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May this stup!d!ty not be our undoing.

See what I just read in the Punch this morning.
A new bird flu already killed almost 1000 people since early this month.

The number of olodo in this thread is alarming. OMG! We are in big sh!t in this country.

Another Id!ot said the car park deals in cars and not train.

Rigasa is a train station in Kaduna, and it happens to have a car park for people to park down their cars while they commute to Abuja.

I read it on Twitter.
Please don't trust that lady, she has an uterior motive for this nonsense, and her story doesn't add up.

It's always better to hear from both sides before anything.

Francislin, you are a f00l. Please don't marry her. The marriage won't work. You will taunt her with the past, cheat even more and later send her packing. I'm not a prophet, but it's very easy to predict what will happen to both of ya.
Please free her, abeg.

15k Lagos

badoh:
Dear Nairalanders,
Was I wrong to have ended the relationship? Please read along with me.
Back then in 2008, I was posted to serve in Uyo, Akwa-Ibom State while my Fiance was posted to Portharcourt same year. We attended the same University and studied the same course in one of the Western Universities. I had disturbed my fiance since 100 level until 400 level when her previous boyfriend left her. I went with one of my friends to convince her to date me. She eventually agreed and we dated throughout our 400 level.
We call eachother everyday during our service year. Barely 3 month into NYSC, we agreed that I will come one particular Saturday to Portharcourt to visit her. On the day of appointment, I left Uyo for Portharcourt. She told me once I get to Portharcourt and a popular place she described, I should call her immediately. She also said we will have to pass through water with the aid of speed boat but since I'm not familiar with the area, she would come and pick me in Portharcourt city.
I left Uyo around 12pm and got to Portharcourt around 2pm or so. While inside the Bus, I realized my fiance line was switched off. I said may be the battery is flat with the hope that before I reach PH, she would have charged the phone. Few minutes to reach PH, phone was still off. When I eventually got to the place she described for me, I dialed the line, the phone ranged and immediately it was switched off. I continued to dial the number but remained switched off. I was not myself anymore. I was wondering what could have happened. I never forced myself to visit her, she suggested it. It was getting to 5pm, same thing. I quickly think of next step to take. I thought the best thing to do was to quickly find my way back to where I came from. I was boiling inside me while at the same time also smiling. I got to Uyo around 8pm and located the nearest suya spot to relax myself while pondering on what played out. Around 9pm, my phone ranged and it was that of my fiance. I did not bother to pick it, she called several times but I made up my mind never to pick it. The following morning, her call woke me up and I decided to pick it. I asked why she switched off her phone yesterday knowing fully well we were to meet. Her response was she was in choir practice and immediately her phone rang, the choir master collected the phone, switched if off and siezed it. I asked her if she did not inform the choir master that she was expecting a visitor and that she will need the phone to guide the visitor, she said no that there's nothing she can do in that situation. I was mad at her for uttering such. It means I was nothing to her. I simply asked her if it was her mom or any of her siblings that she was expecting same day and the so-called choir master seize the phone, won't she make effort to collect the phone back? She immediately lambasted me and told me never to bring her mum into such scenario. I told her I was not abusing her mum but only trying to see her reaction to the seizing of phone. Since I realized I was played, no sign of being remorseful and exposing me to danger in a city where I know nobody, I ended the relationship by stopping all forms of communication with her. I blocked her and moved on with my life.
Did I do wrong in any way and was I right to have ended the relationship?

Hahahaha something similar happened to me last weekend, though it was supposed to be the first time meeting.

God saved you from a lady that either

1. Have low IQ
2. Overtly deceitful and a pretender, always beclouded with religion
3. An irresponsible and non-sensitive woman
4. Subtly stubborn and with ego
5. And maybe a cheat.

You see that no. 1 is the worse, it is what leads to the rest.

You have done well, never regret it but be grateful God intervened, because you would have made the worse mistake of your life marrying such.

Romanoff:
I support the generator bill.

If you're not going to be sensible enough to ask me why instead of insulting me, don't bother mentioning me.

You are entitled to support whatever, but with so much spent on electricity supply and yet nothing to show for it, it is the poor people that will suffer it. The rich will shift to the nearest (expensive) alternative like solar etc. And even if solar is made a cheaper alternative for all, the problem of electricity supply is still there.

Bottom line: Poor people (over 70%) will suffer a generator ban.

He should thank his stats he was treated here, because he wouldn't have survived it if he was still in Nigeria and would not have gotten this special treatment

If they are from Agege, then they are not Yoruba but Aabokkis who arrived by train and settled there. They know their criminal time is up

Deyrinsolar:
Most still don't understand, it better for me to know i am a maid in a strangers house, than to be with family and still feel like a stranger in the house. It people you love that hurts you, it you don't love them nothing they do can get to you.

The strange thing is that the aunt is taking revenge of different generation on the poor innocent kid. This happens in every family. Her father is just so happy some responsibilitiew have been taken off his shoulder and doesn't really care what his child is going through.
If this girl has sense, she should rather do the same work elsewhere, where you get paid for your services.

That senator calling for the ban of generator should have made the call for the ban of make up. It's the biggest scam ever

Run back to your father's house asap. If you do, nobody can force you back there. It's better you work as a domestic worker in a stranger's house than in your Aunty's place, who is bent on taking revenge on you.

I hate adverts without prices. Nonsense!

iClef:
Rapport? I wish I have the time. Minding my business is my motto.

Then it serves you well to suffer like this once in a while. You are such a bad neighbour that you can not ask your neighbour for the phone number of their own electrician.

