₦airaland Forum

sacramento1212:
I'm glad you admit that your paying over a million naira 12 years ago to marry your wife was bourne out of the fact that they knew your financial worth and also their greed.

I completely disagree with you as per the aspect cutting off your family elders when your daughter(s) is or are getting married. You cannot do without them but just try to play the politics to avoid wahala even though you as the father is financially responsible for them. Tradition is Tradition and must be respected or else you kill yourself for nothing.

If it's your Son, you can do without them but not your female children. Ku yak mbio idung e edwok mbiam uno or ekud ekpo yak adu mia awod all because of ignorance. Wisdom is golden bro

Good that someone has told him the reality.

I read his comment and was laughing at such ignorance.. You want to marry off your daughter without consulting and informing the family and village elders...

If only you know the kind of abomination you will cause and the consequences of such act.

Aka ado asuk akod mmo esin, esuk eke duok mbiam.

Tradition is tradition.

You see marriage and burial rites.... It's not done alone

rock003:
So, your fish brain told you that only Yoruba men cheat? What a dumb reasoning!

I won't be surprised if you are living in the southwest. Since hate us so much, why not pack up and go back to your region?

Where did I write that only Yoruba men cheat?

Well, you are responsible for what you understand.

Meanwhile, calm down... Nobody is hating on you.
No need for such bile.
Besides, I live in the South South.

I have no issues with yorubas but when it comes to serious matter, eg marriage, we have nothing in common.

Culture, tradition, language, food. Everything is different.

Foolish girls..
The time they spent fighting and disgracing each other, they would have both used the machine and gone home honourably.

A father raped his little daughter and impregnated her, making her go through the shame and pains.

Also, raping his 10 year old daughter.
Fine.. He is going about Scot free while his daughters are harboring the pains in their hearts.

Tomorrow, when this man dies and his daughters decide to celebrate his death on social media.
Some foolish people will start castigating them.

Hear people's stories, wear their shoes before you judge and condemn their reactions to situations.

You are not alone in this.

ALL Married men sleep with other women apart from their wives. Pastors inclusive... In fact, even worse culprits.
Adultery is a constant finding in the life of married men.
Nowadays, married women have joined the trend and seem to be doing it better.. More discreet about it. You will be surprised, your wife has also been sleeping with other men.

The beauty of it is that God doesn't have a problem with adultery as long as the man is the culprit. Instead, he punishes adulterous women,blesses the men and uplifts them
As in the case of David and Bathsheba.

TolaTosin:
look at the boy's face and you can tell who is useless. If you can celebrate your fathers death then you are the devil

Lol.... I will celebrate my father's death in Jesus name.

Free drinks, food will accompany it.

I am not the devil.
My father is the devil that seeks my life, seeks my destiny but he will not succeed.
He will die and I will bury him with joy.

Useless satanic father.

Congratulations to the young man.
I can feel his happiness
I tap into his testimony

Lizzysamuel:


Seriously some people can be this cold.. Imagine what a vibrant young guy has to say about his father's death.. Let's not be baised here no matter what..

The dead still deserves some respect talk more of his Dad.. Of a truth some fathers misbehave.. Who knows what he must have committed...





More below:

https://zenithnaija.com/rip-to-my-useless-father-corps-member-declares-as-he-celebrates-his-dads-death/

Big congratulations to him and all concerned.

This is how I will celebrate my father's death on social media too.
Young man should have posted pictures of him celebrating with friends though
Useless father.

Lizzysamuel:


Seriously some people can be this cold.. Imagine what a vibrant young guy has to say about his father's death.. Let's not be baised here no matter what..

The dead still deserves some respect talk more of his Dad.. Of a truth some fathers misbehave.. Who knows what he must have committed...





More below:

https://zenithnaija.com/rip-to-my-useless-father-corps-member-declares-as-he-celebrates-his-dads-death/

Big congratulations to him and all concerned.

This is how I will celebrate my father's death on social media too.
Useless father.

MariaLavina:
Because they were raised by people with reverse logic.

To a Typical Nigerian Man, A lady is expected to be less knowledgeable, quiet, more of a listener and most importantly be a follower. Even in conversations you tend to dominate, you talk about what you want and not what interest the lady. Most times you bore us out. . Worst is if a lady flows too much , she's a flirt, talk active, desperate etc you judge her.


