₦airaland Forum

pulsa:
I'm 31 and I'm liking a girl so much, but she always says she's busy though and does not pick my calls most times when I call, I know she's not lying though because someone else told me she does the same thing to her, I had someone compose a small valentine music poem for her which I will give her tomorrow, but honestly speaking if things don't change by next week I won't bother her again. I'm too old for all this hide and seek nonsense lol.

Getting married right in Nigeria of today is becoming really hard.

I thought it has been agreed on this platform, especially that marriage is not for men.
Men should not marry as they have nothing to benefit from getting married

Any style other than the missionary position, count me out.

Sex is overrated.
It's not food.
I do not enjoy sex.
I only manage it for procreation reasons and as a chore, rarely

Onegai:
If you know men, and I'm not saying this to bash men, I'm saying this because I've seen it a lot...

They only fight for custody when they want to punish their ex and have a way to control her. Men don't process breakups well.

And it is not a Nigerian phenomen, even abroad. Abroad, a lot of women in divorce court once they hand their child over for custody and the man realizes that she won't be allowing him use the kids to fight her, they get tired and start looking for another way to control and hurt her.

Davido wanted to punish Sophia. Which is why this nonsense came up

I'm 99% positive that the reason Davido's family was quiet was because they had access to Imade anytime and Davido's case had no leg to stand on. I know a Nigerian man in this situation and it's only gullible people who don't know his wife believe him when he says she's kept the kids away: his family literally chat up with the wife on social media, his friend was getting updates. He only fights for custody when he's feeling hurt or needs his ego stroked. We're tired of him.

His idiotic prideful bluster that he was dealing with the lawyer in court but decided to drop the case is just typical male ego face saving foolishness. I don't understand why men do it and I have sons, so I'm scared one day they'll be foolish like this.

And they will never fight for custody for babies.
They wait for the children to grow.
Walk, talk, be able to eat unassisted.

No sane court will give custody of a child to an irresponsible careless person no matter how much he has.

Love800:
Those of you who always insist on having baby-mama, have you now seen the consequences!

Lol. Na una sabi.

Nothing beats having all your children with one mother under one roof.

folake4u:
@ the bolded.

Spice please. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

If Nigerian man shows you kindness, there is an ulterior motive.
Those people are not kind anything

jmoore:
Men who are victims of paternity fraud especially with the first child are those decided to taste before marriage.

Especially those ones who married their pregnant girlfriends. The joke is on them

adecz:
An essential professional like you
will always have a better life in UK than
Nigeria.

Your services are in high demand and
you are well paid & get extra income from
added hours of work, unlike in Nigeria
where doctors are basic maltreated,
grossly undervalued and underpaid.

But for the average japa people that simply
take off to go hustle at any available job,
the wahala is real as bills keep you on
permanent high jump.

The major consolation in the relatively
affordable cost of foodstuff👍

I'm so glad I left Nigeria when I did.
It's not even about the money .
For me, it's more of a system that works.

adecz:
How can you compare darkness 🌚🌑
and light🌞🌝?


However, Japan has its pros & cons.


Nigerians planning to Japan will be calculating
the thousands of pounds dem go dey
collect as salary, forgetting they will be
spending the money in the UK (not Nigeria)
and the system will immediately collect
everything back.

When you are collectiing N800k/ month
in 9ja and paying N2m/ year for rent. You now
japa & earning £3000/ month ( About N8m equivalent).

Your eye go clear when your monthly
rent go be £1000 ( N2m😨😱😰), fuel & energy bill £600 ( over N1m), before you begin
think of feeding & other matters.

Na there you go enter wetin be rat🐀🐭 race wet nor dey finish..

I understand this calculation but my life is still better in the UK than what it was in Nigeria.
I am a medical doctor in the UK

Capping rub.bish because he believes he has made it and doesn't need anybody, will never need anybody's money.
May life be kind to us so we do not have to beg/ask people like this for financial assistance

Coolis:
So a man that earn 100k in a month is less than a man? He should just commit suicide. He shouldn't interact or relate with the opposite sex. I'm not going into crime to impress anyone. You have no slightest idea about the struggle so l don't blame you. You might not be more intelligent, you might not have graduated with better result than me . Time and chance happened to us all. Life and Nigeria happens. But then, l 've resolved not to be depressed. I shall emerge stronger and better

Sorry, Sorry..
Don't cry.. Don't cry.
Waste your meagre 100k on the very same gender you people despise and abuse.
Na you sabi.

bukatyne:
Oh, you are a 'nice' guy and not a genuinely kind man.

Perhaps she saw through you.

Where you see genuinely kind man for Nigeria?
Even here in Europe, they are known to have ulterior motives for dating/relationship and even marriage

You are whyning and feeling pained cos you didn't have the chance to sleep with her on top of your 6200 that she ate. Lol
If you had succeeded, you wouldn't have been calling or texting her.
She would have been the one trying to communicate while you will avoid avoid her, feeling like a King Kong.