I mind my business too, but not to not interact once in a while. There are some neighbours, even gatemen, gardeners and driver's I dash things out to especially during festive periods. Some once a year, but if I have one small issue like this, they will be running around to help by all means.

A time will come, all these countries will be rushing to enter Nigeria and other African countries that they have ridiculed with their visa issuance and ridiculous English language tests.

Op, you are the sideturkey.
Those 2 have something going.

Timson01, you are in the best position to come in as the father and husband.

If need be, both of you can change environment and leave people to their musings. Change cities. Marry her for real. The age difference is nothing as both of you are almost 40.
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So there's only one electrician in this whole wide world? No Jiji for una side or you no dey rapport with your neighbours?

NigeriaBam:
We are all Human beings and bound to make mistakes. May Almighty Allah forgives Him and His shortcomings.

Abacha is far better better than Buhari. He fought his fellow politicians but work more on infrastructures and was doing well with the masses. Though he looted but better than this self acclaimed saint.

If you qoute or attack me on this comment thunder will fire you this morning.

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STFU. Are you a juvenile?

It's like saying Hitler is better than Merkel.

What's wrong with you people? Abacha was devil personified.

DaHrNn0001:
Yes it is cus it's not you... When you are faced with issues like this,you cant underestimate what you are capable of doing... If na me... Sars for where when area boys never finish...

Ok. I get your point. In a lawless country, you have impunity and people's brains are twisted.

GeneralOjukwu:
You people who claim to be "civilized" actually sound very foolish.

If the husband had brought in a gun and shot him, the husband would claim trespass that he was defending his territory.

I know those who have banged married babes. Rule 1 is to find a neutral place.

The sideguy should be happy the husband is a softie. He should thank his stars

What if the woman had told him she was a widow, or single mother, and that wasn't their first time together, so the guy feel safe.

zexy2030:
my greatest wish is that I fvck ur wife on ur matrimonial bed n understand how it feels when ur wife begins to defend me that " I know nothing about it" .
you are like thieves who says "let me waste him" "oga our bullet won suck blood" but the day they are caught they beg seriously for mercy to be given another chance to live. But they forgot how many lives they wasted while they had power to spare.
who kills by the sword, dies by the sword.
if u support this shit, just wait till its ur turn.
mumu.

Read this BS you wrote up there and tell me you are not an animal living in a zoo.

They fvvvccccked your wife on your bed, and so what?

So the next thing is to put law into your hands?

Smh. I live with animals in this country.

zexy2030:
the guy is irresponsible and he lacks sense. A fool is to be treated foolishly. That guy is mad and a fool. He would have died, if the man was bad guy. imagine the woman who brought nothing to ur house after paying heaven n earth on her head, she came only with her pussy to bear children(even some after abortions and others still think someone will pay on their head)
Both of them needs serious disgrace.
unfortunately women are co allying with other women to defend cheating.
our problems is the media and the rulers.

You're not making sense.

You don't know what the woman told him to make him go there and be comfortable. He didn't force the door in and he didn't rape the woman. So STFU.

If anybody should be harrassed, it is the woman. And TBH, nobody should be harrassed. If the husband/family are not happy, simply divorce. Marriage is not by force. What I am seeing in the video is barbaric.

Stop sharing this video all over the place. Doesn't make sense, was he a burglar or a rapist? Smh

Marry from the same belief. Marrying from what you don't understand will create problem. Bad foundation that one of them will use later to divorce

Beating and detaining the guy is wrong.

Lekside230:
Good morning Nairalanders...I just think I have to post this stuff here cuz it’s getting too much....it’s all about my relationship...please don’t mind my English...so yesterday my girlfriend was with me...and I was really sick which she knows herself...so she went to the market to get what we gonna eat...,so when she came back..she then ask me to go fetch water...and I was thinking in my mind..if this girl doesn’t know I’m sick even with my appearance...I sat down looking at her...she then talk in a rude way that I shouldn’t fetch the water then...that I should leave it..that she isn’t gonna cook it...I then struggled to go fetch that water and came in...she then ask If have done that I said yes...all I could hear is...can’t I talk!!!or maybe I’m having a mouth pain...that words hit me...,she was then talking to me in a bad way...that I’m been proud cuz I helped her with her school fees...cuz I helped her with her school fees on Friday..due to some financial problems she has...she then sent back the money to me immediately cuz she haven’t paid it yet,so I just have to go out and drink..cuz I refuse to eat what she cooked,so that same evening her mum texted me and greeted me...so I explained everything that’s going on....she then said she would call her...when i go through their chats..all she could tell her mum is...if I can’t settle it myself that she isn’t gonna settle anything...that it’s not her first time talking to me anyhow...Nairalanders please I need your candid advice...what can I do about this case?cuz it’s getting too much everytime...if she isn’t gonna talk to me rudely....she’d get angry on an unnecessary issue...all I need is just your advice..no insults please...thanks to you all in advance.

She wanted you to end the relationship, she doesn't want to be the one who walks away. This may be because family is involved, so she wants you to cut the relationship off by yourself.

MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

Wow. You are very myopic.

And it beats me that you keep repeating these lines. Which village are you from?

Orlaoluwayimika:
My broda no go there wch embarrassment.
Amosun is still a force to reckon with in Ogun state and Dapo is no where near him when it comes to Ogun Politics.
Do u know all Federal appointments meant for Ogun state were given to mostly Amosun's loyalist.
In fact if Dapo ain't careful he may loose his' seat in 2023 with the way he is running his' admin in a go Slow manner.

Amosun is almost useless like a tissue paper in Ogun Politics except in Abeokuta. I don't want to say Ogun Central, because his popularity is declined in some parts of Ogun Central, eg. Obafemi Owode, Mowe-Ibafo In particular