Another point is manner of approach. I cannot count the numbers of messages I've ignored on my social media accounts because of this. Can you imagine who wants to chat you up for the first time starting a convo with "Sup" . Like seriously? A quick check on my profile will should show you the type of person I am. But no, they won't do that, they just want to sup!

And another is most guys these days are looking for who to date Not just friendly conversations. It's like everyone is looking for love.I can't imagine enjoying a good conversation with a guy only for it to go all mushy all of a sudden. Like shooting your shoot? Hell no! Don't blame me if I go cold with the same alacrity.


Accept it or Not, Most guys who claim to have conversations with Whites compose themselves better than when they do with the blacks. They pay more attention, construct the languages better and present themselves well. So Sir, It isn't really our fault.

You have said it all.

Imagine some random stranger on social media starts a conversation with

Hey Babe.
Sup Honey
Sweetheart
Love of my life
My bae....


And seriously expects me to reply.

This person is not even intelligent but will come to nairaland and complain about ladies not being intelligent on chats.

robotix:
are you a nurse?

No, Sir.
I am a doctor

This is why light skinned men are not attractive to me.

They look too feminine.


A real man is dark skinned.

joenor:
Their girls go old with their parents na....

Akwa Ibom, Cross River, Rivers,Bayelsa,and Igbo men marry and are marrying Akwa Ibom ladies..
They understand the tradition as theirs is similar..

Yoruba is too far please

What concerns Yoruba man with Akwa Ibom lady?
What do they have in common?
.. Ntoro uduang ufok people. For that matter.

I sincerely blame the lady for having anything to do with a yoloba demon.
I also blame her family for not advising her appropriately.
Yoloba man that keep mistresses in every town?

What ever happened to getting one Yoruba lady pregnant and Marrying her for free?

Must he marry from akwa ibom?
Men from akwa ibom have been marrying and are still marrying Akwa ibom women without complains.

Yes! Some lists can be exorbitant but people do bargain.
Besides, marriage doesn't end one day.
So you provide what you can..

[quote author=Napoleon921 post=70982427][/quote]Lazy jobless youths.

Movic1:
Men like me are more attracted to your Brain than your Boobs,ass whatever Even if you have fullstop as breast i don't care... The brain of a woman matters most.. What's the use of big boobs without brain....

Ah ha... Bros, You don't have to lie.
In real life, men actually prefer endowed body to brain.
At least, the body attracts them first, not brain.
The lady knows her selling point, free her jare.
Mr Liar man!

maverickdude:
P.M.EXPRESS gathered that Adelowo had been pleading with Rebecca for forgiveness and expressed his willingness to come back to her.



He is very stupid and the lady would more stupid to go back to him

She will definitely go back to him, if she is up to 30 and he promises marriage asap

The number one problem of wives is their murder-in-law...
You are not alone in this.

Naturally, women hate their sons' wives.

Just go ahead and have kids.. With your education and exposure, you should not scared of her empty threats.

GistmoreNG:
Bride thrilled the audience as she dances for his husband who uses crutches on their wedding day. This is real love, despite his condition!

http://gistmore.com/bride-dances-husband-uses-crutches-wedding-day-photos

This has nothing to do with love.. Real or fake.
Women do not have choices.
Besides, a man with crutches or on wheelchair, deaf, dumb, blind is better than no husband at all.
The lady is happy she is married.
No more ridicule from society.
Her married friends who stopped communicating with her will resume the connection.
Her mother will stop reminding her that she is supposed to be in her husband's house.
Nairaland boys will stop calling her "ashewo".
And if the guy has some money..
She is made.
100% pride.


Which makes me wonder... Why do men get married?
They have absolutely nothing to gain

Pastor Chris has sacrificed this one for his church business ritual.

Is it a Yoruba movie?

Beke2020:
Dear Jzhane,

Please hide my ID.

I am very hurt. My wedding was supposed to take place last Saturday but it was called off without any explanation.

I met my man through my mother’s friend based aboard three years ago. We had our marriage introduction 2016 and we planned the wedding for April 2017 but sister was like we should postpone it reason is that for the brother to come down to Nigeria that the UK embassy don’t take absent of a spouse because they wanted to do it in his absent.

He begged me to wait that I should please bear with him it was not easy for me because already I have told people about my wedding and the date.

