₦airaland Forum

ideatoprince18:
See what my fellow men are commenting!!!

This is domestic violence at its highest form . If it was men that did this , they would have condemn the man and label him as demon. Is it bad for a man to have 3 wives? Now let's flip the coin .... What if it was a man that killed his wife cos she refused to satisfy him, I think the comments I'm seeing here would not be same.

It's not bad for a man to have 3 wives.
3 is even small.
He should marry 7.
Our forefathers married many wives.

Polygamy is the way forward
Men should marry more wives so that none of the wives will misbehave.
Where there is competition,women behave better.

Also,he can get enough sex.
Not one wife denying him sex .

Kikikiki.

This one listened too much to social media and beer parlour gist.

SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?

Men and sex

Men live and breathe sex

Everytime sex

Sex .sex..sex

Is this sex food or oxygen ?

Tufiakwa

Samantha125:
I'm curious, when a man cheats, it's understandable for who?

That's why they are eating slow poison and dying prematurely.

Men!

New generation women will finish you people.

prinzmenzir:
Hi everyone, I’m posting on behalf of a friend who’s been experiencing a skin issue.

From time to time, her skin starts to swell and becomes very itchy. When she scratches the area, it gets worse l, the swelling increases, and the irritation spreads. She describes the sensation as feeling like “worms” under the skin. There are no visible worms, but that’s how she describes the feeling. All the recommended drugs so far isn't working.

Has anyone experienced something similar or know what this could be? Any suggestions on what might be causing it or what drugs she could get

Thanks in advance!

This is urticaria.

I also experience it.

There is no known cure.

Just identify what she could be allergic to and avoid it.

Anti histamines such as Loratidine,Cetirizine can help reduce the itchiness.

Also can try Tabs Monteluklast.


I didn't know what I was allergic to until I realised it was hibiscus flower coupled with me being asthmatic.

Wish her quick recovery

delugadou:
Her argument is valid. You shouldn't train children with that type of money. It could spoil their future. It's similar to kids of police personnel .

How come?
300K a day is 9 million a month ,could be more.

Why is she walk away?

We have agreed on social media esp on this platform that women only care about money.
"Just have money and every woman will stay"....or did anything change?

A slim figure makes one look younger than they really are.

Sabinus looks older than 2face at a quick initial glance.

seborrhic:
Yes, I get,but believing that she went to a lab that is reputable enough for their tests and results to stand scrutiny when published, I felt they should know they must have a higher standard.
They would have just done a stool or even blood culture instead if she didn't like the indignity of producing a stool and give her the entire result when it's out.
But I don't even see the need for a typhoid test in this case,unless she requested for it,in which case they should have told her a stool culture is more appropriate.She may as well have done an MP

Widal test is cheaper than stool or blood culture.
When Nigerians say they want to check for typhoid,they are very specific. They want "Widal test" . Anything outside that,they assume you don't know what you are doing .

seborrhic:
So such lab is still doing widal test in this age?

Why not?
It's a private business.
Nigerians like Widal test.
The more you tell them how useless the test is,the more they want to do it.
Nobody wants to run out of business
Conduct the worthless test for them and collect your money

banom:
It is bad how someone will wake up and start blackmailing someone with something as damaging as HIV.

I once suffered such fate..... someone wanted to tarnish my image because of a girl we were dragging... the guy went around and start saying that I have contracted HIV. That he saw me with a girl they knew had HIV.

That was how he damaged my name in the whole town. Some people even started avoiding me when the rumor was everywhere.

I simply kept my cool...it took much time for people in the town to know I didn't have any HIV.

I know the amount of pain and humiliation that false rumor caused me in that town.

It took only the grace of God for me to forgive that guy and move on with my life.

You were dragging a girl with your fellow man to the point that the man labelled you HIV positive.

See how you men disgrace yourselves offline because of women but online,you all are alpha males,haters of women..Lol

A sense.less daughter.
Just because of pe..nis
May we not give birth to abomination as a daughter

SpencerForbes:
Some ladies don’t wait till 6 months. 3 months in a relationship and the lady has already started denying the guy and claiming single. They start leading the former on while he thinks he has found the love of his life. Later on, they’ll invite the former to their traditional marriage while the former has struggled with them.

Men never trust a lady or pick anyone from the gutter except she has your ring or your child.

Single or married.