Your gender people keep bragging on social media that they don't need women but I'm surprised that a man who earns just 100k in a whole month is looking for a woman.
For what exactly?

jom28gy:
You better you forget about her, she is coming for your money,

But he doesn't have money.
For someone who earns about £50/month
That's too low

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
and you don't know Ron Kelony. Na wa oh

I don't .
Maybe because he was a gospel musician

safetyboot:
Probably you were not born in the 90's, 80's or 70's.

I was born in the 80s

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
are you living in the cave or you are less than 10yrs old ?

Was born in Nigeria, raised in Nigeria.
Relocated to the UK about 6 years ago.
I'm in my mid 30s.

I never knew him.
Not enough words

Nigerian men and seeeeexxx.

No conscience

No exceptions.

Nigerian men and s.. e.. x
Tueh!!

spiSeyi:
It's only fools who kneel to propose to a lady men boys who does this are those who are suffering from inferiority complex . As a man always have it at the back of your mind that there are always 7*100 women who are ready to die for you just to bear your name.

Lol
Typical social media bragging.
In reality, it's the opposite.
See them!

They brag on social media that they don't need wives

They claim that marriage doesn't benefit them.

They brag that women are rushing after them.

They brag how being turned down by women doesn't pain them.
They brag they can never go on knee to propose marriage to a woman.

They brag and brag but in real life, the situation is different.

Lol.

Let them keep deceiving themselves.

Weak man.
He can't dump her in real life but on social media , he would have dropped her immediately.

They make a lot of noise about how they don't tolerate rubbish from women , how women are useless, how they are even doing women a favour but in reality, women are dealing with a lot of them and they are dying slowly.

Hairy chest beaters!

Riversides2003:
One of the best president Nigeria never had.

Someone that was a dummy as a VP?

SpencerForbes:
For real 😳 I never knew people could actually go to that kind of length. I used to think all those things only happened in Africa Magic or Nollywood movies! Real life is deeper than film.

I learnt a lot from my parents' marriage so all these vile that men spew on social media especially this platform and X , concerning women and even the evil they do offline is not new to me.

When your partner no longer likes you , they can go to any length to get rid of you.
Romantic love is a scam.

SpencerForbes:
Fake story😏 How does it even make sense for a man to take his own wife’s underwear to a herbalist just to shut down her business? It’s not even like he’s doing it to get rich or improve his own life; it’s just pure "bad belle."

Either the guy has completely lost his mind, or this whole story is just fabricated for clout. It’s hard to wrap my head around that kind of logic.

You don't know the extent men can go to bring down a woman so she doesn't earn more than them.
She is lucky he didn't even kill her.
My dad arranged hired assassins to eliminate my mum on her way to work simply because she was earning more than him.
He had persistently told her to quit the job but she refused
Unfortunately for him, the assassins failed twice and somehow , opened up to my mum about it.
That was far back late 90s not to talk of these new generation men who plainly hate their wives

You want to gbensh the girl and she is not giving you the chance to.
E dey pain you.
Lol

wallrichy:
That's exactly what happened. Movement after snake bites enhances the movement of the venom to move to all the sensitive parts of the body. The venom destroys every cells it encountered inside the body including the heart, lungs and kidney. The best thing to Sit or lie down so that the bite is in a neutral, comfortable position. Clean the bite with soap and water. Cover or wrap it loosely with a clean, dry bandage.dont drink anything and don't talk much unless to medical personnel and make calls to a medical personnel to come quickly..the less you engage in movement the better for you......always have a doctor's number on your phone, atleast a reliable doctor....if possible have many doctors as friends and have their telephone numbers........so sad.....

The same doctors that you people disrespect and despise? How funny!

AJSfan:
And people were blaming the hospital for removing the torniquet.. illiteratez are the most vocal online

Tourniquet on poisonous snake bite will kill the person faster but nIgerians too sabi pass doctors

Omo.


People will still vote for Tinubu.

Hmmmm.

Thank God I don't live in Nigeria.

Goodmarlian:
There is this girl I have known since we were in school, she is beautiful, independent and very outspoken, she thicks almost all my boxes except one thing,just like most girl do, this girl hardly reply chats, Infact any means to contact her online never works.

When we were in school this girl buys me things whenever she visits ,gives me attention and talks to me for hours, and sometimes she whines me about marriage, the girl is from Anambra while I am from imo she told me she doesn't have friends from imo except me, that she doesn't even know why she likes me.

Whenever she wants to go home I grab her by the waist and peck her to test if her intentions are romantic she will just smile and go.

I have given up all my romantic intentions towards her since last year and moved on but she came around last week Thursday, called me on phone that she is in an eatery opposite school that I should come around, so I went to see her there she hugged me we talked and once again she bought food and drink for me and we gisted about a whole lot of things she started calling me her love you see whining again? After that day she said I should call her or chat her up, I laughed and told her she has forgotten she hardly replies chats and calls, she laughed meaning she knows what she is doing.

OK this morning I chatted her up to thank her for her hospitality that day till this moment she hasn't replied I just tire for the girl

I am thinking about making a drastic and brutal decision of not having anything to do with her again, even if she contacts me.

Weak man!