My ex has four sisters and they are kind of very close so involved them in everything he wants to do which I don’t have problem with that.His mum accepted me and me I love her took care of her like my mother even the sister who is out of marriage is staying with her mum with four children I love her too.

Fast forward to when the date was pick which is 25 of August that we started having issues.

It was his sisters that shopped for my wedding things which I complain that I don’t like the color ,they said the list I gave them was too expensive which is the hall and food ,I got a hall of #160 they got a hall of #300k near their house not even the bride side I never complain ,they said after the wedding I will stay with mother in law and sister which I said no due to distance and the nature of my work.

The worst of all that happened is that my ex was telling his sisters every thing we discussed both the argument and my chat he was forwarding it to them. His sister in Nigeria was telling them all manners of lies against me and they believed her.

They put pressure and fear on him not to marry me he has to call off the wedding after buying things for the wedding. He is around in Nigeria now and I try to see him but his family are refusing me seeing him because I don’t have his Nigeria ‘s no.

I was told that he said he love me but he scared based on what they told him. That I am not a wife material. That I will control him and drive him out because he stays in US.

My mother has been begging them but they refuse to listen.
He even blocked me since then. His cousin told me they already found another girl for him.

What do I do,I dated this guy for three years. I love him. I already have done introduction. Everybody knows I am supposed to be getting married. The scandal is killing my parents.If this guy still loves me,how do I win him back? He never gave a chance to explain myself. What did I do wrong?

Or should I really move on? After three years? Where do I start from?



https://livelystones.com.ng/after-planning-our-wedding-for-3-yearsthey-say-i-am-not-wife-material/

Your major problem is that YOU MUST HAVE ALREADY ADVERTISED AND BRAGGED ABOUT GETTING MARRIED ON SOCIAL MEDIA.

if not, I don't see any big deal about it.
The family don't want their son to marry you.
Do you intend to force yourself in?
You should be happy they showed they don't like you.

There will always be prostitutes
And men will always patronise prostitutes
Sex sells... And will continue to sell.
And if you have noticed.. From the reactions so far on this thread, men actually prefer prostitutes.
Little wonder why ladies of easy virtue marry better husbands and earlier Compared to their "decent" counter parts.
After hoping from one bed to the other, she ends up with a very good man..
But Good sister, nko? She will have one steady boyfriend for years, does all the domestic work, graces his bed alone.. Bros gets bored with her awkward style. Goes to the club, picks a prostitute who knows the game better.
Before you say Jack, he dumps the good girl and marries the prostitute.

A number of the runs girls in my hostel during university days are married.... Some married "abroad hisbands",very wealthy men...

A lot of the good girls are single and frustrated by men.

It's the sad reality of life.
No amount of condemnation will change that reality.
Hence, this thread was unnecessary

DannyJ19:
PHED are really bad



Nung-Oku ibesikpo residents are been neglected despite the excess amount charged.

I think Electricity situation in Uyo is poor generally...
ABAK road, no light since December

johnlvis:
Light have improve in UYO . We now have up to 15hours light each day with an average bill of 4000 per flat .

Which part of UYo.. Cos here in Abak road, no light since December.
If it comes on for 1 hour a day, it's too long

Lagos... Land of hustling...

Except it's a mega job for Chevron clinic or one those multinational hospitals, I can not live in Lagos again.

Sharpshooota:
Buhari is a certified dullard whose only achievement in office is to gallivant round the world and take pictures

A certificateless old fool who has nothing to offer zombies except propaganda and lies

He is the enemy of Nigeria

It's not by ranting on social media.
Do you have PVC?

He reminds me of one of my patients.
Handsome 6 year old male, sustained a fracture of right humerus while playing at school.
Parents took him to a traditional bone setter.

By the time, he presented to us in the hospital, the hand was gangrenous (dead).

He was already septic.
We did an emergency amputation.
People always prefer the traditional methods to going to hospital in all aspects including child birth but when complications arise, they remember the hospital.
And at the point, expect doctors to perform magic.

NOBODY SHOULD PATRONISE TRADITIONAL BONE SETTERS.
THE DAYS OF IGNORANCE IS OVER.
GO TO THE ORTHOPAEDIC SURGEON FOR EXPERT MANAGEMENT OF FRACTURES

PataAlhaja:
Nsikak Udoekong!

You need some strength to pronounce that name!

Because you are not Ibibio.

It's such a simple name to pronounce and nice meaning too.