANCY FROM 6 WEEKS

Anything from 3 to 4 month abortion
If you get complication. Its your problem

Abortion is illegal in Nigeria no matter the stage of the pregnancy.

kiddaz:
You can't be this mean in real life... I think you're probably just acting here. Na wah ooh . The thought of your personality off of here makes me cringe. No woman can be this heartless. Just set the poor man free please.

I'm not holding him captive.

If you are too nice to a man,he will despise you and show you pepper.
That's what I know.
Men are not wired to appreciate women who are too good to them and vice versa.
The goal is not to be the victim.

kiddaz:
Haaaa! I remember you now. The one who doesn't even try to make her man feel happy, so you still deny him sex too? God abeg ooh.

If he is not happy, he knows what to do

kiddaz:
Are you trying to say you have

Yes.
I am done with childbirth.
Sex is not food

Quarterpast:
You're training a girlfriend in sch, while your kid sister doesn't have an SSCE result. And you think God will not punish you?

I have a friend who would cook, eat and reserve same food for his girlfriend who's only coming for sex and going back same day. I was broke and jobless, had nothing, was hungry, but he wouldn't give me that food cos of his girlfriend.
All his money went to that girl. Finally, the girl left his house, and the next week, my guy started seeing pre-wedding photos of his girlfriend on the social media 🤣🤣.
I will never forgive that guy. One day, I'll remind him. So many things he did against me because of some random girls

He was having sex with the girl.
Was he having sex with you?
A lot of men lack control over their sexual urges and can do anything for a woman they are sleeping with.

The man who is sponsoring a woman in school is doing so primarily because he is having sex with her.

I thought white men hate Nigerian women.
Travelled all the way from UK to Nigeria to meet a Nigerian woman.. wey no get big bress and yansh...

Congratulations girl.
Best wishes

Amarachieze:
When falsehood is repeated severally it becomes a tradition; please what has cheating to do with boyfriend -girlfriend. Someone you are not even entitled to sleep with, you are talking of cheating. It might even turn out that she actually cheated on her future husband with you.

The matter tire me o
Fornication partners accusing each other of cheating.. what will legally married couples do?

Which one is cheating girlfriend?
Woman wey no be your wife

ibedun:
Hmmm he said "MY WOMAN" In 2026?

Women don't do foolish things like that. you'll never find a wife who will donate her kidney to her husband. Her Mama will never ever allow it.

Best wishes to you Oga

It's actually the other way round.
OJB's wife did
Eedris Abdulkarim's wife did.

More women make sacrifices for their sick husband than men do for their sick wives.
And the reason is clear

I feel very sorry for women who don't have children but end up marrying single fathers.
Left for me, single fathers will marry single mothers

When I was single, one of the things I investigated thoroughly about a potential suitor was to find out if he already had a kid(s) .
Once that's the case, I just ghost without explanation.
My first child must be your first child.
I don't have strength to deal with other people's baggages

gracias124:
Its not an achievement, when you are 30 without a wife or girlfriend. You will always be Hot and staring at your cealing every night like you are cursed.
Some shameless and weak*** will resolve to watching porn and jerking off. What a shameless behaviour watching other men doing the things you want to do.
I am not financially ok to get married and knacking out of wedlock is prohibited to me. I just dey vex

And after you get married, just a matter of time, your wife starts to lose interest in sex.

Instead of a man to spend my money, I rather go to jail.
God forbid ooooh

But husbands still frown and are unhappy when wives refuse to have sex.. lol

It doesn't matter.. I can't remember the last time my husband told me that.
Marriage is not about love.
It's a contract . Purely transactional.

A man can be singing "I love you" to his wife while actively planning to get rid of her

DenreleDave:
EVEN AS A MAN, I CAN NEVER ENTER ANY BUS THAT IS JUST MEN ONLY, PRIVATE CAR IS NOW A NO - NO FOR ME.

NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY LADIES DONT WANT TO ENTER A CAR OR BUS FILLED WITH JUST MEN, I REALLY UNDERSTAND.

Even being on a lonely deserted road as a woman with a man (men) around, you know you are finished.
Serious fear must hold you.. Either you are robbed or raped or both. You may even get killed.

Story, story.
Nigerian men will still marry broke and jobless women over the well to do ones.
You cannot control someone that you don't feed.

WiseBizInvestor:
One thing many diaspora Nigerians are beginning to realize is that food security is becoming one of the most valuable sectors globally.

Assets like cocoa and oil palm plantations are long-term wealth structures because demand keeps increasing every year.

Let them realise whatever..
As for me and my family, we will not realise anything in Nigeria.
We are not investing and we are not coming back.