I was single even after introduction.
It was after we held marriage rites that I knew I was married.
Relationship is not a marital status

FavouriteOfGod:
Hmmmmm 🤔
Whatever would be the problem, this isn't palatable at all.

I am a medical doctor

God saved me from practising in Nigeria.

You people are always blaming health care workers for the woes in the system instead of holding your government accountable.

advanceDNA:
She's been behaving for 3 decades....that's a long time to be classed as forever..

Wife is not Family.
Marriage is not a do or die affair.
3 decades is not forever.

Una no go blame medical doctors and nurses for this one again?

See male tearssss.
Tuface divorced Anne,it was fine.
Out of his many women,one divorced Akon,men are crying .
Wife that is not family?

Akon Is a polygamist.
I thought they said polygamy makes women behave and stay with men forever .

What could have gone wrong?

Hmmmmm

SpencerForbes:
Why date a guy you’re sure you can’t marry?
That’s what’s really confusing about ladies.

It's a man that decides if a marriage holds or not.
Women can only fantasize,wait and pray .
If the man doesn't marry them,their loss.

Some of them spend their youthfulness, waiting on their boyfriends, while forsaking serious men who could have long married them.

After all the wait, boyfriend disappoints
Society will judge them harshly for being single into their 30s.

Date but don't allow boyfriend make you miss your husband.

Wisdom is profitable to direct

But I thought they said it's only Nigerian women that do this.
Na wa o

God forbid this type of y.nash

Men will sexualise and embarass you.

Soon,your knees will suffer the effect of carrying such load.

Finally,someone has said the truth

MrIcredible:


Arabs and serious obsession with their women...

They know to how degrade other women but will be preserving their own.

HYPOCRITES

While Nigerian men preserve and adore other women while degrading and disrespecting their own.

Kemistri3:
If you remember this, then you are old, or getting old o

Old age is a blessing
Not everyone is privileged to experience it.
Yes,I am old because I am alive
But if I die now,they will say I died young.

In June 2022,a young man was insulting me with being an old woman simply because I cautioned him on the disrespectful way he addressed an elderly man.

I replied him " Since old age is a curse,may you no know what old age is.You will never live to my age.Write down today's date".

He kept fuming and abusing me.
I ignored him.
June 2023,I saw his obituary pictures on Facebook.

He was only 19 years old,died from a 1 day illness.
Imagine.
He didn't even get to 20 and he was busy insulting a 35 year old .

These new generation kids sha.

pocohantas:
Normal. Her type will learn that they are not special. I remember saying she would run mad in that marriage and they gave me 2000 mentions. Some said I should learn from her. Who is an ex-psychiatric patient now? Learn kor...learner's permit ni.

Life, indeed,is a teacher.
Unfortunately,a lot of women are not ready to learn.
Another woman has agreed to marry Tuface with his plenty gabbages.

Men sha.
I would never believe that a whole Anne who they were showcasing as a role model, urging other wives to emulate is the source of their ridicule now.

What an irony!

See comments..
Omo

See Anne that Nigerian men were applauding for years as wife material for staying put with TUFACE despite his disrespectful infidelity upandan.
They have changed gear now and insulting the hell outta her.

Na wa oh

Men be saying one thing on social media while doing another in rea life.
Imagine marrying a woman who was cheating on her husband with him.
On social media,they will brag they can never take such woman serious.

Marvyx:
Why are you asking?

I wanted to rule out Medicine & Surgery, Pharmacy,Nursing and Dentistry.

Marvyx:
First degree was Microbiology. Why are you asking?

Hehehehehe....No wonder.

Second and third degree?

Judolisco:
na senior men dem full dis nairaland.... U registered 2008...na cyber cafe una dey go back then arbi... Because I knw how difficult it was to browse around dat time

My first Nairaland account was opened in 2006.

My friend from secondary school introduced me to Nairaland then


Yes,I be senior woman.

Osimhen don reach Naija,he can't score goals again

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Chai! She decided to drink hyp0 because of wetin guy do am! 😫🙂‍↔️ pic.twitter.com/rVfWMc4fLh

— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) September 5, 2025

engaging in premarital sex...and don't give men money.

If you can stand by these 2 principles ...No Nigerian man can break your heart.

Tohsynetita1:
Dey play.
Besides, younger doesn’t necessarily mean your department mates, younger could be O‘level students.

Hahahaha.
So instead of studying to save yourself ,you will be teaching O'levl students?
Like seriously??